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"You need to write it as who you are not from what we say. Though there are plenty of similar threads with lots of good advice. Cock pics are boring, and in the car? Looks like dogging to me and that could put a lot of us off "Haha thank you
I get what you mean about the cock pic.. Was actually a request from a potential fab date and took it in the moment but looks like its comming down.. And yes it does need to be about me but what kind of things about myself?? What kind of things do women want to know before mind blowing sex? I dont want to put people off.. I seem to be doing that already hehe | |||
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"You need to write it as who you are not from what we say. Though there are plenty of similar threads with lots of good advice. Cock pics are boring, and in the car? Looks like dogging to me and that could put a lot of us off
Haha thank you
I get what you mean about the cock pic.. Was actually a request from a potential fab date and took it in the moment but looks like its comming down.. And yes it does need to be about me but what kind of things about myself?? What kind of things do women want to know before mind blowing sex? I dont want to put people off.. I seem to be doing that already hehe "Anything you want to say about you ... anything that makes you you ... read other profiles, not necessarily on the forums and see who gets meets. But to be honest, its also in the messages .... | |||
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"I am not sure your verification does you any favours. Are you bi? You seem somewhat conflicted with oral ... you like it but 'don't mind' taking your time? Seems a bit of a chore ... I am the fem in a couple, so I may not count, but did meet guys alone for four years before I coupled up with my partner. I like to see someone's personality in their profile, so .... something about you as a person really. The cock in a car shots are worse than those in a bathroom I think... but maybe that is just me ..." Wow thanks thats helpfull.. So its back to the drawing board! And no im not bi but the vari i did get was from a gentleman who runs a club and has been very helpfull in helping me feel comfortable in such a great and honest enviroment.. Very genuine guy again looks like im just going to do away with the cock pic  but thank you for your time x | |||
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"You need to write it as who you are not from what we say. Though there are plenty of similar threads with lots of good advice. Cock pics are boring, and in the car? Looks like dogging to me and that could put a lot of us off
Haha thank you
I get what you mean about the cock pic.. Was actually a request from a potential fab date and took it in the moment but looks like its comming down.. And yes it does need to be about me but what kind of things about myself?? What kind of things do women want to know before mind blowing sex? I dont want to put people off.. I seem to be doing that already hehe
Anything you want to say about you ... anything that makes you you ... read other profiles, not necessarily on the forums and see who gets meets. But to be honest, its also in the messages ...."See i think thats were i hesitate because i know i can be very imaginative and quietnawty in messages however i get too worried ill come accross as trying too hard or weird i am always polite even when others aint but then that dont always work  | |||
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"You could explain about who the man is then. It's not all about sex, there is a big social aspect to all of this. Plus for many of us we need to like a person a bit before considering being intimate with them. How would you approach a woman in the 'real' world? Not with your cock out, you'd be respectful and want them to know you're a great guy. And that you'd be good for them." Tbh honest ive been very patient with people when sending messages and i especially take the time out to read the profiles but still no luck.. Ive even tried to tone down the naughtyness but again no luck hmmm .. | |||
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"You could explain about who the man is then. It's not all about sex, there is a big social aspect to all of this. Plus for many of us we need to like a person a bit before considering being intimate with them. How would you approach a woman in the 'real' world? Not with your cock out, you'd be respectful and want them to know you're a great guy. And that you'd be good for them. Tbh honest ive been very patient with people when sending messages and i especially take the time out to read the profiles but still no luck.. Ive even tried to tone down the naughtyness but again no luck hmmm .. " You seem a nice enough fellow but to be frank your profile is so brief and says so little that we would not converse with you. You are able to put words together so express your personality and what you can offer. At the moment it just says, "I want sex." Yup, the odd female here will go for that, but the vast majority want good sex which requires a mental connection which you are not offering. | |||
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