FabSwingers.com forum: Advice needed

By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

On Christmas Eve I (Emm) went to the cemetery to visit my son's grave. There were a lot of fallen leaves and I tripped over a concrete grave edging because it was obscured and pitched face-first into an old marble headstone.

I have several nasty lacerations, grazes and a fractured eye socket - it all looks very unsightly. We were planning to go to Abfabs bi night this Monday coming - I don't expect to play and I'll be avoiding the pool and hot tubs but Zed might get the chance to do all that so here's my question... what would you do? Would you still go along even if you looked like you'd done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson? Should I go along and risk people doing a double take in horror? Or should I stay away so I don't shock people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male or female half of the couple posting?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Go.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Male or female half of the couple posting? "

She said ,,,,,,,,,,, I Emm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd stay home and recover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel up to it why not?

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

If you want a night out and feel up to it, go.

If you are a regular there, your friends will either be sympathetic or have a laugh at your expense...

I know which my friends would do..

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

If you feel like going, then going. Bumps and bruises should not deter people. At least it gives you something to talk about to start conversations!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"If you want a night out and feel up to it, go.

If you are a regular there, your friends will either be sympathetic or have a laugh at your expense...

I know which my friends would do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel up to going...fuck it go! Just expect to retell your story lots of times! Lol.

Ps hope your bruises go soon x

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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

Thanks guys. I think I'll go for the social side and you're right - it might be a conversation starter. As I said earlier though, I'll stay out of the water (water borne bacteria etc) and am happy not to play. I feel ok in myself - I just don't look too alluring right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys. I think I'll go for the social side and you're right - it might be a conversation starter. As I said earlier though, I'll stay out of the water (water borne bacteria etc) and am happy not to play. I feel ok in myself - I just don't look too alluring right now.

To be honest Hun if I was there I'd just want to give you an enormous hug - both that you've lost your child and you've hurt yourself!

If anyone gives you a hard time send them to me lovely! I'm tougher than I look - honest!! Xx

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By *mm_n_Zed OP Couple
over a year ago

Fareham

To be honest Hun if I was there I'd just want to give you an enormous hug - both that you've lost your child and you've hurt yourself!

If anyone gives you a hard time send them to me lovely! I'm tougher than I look - honest!! Xx"

Bless you - what a lovely thing to say xx

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