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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Given up the fags! last one was 19th December... but really feeling the need to spend £10 to get my friends back today!

Someone PLEASE tell me how bloody stupid an idea it is, and what I can do for the next few hours to stop me wanting one.

Got a vape, filled with flavour, been sucking hard on it for the last 30 mins......

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its a BLOODY STUPID idea!!!

Honestly it is, you will smell so much worse if you smoke a cigarette now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean get your friends back?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Don't do it!

It's habit. You've kicked it already. The craving will pass. Don't undo all your good work.

I'm going to kick start my lardy arse and then stop too.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's a really stupid idea...you've done the worst bit.. Keep up the good non smoking work. Don't waste what you already have achieved

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm working towards a situation where I only smoke in public, for maximum outrage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having a bad day the vape is sort of working, but my friends (B&H) are calling for me... I can hear them at every friggin shop I pass!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Having a bad day the vape is sort of working, but my friends (B&H) are calling for me... I can hear them at every friggin shop I pass!

"

They are not your friends.

You are a non-smoker.

Be proud of yourself.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Chew nicotine gum.. dont smoke any more you can do it ..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

But a packet and have one, then you will have another, then quilt will set in by the third, by the end of the packet you will be so guilty and angry with yourself you will buy another packet and realised you've become addicted again after all your hard work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gum is not my thing... this vape has worked sooo well for the last week or so, im out working with friends that are all smokers in a bit.. call it anti social maybe, but I am the only one who will be sat in the office doing the work of 6 people whilst they are all out puffing away.... sigh! I DONT need one.... I DONT need one.... I DONT need one.....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You're messing round here in your fag break.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Gum is not my thing... this vape has worked sooo well for the last week or so, im out working with friends that are all smokers in a bit.. call it anti social maybe, but I am the only one who will be sat in the office doing the work of 6 people whilst they are all out puffing away.... sigh! I DONT need one.... I DONT need one.... I DONT need one.....

"
each time they go for a fag just make a drink and have a five minutes ute break then start again when they come back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The next cigarette you smoke could be the one that kills you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Today is just soo hard though, don't know why as I have managed since 19th so quite proud of what I have achieved, just feeling a bit empty today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're now a non-smoker. Cigarette breaks don't apply to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking can mean life or death. Choose life.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Nasty smelly fags. You have done so well. Don't give in. I won't come and snog you if you go back on cigarettes. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nasty smelly fags. You have done so well. Don't give in. I won't come and snog you if you go back on cigarettes. Xxx"

Ohhhhh now that's an incentive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean get your friends back?"

They come in packs of 10 or 20 ... nasty friends that kill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visit a cancer ward at your local hospital. Maybe do some volunteer work. You will get all the incentive to stay a non smoker right there... well done you and NEVER go back!

From an ex-smoker who beat lung cancer ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Visit a cancer ward at your local hospital. Maybe do some volunteer work. You will get all the incentive to stay a non smoker right there... well done you and NEVER go back!

From an ex-smoker who beat lung cancer ...."

Congrats on beating the big C

As for the other, my mum has the C word, its watching her the way she is now that made me actually WANT to stop, but the craving is hitting me hard todasy.... hitting the vape hard at the moment, almost half a bottle in 45 mins!

Top up, new flavour and keep going... thanks everyone, I WILL beat this if its the last thing I do!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Visit a cancer ward at your local hospital. Maybe do some volunteer work. You will get all the incentive to stay a non smoker right there... well done you and NEVER go back!

From an ex-smoker who beat lung cancer ...."

This post is the inspiration you need. Read this on the hour every hour. Also my snog offer. Sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends don't kill you! You will be so happy with your achievement when you are through this rough patch. Will be the best decision you ever made! Well done on getting this far, keep going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good-luck overcoming the cravings .....

I hope you manage to stay off the fags,,,

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Stop being a baby.

Here's how to stop.

Imagine you are on a desert island. No escape. No communication.

No fags.

Do you die ? No.

Do you become ill? No.

Do you get fitter ? Yes.

You are a smoker now and remain a smoker because you believe , like many do, that bad will befall you if you don't have your cigarette.

Bollocks.

Like many smokers you use that excuse to carry on doing just exactly as you wish.

If you want to stop. You will and there will only be benefits.

Invest your energies elsewhere.

You are already a non smoker. Stay that way.

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

who wants to be a junkie....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well with the last few posts I think I have been severely kicked in the balls!

The post a few up is a good one, on the hour every hour look back on these posts and say "I'm a NON smoker" whilst enjoying a lovely cuppa Tea, never drank soo much in my life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh and the snog offer too as long as its in the santa outfit

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

They are not your friends,they are slowly trying to kill you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Craving stopped for a bit enjoying taking the piss out of the others they came back into the office and the smell was horrible!!!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Oh and the snog offer too as long as its in the santa outfit "

Will keep the Santa outfit neatly wrapped up ready. Remember the ex smoker who beat lung cancer and the Santa lady ready for a snog.

Whenever the cravings return, think of us two willing you on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and the snog offer too as long as its in the santa outfit

Will keep the Santa outfit neatly wrapped up ready. Remember the ex smoker who beat lung cancer and the Santa lady ready for a snog.

Whenever the cravings return, think of us two willing you on. "

I will actually hold you to that

come to my happy place (Mingles) with Santa outfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...alternatively get a tenner out and set fire to it ... its the same thing ..

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Nasty smelly fags. You have done so well. Don't give in. I won't come and snog you if you go back on cigarettes. Xxx"

Definitely a reason to stay off the fags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Congrats on beating the big C

As for the other, my mum has the C word, its watching her the way she is now that made me actually WANT to stop, but the craving is hitting me hard todasy.... hitting the vape hard at the moment, almost half a bottle in 45 mins!

Top up, new flavour and keep going... thanks everyone, I WILL beat this if its the last thing I do!

"

Thanks ...

I have lost my Brother in Law and a friends mother to Cancer this year. Their passing is bad but watching them get there is the terrible bit. You have made the decision, you have the reasons and you have a way to handle it. keep going one day at a time mate ....

I just kept a packet of my Yank Marlboros in my pocket still with cellophane wrap and every time I had the temptation just didn't open them. 5 year later they were still wrapped ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your doing spiffingly well , stick to the vapour and Thi k of all the wonderful thi gs you can but with that ten pounds.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Spend some of the saved money on a nice new vape setup, just get advice first if you do. The flavour and drop in the nicotine required to get the same hit is immense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spend some of the saved money on a nice new vape setup, just get advice first if you do. The flavour and drop in the nicotine required to get the same hit is immense."

I went to see a good friend a few weeks ago and she suggested the vape i am now using, she set it up for me cost a small fortune though, but worth it in the end!

Saving £10 a time so i can spend more time at my favourite club! haha

Thanks guys n girls, much appreciated this afternoon

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