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"I can speak from experience,I am very stubborn and have alot of opinions, i seem to get jumped on when i express mine, i think everyone has a right to express thereselves, good or bad, its not a nazi world. let people speak their minds is what i say. " I prefer people who do. I love a good debate, I do! | |||
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"I can speak from experience,I am very stubborn and have alot of opinions, i seem to get jumped on when i express mine, i think everyone has a right to express thereselves, good or bad, its not a nazi world. let people speak their minds is what i say. I prefer people who do. I love a good debate, I do! " yeah defo, i prefer to be upfront and honest from scratch. why do peeps get touchy because they dont like others opinions? everyone has a right to speak. | |||
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"I can speak from experience,I am very stubborn and have alot of opinions, i seem to get jumped on when i express mine, i think everyone has a right to express thereselves, good or bad, its not a nazi world. let people speak their minds is what i say. I prefer people who do. I love a good debate, I do! " Ditto. So do I. The Election thread was a really good debate and considering it was political it remained a debate and didn't turn into a slanging match. | |||
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"I live by the mantra of I'll be your friend until YOU give me a reason not to be. That applies to believing what someone says if I have no facts to dispute it or no previous evidence of them purposefully lying to me. It does leave me wide open sometimes but I'm prepared to accept that, than be overly cynical about everything and everyone." See that's generally how I go about life too. I don't really expect people to be pink and fluffy all the time and I figure we all have opinions but sometimes I think the world would be a better place if everyone had a pink fluffy day now and again. | |||
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"I live by the mantra of I'll be your friend until YOU give me a reason not to be. That applies to believing what someone says if I have no facts to dispute it or no previous evidence of them purposefully lying to me. It does leave me wide open sometimes but I'm prepared to accept that, than be overly cynical about everything and everyone. See that's generally how I go about life too. I don't really expect people to be pink and fluffy all the time and I figure we all have opinions but sometimes I think the world would be a better place if everyone had a pink fluffy day now and again. " like,like like | |||
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"Good subject....I`m thinking broadly now, but as a newby to any swinging forum, I`m wondering if "situational force" ain`t at work here a little. Mabye peeps who`ve been here a while get slightly conditioned to take peoples inventory....a plethora of liars, schemers, trolls , etc leave them with a cynical mindset .... Just musing really ......but it is apparent theres an element of jumping on the unguarded comment, and with the cynical distrust comes an adverserial tone ? Theres good here as well ...worth pointing out " I think you have hit the nail on the head OP | |||
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"I live by the mantra of I'll be your friend until YOU give me a reason not to be. That applies to believing what someone says if I have no facts to dispute it or no previous evidence of them purposefully lying to me. It does leave me wide open sometimes but I'm prepared to accept that, than be overly cynical about everything and everyone. See that's generally how I go about life too. I don't really expect people to be pink and fluffy all the time and I figure we all have opinions but sometimes I think the world would be a better place if everyone had a pink fluffy day now and again. " I had one today. My name change is pink and fluffy. I've never had such a fluffy name, maybe it will make me more fluttery and stuff | |||
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"In some ways I wish I could go back to being the "pink and fluffy" human being that I was, but life tends to teach hard lessons." Ditto above and i also like the saying from wishy - I live by the mantra of I'll be your friend until YOU give me a reason not to be. However, i disagree with most of you but please i dont mean in a fashion where i now dislike you. I only have two real friends in my life at moment my dear aunt and my mum. But do they really count as friends as they are already relatives. Since ten years old ive always struggled to trust people but because of this apparently i trust people too easily when i first meet them. Its a rebound effect or something! I just like to give everyone an equal chance in life. But with me being quite soft in past i have become quite bitter and over-defensive towards people (that includes Fab forums) over the years gradually. Especially so in past two years when i thought my friends (outside of family) were friends. But as it turns out my 'four' friends who i for the first time ever thought were my 'friends' turned out to be ...well...just people i knew. Ok, two i have demoted to 'pals' and the other two are just people i know. Ive had a tough paper round but always picked myself up and got on with it. However two years ago my world slowly began to crumble around me. I tried to fight it as im a fighter and though my friends knew what wasnt happening and what was really happening they became very distant, apart from of course when they were stuck for some kind of bend-over-backwards favour. I eventually plucked up the courage after three attempts to ask for help but they were too busy with their own lives. Yes two of them actually did say that. I broke my mobile six months ago but was able to keep same number but lost all contacts. Surprise, surprise they havent even realised im not even contacting them! My so-called friends have not once called me to simply ask, "Are you ok?" They go on nights out, days out, holidays together, drive past my house, have parties and i have never been invited. Why not you must ask! Because im having a tough time and they do not want to help one little bit. They know the tough time im having and they know very well the facts that go with it. However they also know very well that i usually remain chirpy and daft even when times are tough, so its not as if i burden them with my troubles. However before the past two years oh did they ask me for lift after lift 20miles home in the middle of any given night, or all around scotland at my expense, a roof over their head when their wives kick them out, indepth advice on...anything, taking their kids away for a day and to find they havent been given any money to pay their way - its was always at my expense. Though all i wanted/needed at the end of it was a cup of tea with milk and two sweeteners along with a daft ten minute chat about probably the last time i fell over without the influence of alcohol! Oops! (OMG this is long! Are you all still awake? OI, WAKE UP, I SAID WWAAAKKKKEEEEE UUPPP. haha) The above is only the most recent circumstance of how people i have trusted used me. This has been going on for years because im too pink and fluffy. I am weak when it come to saying 'no' to the request for help from, well, literally anyone. I have tried to change it but i cant because its me and thats that. I like me and nobody is going to change me. Im happier now in past six months as billy-no-mates. People that know me have noticed a great improvement, and one of the steps i took to even more independance six months ago was by joining Fab - WAHEY! Im happier now than ive been for a long time, but there are a few more things to fix like my tinge of bitterness and quitting smoking and using gym more when i gwet my knee sorted. I really enjoy my days out on my own driving to, well, anywhere in scotland really. I look forward to telling my mum and aunt about more beautiful countryside ive seen. Im a fighter. Im a survivor. Im a winner. So to get to the point. DG probably everyone in the world could be more pinky and fluffy but be very careful of others taking advantage of it or abusing it or not respecting it all for their own advantage with the end result. The End. By James. F**king hell. I need a smoke - NOW! | |||
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