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"Which is what, exactly?" That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming " yes I agree with you that's the way its going but I'm not going to allow it to affect how I react to kids and people in general I chat to everyone and I don't care kids need to be able to interact with adults and the very small minority shouldn't affect the majority  | |||
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"Don't give a shit what others think...you did the right thing,said child is safe Good one "Maybe the onlookers later felt bad about their own inaction, who knows? | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what!" maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming " You done exactly the right thing, I wouldn't have thought twice about doing the same. I'm just shocked that you were the only one getting the child to safety! | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming You done exactly the right thing, I wouldn't have thought twice about doing the same. I'm just shocked that you were the only one getting the child to safety!" imagine others were thinking about it but its speed of action in these situations that saves lives ,I saved a 6 year old from drowning in a Florida pool a few years back | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing." That's three categories. | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. " hey that's the other thing that age develops            | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. hey that's the other thing that age develops "Not acting cute in the hope of a fuck ? | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. hey that's the other thing that age develops
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something 3/ those who don't give a flipping fuck You did the right thing." | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.." The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that" | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing." I don't think that's the case where children are concerned. People are too afraid to intervene for fear of repercussions and rediculous accusations. As a mother in a playspace, I've been wary of stepping in when necessary (but did in the end) whilst people (also parents) stood by and watched. You could see they wanted to help but just didn't dare. It is a very sad reflection on society that adults who are supposed to be caregivers and look out for children, are too afraid when something happens. *Her* | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. I don't think that's the case where children are concerned. People are too afraid to intervene for fear of repercussions and rediculous accusations. As a mother in a playspace, I've been wary of stepping in when necessary (but did in the end) whilst people (also parents) stood by and watched. You could see they wanted to help but just didn't dare. It is a very sad reflection on society that adults who are supposed to be caregivers and look out for children, are too afraid when something happens. *Her* " Unfortunately, it is a sad reflection. We saw a young child on a crowded beach, running ahead of us, we just kept an eye on her, it wasn't until she realized she had lost her parents that she screamed and only then did they realise she had gone | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. I don't think that's the case where children are concerned. People are too afraid to intervene for fear of repercussions and rediculous accusations. As a mother in a playspace, I've been wary of stepping in when necessary (but did in the end) whilst people (also parents) stood by and watched. You could see they wanted to help but just didn't dare. It is a very sad reflection on society that adults who are supposed to be caregivers and look out for children, are too afraid when something happens. *Her* " Nothing should prevent anyone from stepping in to prevent a tragedy - where would society be without our heroes? Not everybody feels capable, for one reason or another, but thank god for those that do xx | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. I don't think that's the case where children are concerned. People are too afraid to intervene for fear of repercussions and rediculous accusations. As a mother in a playspace, I've been wary of stepping in when necessary (but did in the end) whilst people (also parents) stood by and watched. You could see they wanted to help but just didn't dare. It is a very sad reflection on society that adults who are supposed to be caregivers and look out for children, are too afraid when something happens. *Her* Nothing should prevent anyone from stepping in to prevent a tragedy - where would society be without our heroes? Not everybody feels capable, for one reason or another, but thank god for those that do xx" Well said! I would like to think if any of my grandchildren were in danger, someone would step in and help them. | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. I don't think that's the case where children are concerned. People are too afraid to intervene for fear of repercussions and rediculous accusations. As a mother in a playspace, I've been wary of stepping in when necessary (but did in the end) whilst people (also parents) stood by and watched. You could see they wanted to help but just didn't dare. It is a very sad reflection on society that adults who are supposed to be caregivers and look out for children, are too afraid when something happens. *Her* Nothing should prevent anyone from stepping in to prevent a tragedy - where would society be without our heroes? Not everybody feels capable, for one reason or another, but thank god for those that do xx Well said! I would like to think if any of my grandchildren were in danger, someone would step in and help them." This. Around the ages of two and three, toddlers suddenly develop an insatiable wanderlust. They can be stood right by you one minute, then zoom off before you even realised. My lad was awful for this, it's uncanny how fast they can run! So I'm happy there are still people out there, aware and alert. | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. " At the risk of teaching you to suck eggs... I qualified it, Granny... "...the vast majority of people..." And then there's the minority who act.  | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming " Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid | |||
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid " I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. I don't think that's the case where children are concerned. People are too afraid to intervene for fear of repercussions and rediculous accusations. As a mother in a playspace, I've been wary of stepping in when necessary (but did in the end) whilst people (also parents) stood by and watched. You could see they wanted to help but just didn't dare. It is a very sad reflection on society that adults who are supposed to be caregivers and look out for children, are too afraid when something happens. *Her* " I think you're right. 
The worry of some crazed parent running up and screaming at you for trying to abduct their kid.
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. At the risk of teaching you to suck eggs... I qualified it, Granny... "...the vast majority of people..." And then there's the minority who act. "You can lead a woman to the chicken but you can't make her eat the humble pie. I'm still right. | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid " If a child is in clear danger, I'd take the risk of such an accusation | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. At the risk of teaching you to suck eggs... I qualified it, Granny... "...the vast majority of people..." And then there's the minority who act.
You can lead a woman to the chicken but you can't make her eat the humble pie.
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? " Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. At the risk of teaching you to suck eggs... I qualified it, Granny... "...the vast majority of people..." And then there's the minority who act.
You can lead a woman to the chicken but you can't make her eat the humble pie.
I'm still right.
Of course you are and I bow to your superiour knowledge "Thanks Captain Condescension xx I needed the boost. xx | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. I don't think that's the case where children are concerned. People are too afraid to intervene for fear of repercussions and rediculous accusations. As a mother in a playspace, I've been wary of stepping in when necessary (but did in the end) whilst people (also parents) stood by and watched. You could see they wanted to help but just didn't dare. It is a very sad reflection on society that adults who are supposed to be caregivers and look out for children, are too afraid when something happens. *Her* Nothing should prevent anyone from stepping in to prevent a tragedy - where would society be without our heroes? Not everybody feels capable, for one reason or another, but thank god for those that do xx Well said! I would like to think if any of my grandchildren were in danger, someone would step in and help them. This. Around the ages of two and three, toddlers suddenly develop an insatiable wanderlust. They can be stood right by you one minute, then zoom off before you even realised. My lad was awful for this, it's uncanny how fast they can run! So I'm happy there are still people out there, aware and alert." | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. At the risk of teaching you to suck eggs... I qualified it, Granny... "...the vast majority of people..." And then there's the minority who act.
You can lead a woman to the chicken but you can't make her eat the humble pie.
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid " So a child is running down the middle of the road and you are going to wait for the police to arrive? Would you not get that child out of the immediate danger he obviously was in? I couldn't live with myself if I chose to ignore that situation, for fear of being accused of kidnapping him, and he got run over. Just me! | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing. That's three categories. At the risk of teaching you to suck eggs... I qualified it, Granny... "...the vast majority of people..." And then there's the minority who act.
You can lead a woman to the chicken but you can't make her eat the humble pie.
I'm still right.
Of course you are and I bow to your superiour knowledge
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother " The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid So a child is running down the middle of the road and you are going to wait for the police to arrive? Would you not get that child out of the immediate danger he obviously was in? I couldn't live with myself if I chose to ignore that situation, for fear of being accused of kidnapping him, and he got run over. Just me!"
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother " And that's not the child's fault. Also, in this situation, it sounds like there were witnesses standing by watching this guy helping the little boy, so can hardly accuse him of kidnapping him. | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell..." It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . " "...is all I have to say about that." | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. " Well said!! | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . " are you on drugs ? | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . are you on drugs ? "No, he's on dregs | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!! "It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents . | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents ."9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely? | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?"And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there | |||
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother " This.
I admire the OP's actions but would I do it? - hellll no (for the reasons above). Yes that is a reflection of our society and not every other country has this problem.
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"Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there " Examples...? | |||
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"Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there Examples...? " The guy from glastonbury is asking for examples of bat shit crazy people - where to start? | |||
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother This.
I admire the OP's actions but would I do it? - hellll no (for the reasons above). Yes that is a reflection of our society and not every other country has this problem.
But start a thread on children and see how rational people are about them. "People have to do what they are comfortable with and I respect that, however I would still put the child first, rather than worrying about myself getting accused of kidnap. That's the way I am. I have young grandchildren and whilst I don't envisage them running down the middle of a road, if they did, I would be forever grateful if someone took them out of danger. | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
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"Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there Examples...? The guy from glastonbury is asking for examples of bat shit crazy people - where to start? " People who put the milk in first would be a good starting point. | |||
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"Fuck opinion here bemuses me I give up ,you save the child's life fuck anyone else's opinion ,once child's dead what then " their were loads of perverts around why didn't you save my child ?" !!!!" | |||
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother This.
I admire the OP's actions but would I do it? - hellll no (for the reasons above). Yes that is a reflection of our society and not every other country has this problem.
But start a thread on children and see how rational people are about them.
People have to do what they are comfortable with and I respect that, however I would still put the child first, rather than worrying about myself getting accused of kidnap. That's the way I am. I have young grandchildren and whilst I don't envisage them running down the middle of a road, if they did, I would be forever grateful if someone took them out of danger."It ain't kidnap I'd be worried about being accused of! I think a woman could pull it off no problem, but a man with a child might not get the benefit of the doubt... its not nice and I wouldn't choose it that way, but that's how I see it. | |||
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"Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there Examples...? The guy from glastonbury is asking for examples of bat shit crazy people - where to start? People who put the milk in first would be a good starting point. " According to our Christmas experience of board games, some people believe that seeing their opponent roll first can influence the number they subsequently roll #batshitcrazy | |||
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother " how do you know these things? Why a bad mother? Noone has said who was in charge of the child, mother, father, grandparents. Have you never known anyone whose child has slipped them? They can be like bloody Houdini . | |||
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother how do you know these things? Why a bad mother? Noone has said who was in charge of the child, mother, father, grandparents. Have you never known anyone whose child has slipped them? They can be like bloody Houdini . " Absolutely! I would think the majority of people who's child was being helped, would be very grateful, I certainly would. | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
"That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events. Man carrying screaming child to car! What world do you live in numb nuts! | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
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if there was no other person around, I would help. If there were others, I would not.
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!"The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!
The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency
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"I've learned my lesson on these things, I was in Glasgow about 2years ago, a little girl about 7 fell and was bleeding out her nose and mouth, I tried to do the right thing and help her while trying to see if I could see her parents, next thing I knew I was pulled away from her, slapped in the face and called a peadophile by the mother. So from now on if I see a child getting hurt I walk right past and don't get involved" did that really happen if so I'm assuming you involved the police | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!
The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency
why would you assume everyone has a phone that takes videos."It's advice you can take it or leave it . I don't care what you do or anyone else Does I was just giving my opinion on what I would do to safeguard myself in that event | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!
The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency
why would you assume everyone has a phone that takes videos.
It's advice you can take it or leave it . I don't care what you do or anyone else
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I was just giving my opinion on what I would do to safeguard myself in that event
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!
The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency
why would you assume everyone has a phone that takes videos.
It's advice you can take it or leave it . I don't care what you do or anyone else
Does
I was just giving my opinion on what I would do to safeguard myself in that event
and I asked you a question further up the thread that you didn't answer
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid " Is the sarcasm? | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid Is the sarcasm?" This* | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
"This evening on the news ar six "man arested for filming three year old on his phone, police later found links to disturbing sex sites on mans phone,get the full story after this word from our sponsor's!!" | |||
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" But as a male anything with children theae days does give you a moments pause" Anything that requires logical thinking from the general public gives me a moments pause. Some of us still remember Dr Cloete who had her property vandalised by people that couldn't tell the difference between a pediatrician and a pedophile. | |||
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"Most people are well meaning but too slow and unassertive to realise there's a problem and then be the person that solves the problem. Theought most of thier lives people live with other people there to take charge and fix things. Thier parents, their teacher, thier manager etc few develop the skills to actually take charge But as a male anything with children theae days does give you a moments pause" | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
This evening on the news ar six "man arested for filming three year old on his phone, police later found links to disturbing sex sites on mans phone,get the full story after this word from our sponsor's!!""Post the link as its not quite 6 pm yet . | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!
The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency
why would you assume everyone has a phone that takes videos.
It's advice you can take it or leave it . I don't care what you do or anyone else
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I was just giving my opinion on what I would do to safeguard myself in that event
and I asked you a question further up the thread that you didn't answer
I beleive I did answer it
But to clarify "I don't care what you do or anyone else
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
This evening on the news ar six "man arested for filming three year old on his phone, police later found links to disturbing sex sites on mans phone,get the full story after this word from our sponsor's!!"
Post the link as its not quite 6 pm yet . "I...i don't even...just...sigh | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
This evening on the news ar six "man arested for filming three year old on his phone, police later found links to disturbing sex sites on mans phone,get the full story after this word from our sponsor's!!""are you saying that if a toddler was running down the middle of the road about to get run over someome would film it for a sex site. Where talking about what you would do in an emergency not about premeditation | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
This evening on the news ar six "man arested for filming three year old on his phone, police later found links to disturbing sex sites on mans phone,get the full story after this word from our sponsor's!!"are you saying that if a toddler was running down the middle of the road about to get run over someome would film it for a sex site.
Where talking about what you would do in an emergency not about premeditation
"No. Not at all i was pointing out the potential absurd consequences of pulling out your phone and filming yourself rescuing the child running down the road to prove youre not a child abducting pedophile as was suggested. As everyone reports younfor filming a child, they check the phone and find fabs (fox news disturbing sex site). I swear brass eye should be mandatory _iewing for people before they're alowed on the Internet. | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . " What a load of bollocks you are stating, I have child safeguarding training for professional purposes. My only advice to the OP, is that as there were others around you ask one of them to stay with you so you are never alone with a child. Otherwise you did exactly the right thing. this from a professional with safeguarding responsibility. | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . What a load of bollocks you are stating, I have child safeguarding training for professional purposes. My only advice to the OP, is that as there were others around you ask one of them to stay with you so you are never alone with a child. Otherwise you did exactly the right thing. this from a professional with safeguarding responsibility. " That's really good advice, that way everyone is 'protected' | |||
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"Oh when it comes to the police, if you report something where a child is in iminant danger, every time you've moaned about them being slow, about how shit they were when your car gor vandalised or stolen etc evaporates. They will be there so fast and in so much force that you realise just why they were slow or a shit undermanned when you were upset about your car. When I reported two kids being abducted while i kept the two men with them talking in under 5 miniutes had 4 police cars (one from each road of the cross roads) turn up including the armed reaponse van. Think there wnded up ebing about 10 officers there in total by the ten miniute mark " That's really good, however where we live, we are at least 10 minutes from the nearest town and we don't have local bobbies anymore, so if this happened in my area, I would have to take action, rather than wait 10 minutes for a police car, it may be too late by then. Agree the police are not all bad | |||
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"Oh when it comes to the police, if you report something where a child is in iminant danger, every time you've moaned about them being slow, about how shit they were when your car gor vandalised or stolen etc evaporates. They will be there so fast and in so much force that you realise just why they were slow or a shit undermanned when you were upset about your car. When I reported two kids being abducted while i kept the two men with them talking in under 5 miniutes had 4 police cars (one from each road of the cross roads) turn up including the armed reaponse van. Think there wnded up ebing about 10 officers there in total by the ten miniute mark That's really good, however where we live, we are at least 10 minutes from the nearest town and we don't have local bobbies anymore, so if this happened in my area, I would have to take action, rather than wait 10 minutes for a police car, it may be too late by then. Agree the police are not all bad "Ten miniutes at what speed? There will be cars in your area and when something like that comes up all of them will be heading there in the teipple digets if they have to. I was shitting myself tbh but it all worked out ok. One of the kids had been reported missing that morning the other was homeless and ran away from the police. The police did give me and the gf at the time a lift back home though which was good. | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!
The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency
"Child running down a the middle of a road, car could be/ maybe approaching, hold on a second let me stretch over and get my phone. Ok got phone, now let me go into settings to locate camera, Marmite, people are laughing at you now | |||
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"When adults become scared of children, we have a problem as a society. Well said!!
It's not the children that's the problem it's the parents .
9 times out of 10, correct - but doesn't mean you wait for the parents to do something if there is a situation of a child in danger, surely?
And that 1 in 10 parents says I didn't let my child out that man tried kidnapping him must have taken him through open window : if you had put your phone video you can't be accused of stuff
Like I said some bat shit crazy people out there
That's right I flew out of my car, I held the child and escorted him to the pavement, now by your statement, i should of carried a screaming child to my car to retrieve my phone to record the events.
Man carrying screaming child to car!
What world do you live in numb nuts!
The one where people are sensible enough to take a phone from the car in a emergency
Child running down a the middle of a road, car could be/ maybe approaching, hold on a second let me stretch over and get my phone.
Ok got phone, now let me go into settings to locate camera,
Marmite, people are laughing at you now "You did good mate. Just remember that theres potentially 90+ years of haply future running around that might not have been if you hadnt acted | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . What a load of bollocks you are stating, I have child safeguarding training for professional purposes. My only advice to the OP, is that as there were others around you ask one of them to stay with you so you are never alone with a child. Otherwise you did exactly the right thing. this from a professional with safeguarding responsibility. " I actually walked the child across the other side of the road infront of a temple and I did beckon a woman to stand by me. So yes because of todays society it went through my head, I need a woman here. But I'm sure if a woman was in my position, she wouldn't be thinking I need a man here. And i felt bad that I had those thoughts of what people who hasn't seen the full picture might think. And then you've got numb nuts further up on the thread saying I should of recorded it on my phone | |||
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"Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother The 'dregs of society'? Do tell... It's upto you what you do . Your obviously going to argue about this for some stupid reason that is beyond me But take my advice at the very least video what your doing and saying with other people's kids especially if you see them in the street . Just switch the video on yoy don't need to make a big thing of it A few seconds to safeguard yourself is always worth the time and stops false allegations later . Did you know the police won't touch a child without another officer as an witness if they don't have ccctv in their car or on them unless there is a serious risk to harm . Call the police and show them the video if you think they have or may have been in danger . What a load of bollocks you are stating, I have child safeguarding training for professional purposes. My only advice to the OP, is that as there were others around you ask one of them to stay with you so you are never alone with a child. Otherwise you did exactly the right thing. this from a professional with safeguarding responsibility. I actually walked the child across the other side of the road infront of a temple and I did beckon a woman to stand by me. So yes because of todays society it went through my head, I need a woman here. But I'm sure if a woman was in my position, she wouldn't be thinking I need a man here. And i felt bad that I had those thoughts of what people who hasn't seen the full picture might think. And then you've got numb nuts further up on the thread saying I should of recorded it on my phone" I don't know about that , Myra hindley saw to it that women can get tarred with the same brush Those that are older than you were told to speak to a woman if your lost . Now we tell our kids to speak to a police man only or ring us The next step we will take with our kids is gps tagging and I can see that happening in my kids lifetime if not mine | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that" "you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'? did you not think to step forward before you say you did..? smells fishy now.. | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that"
you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'?
did you not think to step forward before you say you did..?
smells fishy now..
"Easy pickings you are. His brothers who came looking for him came from two corners away. Next question!! | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing." | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that"
you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'?
did you not think to step forward before you say you did..?
smells fishy now..
Easy pickings you are.
His brothers who came looking for him came from two corners away.
Next question!!"funny how you were so detailed in your OP and yet omitted to mention the brothers.. | |||
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"A friend and I (female) were in Fleetwood and a boy was fishing for crabs in the boating pond. We peered into his bucket and he had been lucky - he had caught some. We asked him how long it had takem him to catch them. The boy replied: 'My mum and dad say I can't speak to strangers.' His mum and dad were only 25ft away. There is a lot of paranoia around." Reminds me of a holiday I had in Malta, we had been to the beach and I found a hermit crab. Thinking it would be of interest to my mates two little daughters I took it back in a bucket of seawater for them to the bar he runs. 'Daddy, daddy Robert's given us crabs' The shouted through the bar excitedly. | |||
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"15mins ago I'm in my car parked up on a busy residential road where buses travel on. To my astonishment a little baby boy of around three years old is running down the middle of the road by himself, and no one intervenes. I jump out of my car and take him to one side. Now he's screaming, and people are looking at me. All ended well he opened the front door and went for a wonder. Has our society gone that bad that no one was prepared to help a helpless child, and then I'm thinking do they think I'm abducting him. At the moment, I'm angry with what we are becoming " Unfortunatly we live in a sick society,very sick | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that"
you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'?
did you not think to step forward before you say you did..?
smells fishy now..
Easy pickings you are.
His brothers who came looking for him came from two corners away.
Next question!!
funny how you were so detailed in your OP and yet omitted to mention the brothers..
"How detailed do you want it, his race the colour of his hair how much he weighed, what door number he lived at. Read my post, if you find the question too upsetting for you maybe because you are or would be a bye stander, then please carry on knocking that you don't believe. At least ive got your attention and your spending your evening messaging a fantasist, no who's the Muppet lol.... Next question | |||
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"A friend and I (female) were in Fleetwood and a boy was fishing for crabs in the boating pond. We peered into his bucket and he had been lucky - he had caught some. We asked him how long it had takem him to catch them. The boy replied: 'My mum and dad say I can't speak to strangers.' His mum and dad were only 25ft away. There is a lot of paranoia around." That's not a sign of how things change: https://youtu.be/y3FnCiRpdQ4 (Though nowadays if a strange lady offers to show me her puppies, I'm after her like a shot. )
You did good OP, never worry about other people, just do what you would want anyone else to do if it was your kid.
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"I've learned my lesson on these things, I was in Glasgow about 2years ago, a little girl about 7 fell and was bleeding out her nose and mouth, I tried to do the right thing and help her while trying to see if I could see her parents, next thing I knew I was pulled away from her, slapped in the face and called a peadophile by the mother. So from now on if I see a child getting hurt I walk right past and don't get involveddid that really happen if so I'm assuming you involved the police " yes it really happened, no why would I involve the police? | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that"
you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'?
did you not think to step forward before you say you did..?
smells fishy now..
Easy pickings you are.
His brothers who came looking for him came from two corners away.
Next question!!
funny how you were so detailed in your OP and yet omitted to mention the brothers..
How detailed do you want it, his race the colour of his hair how much he weighed, what door number he lived at.
Read my post, if you find the question too upsetting for you maybe because you are or would be a bye stander, then please carry on knocking that you don't believe.
At least ive got your attention and your spending your evening messaging a fantasist, no who's the Muppet lol....
Next question "your responses have been defensive and sniping when in reality i said earlier that you did the right thing.. is it because your not good with criticism that you feel the need to resort to childish jibes about bystanding and being upset..? | |||
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Unfortunately there are plenty of bell ends on here who want cctv footage and a re enactment of event before they will believe someone has done a good deed.
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that"
you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'?
did you not think to step forward before you say you did..?
smells fishy now..
Easy pickings you are.
His brothers who came looking for him came from two corners away.
Next question!!
funny how you were so detailed in your OP and yet omitted to mention the brothers..
How detailed do you want it, his race the colour of his hair how much he weighed, what door number he lived at.
Read my post, if you find the question too upsetting for you maybe because you are or would be a bye stander, then please carry on knocking that you don't believe.
At least ive got your attention and your spending your evening messaging a fantasist, no who's the Muppet lol....
Next question
your responses have been defensive and sniping when in reality i said earlier that you did the right thing..
is it because your not good with criticism that you feel the need to resort to childish jibes about bystanding and being upset..?
"If I've upset you I apologise, but all I was doing was responding to your accusation that maybe I'm telling untruth. People have responded by stating that they wouldn't do what I did. I havnt responded. But if some ask me a question or make an assumption of my credibility. Then I'm responding withe the full force of Mr man. | |||
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that"
you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'?
did you not think to step forward before you say you did..?
smells fishy now..
Easy pickings you are.
His brothers who came looking for him came from two corners away.
Next question!!
funny how you were so detailed in your OP and yet omitted to mention the brothers..
How detailed do you want it, his race the colour of his hair how much he weighed, what door number he lived at.
Read my post, if you find the question too upsetting for you maybe because you are or would be a bye stander, then please carry on knocking that you don't believe.
At least ive got your attention and your spending your evening messaging a fantasist, no who's the Muppet lol....
Next question
your responses have been defensive and sniping when in reality i said earlier that you did the right thing..
is it because your not good with criticism that you feel the need to resort to childish jibes about bystanding and being upset..?
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"Which is what, exactly? That every body is shit scared to act when they see a child running down the road he passed people who were on the pavement just looking and doing nothing. That's what! maybe you just reacted quicker, you did what was right.. society isn't perfect but not sure i share your _iew that we are becoming something worse or bad because a curious 3 year old opens a door and wanders out (as potentially dangerous as it may have been) you don't know what those looking were thinking.. The child navigated two corners from where he lived, I would like to know what you would be thinking if you saw a child running down the middle of a road by himself. Something like "oh dear, look at that"
you watched the child 'navigate 2 corners'?
did you not think to step forward before you say you did..?
smells fishy now..
Easy pickings you are.
His brothers who came looking for him came from two corners away.
Next question!!
funny how you were so detailed in your OP and yet omitted to mention the brothers..
How detailed do you want it, his race the colour of his hair how much he weighed, what door number he lived at.
Read my post, if you find the question too upsetting for you maybe because you are or would be a bye stander, then please carry on knocking that you don't believe.
At least ive got your attention and your spending your evening messaging a fantasist, no who's the Muppet lol....
Next question
your responses have been defensive and sniping when in reality i said earlier that you did the right thing..
is it because your not good with criticism that you feel the need to resort to childish jibes about bystanding and being upset..?
If I've upset you I apologise, but all I was doing was responding to your accusation that maybe I'm telling untruth.
People have responded by stating that they wouldn't do what I did. I havnt responded.
But if some ask me a question or make an assumption of my credibility. Then I'm responding withe the full force of Mr man."i'm not upset.. | |||
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"The problem is, in crisis situations, that the vast majority of people fall in to two categories: 1/ those who don;t know what to do 2/ those who think someone else will do something You did the right thing." Agree | |||
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"Oh when it comes to the police, if you report something where a child is in iminant danger, every time you've moaned about them being slow, about how shit they were when your car gor vandalised or stolen etc evaporates. They will be there so fast and in so much force that you realise just why they were slow or a shit undermanned when you were upset about your car. When I reported two kids being abducted while i kept the two men with them talking in under 5 miniutes had 4 police cars (one from each road of the cross roads) turn up including the armed reaponse van. Think there wnded up ebing about 10 officers there in total by the ten miniute mark That's really good, however where we live, we are at least 10 minutes from the nearest town and we don't have local bobbies anymore, so if this happened in my area, I would have to take action, rather than wait 10 minutes for a police car, it may be too late by then. Agree the police are not all bad
Ten miniutes at what speed?
There will be cars in your area and when something like that comes up all of them will be heading there in the teipple digets if they have to.
I was shitting myself tbh but it all worked out ok.
One of the kids had been reported missing that morning the other was homeless and ran away from the police.
The police did give me and the gf at the time a lift back home though which was good."Believe me, from experience, there are not police cars in our area, we live out in the country. | |||
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"Never touch anyone's child or speak to them it's so easy to be accused . You should have called the police and follow the child or videos your self and the child It's so easy to be accused of trying to kidnap a kid I disagree. It is incumbent upon adults to keep children safe and on the right path - whether they're your or someone else's. Let's assume, for a moment, that something had gone wrong and with the nest intentions that child had escaped from its parents and for whatever reason was running down the road. Let's assume for a moment that it was your child. Would you rather no-one did anything? Yoy have no idea how bat shit crazy some people are . I deal with the dregs of society on a daily basis . I also know that the sort of person that allows a 3 year old or doesn't notice a 3 year old missing is likely to accuse you of being a kiddy snatcher Rather than accept they are a bad mother how do you know these things? Why a bad mother? Noone has said who was in charge of the child, mother, father, grandparents. Have you never known anyone whose child has slipped them? They can be like bloody Houdini . " Because any decent parent will blame themselves, as lots have said you turn your back on them for a second and they disappear. The decent parent wil have the train of thought that they shouldn't have taken their eyes off the child. | |||
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