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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save yourself a few quid and buy a man's razor, a Mach 3 turbo gives a super close shave and by magic, all those stubbly spiders legs are no more! x

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

As a man, personally I love the fur, but you can always just tidy up the edges, and give the rest a comb.

Then of you go.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I wax too, and yeah, I know what you mean about the in between phase.

I've discovered that I think it bothers me more than my play mate. Lol.

I find it only really becomes noticeable after week 2-3, and then there's only about a week of any noticeable fluff.

And in that 4th week, I do say to guys "just to let you know I'm a bit fluffier than I normally am, because I'm waiting for a wax", and every guy I've ever said that to has just brushed it off and been really nice about it. :D

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

No big deal either way

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Ah I'm trying to stick with the waxing, so no in between grooming allowed unfortunately

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"I wax too, and yeah, I know what you mean about the in between phase.

I've discovered that I think it bothers me more than my play mate. Lol.

I find it only really becomes noticeable after week 2-3, and then there's only about a week of any noticeable fluff.

And in that 4th week, I do say to guys "just to let you know I'm a bit fluffier than I normally am, because I'm waiting for a wax", and every guy I've ever said that to has just brushed it off and been really nice about it. :D"

Exactly the same as me

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Ah I'm trying to stick with the waxing, so no in between grooming allowed unfortunately "

How often do you have the wax? I go monthly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little in between phase is cool, it's when you start looking like you've got Don king down there you need to worry really...neat and short is all good

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"......and every guy I've ever said that to has just brushed it off "

PMSL

good one!

( I do tend to carry a comb rather than a brush though lol)

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"......and every guy I've ever said that to has just brushed it off

PMSL

good one!

( I do tend to carry a comb rather than a brush though lol)"

Hey! It's not that long that I need to comb it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

it's that 3rd week into the 4th, that I find is noticeable for me. Fb doesn't mind but yes, it is a whole lot different to when you are used to being smooth.

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Ah I'm trying to stick with the waxing, so no in between grooming allowed unfortunately

How often do you have the wax? I go monthly"

Same here, roughly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated "

I just use Nair sensitive hair removal cream. Fuzz free for about a week, then I can just defuzz for the next victim!

And its only about a quid a tube so way cheaper than anything except shaving! (Which I personally can't do because the stubble drives me nuts!)

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Ah I'm trying to stick with the waxing, so no in between grooming allowed unfortunately

How often do you have the wax? I go monthly

Same here, roughly"

The advice for that kind of area is no more often than 4 weeks, because the skin is so delicate.

So, not to be gross, but I have hair that grows basically down onto my thighs quite far, and in between, if that gets noticeable, I top up myself with store bought wax strips.

x

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated

I just use Nair sensitive hair removal cream. Fuzz free for about a week, then I can just defuzz for the next victim!

And its only about a quid a tube so way cheaper than anything except shaving! (Which I personally can't do because the stubble drives me nuts!)"

I had a bad experience in my lady parts with hair removal cream years ago it was sore for a week! More recently I used to use it on the bikini line and underarms but I was getting burn marks from it!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"......and every guy I've ever said that to has just brushed it off

PMSL

good one!

( I do tend to carry a comb rather than a brush though lol)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated

I just use Nair sensitive hair removal cream. Fuzz free for about a week, then I can just defuzz for the next victim!

And its only about a quid a tube so way cheaper than anything except shaving! (Which I personally can't do because the stubble drives me nuts!)

I had a bad experience in my lady parts with hair removal cream years ago it was sore for a week! More recently I used to use it on the bikini line and underarms but I was getting burn marks from it!"

Then you have either used a cream thats too strong or left it on too long!

I have also done this (chemical burn) and it bloody hurts!!

Men think they have a hard time preparing for a meet- they have no idea how much prep we do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just let the moustache on my upper lip grow, that way they don't notice that i'm due a wax in other areas.

On a serious note - as others have commented, it's never been an issue as I'd say I'm due a wax. So I wouldn't worry about it. I do wonder if it will come back less and less anyway, like leg hair after years of waxing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us we wouldn't mind, smooth fluffy trimmed hairy is fine, as long as you don't need a hedge trimmer were cool

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I just let the moustache on my upper lip grow, that way they don't notice that i'm due a wax in other areas.

On a serious note - as others have commented, it's never been an issue as I'd say I'm due a wax. So I wouldn't worry about it. I do wonder if it will come back less and less anyway, like leg hair after years of waxing.

"

that's what I'm hoping for which is why I'm being strict and not shaving in between!

I wouldn't have any problems meeting someone I already know, as I would feel comfortable enough to warm them before hand. But going to a club I know I would be thinking about it all night

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I might get ripped to pieces for this but to be honest I dnt mind

As far as I'm concerned its my body if I shave I shave, if I'm hairy I'm hairy

I do tell guys but most tell me there was no need to mention it

And any guy who TELLS me what to do with my body does not get to meet me. If a guy tells me his preference. Then I tell him when I can meet when I will be in his preferable state.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Ah I'm trying to stick with the waxing, so no in between grooming allowed unfortunately

How often do you have the wax? I go monthly

Same here, roughly

The advice for that kind of area is no more often than 4 weeks, because the skin is so delicate.

So, not to be gross, but I have hair that grows basically down onto my thighs quite far, and in between, if that gets noticeable, I top up myself with store bought wax strips.

x"

Try finding someone that used the peel type waxes like Perron Rigot, rather than the general use wax strips. The peel type waxes are designed for sensitive areas

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I might get ripped to pieces for this but to be honest I dnt mind

As far as I'm concerned its my body if I shave I shave, if I'm hairy I'm hairy

I do tell guys but most tell me there was no need to mention it

And any guy who TELLS me what to do with my body does not get to meet me. If a guy tells me his preference. Then I tell him when I can meet when I will be in his preferable state."

I like your way of doing things

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By *attyBWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable/Luton

Definately find someone who uses the peelable waxes as I find it hurts less when removing as it only sticks to the hair rather than to the skin!

I have also found that having waxing done every 4-6 weeks I am starting to grow back thinner and is easier to remove.

I went to Kestrels just before my last wax and I was more self concious about being fluffy than anyone else! Lol

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Ah I'm trying to stick with the waxing, so no in between grooming allowed unfortunately

How often do you have the wax? I go monthly

Same here, roughly

The advice for that kind of area is no more often than 4 weeks, because the skin is so delicate.

So, not to be gross, but I have hair that grows basically down onto my thighs quite far, and in between, if that gets noticeable, I top up myself with store bought wax strips.

x

Try finding someone that used the peel type waxes like Perron Rigot, rather than the general use wax strips. The peel type waxes are designed for sensitive areas "

Ooh! Will do! x

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I might get ripped to pieces for this but to be honest I dnt mind

As far as I'm concerned its my body if I shave I shave, if I'm hairy I'm hairy

I do tell guys but most tell me there was no need to mention it

And any guy who TELLS me what to do with my body does not get to meet me. If a guy tells me his preference. Then I tell him when I can meet when I will be in his preferable state."

The best way to be!!!!

xxxxx

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated "

I'm the opposite. Having NO hair, would put me off. Sorry, no offence. So, I'd appreciate the heads-up prior, if that was the case.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'm the opposite. Having NO hair, would put me off. Sorry, no offence. So, I'd appreciate the heads-up prior, if that was the case. "

I find most men ask me the "situation down there", without me ever mentioning it. Lol. I certainly don't think I'd ever volunteer the information. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no issues, I prefer hair, but if there is none, I'm still glad that I have pussy in my face! LOL!

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Thank you

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I personally couldn't care less. In fact I always mention to any women I know or are chatting to that I'd rather they didn't wax/shave.

Always their call of course but I'd much prefer them totally natural. Some women who find shaving a bit of a drag are often happy to hear that and will gladly let it grow. I feel it's quite sad that a woman would feel so self-conscious of a bit of fur on their flange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally couldn't care less. In fact I always mention to any women I know or are chatting to that I'd rather they didn't wax/shave.

Always their call of course but I'd much prefer them totally natural. Some women who find shaving a bit of a drag are often happy to hear that and will gladly let it grow. I feel it's quite sad that a woman would feel so self-conscious of a bit of fur on their flange."
ware both natural, mildred gets a lot of comments and attention from guys at clubs because she is hairy all complimentry, and we believe that a lot of ladys feel compelled to shave just to conform ,

be yourself ladys its personal choice not mandatory , hairy is appreciated by more guys than you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated "

Fanny is fanny, hairy or not

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Save yourself a few quid and buy a man's razor, a Mach 3 turbo gives a super close shave and by magic, all those stubbly spiders legs are no more! x"

Oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a hairy mary now you have hair below for a reason. If a guy does not like it tough i aint shaving it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just go for the laser treatment it never comes back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a bit of fluff.. If its quiet long then for me it just needs a tidy up otherwise im dont really mind

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated

I'm the opposite. Having NO hair, would put me off. Sorry, no offence. So, I'd appreciate the heads-up prior, if that was the case. "

you would be perfect for the in between stage

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I personally couldn't care less. In fact I always mention to any women I know or are chatting to that I'd rather they didn't wax/shave.

Always their call of course but I'd much prefer them totally natural. Some women who find shaving a bit of a drag are often happy to hear that and will gladly let it grow. I feel it's quite sad that a woman would feel so self-conscious of a bit of fur on their flange."

I nearly quoted your name in my OP Howard, as I've seen you state your preference on the matter

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I wax too, and yeah, I know what you mean about the in between phase.

I've discovered that I think it bothers me more than my play mate. Lol.

I find it only really becomes noticeable after week 2-3, and then there's only about a week of any noticeable fluff.

And in that 4th week, I do say to guys "just to let you know I'm a bit fluffier than I normally am, because I'm waiting for a wax", and every guy I've ever said that to has just brushed it off and been really nice about it. :D"

I find the same and I just tell him. He didn't mind

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated

I'm the opposite. Having NO hair, would put me off. Sorry, no offence. So, I'd appreciate the heads-up prior, if that was the case.

you would be perfect for the in between stage "

Lol. I need enough down there so it 'moves' when I run my fingers through it. So, there needs to be more than just stubble or fluff, or a week's growth! I like my pussy to look like a pussy should (in my mind)

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I personally couldn't care less. In fact I always mention to any women I know or are chatting to that I'd rather they didn't wax/shave.

Always their call of course but I'd much prefer them totally natural. Some women who find shaving a bit of a drag are often happy to hear that and will gladly let it grow. I feel it's quite sad that a woman would feel so self-conscious of a bit of fur on their flange.

I nearly quoted your name in my OP Howard, as I've seen you state your preference on the matter "

I do seem to show up in every hairy pussy/pussy shaving thread going!

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Think your worrying over nothing girl, a quick I'm due a wax before the big reveal isn't a big deal.an out of control bush is just impolite unless stated but any man who can't accept a bit of stubble can't be worth the effort in the first place

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Can I just day that all you ladies who wax deserve a medal...I only ever waxed once and I thought the pain was unbearable I literally had to leave half way through the process

Anna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does it really matter tbh

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By *eanut Butter Cup OP   Woman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Can I just day that all you ladies who wax deserve a medal...I only ever waxed once and I thought the pain was unbearable I literally had to leave half way through the process

Anna "

I think I'm weird.. I actually enjoy the pain

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


"Can I just day that all you ladies who wax deserve a medal...I only ever waxed once and I thought the pain was unbearable I literally had to leave half way through the process

Anna

I think I'm weird.. I actually enjoy the pain "

Can I just say that waxing does not qualify as brave, nor do you survive a wax. The beutician does not carve her name with pride. It is a vanity thing that is also done by men....so it is not up there with the sufragettes.

Having said that, if you have waxed it's not going to grow back like Steptoes chin it will be a little fluff though maybe a bit more grey than it was. So, I don't think it matters. If you'd shaved that would be a different matter. It might even be quite sweet and suedey...

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Can I just say that id rather go through child birth again than get waxed !!! And that is something my dear you can't really comment on !! Without meaning you any offence

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Now I know some men don't mind a hairy fanny, but for me, I've always been one to get rid of it all pre-meet.

However I've started going for waxes, and you obviously have to leave a bit of time between them. So there's this annoying in between phase, and I feel like I only a have a week max of smoothness in which to arrange stuff before I become nun-like again!

Ladies - would you meet or go to clubs if you were in this mid-phase and would you give a heads up to the person you were about to play with?

Guys - would this be an issue for you, or am I just worrying for nothing?

All thoughts appreciated "

Epilate. Less painful and just as smooth as waxing. No razor burn. Still have to be careful about ingrowing hairs, which drive me insane!

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Can I just day that all you ladies who wax deserve a medal...I only ever waxed once and I thought the pain was unbearable I literally had to leave half way through the process

Anna

I think I'm weird.. I actually enjoy the pain

Can I just say that waxing does not qualify as brave, nor do you survive a wax. The beutician does not carve her name with pride. It is a vanity thing that is also done by men....so it is not up there with the sufragettes.

Having said that, if you have waxed it's not going to grow back like Steptoes chin it will be a little fluff though maybe a bit more grey than it was. So, I don't think it matters. If you'd shaved that would be a different matter. It might even be quite sweet and suedey..."

Did yours change colour too. I'm a natural redhead... Not so much after a wax! Not happy!

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I can't comment on childbirth but I can on waxing and if childbirth is that minor I dont see why women make all the fuss...actually, I do kknoow what labour pains are like because my ex and I both had food poisoning and she said the stomach cramps were just like them...I'd prefer a full body wax to that. xxx

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