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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

Never had this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

None really in nine years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none .........yet and not cos we say to anybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had women get nasty on me mind and for no reason just because you dared to ask a question

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

There are a few guys take umbrage when you say no.. then get abusive or call names.. only happened couple of times since I have been here.

Think somehow when you older and fatter they think they doing a favour..if you say no they feel bruised.

poor sensitive souls..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lmao maybe it's just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet.

Though I do get the "oh but I thought I'd message on the off chance in case you were meeting/why aren't you meeting" messages when my profile states that I'm not... Someone whined to try to guilt trip me into a threesome the other week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

Shut up and get in the van!

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

what about us single guy we get abusive messages as well??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are a few guys take umbrage when you say no.. then get abusive or call names.. only happened couple of times since I have been here.

Think somehow when you older and fatter they think they doing a favour..if you say no they feel bruised.

poor sensitive souls..

Yeah seems that way, and they get personal with the insults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it a couple of times so now just block after a polite no thanks. Don't need immature crap like that, this is supposed to be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never had an abusive message. Usually get a message back saying " thanks for the reply" (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had one so a piece of my mind n blocked the low life feels grate to get last word in, n to top it off never met him or seen him in my life the cunt, sorry for the swearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi beastly,

We have had a few,report and block,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once had a woman mail me with a very long hateful speech & total abuse becuase i dared to look at her profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Latest one I had was "well you ain't my type anyway" well umm if that's the case why ask to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once. Easily blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I realise guys get it too

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Ive been called "Timewaster" because I like to message a few times ...on one occasion it became clear he wasn't my type...

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

Yes we have so we blocked the guy thinking that was the end of it only to receive a message from his abusive girlfriend saying "who the fu.k do you think you you are blocking my boyfriend"!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

Yes we have so we blocked the guy thinking that was the end of it only to receive a message from his abusive girlfriend saying "who the fu.k do you think you you are blocking my boyfriend"!!!! :* "
hope u blocked her too

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have had loads over the years but mainly from men I have never spoke to before never mind rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh.. Not something i suffer with. must be tough being a woman on here.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

if i say no to scouse she can get very abusive

shields

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

TBH sweetie I think she got in first, but you have to laugh at how desperate some people are on here !!!! But has anyone ever bumped into someone that they have blocked at a club... We have..pretty embarrassing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, many times and several today !

Usually if they are the complete opposite of what my preferences are (as clearly written on my profile)

They seem to think i will say "yes please" cus they are so perfect

I block them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few and some were very nasty but thank fully not many lately

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Not something we've ever experienced.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice a while back but nothing major

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had it a few times over the years on my old profile and some random abuse having never spoken to the person before. Some sad immature individuals who have no manners, no respect and no self confidence. No one who is happy in their life feels the need to be nasty to others.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I have that's one of the reasons I block ALL men x same old story of the knobheads on here spoiling it for the normals x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet.

Didn't I whine enough then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naw. Most guys are rather nice after a "no, thank you."

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had abuse for turning a couple down, so it's not just guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Latest one I had was "well you ain't my type anyway" well umm if that's the case why ask to meet?

I had the same once. I just thought, why put the effort into messaging someone you don't want to meet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Latest one I had was "well you ain't my type anyway" well umm if that's the case why ask to meet?

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the problem is you don't really know until you get the first abusive message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw. Most guys are rather nice after a "no, thank you."

-Courtney"

Fuck you ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw. Most guys are rather nice after a "no, thank you."

-Courtney

Fuck you ho!"

Marc just wasn't that into you.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from a 'No thank you'. But twice I've reviewed a message out of the blue telling me I'm a saggy, fat mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not from a 'No thank you'. But twice I've reviewed a message out of the blue telling me I'm a saggy, fat mess

Received*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I say no I normally get that I'm fat and ugly blah blah blah ..... ok now tell me summat I didn't already know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes n was told to go back to my country! Im was born in UK!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs has had a few nasty replies cause she's said "no thanks", obviously some guys can't take rejection, if I get a "no thanks" I will just delete and block so I don't message again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw. Most guys are rather nice after a "no, thank you."

-Courtney

Fuck you ho!

Marc just wasn't that into you.

-Courtney"

Errmmmm, I think you're just a little jealous of mine and Marc's bromance.

And so you should... this shit is getting pretty serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened twice to us. One of them we didnt even say no to, he read our profile and realised it ruled him out so sent us an abusive message about how we shouldnt be fussy cause we're nothing special.

The other wanted my wife to play with his nipples while he fucked her. I told him she has no interest in guys nipples and wouldnt so he said he would play with his own. I was very honest and said that would remind her of the perv at the window in little nicky and she would probably laugh, although slightly more politely than that and he said "fuck off then" and blocked us

We had not at any point even agreed to meet him at that point by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naw. Most guys are rather nice after a "no, thank you."

-Courtney

Fuck you ho!

Marc just wasn't that into you.

-Courtney

Errmmmm, I think you're just a little jealous of mine and Marc's bromance.

And so you should... this shit is getting pretty serious."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes n was told to go back to my country! Im was born in UK!!

Oh ffs some people really are assholes

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Yes but off another site a few years ago now, got rather nasty after a single meet and refused to meet again. Became abusive threatening etc not something I'd like to repeat again....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ... and sometimes, if I'm in a real pissy mood, I wish someone would. What a way to get it out of my system

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So curious, how many women/couples have guys get abusive cause you've said "No"?

None in seven years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only to be expected. Block, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time I hate it .so blocked loads and hidden pics .

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We've had none, always been respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've had none, always been respectful."

I have as well but there is some real nasty idiots on fab as in life .

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