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NSA - Is there such a thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it possible for people to have decent sex with someone who they dont think much of physically or interlectually??

I know i couldnt meet someone who i wasnt attracted to or find mentally stimulating, so with this is mind.. NSA - is there such a thing? After all we are on a swinging site where we are given options and can be choosey, is there anyone truly desperate enough just to sleep with anyone regardless of the personality/physical issues?

surely there must be some form of 'strings attached' then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah a pulse will do me

And thats negiotiable haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible for people to have decent sex with someone who they dont think much of physically or interlectually??

I know i couldnt meet someone who i wasnt attracted to or find mentally stimulating, so with this is mind.. NSA - is there such a thing? After all we are on a swinging site where we are given options and can be choosey, is there anyone truly desperate enough just to sleep with anyone regardless of the personality/physical issues?

surely there must be some form of 'strings attached' then "

Hookers? People seem to think there's lots of these on here...

Apart from that...no. Minimum I've got to fancy someone, even if the chat isn't great it's got to be there. I'd rather there be both tho (craic and looks) Unrealistic? Perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think NSA has anything to do with finding someone attractive mentally of physically...or being choosey/desperate.

I meet someone on a regular basis and apart from being friends with benefits there is no other attachment. seperate lives etc, ergo no strings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah a pulse will do me

And thats negiotiable haha."

Considering ive really bad toothache/jaw ache - that made me laugh out loud.. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with wenchlette, NSA for me would meet meet without any other committments, just a couple of people enjoying each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah a pulse will do me

And thats negiotiable haha.

Considering ive really bad toothache/jaw ache - that made me laugh out loud.. :D"

Good you should see my cock, always makes women laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no....even agreeing to meet someone is proffering a commitment....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with wenchlette, NSA for me would meet meet without any other committments, just a couple of people enjoying each other"

Agree. Friendship, all good, but apart from that, i've got it all at home!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good you should see my cock, always makes women laugh "

That small??? poor you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good you should see my cock, always makes women laugh

That small??? poor you lol "

Lol unfortunately, but im blessed with a big tonge

You are so cute.

I suppose NSA just means to me no baggage, feelings of commitment, jealousy or love. Just two people enjoying the pleasures of sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA to me means no dramas, no mind games no jealousy. I have that already it's called a relationship I don't want it with someone I have sex with, it's just sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh im not dissagreeing with anyone on this post at all, i do believe that its non committed sex, however you still at least have to 'like' to some degree the person/people your about to have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh im not dissagreeing with anyone on this post at all, i do believe that its non committed sex, however you still at least have to 'like' to some degree the person/people your about to have sex with"

I have to fancy the pants off them to sleep with them. And be able to have a decent conversation with them but that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather have sex with someone i fancied and there was mutual attraction that someone i didnt, and equally the opposite way round. Those i dont fancy, i dont have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather have sex with someone i fancied and there was mutual attraction that someone i didnt, and equally the opposite way round. Those i dont fancy, i dont have sex with "

exactly. No point otherwise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what has fancying them got to do with NSA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls youve got this wrong :D

its nothing to do with looks, personality or "clicking" with someone.

Its about the size of the boobs haha.

Kidding obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what has fancying them got to do with NSA?"

i dont mean it in the context that i want to go out with them, just have sex

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

Not sure what to expect on our meet tomorrow with Pinocchio now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure what to expect on our meet tomorrow with Pinocchio now "

Why's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible for people to have decent sex with someone who they dont think much of physically or interlectually??

I know i couldnt meet someone who i wasnt attracted to or find mentally stimulating, so with this is mind.. NSA - is there such a thing? After all we are on a swinging site where we are given options and can be choosey, is there anyone truly desperate enough just to sleep with anyone regardless of the personality/physical issues?

surely there must be some form of 'strings attached' then "

I think "strings" are generally percieved to be emotional or obligations towards someone. You don't have to get into that game just because you find someone chemically compatible but you could, it's true, if you don't operate a degree of self-discipline.

I am pretty sure it must happen on occasion and I suppose it could be a good thing if it was reciprocated and a nightmare if it wasn't.

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By *entcouple4550Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

NSA-Is there such a thing ?

Yes...it's the National Security Agency. An organ of the United States govt with a rather sinister reputation.

May I take the picture round now please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NSA-Is there such a thing ?

Yes...it's the National Security Agency. An organ of the United States govt with a rather sinister reputation.

May I take the picture round now please ?"

you talking bout wathis face (organ), y know that "monica didn't touch" er bloke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't play with peeps that I do not find attractive intellectually and physically, sorry!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I thought i met guys nsa, until a post came up awhile ago. I tend to meet regular guys and dont have many one offs. The guys i meet have become friends, we ring each other and chat on msn, so is friendship attatchment? The only difference between these guys and non fuck buddy friends is i have sex with them. If ive met a guy in a club it is definetly nsa, we like the look of each other, have a chat and have sex then both walk away, that to me is nsa

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Physically - they have to be attractive

Intellectually- Not a jot of difference

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

At a club i will fuck whoever is there, the sex is great cos i just want cock.There is better sex,but in that mood i just want to use men and move to the next,thats about as NSA as it gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think NSA has anything to do with finding someone attractive mentally of physically...or being choosey/desperate.

I meet someone on a regular basis and apart from being friends with benefits there is no other attachment. seperate lives etc, ergo no strings."

Snap.

it can and does work when you find the right playmate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a club i will fuck whoever is there, the sex is great cos i just want cock.There is better sex,but in that mood i just want to use men and move to the next,thats about as NSA as it gets."

Now see. i couldnt do that.

I go with one and tend to say with that one all night, i still couldnt just fcuk anyone whether i was horny or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At a club i will fuck whoever is there, the sex is great cos i just want cock.There is better sex,but in that mood i just want to use men and move to the next,thats about as NSA as it gets.

Now see. i couldnt do that.

I go with one and tend to say with that one all night, i still couldnt just fcuk anyone whether i was horny or not. "

with you on that one. need to feel a reciprocated desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't play with peeps that I do not find attractive intellectually and physically, sorry! "

Neither could I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, NSA means no emotional attachment or dependency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NSA to me means no dramas, no mind games no jealousy. I have that already it's called a relationship I don't want it with someone I have sex with, it's just sex. "

My sentiments exactly.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know if this has been said above cos im off to cook but

NSA is not about attraction..

NSA means No comebacks... no conditions.. No emotional ties.

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