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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok - so, after several offers, we accept an invitation to a small, intimate party (3 couples) - we arrive fresh and in the festive spirit - a few naughty card games and everyone is getting on great. Then, because his partner has had too much to drink, the host just "calls it off". In other words - all out please - at which point my hubby (who is driving) has to down 3 pints of water to try and sober up (totally impossible to get a taxi) before driving home. Not impressed and something we would never do i.e please feel free to sleep it off or whatever - are we wrong here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put it mildly,I'd be pissed off

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I'd be hacked off, that's well out of order!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be jolly well vexed and given the time.of year such a risk driving home

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

It's a private party; the hosts can call it off at any point:

It's not like a commercial club which effectively enters into a " contract" by charging for admission.

You obviously know nothing about alcohol, it's effects and driving:

If one of you was driving; " downing 3 pints of water in an effort to " sober up" is of no use: once you have ingested alcohol; it is burned out of the body at a constant rate whatever you eat or drink.

so one of you should be able to drive ( by not drinking)

So chalk the whole thing up to experience.

From my experience, if the " hostess " got too pissed ; I expect actually she is not into swinging, does it because she is forced to; gets pissed to cope with it.

I have encountered this scenario before; it is nearly ( perhaps is) organized rape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was she pissed when you turned up ? Or well on the way ?

If so, I'd have held back on the drinking myself - just in case

But yes, not a nice position to be put in

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Although its their place so their rules i would be a tad annoyed with it.

Perhaps make arrangements with the third couple at a hotel ? Still have a fun night

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Always have an exit plan (sober driver)

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