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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed this morning that a number of people are being very aggressive and argumentative today. Perhaps people need to be more accepting of others opposing _iews and tastes. A more accepting attitude and positive manner would make the start to this newly minted year a great deal more pleasant.

So to this end I think we should have group hugs and a big love in so post here something nice about the person above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more!! I noticed this alot yesterday. Maybe it was the hangovers?

Something nice about you op? Errr nice hammer

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Ooh nice toes curvygirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed this morning that a number of people are being very aggressive and argumentative today. Perhaps people need to be more accepting of others opposing _iews and tastes. A more accepting attitude and positive manner would make the start to this newly minted year a great deal more pleasant.

So to this end I think we should have group hugs and a big love in so post here something nice about the person above"

I don't agree

Can I have a feel of your bum and I will reconsider??

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I do like a nice bum shot

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

I was tempted to reply with a sarcastic fuck off but that would probably get me a ban.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone is entitled to my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh nice toes curvygirl "

Thanks. Your bums not so bad either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. What if the "aggressive" post is a reply to a closed-minded post?

Do two negatives then turn into a positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to you all.......

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Sending love and posative thoughts out to all!! Mwwaahh! Make love not war I say!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual temptress has a big heart......it is purple and gets in the way of some pics...but it is quite cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what happens when the football argument gets opened

It's all in good spirits everyone just wants to fuck each other anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends. What if the "aggressive" post is a reply to a closed-minded post?

Do two negatives then turn into a positive "

Or is it just double the negativity?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed this morning that a number of people are being very aggressive and argumentative today. Perhaps people need to be more accepting of others opposing _iews and tastes. A more accepting attitude and positive manner would make the start to this newly minted year a great deal more pleasant.

So to this end I think we should have group hugs and a big love in so post here something nice about the person above"

The forums have always stirred up emotions. I have seen very innocent threads, turn into real wars of words.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's what happens when the football argument gets opened

It's all in good spirits everyone just wants to fuck each other anyway "

Its not just the football thread!

I think people are grumpy that Christmas is over and the day job / credit card bill will be here soon. Group hugs are a lot more fun than shouty posts

*sits in the corner with crossed legs* ommmmmmm

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Ooh nice toes curvygirl

Thanks. Your bums not so bad either "

Oh you smooth talker

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I was tempted to reply with a sarcastic fuck off but that would probably get me a ban.

"

Now now.....

You look totally kissable and well you OP loving your positive vibes this morning.

Group Hugs all around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooh nice toes curvygirl

Thanks. Your bums not so bad either

Oh you smooth talker "

Hey, a girls gotta try......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning all, I have earache so need some hugs please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Group hugs are a lot more fun than shouty posts

"

But a lot less interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the point of an open mind to accept all points of _iew, be they placative, fawning, angry or aggressive.

An open mind allows someone to consider all opinions, even the ones they personally don't like - not to tell a few people to take a draw from the 'Forum Bong' and chill out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the point of an open mind to accept all points of _iew, be they placative, fawning, angry or aggressive.

An open mind allows someone to consider all opinions, even the ones they personally don't like - not to tell a few people to take a draw from the 'Forum Bong' and chill out!

"

And the prize for the buzz kill post goes to...!

People are entitled to their anger and resentment but it needs channeling correctly. Snapping at someone who holds _iews different to your own is just pointlessly negative.

And professor, its clear that you're an intelligent and articulate forumite, I always enjoy your input

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


" Group hugs are a lot more fun than shouty posts

But a lot less interesting "
scarlet has some great wet t shirt shots????!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always just try to let negativity go over my head and keep spreading the positive vibes maybe people are having a bad day and then something hits a nerve. Xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Surely the point of an open mind to accept all points of _iew, be they placative, fawning, angry or aggressive.

An open mind allows someone to consider all opinions, even the ones they personally don't like - not to tell a few people to take a draw from the 'Forum Bong' and chill out!

And the prize for the buzz kill post goes to...!

People are entitled to their anger and resentment but it needs channeling correctly. Snapping at someone who holds _iews different to your own is just pointlessly negative.

And professor, its clear that you're an intelligent and articulate forumite, I always enjoy your input"

and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all, I have earache so need some hugs please "

Hugs hun. Earache is the worst. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the point of an open mind to accept all points of _iew, be they placative, fawning, angry or aggressive.

An open mind allows someone to consider all opinions, even the ones they personally don't like - not to tell a few people to take a draw from the 'Forum Bong' and chill out!

And the prize for the buzz kill post goes to...!

People are entitled to their anger and resentment but it needs channeling correctly. Snapping at someone who holds _iews different to your own is just pointlessly negative.

And professor, its clear that you're an intelligent and articulate forumite, I always enjoy your input"

Id suggest that as a new category for the Forum awards, 2016!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all, I have earache so need some hugs please

Hugs hun. Earache is the worst. Xx"

Thank you, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all, I have earache so need some hugs please

Hugs hun. Earache is the worst. Xx

Thank you, much appreciated

"

Anytime hun. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the point of an open mind to accept all points of _iew, be they placative, fawning, angry or aggressive.

An open mind allows someone to consider all opinions, even the ones they personally don't like - not to tell a few people to take a draw from the 'Forum Bong' and chill out!

And the prize for the buzz kill post goes to...!

People are entitled to their anger and resentment but it needs channeling correctly. Snapping at someone who holds _iews different to your own is just pointlessly negative.

And professor, its clear that you're an intelligent and articulate forumite, I always enjoy your input

Id suggest that as a new category for the Forum awards, 2016!

"

Is that what provoked the ire? Chin up fella, I didn't get nominated either. I'll buy you a pint, how does that sound?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am always chilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am always chilled "

Like a fine white wine?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I am always chilled

Like a fine white wine?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed this morning that a number of people are being very aggressive and argumentative today. Perhaps people need to be more accepting of others opposing _iews and tastes. A more accepting attitude and positive manner would make the start to this newly minted year a great deal more pleasant.

So to this end I think we should have group hugs and a big love in so post here something nice about the person above"
yes happy new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the point of an open mind to accept all points of _iew, be they placative, fawning, angry or aggressive.

An open mind allows someone to consider all opinions, even the ones they personally don't like - not to tell a few people to take a draw from the 'Forum Bong' and chill out!

And the prize for the buzz kill post goes to...!

People are entitled to their anger and resentment but it needs channeling correctly. Snapping at someone who holds _iews different to your own is just pointlessly negative.

And professor, its clear that you're an intelligent and articulate forumite, I always enjoy your input

Id suggest that as a new category for the Forum awards, 2016!

Is that what provoked the ire? Chin up fella, I didn't get nominated either. I'll buy you a pint, how does that sound?"

What ire? I'm not sure what ire you're referring to, but it's not mine!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the point of an open mind to accept all points of _iew, be they placative, fawning, angry or aggressive.

An open mind allows someone to consider all opinions, even the ones they personally don't like - not to tell a few people to take a draw from the 'Forum Bong' and chill out!

And the prize for the buzz kill post goes to...!

People are entitled to their anger and resentment but it needs channeling correctly. Snapping at someone who holds _iews different to your own is just pointlessly negative.

And professor, its clear that you're an intelligent and articulate forumite, I always enjoy your input

Id suggest that as a new category for the Forum awards, 2016!

Is that what provoked the ire? Chin up fella, I didn't get nominated either. I'll buy you a pint, how does that sound?

What ire? I'm not sure what ire you're referring to, but it's not mine!

"

I'm joking, its clear that you're not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2016 is shaping up to be the most aggressive Fab year yet by the look of some of the posts going on.

It's only a handful of mood hoovers who do it though. Perhaps it's the post holiday blues?

Merry New year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more OP it seems like people are being a little too quick to judge each other

If people don't like what they see there is no reason to get out their box about it just don't look at it eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"2016 is shaping up to be the most aggressive Fab year yet by the look of some of the posts going on.

It's only a handful of mood hoovers who do it though. Perhaps it's the post holiday blues?

Merry New year! "

I agree, trying to keep this small corner of a foreign field forever cheery, or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something nice about the poster above... He seems like a happy chappy.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am still very chilled

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I am still very chilled "

a man who knows what he doesnt want.. i like that strength of character x

big hugs and joy to will and all those on this thread xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I am still very chilled

a man who knows what he doesnt want.. i like that strength of character x

big hugs and joy to will and all those on this thread xx"

a start of a new year and it's been great thus far and it's going to continue

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

A man who seems to have a positive spin on most things, chilled and relaxed, happy in his life, this one forumite I would like to meet one day

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I like everybody - even the idiots, sorry, lonely men who fail to read my profile xxxx

Hugs and kisses to everyone xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see that too OP. Lots of people jumping down throats over an honest question or saying or loud that they love to lick toilet seats

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london


"Something nice about the poster above... He seems like a happy chappy. "

Agreed, shame he doesn't have a predilection for trannies and live in my 'basement'.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Something nice about the poster above... He seems like a happy chappy.

Agreed, shame he doesn't have a predilection for trannies and live in my 'basement'."

What lovely long legs you have there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wishing for people to be accepting of other random opinions on a forum, ain't gonna happen!

Way too many strong, opinionated characters on here, still it's passes the time..

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london


"Something nice about the poster above... He seems like a happy chappy.

Agreed, shame he doesn't have a predilection for trannies and live in my 'basement'.

What lovely long legs you have there "

You're too kind. And fully scrummy kudos to your good self

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Wishing for people to be accepting of other random opinions on a forum, ain't gonna happen!

Way too many strong, opinionated characters on here, still it's passes the time.. "

Surely acceptance of other people's opinions is what makes us stronger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wishing for people to be accepting of other random opinions on a forum, ain't gonna happen!

Way too many strong, opinionated characters on here, still it's passes the time..

Surely acceptance of other people's opinions is what makes us stronger "

"There is no wiser man than he that's says 'i know nothing'"

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

hey lovely looking forward to seeing you at the birthday party..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Wishing for people to be accepting of other random opinions on a forum, ain't gonna happen!

Way too many strong, opinionated characters on here, still it's passes the time..

Surely acceptance of other people's opinions is what makes us stronger

"There is no wiser man than he that's says 'i know nothing'""

Manuel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is far too much hatred in the world today. We are all here to have fun. Bring back the love for the world that's what I say

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Bring back the love for the world that's what I say "

Have you ever even looked at any history books?

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Sending you all a huuuuuge fluffy New Year hug

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Bring back the love for the world that's what I say

Have you ever even looked at any history books? "

That's not very nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hey lovely looking forward to seeing you at the birthday party.."

And I you! Cant wait x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"hey lovely looking forward to seeing you at the birthday party..

And I you! Cant wait x"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Bring back the love for the world that's what I say

Have you ever even looked at any history books?

That's not very nice "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hey lovely looking forward to seeing you at the birthday party..

And I you! Cant wait x "

Will you be around for pre drinks?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"hey lovely looking forward to seeing you at the birthday party..

And I you! Cant wait x

Will you be around for pre drinks?"

didnt know there were any..is that in st neots?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hey lovely looking forward to seeing you at the birthday party..

And I you! Cant wait x

Will you be around for pre drinks?

didnt know there were any..is that in st neots?"
I believe its at the premier inn!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"hey lovely looking forward to seeing you at the birthday party..

And I you! Cant wait x

Will you be around for pre drinks?

didnt know there were any..is that in st neots? I believe its at the premier inn! "

hehe pm me x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I've noticed this morning that a number of people are being very aggressive and argumentative today. Perhaps people need to be more accepting of others opposing _iews and tastes. A more accepting attitude and positive manner would make the start to this newly minted year a great deal more pleasant.

So to this end I think we should have group hugs and a big love in so post here something nice about the person above"

This is the attitude the Australian forums adopted.

It's a slippery slope.

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