FabSwingers.com forum: Out of my league

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's online and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What difference would it make? And what would we base our score on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you want a group wide scoring system, then it is clear why you're not having munch success...

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

The site works for me just the way it is. I don't want to change it.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It would just mean that the popular people would get higher marks from their friends (they will all mark their friends higher) and the unknown grabbers won't be marked at all. (Nobody wants to be mean)

C...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Fabbers*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unknown grabbers works well too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Good God no! The shame of scoring 1

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It would just mean that the popular people would get higher marks from their friends (they will all mark their friends higher) and the unknown grabbers won't be marked at all. (Nobody wants to be mean)

C..."

I think plenty would be mean for spite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's someone's 4 might be someone's 10 !

That won't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, the saying "I'd give you one" could be taken in different ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good God no! The shame of scoring 1

Oh I'd give you a lot more than 1

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Good God no! The shame of scoring 1

Oh I'd give you a lot more than 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wouldn't work,some men think I'm a 10,some a 1. It's too subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C...

I think plenty would be mean for spite."

I could be in the minuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke right?

Do you have marks for facial attractiveness then marks for your body?

If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

If you're a guy with a great body but a face only a mother could love do you have separate marks for each?

I'm giving myself a headache

........ I need a lie down!

......... Doctor could you come and examine me please ......... Very gently ........ At first!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm a ten at midnight when everyone else has said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx"
the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you can kind of tell who is in your league or not. There's people I think are out of my league but they've approached me and there's people who I think I'm out of their league yet they've still approached me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C...

I think plenty would be mean for spite.

I could be in the minuses

It's of no benefit to anyone Hun in my opinion! I'm ok for an old heffer so there's a chance I'd score relatively high (to some) - but I think by far the best thing about me is that I'm good fun (mad as a box of frogs) and great company! I want a guy to want to meet ME - not a number I scored! And if all a guy has is his looks then he's definitely not for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is out of anyones league. They either want to meet you or they dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a ten at midnight when everyone else has said no

Or if you can't wait till then- take home two 5's

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Every time someone says no thanks to me....

I console myself with the thought "I was out of their league".

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm a ten at midnight when everyone else has said no

Or if you can't wait till then- take home two 5's

Trust me in my youth I often awoke alongside five twos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if you want a group wide scoring system, then it is clear why you're not having munch success..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C...

I think plenty would be mean for spite.

I could be in the minuses

I do ok because I have an ok face for my age,I love giving oral and I take it up the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....... I don't just go on looks alone..... I think that would be a cruel system x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it really cant be hard for you can it!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I messaged you a month ago and you didn't get back to me - so I guess I'm not high enough on the number score!

Seriously - just relax and enjoy yourself! If you don't get the women you want on fab there are thousands of women outside fab too! You're a good looking guy - if you have a good line in banter I'm sure you'd do well in any bar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Spend some time writing a few more sentences on your profile and not just I'm fit and have a big cock.

Ditch the what your into bit some could be put off by that also adds some mystique. If they are interested that will ask.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I'll cut to the chase and call myself a 3, save you all the bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been verified by some very attractive ladies so I doubt many could be considered out of your league...if anything it's the other way round!

Scoring a person based on their profile wouldn't work for me as I value the whole package - looks, body, personality, intellect, attitude and verifications - so an Adonis with the manners of a caveman who'd shagged half the site would be a zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I see plenty of well-verified guys that I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I go for people rather than physical characteristics so a scoring system would be next to useless for me. Unless it was optional; then I could just avoid those who chose to use it. Quite a useful filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good God no! The shame of scoring 1

You've not seen the awards thread yet have you.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

You've been verified by some very attractive ladies so I doubt many could be considered out of your league...if anything it's the other way round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke right?

Do you have marks for facial attractiveness then marks for your body?

If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

If you're a guy with a great body but a face only a mother could love do you have separate marks for each?

I'm giving myself a headache

........ I need a lie down!

......... Doctor could you come and examine me please ......... Very gently ........ At first!!

Pulls on white coat and warms stethoscope......

Come in, make yourself comfortable.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....... I don't just go on looks alone..... I think that would be a cruel system x"

Pointless more like! We all like different things. For example I think Harry Styles a zero and Tommy Lee Jones a nine.

I think some people struggle on here because they think they are so good looking it should be easy. Not recognising looks are subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....... I don't just go on looks alone..... I think that would be a cruel system x

Pointless more like! We all like different things. For example I think Harry Styles a zero and Tommy Lee Jones a nine.

I think some people struggle on here because they think they are so good looking it should be easy. Not recognising looks are subjective.

Agreed.. Also definitely pointless x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if you want a group wide scoring system, then it is clear why you're not having munch success..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be the other way around to that we are above their league lol.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally I don't believe that anyone is out of my league, or that I'm out of anyone else's. . Chemistry and personality gave a much bigger impact on how attractive I perceive someone to be and my experience tells me that this is the case for others we've met.

Even though I'm not good looking, we are both over 40 and don't have bodies like underwear models, we've played with so many attractive folk.

Cal xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a ten at midnight when everyone else has said no

2am for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke right?

Do you have marks for facial attractiveness then marks for your body?

If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

If you're a guy with a great body but a face only a mother could love do you have separate marks for each?

I'm giving myself a headache

........ I need a lie down!

......... Doctor could you come and examine me please ......... Very gently ........ At first!!

I'd gladly come take a look at you...take care of your headache...or anything else that may need a little attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is out of anyones league. They either want to meet you or they dont."

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke right?

Do you have marks for facial attractiveness then marks for your body?

If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

If you're a guy with a great body but a face only a mother could love do you have separate marks for each?

I'm giving myself a headache

........ I need a lie down!

......... Doctor could you come and examine me please ......... Very gently ........ At first!!

I feel this requires some form of spread sheet. Where jenni?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're all out of our league,remember they are doing us a favour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear I am now so terribly confused ,,, where is Pooch with that abacus

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

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If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

....."

Yes

And separate marks for left and right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. "
hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

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oh and I'm not complaining just making observations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a stupid idea, could have been fun though if you'd turned it into a game rather than some kind of way for people to contact each other...

I can get 10s despite being nowhere near one, happy with that thanks.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

Only if you play your cards right xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no point in doing it this way as you could mark someone high and get chatting to them and it turns out their a drip or you could mark someone low get chatting to them and have a laugh that could lead to a meet being a social or for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke right?

Do you have marks for facial attractiveness then marks for your body?

If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

If you're a guy with a great body but a face only a mother could love do you have separate marks for each?

I'm giving myself a headache

........ I need a lie down!

......... Doctor could you come and examine me please ......... Very gently ........ At first!!

Pulls on white coat and warms stethoscope......

Come in, make yourself comfortable.

Oh - don't mind if I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's a stupid idea, could have been fun though if you'd turned it into a game rather than some kind of way for people to contact each other...

I can get 10s despite being nowhere near one, happy with that thanks.

"
exactly this

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By *T ShabaMan
over a year ago

London

Dude. Trying hard is perceived as sign of desperation as opposed to a normal guy who just want to have fun.

I think long-suffering patience may payoff in the long run but a single guy on this site hoping to get a meet(unless you do clubs or happy to swing anyway) is like the proverbial camel passing through the needles' eye.

And how do you even know most of those you've been chatting to are real. Fakes have infiltrated an erstwhile laudable scheme for the liberal - minded.

Hang on in there, have fun reading the Timbuktu-long rhapsodies but have a life outside Fab. You may one day get a break.

Remember pictures don't always tell the true story. I knew this when I saw Swatchneeger and Stallone in real life.

You may not be missing much after all because reality and dreaming ain't the same.

I have met one genuine lady so far whom I really like and she may well become my passport to attracting others but it's not in my nature to count my chickens before they are hatched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP did make me look up his profile, and after three lines I gave up trying to decipher. A bit of proper interpunction, use of capital letters, a new paragraph etc makes text much easier to read.

If you want people to read and react to your profile, entice them. Don't put them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

oh and I'm not complaining just making observations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has it occured to you op people think your out of their league and thats why they arent interested.

Persoally looking at your avatar and one profile pic that would be my reason.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There was only one time on here that I felt like I was out of someone's league, however I thought fuck it I'll send a message...I got a really nice message back and found out I wasn't his type...if I like the look of someone I'll message them...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

This is a joke right?

Do you have marks for facial attractiveness then marks for your body?

If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

If you're a guy with a great body but a face only a mother could love do you have separate marks for each?

I'm giving myself a headache

........ I need a lie down!

......... Doctor could you come and examine me please ......... Very gently ........ At first!!

Nice arse

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am not the greatest at asking people if they want to play.......

Though this year I have been a lot better

I will flirt and suggest but won't be assertive to say do you want to play

I don't know if it because it takes a while for me to think am I what they are looking for

I would say there has been 3 people this year who I have played with just on the basis of forum most have been in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

oh and I'm not complaining just making observations

Feel like a dick head saying this but if I'm the sort of person you're trying to attract and I'm telling you there's a couple of simple things that you could do that would make someone like myself interested, things that are so simple and would get you so much more success, couldn't you just give them a try and see if it makes a difference to your experience? Won't say anymore in future unless you ask for it. "
hey beautiful my success here has been ok but I require more than sex for the sake of sex ,I've chatted to some beautiful women one who I've been chatting to for a long time now and who likes me but I won't meet her because she has others who take her attention before me ,you look amazing your 2,500 fabs yesterday are a testament to that and I will change my profile and put paragraphs in if it pleases you ,the text of my profile isn't me and doesn't and couldn't accurately describe me ,that can only be gained from knowing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Wouldn't be fair- how. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

oh and I'm not complaining just making observations

Feel like a dick head saying this but if I'm the sort of person you're trying to attract and I'm telling you there's a couple of simple things that you could do that would make someone like myself interested, things that are so simple and would get you so much more success, couldn't you just give them a try and see if it makes a difference to your experience? Won't say anymore in future unless you ask for it. hey beautiful my success here has been ok but I require more than sex for the sake of sex ,I've chatted to some beautiful women one who I've been chatting to for a long time now and who likes me but I won't meet her because she has others who take her attention before me ,you look amazing your 2,500 fabs yesterday are a testament to that and I will change my profile and put paragraphs in if it pleases you ,the text of my profile isn't me and doesn't and couldn't accurately describe me ,that can only be gained from knowing me

Not just the paragraphs you should take out the bit about attractive women never responding to you. Makes a woman think she's a moose by responding to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey beautiful my success here has been ok but I require more than sex for the sake of sex ,I've chatted to some beautiful women one who I've been chatting to for a long time now and who likes me but I won't meet her because she has others who take her attention before me ,you look amazing your 2,500 fabs yesterday are a testament to that and I will change my profile and put paragraphs in if it pleases you ,the text of my profile isn't me and doesn't and couldn't accurately describe me ,that can only be gained from knowing me

So you wouldn't meet someone you like because you don't have her complete undivided attention on this site or you're not no.1 for her all the time? If I posted that I wouldn't meet a man because he didn't drop everything for me or only talk to me, I'd be told to get over myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too subjective. One man's 7 is anothers' 3. I don't always have conventional taste in blokes, so I'd find it difficult being lumped in with what other people had decided was the equivalent level of attractiveness as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

oh and I'm not complaining just making observations

Feel like a dick head saying this but if I'm the sort of person you're trying to attract and I'm telling you there's a couple of simple things that you could do that would make someone like myself interested, things that are so simple and would get you so much more success, couldn't you just give them a try and see if it makes a difference to your experience? Won't say anymore in future unless you ask for it. hey beautiful my success here has been ok but I require more than sex for the sake of sex ,I've chatted to some beautiful women one who I've been chatting to for a long time now and who likes me but I won't meet her because she has others who take her attention before me ,you look amazing your 2,500 fabs yesterday are a testament to that and I will change my profile and put paragraphs in if it pleases you ,the text of my profile isn't me and doesn't and couldn't accurately describe me ,that can only be gained from knowing me

Not just the paragraphs you should take out the bit about attractive women never responding to you. Makes a woman think she's a moose by responding to you. "
hey attractive women all women do as they want here, they are not governed by that generalised observation which was more about how attractive women in general react because they can on here eg you have so much choice you can toy with guys and flit from one to another not actually concentrating on one or fully giving your attention to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

oh and I'm not complaining just making observations

Feel like a dick head saying this but if I'm the sort of person you're trying to attract and I'm telling you there's a couple of simple things that you could do that would make someone like myself interested, things that are so simple and would get you so much more success, couldn't you just give them a try and see if it makes a difference to your experience? Won't say anymore in future unless you ask for it. hey beautiful my success here has been ok but I require more than sex for the sake of sex ,I've chatted to some beautiful women one who I've been chatting to for a long time now and who likes me but I won't meet her because she has others who take her attention before me ,you look amazing your 2,500 fabs yesterday are a testament to that and I will change my profile and put paragraphs in if it pleases you ,the text of my profile isn't me and doesn't and couldn't accurately describe me ,that can only be gained from knowing me

Not just the paragraphs you should take out the bit about attractive women never responding to you. Makes a woman think she's a moose by responding to you. hey attractive women all women do as they want here, they are not governed by that generalised observation which was more about how attractive women in general react because they can on here eg you have so much choice you can toy with guys and flit from one to another not actually concentrating on one or fully giving your attention to him

I'd just take out anything to do with generalising how certain women might act and remove anything about trying to work out the motives or intentions of anyone using the site and just use your profile to say how good you are and what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ... basically as a single guy on here it's pretty hard to get noticed .. so you have to send 50 messages to wide variations of women and couples to get a reply ... I want to maybe start a trend that could help everyone out .. a scoring system ... so that you know when a woman is out of your league... basically all the women pick one guy who's Ionline and score him out of ten ... and all the guys pick a woman and score her .. then you post your score on your status. . Then all the sevens can message the sevens .. all the eights ... and so on ... let me know what you think xx the way it works here is all women it would seem are out of your league even if physically they are not, supply and demand if you don't send the right messages that appeal and that are thoughtful maybe comical and always first you will never hear from them and you're only as good as your last message one slip up and you are out and even if you have them interested so do a dozen more ,so if you are a jealous type you definitely won't fair well here ,so if points make prizes you'll need loads of points

I know you aren't asking for profile critique here but you always ask and complain of the same things yet I've told you what you need to get rid of on your profile. If you keep getting the same results surely it's worth changing a couple of things to get a better result. hey beautiful you are exactly what I'm talking about you have a great figure and a cute face but you are by virtue of your great figure at the high end of the scoring chart so a pointless target for me ,I on the other hand am not asking for critique and really am at the end of my enjoyment of all this I am also a lovely guy who expects nothing from no-one just a little thought now and again ,you will always have fun and I am beyond wasting my time dreaming of you xx

oh and I'm not complaining just making observations

Feel like a dick head saying this but if I'm the sort of person you're trying to attract and I'm telling you there's a couple of simple things that you could do that would make someone like myself interested, things that are so simple and would get you so much more success, couldn't you just give them a try and see if it makes a difference to your experience? Won't say anymore in future unless you ask for it. hey beautiful my success here has been ok but I require more than sex for the sake of sex ,I've chatted to some beautiful women one who I've been chatting to for a long time now and who likes me but I won't meet her because she has others who take her attention before me ,you look amazing your 2,500 fabs yesterday are a testament to that and I will change my profile and put paragraphs in if it pleases you ,the text of my profile isn't me and doesn't and couldn't accurately describe me ,that can only be gained from knowing me

I am lovely and I am looking for something unattainable but hey I'm allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke right?

Do you have marks for facial attractiveness then marks for your body?

If you have a great arse but not so great tits do you have separate marks for each?

If you're a guy with a great body but a face only a mother could love do you have separate marks for each?

I'm giving myself a headache

........ I need a lie down!

......... Doctor could you come and examine me please ......... Very gently ........ At first!!

Pulls on white coat and warms stethoscope......

Come in, make yourself comfortable.

Oh - don't mind if I do!

Your heartbeat seems high, you should loosen your clothing.

Here, let me hang your blouse up for you....

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Has it occured to you op people think your out of their league and thats why they arent interested.

Persoally looking at your avatar and one profile pic that would be my reason. "

OP apparently you messaged me 6 months ago. I don't remember the content of the message but I'm sure I would have looked at your pic and decided I would be punching above my weight to reply

or that you were messaging me out of desperation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X"

If I was being modest a 9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9"

My point exactly. Everyone sees things differently

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9

My point exactly. Everyone sees things differently

Or they need to go to specsavers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9

My point exactly. Everyone sees things differently

Or they need to go to specsavers!"

Me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9"

Oh I can't imagine you being modest Hun!

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9

My point exactly. Everyone sees things differently

Or they need to go to specsavers!

Me ??"

No just a general comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9"

And good for you for having the self-confidence to be honest...a 9 is I'd say an accurate figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10's are celebrities with access to the very best hair dressers,nutritionists, make up artists, clothes designers.

Strong 9's have good bodies AND facially very attractive. I wouldn't even rate myself as a 9. I'm an 8 cos I've got a lovely fanny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously not good for my blood pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10's are celebrities with access to the very best hair dressers,nutritionists, make up artists, clothes designers.

Strong 9's have good bodies AND facially very attractive. I wouldn't even rate myself as a 9. I'm an 8 cos I've got a lovely fanny. "

No you're a 9 hun.

Don't put yourself down just because others less attractive then us will on here. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9"

You're a very attractive girl, I'd agree you look a 9 or so. Why do you feel the need for slagging other people off though?

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"Seriously not good for my blood pressure

My post above wasn't directed at you in anyway. Was a general comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10's are celebrities with access to the very best hair dressers,nutritionists, make up artists, clothes designers.

Strong 9's have good bodies AND facially very attractive. I wouldn't even rate myself as a 9. I'm an 8 cos I've got a lovely fanny. "

Not all celebrities are 10s just as not all 10s are celebrities. You are quite obviously attractive with a great body, and would rate higher than an 8 in most men's eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9

You're a very attractive girl, I'd agree you look a 9 or so. Why do you feel the need for slagging other people off though? "

How am I slagging of people.?

I'm just being honest as I see it and not wrapping it up in cotton wool.

By saying someone isn't as say attractive as me is not slagging them of just being honest.

I don't get this notion I'm ' Slagging ' someone off for being honest.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously not good for my blood pressure

My post above wasn't directed at you in anyway. Was a general comment. "

I know x

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"Seriously not good for my blood pressure

My post above wasn't directed at you in anyway. Was a general comment.

I know x"

Cool, i hate if i had upset you. x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9

My point exactly. Everyone sees things differently

These bronzed mirrors are wonderful

They have these in the changing room in my gym; every time I leave the changing room, my head is up my own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple, put your cock pick up, 4 word profile and should be knee deep in clunge by the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are too many 1's & 2's on here so it wouldn't be fair for us others.

Purely out of curiosity - what 'score' would you give yourself Hun? X

If I was being modest a 9

You're a very attractive girl, I'd agree you look a 9 or so. Why do you feel the need for slagging other people off though?

How am I slagging of people.?

I'm just being honest as I see it and not wrapping it up in cotton wool.

By saying someone isn't as say attractive as me is not slagging them of just being honest.

I don't get this notion I'm ' Slagging ' someone off for being honest.?"

If you don't mean to be catty you're sure doing a good job of looking catty. I know I'm not the best looking woman on the site but I also don't have to make snidey comments in lieu of a personality.

Oh sorry, "honest". Right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10's are celebrities with access to the very best hair dressers,nutritionists, make up artists, clothes designers.

Strong 9's have good bodies AND facially very attractive. I wouldn't even rate myself as a 9. I'm an 8 cos I've got a lovely fanny.

No you're a 9 hun.

Don't put yourself down just because others less attractive then us will on here. x"

Right - ok! Let's say we take this idea seriously for a minute!

I think you lack in modesty/humility somewhat but - that aside - I'd probably agree you're a nine!

With young people with 'model' figures it's easy to give a score!

However - what if you're a BBW? Some will be attracted to you - so to some you'll be a 10 - some won't - so to them you'd be a 1!

Same with old farts like me! Some guys think I'm fucking amazing - some might think I'm an old trout - the truth is probably somewhere in-between!

I was a model in my youth Hun - we were all graded - so I have no issue with that!

However - outside the modelling world beauty is subjective and one person's angel could be another person's munter!

For that reason I can't see how this would work! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all 10s with the lights off (apart from me who's still an 11).