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Escalating from "you must be a lesbian"

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By *lighty1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

OK, all women have heard it. A man tries to chat us up down the pub, we say we don't fancy him, and he says 'you must be a lesbian'. Fab's 1-step up from 'you must be a lesbian' is 'are you pre-op or post op?' I mean seriously????? Do Fab's men really think that we find it insulting when they speculate about our sexuality or gender identity? Or was he expecting me to bare my breasts on cam, to prove that they are real?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I would not pay him the compliment of even acknowledging his comment with a thread, to be honest ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would not pay him the compliment of even acknowledging his comment with a thread, to be honest ..."

-Courtney

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"OK, all women have heard it. A man tries to chat us up down the pub, we say we don't fancy him, and he says 'you must be a lesbian'. Fab's 1-step up from 'you must be a lesbian' is 'are you pre-op or post op?' I mean seriously????? Do Fab's men really think that we find it insulting when they speculate about our sexuality or gender identity? Or was he expecting me to bare my breasts on cam, to prove that they are real?"

I usually hear, "must be a Dyke"

Reverse psychology from them; they think it works. I would have told him that I am f-to-m which went horribly wrong; next question

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never had either said to me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been called a dirty cunt before which I was offended by. I'm actually a very clean person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had a woman say to me I must be gay because I wasn't interested lol I think she had a swollen ego, no man can resist me an all that

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

My personal favourite from ages ago from a now UNLOS user when I failed to respond to his first message was along the lines of 'fuck you, you ain't all that'. Point 1, I have never claimed to be 'all that', whatever that is. Point 2, he signed off his message with kisses and attached a face pic. Force of habit, obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked - at 5am on here - to go trek to a hotel across town to meet two a Fabber and his 'pal'.

Now his veris said he was a charming lad, he was hot - but maybe after a drink he just turned into an arse, because when I said 'no' he started spouting off that I 'must be a blag profile then' and 'good luck perving over everyone's pics. Tosser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a (hopefully 'real') man's point of view this is a pathetic and childish thing to happen. No man is irresistible to every single woman and some blokes out there need to accept a 'no' with good grace. I find it highly embarrassing and irritating when I read of men having stooped so low - and i'm willing to bet there are plenty of other males who would say the same. I've had my fair share of 'Thanks, but no thanks' replies and always send one further message appreciating the fact that the lady has taken the trouble to reply in the first place and wishing her the very best. Manners cost nothing fellas!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I was asked - at 5am on here - to go trek to a hotel across town to meet two a Fabber and his 'pal'.

Now his veris said he was a charming lad, he was hot - but maybe after a drink he just turned into an arse, because when I said 'no' he started spouting off that I 'must be a blag profile then' and 'good luck perving over everyone's pics. Tosser! "

You ain't seen nuffing yet

I have gone from the "most amazing, sexy and attractive woman" to a "stupid, fat, ole ugly cow" in under a minute. Try beat that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was asked - at 5am on here - to go trek to a hotel across town to meet two a Fabber and his 'pal'.

Now his veris said he was a charming lad, he was hot - but maybe after a drink he just turned into an arse, because when I said 'no' he started spouting off that I 'must be a blag profile then' and 'good luck perving over everyone's pics. Tosser!

You ain't seen nuffing yet

I have gone from the "most amazing, sexy and attractive woman" to a "stupid, fat, ole ugly cow" in under a minute. Try beat that "

Wow! You are good!

Haha I've had similar with the added 'slag' a few times.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just send them to the glory hole I've got setup, complete with mini guillotine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charming chaps and gals. I wonder if these are the fabbers who moan that no one meets - the site is a joke etc.

Treat people as you want to be treated and you usually reap the rewards.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

My spitbackers tend to gravitate towards my race ("Slitty-eyed bitch"), or my size ("Why don't you go eat a burger from maccy d's")

Funny thing is, I thought that second suggestion was a brilliant one. So I did. Lol.

The things that guys think are insulting on this site... Fat is a body type, not an insult. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My spitbackers tend to gravitate towards my race ("Slitty-eyed bitch"), or my size ("Why don't you go eat a burger from maccy d's")

Funny thing is, I thought that second suggestion was a brilliant one. So I did. Lol.

The things that guys think are insulting on this site... Fat is a body type, not an insult. lol"

How lovely of them. I've been lucky not to have come across any of these charmers but it does beg the question why they think that sort of response is warranted. Does it really get them anything but reported and blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My spitbackers tend to gravitate towards my race ("Slitty-eyed bitch"), or my size ("Why don't you go eat a burger from maccy d's")

Funny thing is, I thought that second suggestion was a brilliant one. So I did. Lol.

The things that guys think are insulting on this site... Fat is a body type, not an insult. lol"
shows people's true colours when they spouting racist crap. Can't stand that. I had a woman call me a scuzy Muslim because I couldn't come round when she was free but I was working?? Wtf I had already met this woman too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had "you're a scummy whore" for not replying to a message and "I'm going to expose you as a fake you slag" :/ charming men lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone told me Norwich were shit

Best insult ever

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"shows people's true colours when they spouting racist crap. Can't stand that. I had a woman call me a scuzy Muslim because I couldn't come round when she was free but I was working?? Wtf I had already met this woman too "

What the FUCK?! That's well out of order!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send them to the glory hole I've got setup, complete with mini guillotine. "

*Orders 3 coaches and a minibus*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had the "ew lesbian/dyke" comment. Aside from irl when I was actually in a relationship with a woman...

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Someone told me Norwich were shit

Best insult ever "

That is an insult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man told me my profile wasn't worth wanking over. Weird to think people wank over profile text/pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone told me Norwich were shit

Best insult ever

That is an insult? "

No, not really. It made me that someone would think I'd get upset over that

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Someone told me Norwich were shit

Best insult ever

That is an insult?

No, not really. It made me that someone would think I'd get upset over that "

They are shit

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I would not pay him the compliment of even acknowledging his comment with a thread, to be honest ..."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Someone told me Norwich were shit

Best insult ever

That is an insult?

No, not really. It made me that someone would think I'd get upset over that

They are shit "

And...

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I would not pay him the compliment of even acknowledging his comment with a thread, to be honest ..."

This

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I've been called a dirty cunt before which I was offended by. I'm actually a very clean person. "

You're not a cunt either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had a woman say to me I must be gay because I wasn't interested lol I think she had a swollen ego, no man can resist me an all that "

The girl who i lost my virginity to asked me if i was gay....during sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone told me Norwich were shit

Best insult ever

That is an insult?

No, not really. It made me that someone would think I'd get upset over that

They are shit "

Insulting me by PM is one thing. Insulting me on the forums is another

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Someone told me Norwich were shit

Best insult ever

That is an insult?

No, not really. It made me that someone would think I'd get upset over that

They are shit

Insulting me by PM is one thing. Insulting me on the forums is another "

I always thought NORWICH stood for Nickers Off Ready Wench, I'm Coming Home.

But what do I know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had a woman say to me I must be gay because I wasn't interested lol I think she had a swollen ego, no man can resist me an all that

The girl who i lost my virginity to asked me if i was gay....during sex...

"

What were you doing to her?

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