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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who prefers social meets to begin

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we do.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, I'm picky about personality first and foremost

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I request social that way i get to find out chemistry.. am picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who prefers social meets to begin"

Always the best way. Allows you to get a feeling about potential meets x

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

Most definitely

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Not alway's

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think that social meets first make you any more discerning about your partners, for me its a case of being too nervous at a first meeting so it would spoil things for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone is up for social I'm free until 4th

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I do prefer a social first as it says on ma profile, but it's not a prerequisite

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Doesn't bother me either way, depends on what the lady wants. If she wants a social first I'm happy to do that. If she just wants to meet and fuck straight off the bat then I'm happy to do that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer social over anything else, make friends first, that's what this is all about for me

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Most of the time yes.

Depending on how randy I'm feeling, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the time yes.

Depending on how randy I'm feeling, no"

This

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I prefer a social first. Check out personality. Even in a club I tend to chat at the bar before I whisk them away

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Happy to meet for a social....if we all get on I'm happy to take things further on that first meet... if everyone is happy to just meet I'm happy with that as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given the time yes, but as work is eating more and more into our free time, our socials seem to have evolved into 'socials with options'. Although we do still enjoy social only meets, when playing isn't an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are good but I go with the flow and see what happens if nothing then so be it. If I get lucky then always a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who prefers social meets to begin"

Nah, usualy seems a waste of time.

Im not opposed to them but its generally easier just to get to know each other in private, on the sofa or in bed

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Almost always

Plus I like socials generally

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Always. Couldn't just meet some random and jump straight into bed with them doesn't matter how long I've been chatting to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love socials,pooch even come along occasionally too ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love socials here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that social meets first make you any more discerning about your partners

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For me: on here, social first. Off here, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, always good to meet with no expectation and then if you get on its a bonus

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I like socials - but also "socials with options".

Would never meet someone for sex without having met them somewhere neutral first - I can't decide 100% if I fancy someone from pictures - equally, they may decide that upon meeting me, they don't fancy me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ideally yes, in practice not always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes- although I have bern known to play immediately after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer a straightforward, no-nonsense social. If we click, that's a bonus for the future.

I'd avoid social-with-options, on the basis that I'd feel awkward, if my best option was to say 'no thanks'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us do......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always prefer a straightforward, no-nonsense social. If we click, that's a bonus for the future.

I'd avoid social-with-options, on the basis that I'd feel awkward, if my best option was to say 'no thanks'."

This reads as "I'm too cowardly to turn a woman down to her face so i have to wait till the social is over and do it via text"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always prefer a straightforward, no-nonsense social. If we click, that's a bonus for the future.

I'd avoid social-with-options, on the basis that I'd feel awkward, if my best option was to say 'no thanks'.

This reads as "I'm too cowardly to turn a woman down to her face so i have to wait till the social is over and do it via text""

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

If we're meeting as a couple then it's always a social with options but if P's planning a solo meet then it's always a public meeting with a cheeky fumble if she wants to take it further at a later date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not interested in socials, just meet at a club.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We insist on a social first and it works well for us. Saves the awkwardness of saying Oh fuck no way in a club or house.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always prefer a straightforward, no-nonsense social. If we click, that's a bonus for the future.

I'd avoid social-with-options, on the basis that I'd feel awkward, if my best option was to say 'no thanks'.

This reads as "I'm too cowardly to turn a woman down to her face so i have to wait till the social is over and do it via text""

A straightforward social does not require any meaningful decisions, or telling anyone yes/no/whatever. Coffee & a chat is 100% harmless.

Being a full-on munter myself, I'm most likely to be the one sent home. I've only met once for social-with-options and we got along fine. Never been in a position where I had to disappoint someone, so have no idea what I'd say. What I do know for sure, is that I'd be honest.

The kindest thing to do, if you have doubts about the person being right for you, is not meet at all.

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