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"I'm still going to have socials first " Socials are great | |||
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"Unintentionally this year I decided to try not meeting at all. In hindsight, it wasn't the best move as I feel like a newbie all over again." I'm guessing there must have been a point to being on a swinging site for a year , with no intention of meeting ? | |||
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"We totally understand people liking socials . However , we never have nor ever will use fab to arrange socials . To us it's a place to meet like minded people for sexual liaisons . And since we are a confident and solid couple , we can tell pretty soon whether a meet will become sexual . If it's not going to , it's on to plan b. - arrange another meet " the question wasn't about socials its about whether you've changed how you use the site | |||
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"We totally understand people liking socials . However , we never have nor ever will use fab to arrange socials . To us it's a place to meet like minded people for sexual liaisons . And since we are a confident and solid couple , we can tell pretty soon whether a meet will become sexual . If it's not going to , it's on to plan b. - arrange another meet the question wasn't about socials its about whether you've changed how you use the site " Ah sorry , no then | |||
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"Unintentionally this year I decided to try not meeting at all. In hindsight, it wasn't the best move as I feel like a newbie all over again. I'm guessing there must have been a point to being on a swinging site for a year , with no intention of meeting ? " Now I never had the intention of not meeting. It just happened that way. However, I've spent a lot of time on the forums and in chat. And that is how I chose to use the site this year. | |||
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"Unintentionally this year I decided to try not meeting at all. In hindsight, it wasn't the best move as I feel like a newbie all over again." As your a newbie Hun do I get to message you | |||
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"Have you changed how you do things on here over the time you've been on. I've changed from not having socials first to always having socials first. I'm going to experiment in the new year and see how I get on" Ive never had a social,except the forum social and the bi fem only social i turned up to by mistake Its much easier getting to know each other tucked up in bed having a nice cuddle | |||
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"Completely changed. Used to be generic male sending lots of messages. Now I chat, just get to know people and see what happens. I also focus on being me. That way if/when I meet someone even for a social, I know they are interested in meeting me and not something I'm pretending to be. " What do you pretend to be? | |||
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"Completely changed. Used to be generic male sending lots of messages. Now I chat, just get to know people and see what happens. I also focus on being me. That way if/when I meet someone even for a social, I know they are interested in meeting me and not something I'm pretending to be. What do you pretend to be?" Usualy a meerkat | |||
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"Have you changed how you do things on here over the time you've been on. I've changed from not having socials first to always having socials first. I'm going to experiment in the new year and see how I get on Ive never had a social,except the forum social and the bi fem only social i turned up to by mistake Its much easier getting to know each other tucked up in bed having a nice cuddle " How on earth did you attend a bi fem only social by mistake? | |||
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"Have you changed how you do things on here over the time you've been on. I've changed from not having socials first to always having socials first. I'm going to experiment in the new year and see how I get on Ive never had a social,except the forum social and the bi fem only social i turned up to by mistake Its much easier getting to know each other tucked up in bed having a nice cuddle How on earth did you attend a bi fem only social by mistake?" Cause it was before the forum social and one of the women at the bi fem aocial said we should get food before the main social. So it ended up with me rocking up to the bi fem social (which i had no idea was on) to meet up with her :p Fortunately the ladies were all lovley and were happy for me to join them for food rather than us to disappearing off :p (as the veris show lol) | |||
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"Have you changed how you do things on here over the time you've been on. I've changed from not having socials first to always having socials first. I'm going to experiment in the new year and see how I get on Ive never had a social,except the forum social and the bi fem only social i turned up to by mistake Its much easier getting to know each other tucked up in bed having a nice cuddle How on earth did you attend a bi fem only social by mistake? Cause it was before the forum social and one of the women at the bi fem aocial said we should get food before the main social. So it ended up with me rocking up to the bi fem social (which i had no idea was on) to meet up with her :p Fortunately the ladies were all lovley and were happy for me to join them for food rather than us to disappearing off :p (as the veris show lol)" I see (I think),I'm sure they wouldn't complain about you joining them... | |||
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"Have you changed how you do things on here over the time you've been on. I've changed from not having socials first to always having socials first. I'm going to experiment in the new year and see how I get on Ive never had a social,except the forum social and the bi fem only social i turned up to by mistake Its much easier getting to know each other tucked up in bed having a nice cuddle How on earth did you attend a bi fem only social by mistake? Cause it was before the forum social and one of the women at the bi fem aocial said we should get food before the main social. So it ended up with me rocking up to the bi fem social (which i had no idea was on) to meet up with her :p Fortunately the ladies were all lovley and were happy for me to join them for food rather than us to disappearing off :p (as the veris show lol) I see (I think),I'm sure they wouldn't complain about you joining them..." blame peach :p Brilliant hotdog though. (Seemed right to have a bit of sausage) | |||
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"Have you changed how you do things on here over the time you've been on. I've changed from not having socials first to always having socials first. I'm going to experiment in the new year and see how I get on Ive never had a social,except the forum social and the bi fem only social i turned up to by mistake Its much easier getting to know each other tucked up in bed having a nice cuddle How on earth did you attend a bi fem only social by mistake? Cause it was before the forum social and one of the women at the bi fem aocial said we should get food before the main social. So it ended up with me rocking up to the bi fem social (which i had no idea was on) to meet up with her :p Fortunately the ladies were all lovley and were happy for me to join them for food rather than us to disappearing off :p (as the veris show lol) I see (I think),I'm sure they wouldn't complain about you joining them... blame peach :p Brilliant hotdog though. (Seemed right to have a bit of sausage)" Well who doesn't like a bit of sausage! | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot." Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?!" Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? | |||
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"i've decided for my own good to just lurk now more, post less and leave the profile on hidden for as long as I can.. might as well just stick to just living life in the shadows like I usually did before joining fab... learned a lot of good and also some bad things on my time here so just going to watch how events unfold now really." Why? What does lurking and hiding achieve? Be big,bold and visible. The people who dont like you will ignore you as they would anyway but the people who do like you will now be able to find you. | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? " You saying I look weird?! | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! " Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. | |||
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" Why? What does lurking and hiding achieve? Be big,bold and visible. The people who dont like you will ignore you as they would anyway but the people who do like you will now be able to find you." evening thx118, to answer you're question in real life I'm a loner and have been for years and frankly a lot of times used to get pretty angry with a lot of things be it on here or real life stuff.... after a while I just want to withdraw from it all and just lay back in the back ground and see how things go really for a while... it's not like i'm harming anyone now is it? truth is i've not even lost my temper in real life for like over 2 weeks and for some one like me who has an unpredictable temper and is slowly fixing up his life one step at a time thankfully... | |||
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" Why? What does lurking and hiding achieve? Be big,bold and visible. The people who dont like you will ignore you as they would anyway but the people who do like you will now be able to find you. evening thx118, to answer you're question in real life I'm a loner and have been for years and frankly a lot of times used to get pretty angry with a lot of things be it on here or real life stuff.... after a while I just want to withdraw from it all and just lay back in the back ground and see how things go really for a while... it's not like i'm harming anyone now is it? truth is i've not even lost my temper in real life for like over 2 weeks and for some one like me who has an unpredictable temper and is slowly fixing up his life one step at a time thankfully..." Fair enough just seems a bizarre aproach to take on a meet up site. | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. " I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? | |||
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" Fair enough just seems a bizarre aproach to take on a meet up site." who knows really Maybe I am bizarre in that way, one day I can be optimistic and happy go lucky in everyday life situations for a while then the next I can go into a shell for long periods off time.. less I have been on here though the more productive I have been in my real life and get out of my man cave more often now... | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? " Well im sure to the cubists out there you look lovely In other news i just sliced mt thumb open trying to open cheese | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? Well im sure to the cubists out there you look lovely In other news i just sliced mt thumb open trying to open cheese " Dopey thing,be more careful in future. Get yourself a plaster | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? Well im sure to the cubists out there you look lovely In other news i just sliced mt thumb open trying to open cheese Dopey thing,be more careful in future. Get yourself a plaster" I have,its gonna be a nice new scar though quite deep.ime collecting a weird range of scars in that area (base of the first kniuckle of thumb) | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? Well im sure to the cubists out there you look lovely In other news i just sliced mt thumb open trying to open cheese Dopey thing,be more careful in future. Get yourself a plaster I have,its gonna be a nice new scar though quite deep.ime collecting a weird range of scars in that area (base of the first kniuckle of thumb)" I think you need to look at another interest,a collection of scars sounds quite painful to me. Step away from the cheese... | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? Well im sure to the cubists out there you look lovely In other news i just sliced mt thumb open trying to open cheese Dopey thing,be more careful in future. Get yourself a plaster I have,its gonna be a nice new scar though quite deep.ime collecting a weird range of scars in that area (base of the first kniuckle of thumb) I think you need to look at another interest,a collection of scars sounds quite painful to me. Step away from the cheese..." I'll never surrender the cheese!! | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? Well im sure to the cubists out there you look lovely In other news i just sliced mt thumb open trying to open cheese Dopey thing,be more careful in future. Get yourself a plaster I have,its gonna be a nice new scar though quite deep.ime collecting a weird range of scars in that area (base of the first kniuckle of thumb)" How the hell do you slice yourself open with cheese? | |||
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"Youve got to remember excitement that I'm an idiot. Yeah,but you can get away with it if you're good looking do you not think?! Shit...errr what do you do if you're kinda weird looking? You saying I look weird?! Well you look great from the neck down, but i gotta admit the whole big white rectangle thing you got going on in the face area is a little strange. Call me old fashioned but i just dont understand all this modern plastic surgery lark. I was sick to death of people saying I looked weird,so I popped along to my local cosmetic surgery. You seriously telling me all that money was a waste and I still look weird? Well im sure to the cubists out there you look lovely In other news i just sliced mt thumb open trying to open cheese Dopey thing,be more careful in future. Get yourself a plaster I have,its gonna be a nice new scar though quite deep.ime collecting a weird range of scars in that area (base of the first kniuckle of thumb) How the hell do you slice yourself open with cheese?" I was cutting open the sellotape holding the fancy box closed and did it with a bit too much force... knife straight through tape, through edge of box,into the back of my thumb | |||
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" I was cutting open the sellotape holding the fancy box closed and did it with a bit too much force... knife straight through tape, through edge of box,into the back of my thumb " Aww poor baby! I'll lick your bum hole to make it better! | |||
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