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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever wondered how your life would of turned out if you had stayed with that Man/Woman, Said yes or no when they had asked you out/asked them out or taken that job that you turned down etc in your early years, Life choices, I don't think I have made the best ones myself, Turned down some lovely Women past for some very petty reasons, Job wise I have done OK I just wish I had concentrated a little more in school, Not exactly regrets but what if's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

often - brill film btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I never regret what I've done in the past, if I did, I wouldn't have what I do now and wouldn't be who I am

those choices I made gave me my greatest gifts

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No, never. Life is just the result of the choices we make, you can't go back so I prefer to think about the next choice.....

Cal

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Often. There is this 1 boy, well man now, friends arranged for him to be at my birthday drinks when I turned 20. I was supposed to 'get off' with him. I 'got off' with someone else.

I often wonder what my life would be like if I'd kissed a different man that night.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When I was 24 I was stood at a train station and had three choices, I didnt know it that day but I made the right decision (well for that moment in my life)

Have no idea what would of happened if I'd made a different choice

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"Often. There is this 1 boy, well man now, friends arranged for him to be at my birthday drinks when I turned 20. I was supposed to 'get off' with him. I 'got off' with someone else.

I often wonder what my life would be like if I'd kissed a different man that night. "

But in saying that, I don't regret it. I'm happy with my life now. I'm just curious how it would have been different.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have wondered about some things but I know I am who and where I am now because of the choices I did make.

I only really regret not saying yes when I was asked on a date and then later found out the date was to sit in on an interview with musician I like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most of mine came in my mid to late teens, Always picked mates over girls, I still come into contact with a few of them, In great relationships with children I have neither, I did change my job career which was a good decision though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an interesting one!

I've made some shit choices in the past.

But I don't think I'd be where I am today with the attitude and life experience I have without those experiences.

So bizarrely I would dare change any of the past jigsaw!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im happy where ive ended up. Ive learned lessons from every decision. Thats whats made me who i am xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. After I started going out with my husband my friend told me his brother was going to ask me out but was too late. I often wonder what would have happened if I had been asked by his brother first.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

No regrets, plenty of pondering from what might have been when I was fifteen, to how my fate changes with each turn of the traffic lights.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My life would be so different if I didn't make the choices I did, no use dwelling on if I made a different choice as in the end it will screw you more up than the originally choice...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I could have had a much different life than the one I have now, but that's the decision I took and I'm OK with it.

It was nice to have had the choice. Some don't.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Things would sure have been different if I'd gone down different paths.

But I don't think about it or worry about it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My life would be so different if I didn't make the choices I did, no use dwelling on if I made a different choice as in the end it will screw you more up than the originally choice..."

My life would be better if I made the right choice but hey ho...my life is pretty cool right now

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I always like to think I made the right decision as you never know how it would have turned out with a different decision made. I like to ask the universe for signs as to which choice to make, if faced with a decision, then I listen and look for answers ... has always worked for me

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I always wondered what if I did get into the navy, sadly I will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only two days you have no control over or do anything about . Tomorrow and yesterday .

Some regrets are best left and thought of as happy memories

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Even the ashit decisions I've made in the past, whose to say another decision/choice would have been any better just different.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I always like to think I made the right decision as you never know how it would have turned out with a different decision made. I like to ask the universe for signs as to which choice to make, if faced with a decision, then I listen and look for answers ... has always worked for me "

I do this now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If wishes were changes- Nanci Griffiths https://youtu.be/oUWCx5cKZvw

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I'll always wonder what my life would have been like if I'd gone to live abroad due to my stepdads job when I was 12 instead of going to live with my dad.

No regrets though, just curious

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I could be famous if I kissed arse at the right time but refused to. Could still be in the army. Could be married and miserable.

No regrets, no what ifs. Had a very colourful and fruitful life

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