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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That was an interesting thread title wasn't it?

I've only been fortunate enough to experience the delights of a tongue tenderly loving my anus on a couple of occasions, but as I anticipated it was going to happen on both occasions, I made a point of washing and cleaning thoroughly beforehand.

What got me wondering though, is that neither giver checked with me, and both just went for it, meaning that if I HADN'T have washed beforehand, would they still have gone for it? It got me wondering, is it generally thought that in the (perhaps literal) dirtiness of rimming, the fact that a persons arsehole is most likely going to smell and taste like dried shit just comes with the territory?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

"

he must mean douching

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

"

You'd have thought so, wouldn't you.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

"

I tend to wash everywhere when I shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it warrants a shower including washing via a finger up the bum

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

I tend to wash everywhere when I shower"
I thought most people did lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

he must mean douching"

Ideally I try to wash prior to every meet anyway, but you know how sometimes you simply have not had the opportunity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

I tend to wash everywhere when I shower"

You've obviously got far too much money to spend on stuff like soap and sponges!

Show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

he must mean douching

Ideally I try to wash prior to every meet anyway, but you know how sometimes you simply have not had the opportunity?"

I've never done rimming or had it done. I meet a couple of guys straight after work so I haven't showered since the morning. That means oral is also off the menu xx

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Lmao fair point "

"LMAO" but did you wash it first lol !!! ??

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I know what you mean. Personally, I dont rim..I just wouldn't trust a man to have cleaned properly... I have had men rim me but it doesnt really do much for me but I know that I have douched thoroughly...and then washed with soap inside and out..some men shower and their cocks still smell of cheese and fish so why should the back be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't feel comfortable being rimmed if I wasn't clean downstairs, same goes for getting a gobble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does no one use wet wipes?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

I tend to wash everywhere when I shower

You've obviously got far too much money to spend on stuff like soap and sponges!

Show off "

Nah I just use my crumpets as a sponge

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

lol lib...takes more than a wetwipe.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How can anyone go on a meet for sex without washing and if you did any couldn't you wash at the destination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol lib...takes more than a wetwipe."

Meh, guys are more hairier than gals - I'd happily rim any of my ex girlfriends shower or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't washing your bottom come with washing everything else?

I tend to wash everywhere when I shower

You've obviously got far too much money to spend on stuff like soap and sponges!

Show off

Nah I just use my crumpets as a sponge "

Mmmmmmm.......yeasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can anyone go on a meet for sex without washing and if you did any couldn't you wash at the destination."

You could even discreetly freshen up in the bathroom without having a full wash. Even if I've showered recently, I'd still do this anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can anyone go on a meet for sex without washing and if you did any couldn't you wash at the destination."

I do wash it just doesn't feel the same as being straight out the shower..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao fair point

"LMAO" but did you wash it first lol !!! ?? "

Well of course, I'm always squeaky clean

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"How can anyone go on a meet for sex without washing and if you did any couldn't you wash at the destination.

I do wash it just doesn't feel the same as being straight out the shower.."
can you not have a shower there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can anyone go on a meet for sex without washing and if you did any couldn't you wash at the destination.

I do wash it just doesn't feel the same as being straight out the shower..can you not have a shower there?

"

When I can I do obviously. I have showered that morning and washed when I get there. Not all meets just sometimes. I usually insist on a shower first.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Im talking about front bottom here but they dont appear aware that they smell..they dont clean under foreskins..foreskins are fine but they have to be pulled back and the glans cleaned thoroughly...otherwise cheesy stuff remains..thats mi lot its gross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can anyone go on a meet for sex without washing and if you did any couldn't you wash at the destination.

You could even discreetly freshen up in the bathroom without having a full wash. Even if I've showered recently, I'd still do this anyway. "

Snob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im talking about front bottom here but they dont appear aware that they smell..they dont clean under foreskins..foreskins are fine but they have to be pulled back and the glans cleaned thoroughly...otherwise cheesy stuff remains..thats mi lot its gross "

Seriously, what sort of guys are you meeting? I mean, it's hardly rocket science or even time consuming to properly wash your penis - lather up, roll the foreskin back, wash all around the head and shaft, rinse it off, done - it takes about ten seconds...

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft


" Seriously, what sort of guys are you meeting? I mean, it's hardly rocket science or even time consuming to properly wash your penis - lather up, roll the foreskin back, wash all around the head and shaft, rinse it off, done - it takes about ten seconds... "

That's just it...its not a 10 second job...if youve been at work, wanking... or out walking all day or whatever it can take several washings to get rid of smells. Blokes who have had a shower still smell fishy...you need to wash two or three times. Look I'm abouit three feet closer than you are. Its right up close. sorry about this but it needs saying you need to wipe around the glans with your fingers and sniff...

men who think they are clean actually are not...and the goes for the occasional woman...(what sort of trouble am I in now???

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Personally I think it warrants a shower including washing via a finger up the bum "

Or a toilet brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just assume that the guy had showered before he came to me. If he wanted to shower again in mine he could because being up a guys arse is important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd just assume that the guy had showered before he came to me. If he wanted to shower again in mine he could because being up a guys arse is important to me. "

It is important, there should be a box for it on E-harmony really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there is a protocol to follow.... Just good old fashioned manners for pleasure giving.....

1. Shower and clean the site throughly

Including excess hair removal

2.Light diet the day before and avoid gassy food - evacuate bowels before encounter

3. If u r in a situation of no availability to washing facilities before engagement - ensure u have a non scented mini packet of wet wipes and use them throughly

Job done ....

Miss Manners

Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I insist on carrying out a full scratch n sniff test before committing myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just lick it clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just lick it clean "

Dirty bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always clean thoroughly down there, and everywhere else. I've never had a meet where I didn't shower and get ready beforehand. If I did, then that would be off limits.

I guess I just always assumed you ask first. I've always been asked first, anyway Maybe I just look like the type a guy feels he needs to ask

-Courtney

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Doesn't anyone just floss with a towel anymore?

This post was sponsored by tonguefirmlyincheek productions

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Douche first choice

Shower second

Good going over with those wet toilet tissue things third

Quite like being rimmed while in the shower

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Douching and thorough anal wash... If you have any respect.

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