FabSwingers.com forum: 2015 taught me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What did 2015 teach you? A lot happened for me and I'm still recovering from a slight broken heart. Lesson learned.

What did you learn?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Fuck all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more patience than I thought.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Breaking up with a fwb is harder than i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, where to start...

I learned people can fake whole relationships.

I learned people can have no feelings at all for someone but fake that.

I learned who is there for me when i need them.

I learned i lost myself being with a manipulative dickhead, and now i remember how awesome i was before i met him because i'm working on becoming me again.

I learned how to fuck off people i love that don't care about me, and still love them afterwards.

I learned not to make excuses for people, if their bullshit doesn't sit right then it doesn't sit right - no excuses for it.

I learnt it's ok to be selfish.

I learned everything i wanted when i was younger is normal but society didn't accept it at the time.

I learned not to regret anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmmm, where to start...

I learned people can fake whole relationships.

I learned people can have no feelings at all for someone but fake that.

I learned who is there for me when i need them.

I learned i lost myself being with a manipulative dickhead, and now i remember how awesome i was before i met him because i'm working on becoming me again.

I learned how to fuck off people i love that don't care about me, and still love them afterwards.

I learned not to make excuses for people, if their bullshit doesn't sit right then it doesn't sit right - no excuses for it.

I learnt it's ok to be selfish.

I learned everything i wanted when i was younger is normal but society didn't accept it at the time.

I learned not to regret anything."

This! I learned it's OK to have a spine and realise the importance of your own happiness. No matter how much you love someone if they don't care about making you happy you're better off without them

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I've found out that I'm 1/4 poorer with the appreciation of USD. Grrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With fab help...ohh lot new nauthy things about myself and lot sexy fun.

Fab & real life

More cofidence.

Dont trust almost anyone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2015 taught me that Fab existed.

What a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am really good at Spanish. I started learning me Spanish in earlie 2015 and I have come a long way and now I can talk about myself and hold a very basic convo.

Me gusta estudiar español

I like to study Spanish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt not to give a damn what people think of me and what I do on here and at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2015 has shown me that I'm actually more paranoid and insecure than I first thought

( ok I've always been the most paranoid person I have ever meet)

But now realise I have to work on this as life is way too short.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I discovered Fabs

Realised I missed being a pro Domme

That some chaps will swim through a river of snot and shit if he thinks there'll be a friendly pussy awaiting him (to paraphrase Valerie Solanas)

That I really dislike mangos

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By *i-cambsMan
over a year ago

March

I didnt need to learn anything. I am still the same generous caring guy i was brought up to by my lovelly cockney mum xxx

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By *amesDeeMan
over a year ago

Bristol

On the downside, keep in regular touch with those you care about even when life goes crazy - someone has suddenly disappeared from all means of communication, very concerned

On the upside, even if you don't know how a dream will manifest, work and prepare for it and the opportunity can then be taken when it calls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've paid another shite loads in taxes yet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the downside, keep in regular touch with those you care about even when life goes crazy - someone has suddenly disappeared from all means of communication, very concerned

On the upside, even if you don't know how a dream will manifest, work and prepare for it and the opportunity can then be taken when it calls

After 26 yrs It's been hard adapting to the break up it's hard @1st but you get to come to terms as long as it's worked around the kids and there happy I'm happy etc , But new future new me loving single life. Watch out 2016 here I come "Raaaaaaahhhhhhh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2015 = Freedom. The year I finally learned that being ME is all I need to be and it's far better to be single and on my own than be in a relationship and feel lonely and scared.

I'm the happiest I have ever been in my life and I'm making the most of every moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2015 = Freedom. The year I finally learned that being ME is all I need to be and it's far better to be single and on my own than be in a relationship and feel lonely and scared.

I'm the happiest I have ever been in my life and I'm making the most of every moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2015 = Freedom. The year I finally learned that being ME is all I need to be and it's far better to be single and on my own than be in a relationship and feel lonely and scared.

I'm the happiest I have ever been in my life and I'm making the most of every moment.

That's the spirit hun, wishing you all the best for 2016 sweetheart

Live life laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2015 taught me that Fab existed.

What a year.

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harlot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That life really is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That life is too short, we only get one go on this pale blue dot.

Not to hang on to the past, just smile at happy memories. Some things you want may not be for you so let go.

More confident in who I am and maybe I am not as bad or ugly as I thought.

Just to take more time to enjoy life and all it has to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned that actually life is long. And I like to keep learning and stay open-minded.

I learned not to be quite as cynical and have a little fun. I have been pleasantly surprised this year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outside Fab - that I'm very clear on the one thing I want (that I really, really want) - and no, this isn't a Spice Girl song.

On Fab - if there's someone you like, however unobtainable or unlikely, go say hello. Worst they can do is block, ignore you or say no - and at least then you'll know you're not right for them. But you never know, you might get a new online friend if nothing else. There's one lady I've liked for over a year that I didn't say hello to until the last few weeks and we're hopefully catching up soon

I've also learnt to try and be clear as you can and to make sure things are understood. Lost one amazing friend through simple misunderstandings and mis communication which is sad.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I've learnt that after a few years of being single, the time may have come where i'm ready to meet someone again. Might also need some therapy before I do though!

I've learnt that some people pose as friends but really they are drains. Draining the love, time, emotion out of me. And those people have been told to naff off. I'd rather have 2 close friends than 10 drains any day.

I've learnt that with patience and perseverance good things happen. I started looking for a property in Feb and only found 'the one' earlier this month. It's my first buy so I had to be sure!

I've learnt that i'm not really part of the crowd at work...but that it doesn't bother me because next year i'll be telling them where to stick their job!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Life is too short...you never get to spend enough time with loved ones.

I, Red am not as fat, ugly or undesirable I thought I was.

Total strangers can become very good friends...and allow you to perv on them in their pants.

Last thing I've learnt is working for guide dogs looking after a puppy was one of the most rewarding things I have ever done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life is too short...you never get to spend enough time with loved ones.

I, Red am not as fat, ugly or undesirable I thought I was.

Total strangers can become very good friends...and allow you to perv on them in their pants.

Last thing I've learnt is working for guide dogs looking after a puppy was one of the most rewarding things I have ever done. "

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I didn't learn much but had a lot reaffirmed.

I am very fortunate in life, I am happy being me and I won't be changing

I am constantly bewildered at people and how they live their life in a certain way and keep getting the same results and then question: why

I worry about people's addiction to living their life out on social media, their vulnerabilities for all to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've rediscovered fab this year and that although it's been a hell of a roller coaster, I've learned a lot about myself and my relationship through it!

I love how my fab life has such a good knock on effect on the rest of my life too! I'm looking forward to more in 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2015 taught me that Fab existed.

What a year.

harlot

Moi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2015 = Freedom. The year I finally learned that being ME is all I need to be and it's far better to be single and on my own than be in a relationship and feel lonely and scared.

I'm the happiest I have ever been in my life and I'm making the most of every moment.

Fantastic xxxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This year I learnt how to live, I conquered some fears that held me back.

I've become very selfish and its working wonders with my mental health and I've confirmed just how much I don't give a shit about what random people think of the way I look, dress or anything else about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that life's to short, and that I should take each day as it comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck all"

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

That 2015 has rebuilt my swinging confidence

Went to first socials in years, met loads more people this year than last 4.

That I am actually good at my job now I have had a whole year not working for the biggest arsehole on the planet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is very short and takes no prisoners. Lost a few friends this year. It won't get better in 2016 in that respect but I've enlarged my bucket list and Jan 26 will have one more big one ticked off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt about how strong I really am inside and I also learnt after having premature twins how much life and death is a knife edge and how much little babies can fight for there lives....I also learnt how strong my older children are and how I can't do everything on my own and I do need to ask for help......oh and I came back to fab of course

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