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By *ingle ex cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

A single female I chat too on fab marks my messages unread then texts me when it's obvious she has read my message

I think it's rude

Do you do it ? And why ?

I would like to see fab remove this feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your on a swinging site and upset with rude people, ? Nothing wrong with the mark unread feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

I love the mark unread feature. I hide behind my yellow wall of ignorance regularly so it's handy for that. But also if I have to do something else, I mark the message unread so I don't forget to reply later or whatever.

I think you're being a bit dramatic about someone marking your message unread.... How is it any different than recieving a text and not replying to it for a while? The other person doesn't know you've left it in your inbox...

What if you send someone something that they want to be able to find again later? Especially if they don't have site supporter so can't put the message in the saved folder. Messages marked unread are a hell of a lot easier to deal with than read messages that you need to find again later to reply to. Stop being such a baby OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mark unread when I've had a glance but no opportunity to respond. Incidentally I do this with work emails too. It's basically an administrative to do list. OP, if you regularly chat with the lady in question, perhaps you could ask her (in a non-ranty manner) why she does it, slightly more chance of knowing her reasons directly from her rather than from the delightfully loopy forums. Just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney"

I do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A single female I chat too on fab marks my messages unread then texts me when it's obvious she has read my message

I think it's rude

Do you do it ? And why ?

I would like to see fab remove this feature "

So she does reply??

So problem is??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she'll read this thread and she'll change her ways?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one for the web design a more searchable in box more like web mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A single female I chat too on fab marks my messages unread then texts me when it's obvious she has read my message

I think it's rude

Do you do it ? And why ?

I would like to see fab remove this feature "
wait she texts you?

If shes got your number and is messaging you whats the problem

did you ever think its so that your messages dont get deleted when ahe does "delete all read messages"

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

So does mark unread also put it back to unread at the other end? I was never sure!

I have to admit I have sometimes opened a previous received or sent message to see what the latest message is when I don't want to reply just yet. But that's cos I thought it would show at their end if I did open it properly.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

First world problems eh ?

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney"

Good method..... Might do that myself if ladies will actually message me haha

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"A single female I chat too on fab marks my messages unread then texts me when it's obvious she has read my message

I think it's rude

Do you do it ? And why ?

I would like to see fab remove this feature

So she does reply??

So problem is?? "

Was wondering the same lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney"

Me too; for my cat to read later and give his opinion too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney

Me too; for my cat to read later and give his opinion too "

Are his opinions any good? My dogs come up with some of the best replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't even know there was a mark unread feature. Doesn't affect me knowing, I still won't use it, just like I don't on wWhatsApp either. I can read a message and depending on the type of reply needed (length wise) I will either rreply straight away or later on when I can.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney

Me too; for my cat to read later and give his opinion too

Are his opinions any good? My dogs come up with some of the best replies. "

I trust his instincts more than I trust people's

Now only if I could teach him to spell correctly using a keyboard

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"Didn't even know there was a mark unread feature. Doesn't affect me knowing, I still won't use it, just like I don't on wWhatsApp either. I can read a message and depending on the type of reply needed (length wise) I will either rreply straight away or later on when I can."

A message from u kimi would make any guys day lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Some people need some real problems in there lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do this... But don't text as I hate taking chat off the site x

Can't actually see what the op problem is if she replys via text x

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I do this all the time. Some of my messages require a long reply. So I may have a quick read of the message I've been sent then mark it as unread. It then reminds me to reply to it later when I have time. Sometimes I'll even save a message so I don't lose it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often read a message and then mark it as unread to remind me to reply later if I can't at the time I read it. Don't see anything rude about it at all.

If the site is going to get rid of any feature it should be the ability to see if your sent messages have been read or deleted as this seems to cause nothing but grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes read it, mark it as unread just because I can't be arsed replying there and then bet I'm not the only one either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish you could unsee photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney"

Exactly what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes read it, mark it as unread just because I can't be arsed replying there and then bet I'm not the only one either."

I do that occasionally too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish you could unsee photos"

You and Me both. Mr loves to tag photos that he knows will make me cringe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney"
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Aha talking about me again hey .

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By *ingle ex cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I mark messages unread all the time. If I read a message and want Marc to read it too, I mark it unread. If I read a message and want to send a long reply but want to wait until I'm on my laptop, I mark it unread. Etc. Etc.

We get a lot of messages. Its easy to send the "thanks but no thanks" replies but in order to not lose the ones I actually want to reply to, I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney"

Thankyou that's a great reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have to mark them unread to draw my attention to them. Otherwise they get lost in the rest of the trash.

-Courtney.

Aha talking about me again hey .

"

You know it

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By *ingle ex cuck OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"A single female I chat too on fab marks my messages unread then texts me when it's obvious she has read my message

I think it's rude

Do you do it ? And why ?

I would like to see fab remove this feature

So she does reply??

So problem is?? "

No problem now some great answers there have explained

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"A single female I chat too on fab marks my messages unread then texts me when it's obvious she has read my message

I think it's rude

Do you do it ? And why ?

I would like to see fab remove this feature "

Whys it rude if she is in contact via text

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