FabSwingers.com forum: Cheats

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you "
you may think differently in 10, 20 years. Life gives you a wealth of experience and we evolve as do our opinions and assessments of others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Define cheating ..

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it "

I'm inclined to agree.

Swinging isn't about cheating, and cheating isn't a nice thing to do or have done to you.

No, i'm not here to 'judge' but that doesn't mean I'm here to condone things I disagree with either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Life is rarely cut and dried and you probably know that. I believe you're being deliberately provocative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it "

But you messaged me earlier OP

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

And neither are we the slightest interested in your opinions or moral stance....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

But you messaged me earlier OP

You messaged me and I replied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it "

In broad terms I tend to agree. But I don't like the judgemental tone of the post. I will judge anyone who invites it but am not so keen on blanket judgement

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney"

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think there's any need to make judgements on strangers. If you're not interested in meeting married people that's absolutely fine. Do what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was 30 i had a young baby and another not even thought of - never swung and thought i was happy enough - even then i wouldnt have said what you just did - nobody has the right to judge anothers reason for doing things -

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

But you messaged me earlier OP

Lolol

I think that's called " hoist on your own petard "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney"

Attention, probably.

And those bear socks are adorable Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And anyone who doesn't know when to use 'their' - shame on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

But you messaged me earlier OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

In broad terms I tend to agree. But I don't like the judgemental tone of the post. I will judge anyone who invites it but am not so keen on blanket judgement"

If you don't want to be with someone I think you should finish it ,you don't have to shag behind there back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only life were black and white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for "

The forums are for discussion, yeah. And you are allowed to discuss this, of course.

But starting a thread just to "shame" people says a lot about you, too.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

But you messaged me earlier OP

She messaged me over a previous post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for

The forums are for discussion, yeah. And you are allowed to discuss this, of course.

But starting a thread just to "shame" people says a lot about you, too.

-Courtney"

No one is asking you to comment on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

But you messaged me earlier OP

Lolol

I think that's called " hoist on your own petard "

PMSL"

No, he's right. I messaged and he replied, but it was too good to pass up.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Define cheating .."

Shagging,without the consent or knowledge of your spouse or partner.

Deception of your nearest and dearest,with the intent of receiving a shag,outwith said relationship.

Hoping that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Attention, probably.

And those bear socks are adorable Courtney

Why thank you! I took the pick in honor of Howard's socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

In broad terms I tend to agree. But I don't like the judgemental tone of the post. I will judge anyone who invites it but am not so keen on blanket judgement

If you don't want to be with someone I think you should finish it ,you don't have to shag behind there back "

* their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for

The forums are for discussion, yeah. And you are allowed to discuss this, of course.

But starting a thread just to "shame" people says a lot about you, too.

-Courtney

No one is asking you to comment on it "

You are asking people to comment on it. You posted it on a public forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate cheating too, but OP, please jump off your high horse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel better now you've got that off your chest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

In broad terms I tend to agree. But I don't like the judgemental tone of the post. I will judge anyone who invites it but am not so keen on blanket judgement

If you don't want to be with someone I think you should finish it ,you don't have to shag behind there back "

Like I said, I don't disagree with the sentiment.

But blanket judgements are never a good thing. We all have our own moral code and it's not right to judge others if they haven;t invited it. As others have said, doing so seems deliberately provocative

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for "

No, they are for advice , questions , a bit of fun, and debate.

You didn't debate; you just gave an unsolicited opinion and judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Attention, probably.

And those bear socks are adorable Courtney

Why thank you! I took the pick in honor of Howard's socks

I got some new Batman socks for Christmas... I might have to follow the trend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for "

It's fine to make bold statements; but it's also best to justify/ qualify them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define cheating ..

Shagging,without the consent or knowledge of your spouse or partner.

Deception of your nearest and dearest,with the intent of receiving a shag,outwith said relationship.

Hoping that helps.

So you have to 'shag' to cheat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and as ive said so many times before - how will you know -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might be the steroids..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for

The forums are for discussion, yeah. And you are allowed to discuss this, of course.

But starting a thread just to "shame" people says a lot about you, too.

-Courtney

No one is asking you to comment on it "

Right. But you're missing my point. Whether I comment or not, it still says something about you that you would post this just to shame people.

That is why I asked why you brought it up. Your answer didn't really help my opinion. But then, you probably don't care about my opinion anyway.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"might be the steroids.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for

The forums are for discussion, yeah. And you are allowed to discuss this, of course.

But starting a thread just to "shame" people says a lot about you, too.

-Courtney

No one is asking you to comment on it

You are asking people to comment on it. You posted it on a public forum.

I'm not asking anyone to comment on it ,it's your choice to comment not mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"might be the steroids..

No not yet ,bout 10th of Jan I'll be on them ,so god help yeh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is up to them, maibe they just find hubby to be boring in bed, so looking for fresh meat lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for

The forums are for discussion, yeah. And you are allowed to discuss this, of course.

But starting a thread just to "shame" people says a lot about you, too.

-Courtney

No one is asking you to comment on it

You are asking people to comment on it. You posted it on a public forum.

I'm not asking anyone to comment on it ,it's your choice to comment not mine "

Alright. You're INVITING people to comment on it by posting it on a public forum.

Is that better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But blanket judgements are never a good thing."

Isn't that a blanket judgement of blanket judgements?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it "

There doesn't have to be an excuse, but maybe a reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Define cheating ..

Shagging,without the consent or knowledge of your spouse or partner.

Deception of your nearest and dearest,with the intent of receiving a shag,outwith said relationship.

Hoping that helps.

So you have to 'shag' to cheat?"

Shag ,kiss etc ,come on you know what cheating is

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Define cheating ..

Shagging,without the consent or knowledge of your spouse or partner.

Deception of your nearest and dearest,with the intent of receiving a shag,outwith said relationship.

Hoping that helps.

So you have to 'shag' to cheat?"

No: I usually have a spare King or Ace up my sleeve, or do a false shuffle or fake cut , before dealing.

Marking cards subtly with a fingernail works well too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

But you messaged me earlier OP

Lolol

I think that's called " hoist on your own petard "

PMSL

No, he's right. I messaged and he replied, but it was too good to pass up.

Nice way to mug him off. Weren't you voted 'most wonderful woman' or some shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define cheating ..

Shagging,without the consent or knowledge of your spouse or partner.

Deception of your nearest and dearest,with the intent of receiving a shag,outwith said relationship.

Hoping that helps.

So you have to 'shag' to cheat?

Shag ,kiss etc ,come on you know what cheating is "

You were ask to define cheating and only referred to shagging. Hence my comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

I'm inclined to agree.

Swinging isn't about cheating, and cheating isn't a nice thing to do or have done to you.

No, i'm not here to 'judge' but that doesn't mean I'm here to condone things I disagree with either. "

Well said both of you! People take vows and should stick to them or divorce! Even if kids are involved ...walk away. I did and my kids are better off for it. There is no pain like finding out the person you adore and love is cheating! Wait till its done to you lot who's against the OP and see how it makes you feel! Hopefully you never will feel that pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you "

To be honest it's nobody's business but their (including my) own - really not in need of moral guidance thank you.

If you don't like cheaters and that person is honest on their profile just pass them by or block.

But since you're so good at passing judgement, here have a stone and an 'A' brand while you're at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also, due to receiving inboxes off this thread, NO I'm not cheating. I'm very much single.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Define cheating ..

Shagging,without the consent or knowledge of your spouse or partner.

Deception of your nearest and dearest,with the intent of receiving a shag,outwith said relationship.

Hoping that helps.

So you have to 'shag' to cheat?

Shag ,kiss etc ,come on you know what cheating is

You were ask to define cheating and only referred to shagging. Hence my comment"

Yeh OK a game of golf together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least be honest. It's annoying having to deal with hurt partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is rarely cut and dried and you probably know that. I believe you're being deliberately provocative."

This xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you

To be honest it's nobody's business but their (including my) own - really not in need of moral guidance thank you.

If you don't like cheaters and that person is honest on their profile just pass them by or block.

But since you're so good at passing judgement, here have a stone and an 'A' brand while you're at it!

Ooh I'll throw it right through the window ,thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you

To be honest it's nobody's business but their (including my) own - really not in need of moral guidance thank you.

If you don't like cheaters and that person is honest on their profile just pass them by or block.

But since you're so good at passing judgement, here have a stone and an 'A' brand while you're at it!

Ooh I'll throw it right through the window ,thanks

PMSL you're going to be even more of a charmer once you're on steroids aren't you?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

I'm inclined to agree.

Swinging isn't about cheating, and cheating isn't a nice thing to do or have done to you.

No, i'm not here to 'judge' but that doesn't mean I'm here to condone things I disagree with either.

It is horrible for that to happen, agreed. However I don't feel the need to judge total strangers. I'm concerned with my own business. Other people who have zero affect on my life are not my business. We all have our own moral standards. Mine won't be the same as yours and vice versa but it makes no odds to me where yours are and I'd guess, vice versa.

It's all very well opening a thread to discuss something but to make a statement and follow it with nothing else makes me think it's simply to provoke a reaction. Job done as far as I can see but there's really not much room for discussion on a topic when it commences with a blunt statement from one side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you

To be honest it's nobody's business but their (including my) own - really not in need of moral guidance thank you.

If you don't like cheaters and that person is honest on their profile just pass them by or block.

But since you're so good at passing judgement, here have a stone and an 'A' brand while you're at it!

Ooh I'll throw it right through the window ,thanks

PMSL you're going to be even more of a charmer once you're on steroids aren't you?

I'll just lock myself in a padded room when I get road rage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*roid. "You're welcome...."

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Define cheating ..

Shagging,without the consent or knowledge of your spouse or partner.

Deception of your nearest and dearest,with the intent of receiving a shag,outwith said relationship.

Hoping that helps.

So you have to 'shag' to cheat?

Shag ,kiss etc ,come on you know what cheating is

You were ask to define cheating and only referred to shagging. Hence my comment"

Ooops!!My apologies,I assumed it was cheat,with shagging connotations.

Deceptions pretty much involved for most other forms of cheating.

Glad I could clear that up.

Hoping that helps

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Would you walk into work tomorrow and say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh...I've been cheated on, it was shit, worst time in my life but i still don't care enough about the actions of people who have nothing whatsoever to do with me to go starting threads about it.

However well done OP, I hope all the bitter cheated-on women flock to you now after your powerful and brave moral stance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*roid. "You're welcome....""

Haha only just realised ,ta

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meh...I've been cheated on, it was shit, worst time in my life but i still don't care enough about the actions of people who have nothing whatsoever to do with me to go starting threads about it.

However well done OP, I hope all the bitter cheated-on women flock to you now after your powerful and brave moral stance. "

I'm not looking for anyone to flock to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meh...I've been cheated on, it was shit, worst time in my life but i still don't care enough about the actions of people who have nothing whatsoever to do with me to go starting threads about it.

However well done OP, I hope all the bitter cheated-on women flock to you now after your powerful and brave moral stance.

I'm not looking for anyone to flock to me "

What was the point if the thread then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Meh...I've been cheated on, it was shit, worst time in my life but i still don't care enough about the actions of people who have nothing whatsoever to do with me to go starting threads about it.

However well done OP, I hope all the bitter cheated-on women flock to you now after your powerful and brave moral stance.

I'm not looking for anyone to flock to me

What was the point if the thread then?"

Well for a start it wasn't that (like that would happen anyway) hahaha ,just wanted to say shame on people who are cheating on there partners

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Ace up my sleeve"

*extracts maself from yer sleeve, you need some new deodorant

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

In broad terms I tend to agree. But I don't like the judgemental tone of the post. I will judge anyone who invites it but am not so keen on blanket judgement

If you don't want to be with someone I think you should finish it ,you don't have to shag behind there back "

But some people prefer to be shagged from behind their back. Don't be so narrow minded about it all.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Can I just ask why? Why the need for this thread? If this is how you feel, fine. But why the need to start a thread about it?

Just curious.

-Courtney

Just felt like bringing it up ,isn't that what forums are for

The forums are for discussion, yeah. And you are allowed to discuss this, of course.

But starting a thread just to "shame" people says a lot about you, too.

-Courtney

No one is asking you to comment on it "

No one asked you to start the thread either but you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the dog collar back on

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

I'm inclined to agree.

Swinging isn't about cheating, and cheating isn't a nice thing to do or have done to you.

No, i'm not here to 'judge' but that doesn't mean I'm here to condone things I disagree with either.

What makes you so sure that some of those who are saying the OP is being judgmental do not already know how it makes them feel but maybe still think that sweeping judgments on any issue are both wrong and unhelpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you "

Okay. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell it's soooo boring when people shoved their opinions down ya throat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

I'm inclined to agree.

Swinging isn't about cheating, and cheating isn't a nice thing to do or have done to you.

No, i'm not here to 'judge' but that doesn't mean I'm here to condone things I disagree with either.

Yeah this is me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean flog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex wife cheated on me..hence ex wife....9 years on I bumped into ex brother in law in a pub...he told me she was on divorce number 2...she'd caught him with another woman...P.M.S.L

Don't worry...what goes around,comes around.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Bloody hell it's soooo boring when people shoved their opinions down ya throat!

I can think of much better things to shove down your mouth if you want. he he

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody hell it's soooo boring when people shoved their opinions down ya throat!

I can think of much better things to shove down your mouth if you want. he he"

And way more pleasurable too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people wanna cheat let them crack the fuck on. How does it affect your life or any other strangers life in any way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using a little imagination will produce situations where "cheating" will be the least worse action. For example would it be better to leave a partner who due to illness was bed bound, to be cared for by others or be sexual unfaithful yet continue to provide all the care and support that person needed?

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Bloody hell it's soooo boring when people shoved their opinions down ya throat!

I can think of much better things to shove down your mouth if you want. he he

And way more pleasurable too!

It definitely will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using a little imagination will produce situations where "cheating" will be the least worse action. For example would it be better to leave a partner who due to illness was bed bound, to be cared for by others or be sexual unfaithful yet continue to provide all the care and support that person needed?"

Put the ill person in full time care. Divorced your cheating partner. Stay single fuck who ever you like. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an aside here. Before the person cheats. Whos the bad guy?

Theres plenty of peoplewho start normal relationahips then expect the other person to carry on without sex or intmacy after a while. That can be just as hurtful. Not saying the person should cheat just saying the cheated on isnt always the sweet and innocent victim they are always painted as...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Put the ill person in full time care. Divorced your cheating partner. Stay single fuck who ever you like. Problem solved "

Wow!

You'd put the person you loved most in the world in full time care and walk away?

Problem solved?

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you "
another cheery thread its Xmas man, look if your partners cheated on you its meant that you aren't to be together ,what people do can never be fathomed and analysing it here won't solve it ,people have sex with others in front of their partners if anything you could say this is a more honest society but the odd few are breaking the rules of monogomy ,happy Xmas

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok can you not keep bringing up a subject from a different thread that was shut please and stick to this topic

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"As an aside here. Before the person cheats. Whos the bad guy?

Now now, having a balanced _iew is not helpful you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As an aside here. Before the person cheats. Whos the bad guy?

Now now, having a balanced _iew is not helpful you know"

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I know 2 really good friends who are in completely sex less relationships..but bcz of money,family home and probably the most important thing "children "..they can't see a way out so they "cheat" as some sort if coping mechanism..we talk everyday and I say the same thing just leave but they can't. .

So OP. .you can't judge anyone you don't know..I hope that soapbox is strong as you've been on it a very long time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had the power to remove and amend my posts! Would save me from the odd unmentionable every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

There's no excuse for it

But you messaged me earlier OP

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Get a life. Walk a mile in someone else's shoes.

Judge lest you be judged.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I wish I had the power to remove and amend my posts! Would save me from the odd unmentionable every now and then

You can...I just did what everyone does....but removed it after deleting the message as I like a tidy thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the ill person in full time care. Divorced your cheating partner. Stay single fuck who ever you like. Problem solved

Wow!

You'd put the person you loved most in the world in full time care and walk away?

Problem solved?

Wow."

Yes wow

Funny how I go into patients homes to care for the ill and the family are there doing nothing.

Double wow.

Can we stick to the ops thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get a life. Walk a mile in someone else's shoes.

Judge lest you be judged. "

Is that a quote from an elvis song ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apologise for causing confusion.In my scenario the cheating partner is the main carer. Therefore would it be better to put the person in need of care into,a home, the carer become single and then "fuck who ever you like" or instead remain and cheat?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Put the ill person in full time care. Divorced your cheating partner. Stay single fuck who ever you like. Problem solved

Wow!

You'd put the person you loved most in the world in full time care and walk away?

Problem solved?

Wow.

Yes wow

Funny how I go into patients homes to care for the ill and the family are there doing nothing.

Double wow.

Can we stick to the ops thread "

Like I said earlier, we all have different moral standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I apologise for causing confusion.In my scenario the cheating partner is the main carer. Therefore would it be better to put the person in need of care into,a home, the carer become single and then "fuck who ever you like" or instead remain and cheat?"
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It all depends on the person. Personally i would encourage you to have sex outside the marriage if i couldnt for health reasons.

But then i encourage my husband to anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wish to stick "to the ops thread" then maybe it would be better if you didn't express your _iews on "the family are there doing nothing". Therefore in keeping with your wish to keep this thread on the subject under discussion, I will refrain from writing the obvious reply.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you "

Nice ass

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

What a moronic thing to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His patience ran out lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

another day, another cheater thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess this thread didn't achieve what the OP wanted, presumably his balls are still filled with cum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"His patience ran out lol"

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people have cheated since the dawn of time and will continue to do so whether you like it or not shit happens!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope he didn't od on steroids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people have cheated since the dawn of time"

I would have guessed that Adam and Eve were faithful. My understanding is that the only other humans around were their children which is a whole different degree of wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"another day, another cheater thread.

and another unlos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"another day, another cheater thread.

and another unlos"

He couldn't handle I wanted to see other people....I loved that boy.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"another day, another cheater thread.

and another unlos

He couldn't handle I wanted to see other people....I loved that boy."

Paddy, it's people like you that make people like me wonder if people like him can hack it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For anyone who is cheating on there partner ,man or woman ,shame on you "
and another one another one bites the dust

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Shame the op never stuck around for the full debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody hell it's soooo boring when people shoved their opinions down ya throat!

"
I think that Santa bear sitting on you arse looks real well that's just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering a really high percentage of people on here are cheating there's going to be a very bad response to a judgey thread like this!

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By *on1Man
over a year ago

spain

Sex turns you on ... so does my cheating lol

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Why judge if you don't know their reasons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people have cheated since the dawn of time

I would have guessed that Adam and Eve were faithful. My understanding is that the only other humans around were their children which is a whole different degree of wrong! "

I can't see how they could have been.

They had two sons. And then they populated the planet? Yes?

Eve must have been fucking the pair of them bareback behind Adam's back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people have cheated since the dawn of time

I would have guessed that Adam and Eve were faithful. My understanding is that the only other humans around were their children which is a whole different degree of wrong!

I can't see how they could have been.

They had two sons. And then they populated the planet? Yes?

Eve must have been fucking the pair of them bareback behind Adam's back. "

Actually they had 33 sons and 23 daughters. Which isn't all that many if you live to be 930 years old. Perhaps Eve had a propensity to develop 'headaches' when Adam was in the mood or maybe she just couldnt stomach the idea of squeezing out another child. Probably needed less squeezing by the end so I'll go with headaches.

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