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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Although we aren't looking for a single guy we wouldn't rule it out IF they bring something different ..... that said..... Most ( in our dealings) are rude and don't like thanks but no thanks then you get the rude messages and that puts us off chatting to single guys ... Most ruin it for others .... As some single guys are easy going non pushy but when you get bombarded with messages it kind of puts you off after you get rude messages back and rude as in slagging you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol."
touché

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol."
and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block them and do the searching..... it's will lessen your angst

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never rude, if you're ever up this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones "
I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although we aren't looking for a single guy we wouldn't rule it out IF they bring something different ..... that said..... Most ( in our dealings) are rude and don't like thanks but no thanks then you get the rude messages and that puts us off chatting to single guys ... Most ruin it for others .... As some single guys are easy going non pushy but when you get bombarded with messages it kind of puts you off after you get rude messages back and rude as in slagging you off "

I don't think that is a generalised _iew at all

Too many guys think they have s God given right to replies and meets

Now I'm always respectful and non sexual in any messages but the bad boys just put people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

He does have a point. We aren't all the same and to the few that aren't and grated it is a few being generalised like that is pretty insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all are rude. A few are but they tend to he the ones that are just as unsuccessful in everyday life. Block them and do the searching yourself.

There are some good ones out there however they are the true unicorns on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"block them and do the searching..... it's will lessen your angst"
as we aren't looking we don't need to block .... Like I said if they bring something different then we will chat and explore but when you get the same old thing all the time it kind of puts you off .... All that said this ruins it for other singles we are chatting to a single guy at the mo and he is easy going and non pushy

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"block them and do the searching..... it's will lessen your angst as we aren't looking we don't need to block .... Like I said if they bring something different then we will chat and explore but when you get the same old thing all the time it kind of puts you off .... All that said this ruins it for other singles we are chatting to a single guy at the mo and he is easy going and non pushy "

cool........ they will still message you then and your angst will continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He does have a point. We aren't all the same and to the few that aren't and grated it is a few being generalised like that is pretty insulting "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you "

Like attracts like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block them and do the searching..... it's will lessen your angst as we aren't looking we don't need to block .... Like I said if they bring something different then we will chat and explore but when you get the same old thing all the time it kind of puts you off .... All that said this ruins it for other singles we are chatting to a single guy at the mo and he is easy going and non pushy

cool........ they will still message you then and your angst will continue "

Replace the word 'angst' with 'ego boost'.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block them and do the searching..... it's will lessen your angst as we aren't looking we don't need to block .... Like I said if they bring something different then we will chat and explore but when you get the same old thing all the time it kind of puts you off .... All that said this ruins it for other singles we are chatting to a single guy at the mo and he is easy going and non pushy

cool........ they will still message you then and your angst will continue "

Either put your filters on to stop any messages from them, or put up with the shitty responses and filter yourself rather than whining and generalising on forum

It ain't hard you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres some really nice single men on here but also some that are just tools, we were told to F off this site because we ruin it for single men last night from someone then blocked because he didn't like us saying no to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single guys are nice, we find. I think couples send us the most rude and entitled messages. Women don't message us much so I can't speak about them.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excuse me for having an opinion isn't that what a forum is for ..... I didn't say all single were dogs I said some and they spoil it for the others

We don't want to sort the wheat from the chaff

It would help if people read profiles I guess

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

dogs

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you "

^^Agree with this comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might start blocking couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I might start blocking couples "

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is too funny some of the replies ... Enjoy your chat people I've seen it all now

Happy fabbing and swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse me for having an opinion isn't that what a forum is for ..... I didn't say all single were dogs I said some and they spoil it for the others

We don't want to sort the wheat from the chaff

It would help if people read profiles I guess "

Well I haven't found any aspect of swinging yet when I haven't needed to 'sort the wheat from the chaff'

Maybe that could be a new job opportunity. ...'swing consultant' we sort the suitable single males so you don't have to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I might start blocking couples

-Courtney"

Don't worry

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email."

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is too funny some of the replies ... Enjoy your chat people I've seen it all now

Happy fabbing and swinging "

Don't give criticism if you can't take it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"This is too funny some of the replies ... Enjoy your chat people I've seen it all now

Happy fabbing and swinging "

We will

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"This is too funny some of the replies ... Enjoy your chat people I've seen it all now

Happy fabbing and swinging

Don't give criticism if you can't take it "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"This is too funny some of the replies ... Enjoy your chat people I've seen it all now

Happy fabbing and swinging

Don't give criticism if you can't take it "

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you "

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I might start blocking couples "

Not a bad idea that, I've found couples to be more rude than most, even the Mrs has with her experience here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?"
I guess as some cant behave there lol. They don't need to block them, it is up to them tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a shame the few spoil it for the many..im hoping thats the right way around!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?"

Erm odd statement.. bit like why can't all humans be at peace, or why do some steal , lie, cheat

People are differant, people have differant upbringings, expectations , methods for coping, and statistically some are not entirely stable due to a vast number of reasons ,and they can all come on a website , in fact many only want to cum on their keyboard

Expecting anything differant is not practical xx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

Erm odd statement.. bit like why can't all humans be at peace, or why do some steal , lie, cheat

People are differant, people have differant upbringings, expectations , methods for coping, and statistically some are not entirely stable due to a vast number of reasons ,and they can all come on a website , in fact many only want to cum on their keyboard

Expecting anything differant is not practical xx"

Actually, expecting the vast majority of people to behave decently is the norm. It is in my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only message ladies / couples who's age range / type I fit within. I am never rude, always respectful and to be honest, nonplussed if they don't get back to me.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

Erm odd statement.. bit like why can't all humans be at peace, or why do some steal , lie, cheat

People are differant, people have differant upbringings, expectations , methods for coping, and statistically some are not entirely stable due to a vast number of reasons ,and they can all come on a website , in fact many only want to cum on their keyboard

Expecting anything differant is not practical xx

Actually, expecting the vast majority of people to behave decently is the norm. It is in my world"

That must be quite a small world . I thought I was the only person to leave my car and front door unlocked, good on you for thinking the best of people

The Internet about which we are talking covers the entire planet , you are aware most of the planet is currently fucked up ?

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Most single guys are nice, we find. I think couples send us the most rude and entitled messages. Women don't message us much so I can't speak about them.

-Courtney"

I couldn't agree more with this statement. All groups (men, women and couples) have their flaws. But not all are bad. The only difference is that a lot of women and couples have such a lofty sense of entitlement. Basic manners often go out the window.

Single guys are too easy a target on here. I would suggest instead of waiting for them to come to you, having to wade through a million messages and then slagging us off en masse, you get proactive and go out and find the good ones yourself if that's what you want.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you're looking for something specific then I'd block all unknown single guys and just approach those who you believe have what it takes. Or get out to clubs and socials, getting to know others that way.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?"

I will reiterate , their profile explicitly tells decent men NOT to message the only ones left are the bad ones lol thus blocking and searching themselves is the correct advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my filters off and responded to guys saying they weren't my type, they'd respond back agreeing and that it was worth a shot or words to that effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single guys are nice, we find. I think couples send us the most rude and entitled messages. Women don't message us much so I can't speak about them.

-Courtney

I couldn't agree more with this statement. All groups (men, women and couples) have their flaws. But not all are bad. The only difference is that a lot of women and couples have such a lofty sense of entitlement. Basic manners often go out the window.

Single guys are too easy a target on here. I would suggest instead of waiting for them to come to you, having to wade through a million messages and then slagging us off en masse, you get proactive and go out and find the good ones yourself if that's what you want."

To both points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your experience is at ends with mine - it's most couples who have demanding and entitled attitude I've found.

Single women are selective but couples think that because they're offering you the chance to have a go on their wife that you owe them the earth.

All the single men I've spoken to have been polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

I will reiterate , their profile explicitly tells decent men NOT to message the only ones left are the bad ones lol thus blocking and searching themselves is the correct advice

"
In the intro paragraph here they said they wouldn't rule them out, so a bit confusing lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your experience is at ends with mine - it's most couples who have demanding and entitled attitude I've found.

Single women are selective but couples think that because they're offering you the chance to have a go on their wife that you owe them the earth.

All the single men I've spoken to have been polite."

"have a go on their wife"

Quote of the day.

Very true though.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't believe the couple HAVE to do anything, their shout entirely.

There will be circa 1000 threads in 2016 berating single guys, it will change no behaviour.

It didn't in 2015, 2014, 2013, 2012, 2011, 2010 and there were the same threads.

It's about owning your own experience and doing everything in YOUR power to improve it.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones "

If you're not looking for single men why make a thread about it just ignore and block the ones you don't like, like the rest of us

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but if you do _iew some as dogs, don't be surprised if one bites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess that experienced swinging single men would wait to be approached or invited after building up a rapport. Those that bombard with advances and generally act like a dick pretty much says everything really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"have a go on their wife"

Quote of the day.

Very true though. "

No word of a lie I've had it phrased to me like that.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

I will reiterate , their profile explicitly tells decent men NOT to message the only ones left are the bad ones lol thus blocking and searching themselves is the correct advice

"

Do you mean blocking or filtering

One can block individuals; one has to filter an entire gender

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I think I might start blocking couples "

Not all couples are idioms, but we experience them too .... they behave differently to us on our respective singles accounts and on this couples account. Interestingly enough, we compare the messages to see what they are like as people ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you aren't attracting the kind of men who bring something different because your profile doesn't warrant that. If you're just getting the rude,ignorant etc etc men I suggest it's because the rest aren't interested. If you're not really interested in men it's not really your problem is it.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"I think I might start blocking couples "

I have couples blocked .... but not single men. I don't meet single men on my single profile, and they don't bother me either .... there was a time when I got rude messages, but they soon diminish ...

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We find that most single men are friendly and polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

"

I agree with EVERYTHING you say here. Id never post pussy pics, simply because it will just attract chancers etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find that most single men are friendly and polite "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame the OP abandoned their thread. My burning question is 'what is the 'something different' they are looking for in single guys?'

Because I'm not adverse to turning up with some Aperol, a flying helmet and a punnet of fresh figs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

I will reiterate , their profile explicitly tells decent men NOT to message the only ones left are the bad ones lol thus blocking and searching themselves is the correct advice

Do you mean blocking or filtering

One can block individuals; one has to filter an entire gender"

You block entire groups from messaging. I only allow men to message me. Everyone else is blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

I will reiterate , their profile explicitly tells decent men NOT to message the only ones left are the bad ones lol thus blocking and searching themselves is the correct advice

Do you mean blocking or filtering

One can block individuals; one has to filter an entire gender

You block entire groups from messaging. I only allow men to message me. Everyone else is blocked. "

We're not all bad

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Typical generalisation of single men, maibe you just select the wrong ones lol. and we aren't looking for single men so we don't pick the wrong ones I see yes, then use the filters so they cant email.

Erm, why can't they just behave themselves. Why does this couple have to block all men or thump them or ..... ?

I will reiterate , their profile explicitly tells decent men NOT to message the only ones left are the bad ones lol thus blocking and searching themselves is the correct advice

Do you mean blocking or filtering

One can block individuals; one has to filter an entire gender

You block entire groups from messaging. I only allow men to message me. Everyone else is blocked. "

No, I don't filter anyone; I block abnoxious individuals whether it is a man or a woman. I was asking the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, it's hard to find a woman or couple even willing to start a conversation. I can understand why though, so if I get no reply from winks/messages then I take that as a polite no thanks.

As a woman/couple surely a forum such as this helps to identify genuine, active single guys and 'tools' wouldn't waste their time reading and posting. Or would they? I suppose that's a different topic for discussion.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We've had many a good message from single guys, some not so but in the main very positive ones. The worst have been from couples, especially the male half when we don't want to meet or engage in message exchanges. Just our experience.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

I agree with EVERYTHING you say here. Id never post pussy pics, simply because it will just attract chancers etc x"

I think at times people don't realise how their profiles and pictures portray them and find themselves shocked by the audience they attract..

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Its a shame the few spoil it for the many..im hoping thats the right way around!"

Definitely incorrect whichever way round you put it.

Nobody spoils it for me.

I make my own way and my own success on the site.

For every woman or couple hacked off by misbehaving and pushy or insulting men, there are dozens more who aren't, and new people joining every day so nobody ruins it for anyone.

It's a glib excuse used by men who can't get meets for all sorts of different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was a turn up for the books

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

"

i do like this answer and makes sense..however i had my profile open for 12 hours yesterday and my block list is now over 40 more than it was before. and i dont have pussy shots or nipple shots and it does ruin the experience for me. id like to have my filters open more, for friends, for example, but quite honestly its not angst, its more a total sense of, why do i have to put up with this stuff and why should single guys with a bit of nounce, put up with it either. i am a patient woman, but i do get what she is getting at here.

i have to read the messages to get to the good guys and after about 15 of 'would it be rude to continue licking your pussy till you cream on my face', or 'are you fertile?' types..it actually gets you out of the mood, for speaking to anyone x

as it is, after yesterday, i have now hidden my profile and turned on all my filters again..just wish there was another solution x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

i do like this answer and makes sense..however i had my profile open for 12 hours yesterday and my block list is now over 40 more than it was before. and i dont have pussy shots or nipple shots and it does ruin the experience for me. id like to have my filters open more, for friends, for example, but quite honestly its not angst, its more a total sense of, why do i have to put up with this stuff and why should single guys with a bit of nounce, put up with it either. i am a patient woman, but i do get what she is getting at here.

i have to read the messages to get to the good guys and after about 15 of 'would it be rude to continue licking your pussy till you cream on my face', or 'are you fertile?' types..it actually gets you out of the mood, for speaking to anyone x

as it is, after yesterday, i have now hidden my profile and turned on all my filters again..just wish there was another solution x"

I get exactly what your saying but I can't talk for every guy just myself.

Basically what im trying to say is you would Be more likely getting a message of a decent guy then the op. No doubt you will still have all the other messages in between

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

i do like this answer and makes sense..however i had my profile open for 12 hours yesterday and my block list is now over 40 more than it was before. and i dont have pussy shots or nipple shots and it does ruin the experience for me. id like to have my filters open more, for friends, for example, but quite honestly its not angst, its more a total sense of, why do i have to put up with this stuff and why should single guys with a bit of nounce, put up with it either. i am a patient woman, but i do get what she is getting at here.

i have to read the messages to get to the good guys and after about 15 of 'would it be rude to continue licking your pussy till you cream on my face', or 'are you fertile?' types..it actually gets you out of the mood, for speaking to anyone x

as it is, after yesterday, i have now hidden my profile and turned on all my filters again..just wish there was another solution x

I get exactly what your saying but I can't talk for every guy just myself.

Basically what im trying to say is you would Be more likely getting a message of a decent guy then the op. No doubt you will still have all the other messages in between "

we are all on here for different things, and i have no right to judge because i wouldnt wish to be judged about what i am doing on fab...your profile and pics are a front window, however, it is true not many read it, before sending you a message. if i get the same type as the OP it cant all be to do with the pics can it.?

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over a year ago

Being rude ain't gender exclusive.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Well that was a turn up for the books "

I know.... who thought being an arse was not just single guy exclusive.......

there are arsey couples...... who figured that!!!!

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

i do like this answer and makes sense..however i had my profile open for 12 hours yesterday and my block list is now over 40 more than it was before. and i dont have pussy shots or nipple shots and it does ruin the experience for me. id like to have my filters open more, for friends, for example, but quite honestly its not angst, its more a total sense of, why do i have to put up with this stuff and why should single guys with a bit of nounce, put up with it either. i am a patient woman, but i do get what she is getting at here.

i have to read the messages to get to the good guys and after about 15 of 'would it be rude to continue licking your pussy till you cream on my face', or 'are you fertile?' types..it actually gets you out of the mood, for speaking to anyone x

as it is, after yesterday, i have now hidden my profile and turned on all my filters again..just wish there was another solution x

I get exactly what your saying but I can't talk for every guy just myself.

Basically what im trying to say is you would Be more likely getting a message of a decent guy then the op. No doubt you will still have all the other messages in between

we are all on here for different things, and i have no right to judge because i wouldnt wish to be judged about what i am doing on fab...your profile and pics are a front window, however, it is true not many read it, before sending you a message. if i get the same type as the OP it cant all be to do with the pics can it.?"

I don't get that sort of messages .... but what is is about then?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Although we aren't looking for a single guy we wouldn't rule it out IF they bring something different ..... that said..... Most ( in our dealings) are rude and don't like thanks but no thanks then you get the rude messages and that puts us off chatting to single guys ... Most ruin it for others .... As some single guys are easy going non pushy but when you get bombarded with messages it kind of puts you off after you get rude messages back and rude as in slagging you off "

I normally say this on profile advice threads.. however it fits this subject as well..

There are countless threads in the archives.. they'll say the same things in those as you'll get responses on this..

Happy reading..

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Your pictures don't exactly tempt the sort I've men your after.

A profile full of pussy pictures will only really attract the fancy a fuck guys

Not saying you would consider me but I wouldn't message you

I agree with this

You have on your profile ,not looking for single guys and a load of pussy shots

Thus you will not attract one respectful single guy , as they will respect your "not looking for single guys"

But you will of course attract the chancers , and the fancy a fuck brigade, as they will see cum covered pussy and think she must want my cock bad !

i do like this answer and makes sense..however i had my profile open for 12 hours yesterday and my block list is now over 40 more than it was before. and i dont have pussy shots or nipple shots and it does ruin the experience for me. id like to have my filters open more, for friends, for example, but quite honestly its not angst, its more a total sense of, why do i have to put up with this stuff and why should single guys with a bit of nounce, put up with it either. i am a patient woman, but i do get what she is getting at here.

i have to read the messages to get to the good guys and after about 15 of 'would it be rude to continue licking your pussy till you cream on my face', or 'are you fertile?' types..it actually gets you out of the mood, for speaking to anyone x

as it is, after yesterday, i have now hidden my profile and turned on all my filters again..just wish there was another solution x

I get exactly what your saying but I can't talk for every guy just myself.

Basically what im trying to say is you would Be more likely getting a message of a decent guy then the op. No doubt you will still have all the other messages in between

we are all on here for different things, and i have no right to judge because i wouldnt wish to be judged about what i am doing on fab...your profile and pics are a front window, however, it is true not many read it, before sending you a message. if i get the same type as the OP it cant all be to do with the pics can it.?

I don't get that sort of messages .... but what is is about then? "

well then you are very lucky. i just think its about the sheer volume of guys who don't frequent the forums, or, join i with the community here, who just don't read profiles and respect peoples wishes they express within them.i just feel for the decent, maybe shy guys who send whats considered a normal message, received by someone who has just read and been 'ruffled' in whatever way by the other type.x

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