FabSwingers.com forum: Women at 40

By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Some women get better with age so it's win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say! "

Happy birthday flower

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say! "

I remember cutting my hair short because I thought 30 was unbearably old and I had to put away childish things..... thank fuck that didn't last long.

Life gets better. Trust me.

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By *ina75Woman
over a year ago

Stone

I've found life getting better as I've aged.

I'm less tolerant of crap.

More likely to take chances to do something fun .

And definitely have more confidence.

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say! "

Happy birthday to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 new 20s.... Had relationship with older woman, best sex ever taught me few tricks,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say! "

I hear you grow scales at 40 and your vagina closes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40 new 20s.... Had relationship with older woman, best sex ever taught me few tricks, "

you should try 50s.. epic.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"I've found life getting better as I've aged.

I'm less tolerant of crap.

More likely to take chances to do something fun .

And definitely have more confidence.

Same here. Life just gets better (or it should do!).

And in my experience, women get better with age. Happy birthday OP!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say!

I remember cutting my hair short because I thought 30 was unbearably old and I had to put away childish things..... thank fuck that didn't last long.

Life gets better. Trust me. "

I'm 40 4 months today. I'm looking forward to it far more than I did when turning 30. I finally feel in control of my life!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel better about aging then when i was 30.

Doubt i'll ever be past it, guys are looking for gilfs on here i've noticed. i'm gonna be the granny in leopard leggings and a crop top.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say!

I hear you grow scales at 40 and your vagina closes up."

Ha ha, I've had 20 year olds like that!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Many happy returns OP

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Age is just a number.

But it seems some people just think that when they get to one of these numbers, life and fun has to stop.

The advantage of being 50+ is that you know lots, can behave like a 29/30 year old if you wish, and you don't have to care what people think .

It is easier for men; we can play the " distinguished older man" card; social pressure still tends to want women to look young;

But the sexiest woman I know is 55, with grey hair. Very sensual, funny, intelligent.

I'll take one 50 year old over two 25 year olds any day...

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Happy birthday

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks for the birthday wishes guys

I had a wobble coming up to 30 but 40 doesn't seem to phase me. It's just numbers. Still behave like a 15 year old

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By *oeinCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Happy Birthday ...!!!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Happy birthday.

I can assure you you don't become invisible although first thing I did on my 50,th was have a shag to make sure I hadn't turned into a dried up old prune overnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday young lady! Oh to turn back time to be 39 again! Have a fantastic day lovely x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Happy Birthday OP. Being in your 40's is wonderful

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say! "

In my opinion women become less visible because they make themselves so. Its true that some consider us past it but thats their problem

I say bring it on too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and happy birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned 40 a couple of months ago. I didn't like it one bit but I just need to suck it up

Happy Birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy birthday

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Women are like roses they blossom with age ,so what's not to like.

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said John.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Certainly not, I've become more confident and adventurous as I've aged - and I'm determined to grow old disgracefully

Live life to the full, you never know when it will end xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Happy birthday you sweet young thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They shouldn't fear it.

I fancy more women older than me, opposed to those that are younger.

Oh crap, maybe I am fearsome!!

It wasn't intentional!

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By *gentNoSpringChickenWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"Age is just a number.

But it seems some people just think that when they get to one of these numbers, life and fun has to stop.

The advantage of being 50+ is that you know lots, can behave like a 29/30 year old if you wish, and you don't have to care what people think .

It is easier for men; we can play the " distinguished older man" card; social pressure still tends to want women to look young;

But the sexiest woman I know is 55, with grey hair. Very sensual, funny, intelligent.

I'll take one 50 year old over two 25 year olds any day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill be honest thought age never bothered me but hit forty and it hit me psychologically... And I've been feeling quite down about it

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

You share your birthday with my Mum. Happy Birthday

Forties are definitely Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 40 September just gone my youngest started Skool so feels like life does begin at 40. Naughty forty hopefully. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say! "

I'm sure as hell not invisible Hun - and I very much doubt you will be either!

I've never been short of attention from the opposite sex and it certainly didn't diminish when I passed 40 lovely!

It's just a great excuse for a big party!!

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

The naughty 40's are the best

Happy birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 is the new 30, but West Midlands police traffic division don't share my view

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks all

Marvelous to hear from confident ladies who say bollocks to numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex life blossomed in my 40s. So did my waist and bum but it hasn't hindered my ability to pull

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

If many of the older woman threads are to be believed it's more of a desired age range by many

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"Well said John.

Unlike us blokes the gravity really starts to kick in LOL

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Life has got better and better the older I get.

And I don't get overlooked for my age on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved my 40s ... Best time of my life

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Thanks all

Marvelous to hear from confident ladies who say bollocks to numbers

Yes Bollocks

Happy Birthday

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm liking my 40's.

I like my life.

Content I believe is the word.

Happy belated birthday.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm 45 next week. Bring it on. I love being "old!"

Happy birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 is young =)

Bring it on exactly, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 45 next week. Bring it on. I love being "old!"

Happy birthday

Wow FairPlay ur gorgeous. ????

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

40's are awesome..thought it was good in your 30's?..telling you in aint nothing on your forties xx enjoy it to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"40's are awesome..thought it was good in your 30's?..telling you in aint nothing on your forties xx enjoy it to the max

xx"

Nothing more hotter than a woman with somae age behind her.. Honestly women do only get better with age especially in a bedroom.. I would much rather and older experianced woman than a young inexperienced woman

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

"I'm 45 next week. Bring it on. I love being "old!"

Happy birthday

And you are lookign great for it.

Happy birthday for next week.

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I'm 39 and a half lol. I feel like I've suddenly found my true self. Was married for 20 very boring years. Faithful to the same man from the age of 15. Split up a year ago and found fabs 8 months ago. Suddenly have the confidence to admit to being bisexual...and to do something about it! Never felt so sexually empowered.

Does help that I have an amazing boyfriend who encourages me to try 'almost' anything I like. I look back at my pre pregnancy figure and think, yeah, I looked amazing, but I had no confidence at all. Didn't make the most of myself and my 34DD boobs lol.

Now I'm much more curvy (38GG) but I know that I'm desirable. It feels great.

Thinking about organising an orgy for my 40th in July

who's coming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 (and a little bit

) is fab!!

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm 45 next week. Bring it on. I love being "old!"

Happy birthday

Wow FairPlay ur gorgeous. ????"

Thank you

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm 45 next week. Bring it on. I love being "old!"

Happy birthday

And you are lookign great for it.

Happy birthday for next week."

Thank you.

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

"I'm 39 and a half lol. I feel like I've suddenly found my true self. Was married for 20 very boring years. Faithful to the same man from the age of 15. Split up a year ago and found fabs 8 months ago. Suddenly have the confidence to admit to being bisexual...and to do something about it! Never felt so sexually empowered.

Now I'm much more curvy (38GG) but I know that I'm desirable. It feels great.

Thinking about organising an orgy for my 40th in July

who's coming?"

You go girl. Glad to hear your doing better. I would love to come for the orgy to help celebrate your 40th birthday.

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

"40 (and a little bit

) is fab!!

And you look mighty fab too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think things just get better....for me i love being older,looking forward to being 50 this year and loom better than i did in my 30's or younger.....bring on the fun.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 40th was completely rubbish for all sorts of reasons but, several years on, I can honestly say life is good, my career is right on track and my sex life is the best it's been. Happy birthday, OP.... welcome to the best decade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do say life starts at 40!!

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By *ancyDrewWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am 40 on Friday...not sure if am dreading it or not!

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Now I'm much more curvy (38GG) but I know that I'm desirable. It feels great.

Thinking about organising an orgy for my 40th in July

who's coming?

You go girl. Glad to hear your doing better. I would love to come for the orgy to help celebrate your 40th birthday."

Yay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my (awful time of year to have one) birthday today, a year away from 40.

Now I've no worry about ageing, quite enjoy it but do women fear it as the time where we become less visible and considered past it?

Bring it on I say! "

Oh it just gets so much better, trust me

. Happy birthday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday lovely.

I get age-paranoia on occasion (usually followed by a roll of the eyes and a telling off from my number one wing man), but I have to say life since turning 40 has been pretty damned spiffing. Best mid-life crisis ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace it....age is but a number....my wife is 40 and stunning if I do say so myself.

We see lots of beautiful women in xtasia over 40.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'm 36... I lost 4.5 stone over the past year, and intend to shift the rest... I feel better about myself and am becoming more comfortable with my looks as I get older. Plus my other half tells me I'm hot all the time that helps lol... Bring on 40 I say!! Xx

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

At 30 I held an 'In Memorium' party for my twenties. For my 40th I went to Amsterdam and partied hard for 3 solid days

Enjoy. It's a fabulous time of your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was young I always thought I would of done everything by time I hit 40,

I'm now less then 3 weeks away from my last year in my 30s, I have a huge list of things I still need/want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only start getting sexier and more desirable at that age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was young I always thought I would of done everything by time I hit 40,

I'm now less then 3 weeks away from my last year in my 30s, I have a huge list of things I still need/want to do"

Best pull your finger out and stop procrastinating on here Then

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In a couple of months I shall no longer be 50 but firmly "in" my 50s. Have just had my grandson for a few days and I've lost count of the people I just vaguely know saying to me they didn't know I'd had another baby

If I wear a skirt more than 17" long I feel a frump and I'm doing a tandom sky dive for my birthday only thing is the cheeky twats want me to provide a medical certificate as I'm over 50 lol

I'm immortal, think I'm 21 and bloody well going to act it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was young I always thought I would of done everything by time I hit 40,

I'm now less then 3 weeks away from my last year in my 30s, I have a huge list of things I still need/want to do

Best pull your finger out and stop procrastinating on here Then

Some of them I can arrange myself given the time and money, The others I will need the help of some fab Women or Women in general

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Not at all. Some women get better with age so it's win win "

Exactly, when I was 28 I had a 7 yr relationship with a 41 yr old, we got into swinging together (via Rendezvous) and I had some of the best sex of my life

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

"In a couple of months I shall no longer be 50 but firmly "in" my 50s. Have just had my grandson for a few days and I've lost count of the people I just vaguely know saying to me they didn't know I'd had another baby

If I wear a skirt more than 17" long I feel a frump and I'm doing a tandom sky dive for my birthday only thing is the cheeky twats want me to provide a medical certificate as I'm over 50 lol

I'm immortal, think I'm 21 and bloody well going to act it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I defo don't feel I'm past it... I like being in my forties.... I feel more liberated!!!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Hope you had a good birthday OP. Never fear getting older. I remember thinking turning 40 was a big event and I should act more sensible.

Well sod that. I had a big piss Up For my 50th and apart from the odd blip , have been the happiest, more confident , sexiest time ever.

40......you're a youngster lass

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

If I wear a skirt more than 17" long I feel a frump and I'm doing a tandom sky dive for my birthday only thing is the cheeky twats want me to provide a medical certificate as I'm over 50 lol

I'm immortal, think I'm 21 and bloody well going to act it

Diamond, you are a gem!! You are currently my inspiration for being a bit less curvy when I turn 40

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If I wear a skirt more than 17" long I feel a frump and I'm doing a tandom sky dive for my birthday only thing is the cheeky twats want me to provide a medical certificate as I'm over 50 lol

I'm immortal, think I'm 21 and bloody well going to act it

Diamond, you are a gem!! You are currently my inspiration for being a bit less curvy when I turn 40

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I weighed 22 and 1/2 stone on my 40th. Your only a fraction of that and have 10 years on me

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

You think the 40s are good, wait till you get to your 50s - it's bloody awesome.

And the guys are still queueing up lol xxx

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