FabSwingers.com forum: did anyone have a lonely xmas

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just wondering if anybody out there dix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like Louis Van Gaal will be in for a lonely new year.

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

Xmas isn't over yet!

However, I spent the run up to Xmas on my own.

Xmas day with mum n dad.

Now spending time alone until Wednesday when I have 4 days work. Most of that will be spent alone.

Then back home next Saturday evening, to spend a number of days alone again.

Do I get lonely? Well, maybe a bit occasionally, but I grew up being a loner.

Sad? No.

What keeps me going?

It's better to spend Christmas alone than with the wrong person.

I've not had to worry about a wife frantically sending text messages, grinning, laughing, and then telling me "Oh, it's just random from my mate"

I've not had to worry about leaving the bog seat up.

I've not had to worry about offending the in laws.

I've watched what I want, listened to what I want.

I washed up when I was ready to wash up.

Cud ave bin wurse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i like your spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first Xmas on my own

Got up at 10. Had a bath

Went back to bed at 2 till 6

Watched TV and got slightly tipsy

Today ... Doing the same

Felt very lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i worked for a couple of hours early,then back home, into pjs,cooked a nice meal,cracked open some bubbly...i work with people all day, live with 2 others,so im really enjoying having 3 days of solitude! i enjoy my own company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Xmas isn't over yet!

Yes it is its one day and ended at midnight thank fuck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never seen a soul till today at Tesco when the guy served me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lonely, as in kids on new phones all day? Yup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people -

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Had a shit christmas all alone, not even my daughter bothered coming round or wishing me a happy christmas

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm sat here on my jack jones....lol anyone want vodka lol

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Been great had time with fam not been to work. Loads ov kinky sex with mr D. Enjoyed xmass dinner has a drink or to but not to much all in all been fab x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I had a social with a really lovely guy last night, broke all my own rules but glad I did.

Today Ive been for a walk and seen a few people, tonight I might go to bed early and who knows what tomorrow will bring

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Had a shit christmas all alone, not even my daughter bothered coming round or wishing me a happy christmas

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I wasn't thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a shit christmas all alone, not even my daughter bothered coming round or wishing me a happy christmas

You could of gone to see her

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Had a shit christmas all alone, not even my daughter bothered coming round or wishing me a happy christmas

You could of gone to see her"
been trying to contact her for months she doesn't want to know me anymore for some unknown reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with someone but still felt alone. That's me though. Been through some life changing times last couple of months. Hopefully next year will be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yea,,got fucked silly

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

"I'm sat here on my jack jones....lol anyone want vodka lol

Lucky Jack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sat here on my jack jones....lol anyone want vodka lol

Lucky Jack!"

Did someone say jack? I've got the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First Christmas living on my own, son in hospital. Glad it's nearly over, loneliest time of the year for those already alone

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Yesterday with family, but today on my own. Spent the day in bed ill, otherwise I'd invite you all round.

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

We had a great Xmas was quiet but lovely, I think Christmas is what you make it. Just because you on your own doesn't mean Xmas has to be miserable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a great Xmas was quiet but lovely, I think Christmas is what you make it. Just because you on your own doesn't mean Xmas has to be miserable!"

Easy to say if you're not on your own. Hard if it's the first one for anyone if they lost a loved one in the year for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a very busy family day yesterday, today has been much the same but I'm alone now and will be all night. I'm not sure lonely is the word though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wasnt alone .. But with one in bed very very sick it was a good morning but lonely evening..

It's hard sometimes but I get lonely days that are not Xmas..

be strong and fablous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yea,,got fucked silly

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Are you a man or a woman?

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

"We had a great Xmas was quiet but lovely, I think Christmas is what you make it. Just because you on your own doesn't mean Xmas has to be miserable!

Easy to say if you're not on your own. Hard if it's the first one for anyone if they lost a loved one in the year for example."

I've had plenty of christmas' on my own before meeting Mr and that's how I learned that Christmas is what you make it, for those who really don't like being alone at Christmas they could easily do some charity work during the holiday season or visit elderly neighbours etc!

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

This was my 2nd Christmas on my own so knew to just treat it like any other day

I'm not gonna lie, my first one was awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with family but still felt alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a great Xmas was quiet but lovely, I think Christmas is what you make it. Just because you on your own doesn't mean Xmas has to be miserable!

Easy to say if you're not on your own. Hard if it's the first one for anyone if they lost a loved one in the year for example.

And for the ones who have a lost a loved one during the year? Do you really think they would want to do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was with someone but still felt alone. That's me though. Been through some life changing times last couple of months. Hopefully next year will be better

it will be next year - was thnking about you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got 2 kids and it still didnt feel like christmas this year...i dont know why...maybe needed some snow so i could of got the sledge out and pushed them down a hill. Ho ho ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loneliness is a state of mind not numbers round a table. Sadly you can be alone in a room full of people.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Spent the last two days with my parents along with my sis and her family. Otherwise I would have been alone

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