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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

Men just don't tell them . Does it really matter anyway unless your looking for a boyfriend

Never ever been turned down when in a relationship .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can lie to get what they want.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

Not if I know I don't.

Got caught out once as I forgot to ask but to my knowledge every meet except one have been single.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

It's a bit like Brussel Sprouts.

Some do, some don't, it's up to you and what others think shouldn't really matter.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course it matters, well it matters to me, I don't want a relationship but I don't want to be fucking a married man is hate it being done to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd *

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I care whether they tell me or not I want to be the one to make the decision whether I meet someone married or not

Not have them try and decieve me into a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Fb has said she'd only meet married people if the partners knew and said its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!

It's a bit like Brussel Sprouts.

Some do, some don't, it's up to you and what others think shouldn't really matter.

Mr ddc"

Not everyone likes brussel sprouts?!?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

Aww you really have only been here a couple of weeks havent you!

But how have you got to 29 with no clue about relationships and fidelity?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we don't care if men (or women come to that) are married or in a relationship but if we know we choose not to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is not all are honest. If they're honest with me and say straight away, I just say no and let them know I appreciate them being honest. I never give them the 3rd degree, as much as I don't agree with it, it's their choice and as I know iI'm not going there I know I won't be part of it

but then you have those of who are married and don't say a thing, so you're none the wiser. I have more respect for those who are upfront about it.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Of course it matters, well it matters to me, I don't want a relationship but I don't want to be fucking a married man is hate it being done to me "

Oh, I see, it wasn't really a question, it was one of those preachy threads...

{backs out quickly before he puts his foot in it further by pointing out that the OP has already been a member for 2 weeks, so technically needs a name change....}

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it matters, well it matters to me, I don't want a relationship but I don't want to be fucking a married man is hate it being done to me "

It's not your problem she is married to s cheater is it .

Best thing is don't ask . Problem solved

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Definitely never knowingly.....the way I meet puts most off, plus I think I would be a married guys nightmare meet to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please don't patronise me,it's a genuine question, I just wanted to know other women's view on it , no need to speak to me like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course it matters, well it matters to me, I don't want a relationship but I don't want to be fucking a married man is hate it being done to me

It's not your problem she is married to s cheater is it .

Best thing is don't ask . Problem solved "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Mr ddc

Not everyone likes brussel sprouts?!?

-Courtney"

I know, its a strange world in which we live...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!

Men just don't tell them . Does it really matter anyway unless your looking for a boyfriend

Never ever been turned down when in a relationship . "

It matters to me i give a shit if someone is in a relationship and cheating on their partner. One day karma will bite them in the arse they won't be smiling then.

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

Ask yourself: what do I think the answer will be?

Your correct!!!!!

Or you can read below for 90% against an maybe 10% not bothered.

From my experience here your more likely get votes from the 'No they wouldn't' camp as 'yes' people will be reluctant to make themselves known- your post is unlikely to a reliable poll because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied! "

I have found over the years you cant have a decent conversation on here without someone starting on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied! "

Who is bullying you?

People can answer as they want, within forum rules. Welcome to the internet. I don't see any bullying.

-Courtney

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied! "

Use reply+quote then we'll know who you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied! "

I will answer your question Hun without patronising you.

Yes it bothers me! I would choose NOT to meet a married or attached guy.

It's personal choice I ask how would I feel if I was being cheated on? Seeing it growing up and the destruction it can cause I would not want to be part or cause off that for someone else.

Everyone has there own opinion as they do morals too. X

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

I wouldn't meet someone who doesn't recycle!....the destruction they people cause!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet someone who doesn't recycle!....the destruction they people cause!!!!"

Oh dear I don't recycle shame lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

Some will, yes, especially at clubs. I am one of the ones who won't.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied! "

I haven't seen any bullying

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied!

Use reply+quote then we'll know who you mean."

I suspect she means me.

Sorry OP if my humour was ill-judged, but you must admit, putting your first two posts together does make it a bit of a loaded question, and isn't really conducive to an open discussion.

No harm intended.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I personally don't care:

- if they are married or single

- if they tell me or not

- if they tell me the truth or not about their marital status

None of these three things impact how good or not they are in bed, which is literally the only thing I'm on this site for.

As for "having it done to me". I know that if my other half did it and I didn't have a clue, I wouldn't care.

Because I wouldn't know.

Life's too short to trade in ifs and buts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't care:

- if they are married or single

- if they tell me or not

- if they tell me the truth or not about their marital status

None of these three things impact how good or not they are in bed, which is literally the only thing I'm on this site for.

As for "having it done to me". I know that if my other half did it and I didn't have a clue, I wouldn't care.

Because I wouldn't know.

Life's too short to trade in ifs and buts.

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs won't meet married men unless their partner is aware of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't care:

- if they are married or single

- if they tell me or not

- if they tell me the truth or not about their marital status

None of these three things impact how good or not they are in bed, which is literally the only thing I'm on this site for.

As for "having it done to me". I know that if my other half did it and I didn't have a clue, I wouldn't care.

Because I wouldn't know.

Life's too short to trade in ifs and buts.

Like your honesty.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

wot? one of 'em 'cheaters'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a bit of a toughy, for me it's all about what you are looking for I had a fwb arrangement with a woman for about a year. We set out boundaries at the beginning and lived about 50 miles away from each other. We met about once ever 3 weeks for a meal, drinks and then had some overnight fun in a hotel room. We spoke nearly every other day in a friends sort of relationship about everyday stuff, but we knew when it had run its course. It's about setting out the expectations at the beginning for me

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Me too. "

I've come to the conclusion, Scarlet, that we're basically the same person. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I care whether they tell me or not I want to be the one to make the decision whether I meet someone married or not

Not have them try and decieve me into a meet

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied!

I will answer your question Hun without patronising you.

Yes it bothers me! I would choose NOT to meet a married or attached guy.

It's personal choice I ask how would I feel if I was being cheated on? Seeing it growing up and the destruction it can cause I would not want to be part or cause off that for someone else.

Everyone has there own opinion as they do morals too. X

Yes on a swingers site, where people primarily look to have casual sex . I can see how moral we all are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally don't care:

- if they are married or single

- if they tell me or not

- if they tell me the truth or not about their marital status

None of these three things impact how good or not they are in bed, which is literally the only thing I'm on this site for.

As for "having it done to me". I know that if my other half did it and I didn't have a clue, I wouldn't care.

Because I wouldn't know.

Life's too short to trade in ifs and buts.

Me too. "

Definitely this

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I prob gonna get crap for this but not necessarily

As long as they told me so I can decide if I wanna meet them

Them married or in a relationship isn't really a prob... It's up to them to make the call if they gonna cheat n if it ain't me then it'll be some one else they'll cheat with

As much as id hate for role reversed to find out I been cheated on, id also like to think that my partner made the conscious choice to cheat on me and not necessarily blame who it was with. I also hope that I'm open minded enough to ask why he cheated and remember what guys have told me on here about why

In this day and age I dnt think relationships are what they once were, I think you can be in love with someone, be married to them, wasn't to go home to them... But sometimes need takes us on a pit stop first.

Obviously itd be better if they guys wife or gf knew n were into swinging, but can't always garantee that

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

No, I can't responsible for what they do. They may have reason to seek elsewhere - not having sex at home or bisexuality or they might be TV admirers... if I ruled out married men there wouldn't be many left - it's not like they could leave their wives for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was a question, not Come on here to be started on or bullied!

I will answer your question Hun without patronising you.

Yes it bothers me! I would choose NOT to meet a married or attached guy.

It's personal choice I ask how would I feel if I was being cheated on? Seeing it growing up and the destruction it can cause I would not want to be part or cause off that for someone else.

Everyone has there own opinion as they do morals too. X

Yes on a swingers site, where people primarily look to have casual sex . I can see how moral we all are

Not everyone is looking for casual sex on here I'm

Not far from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask and I dont think about it. We meet people primarily in clubs or at parties. I know full well that some people will who attend will be married.

I don't see it as my business. I'm not going to worry about the partner who is unaware, I don't know them. I dont take other people's problems on.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"Do women on here care if the man is married/ in a relationship?? Ok fair enough if the wife or girlfriend is ok about it, but what if they don't know, do u ladies on here still go there?!??!"

In clubs, I don't ask them, so I've probably played with married-and-cheating men. But they were at the club anyway, so THEY had made the decision to cheat, it was nothing to do with me.

When arranging private meets, there is no way that I would meet a man who is married (or in a relationship). If he wants to cheat, I'm not being a party to that.

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