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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people do it once you send one? Do they know me? Or am I that offensive that they feel the need to block me immediately?

It's a bit worrying and demoralising!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just means they think you are not for them. Some people block automatically to save wasting time on more messages.

Shrug and move on.....

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Look. I do not want to have to ask. What do i do then if you're not my type without offending. As they said in sex and the city...she's just not into you. Forget it and move on. But you do need public pics otherwise I've got to become friends to see a pic which I don't necessarily. Want to do Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people do it once you send one? Do they know me? Or am I that offensive that they feel the need to block me immediately?

It's a bit worrying and demoralising!"

Would you prefer an in depth critique of your features? Or a, "Sorry, you're too ugly?"

Sometimes, it is just easier for people to block. It is not an insult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No thanks or you're not my type. I understand that can lead to thousands of other questions from people asking why but I'm just hoping it's not for any malicious reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you enter the online dating world you need to have a thick skin or develop one fast. Also applies to the real world. Time is to short to mope and worry why someone may not fancy you. If someone has in the past someone will again. Just keep looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No thanks or you're not my type. I understand that can lead to thousands of other questions from people asking why but I'm just hoping it's not for any malicious reason"

Why would it be malicious? They just don't fancy you. It happens to most of us on occasion.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

When this happens to me, I tell myself, console myself that I was out of their league...

Works for me..;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

normally when i reply "sorry, you're not my type" ect i just get messages back asking me what's wrong with them, why do i not like them, is there anything they can change to get me to like them!

Just accept it and move on guys. So yes, blocking is sometimes easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is they're not interested.

You're at least getting replies to mails so that's good.

Maybe take different face pics? Are you smiling coz a lot of women complain about guys not smiling in pics.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Honestly. Some people make no effort in their pics..dont wash and shave don't compose the shot...Etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just means they think you are not for them. Some people block automatically to save wasting time on more messages.

Shrug and move on....."

This I'm afraid!!

Just remember it's about shagging - not a potential relationship - so people tend to be more shallow! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"normally when i reply "sorry, you're not my type" ect i just get messages back asking me what's wrong with them, why do i not like them, is there anything they can change to get me to like them!

Just accept it and move on guys. So yes, blocking is sometimes easier."

So annoying no wonder we stop replying.. one guy even said hed put a paper bag over his head so i didnt need to look at him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In swinging, people can objectify you without a seconds thought. Who you are is second, or third, to what you look like and what you can offer them.

Some people play this game in a selfish manner with little care for how their actions effect others.

Some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In swinging, people can objectify you without a seconds thought. Who you are is second, or third, to what you look like and what you can offer them.

Some people play this game in a selfish manner with little care for how their actions effect others.

Some don't.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos some are so far up their own *** its untrue. I bet they never showed you their pic? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all OP, well probably not all, but it has to me! You're not their type, so wouldn't have been compatible in a meet. Concentrate on thise that do like you for who you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos some are so far up their own *** its untrue. I bet they never showed you their pic? lol."

Shag, why would they if they didn't fancy them?

And it is nothing to do with being up their own ***. If there is no attraction, it is not going anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos some are so far up their own *** its untrue. I bet they never showed you their pic? lol.

Shag, why would they if they didn't fancy them?

And it is nothing to do with being up their own ***. If there is no attraction, it is not going anywhere."
That is right. I meant especially if you haven't seen their pic you know.

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

This reminds me of a discussion I had with a woman online. I had said I couldn't go out with someone I didn't fancy. She replied that she had - she respected him but didn't fancy him...yeuch that is so dishonest.

Look. This is a sex site. Women are getting 10-20 messages a day. As a tv I get 6 or 7. With the best will in the world we can't see everyone - because we'd never be out of bed - so we are choosy. If you can't sell yourself you won't compete. It's not just about the face it's a whole attractive offer.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Just get used to it and don't take it personally, you will get quite a bit of it on here sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In swinging, people can objectify you without a seconds thought. Who you are is second, or third, to what you look like and what you can offer them.

Some people play this game in a selfish manner with little care for how their actions effect others.

Some don't.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love an instant block .... NOT

Must be so difficult for people to be polite though I most definitely wouldn't ever be part of their story

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