FabSwingers.com forum: options

By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

Ladies, help me with this one please.

It seems that the ladies on here are bombarded with 100s of messages from guys (and maybe girls). So are the rest of us wasting our time contacting you. You want us to be original but how can we be if we are number 101 in your inbox?

What's your thoughts?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Who do you regard as the "rest of us"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, help me with this one please.

What's your thoughts?

If you're number 101 or 1 sending a crappy message won't get you a reply anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the people themselves for allowing hundreds of messages into their inboxes. If they have something specific they want and are overly fussy they should look for it themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame the people themselves for allowing hundreds of messages into their inboxes. If they have something specific they want and are overly fussy they should look for it themselves. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to be original with me. Just offer me what i'm looking for.

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By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

Meaning me.

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By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

Haha that's brilliant. Do you read ALL your messages though?

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By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

Understandable. But I do send 'interesting' messages. It just seems the ladies are spoilt for choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all ladies are inundated. You will catch the eye of those that are interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha that's brilliant. Do you read ALL your messages though?"

If you use the 'Reply + quote' button, people know who you are replying to.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Haha that's brilliant. Do you read ALL your messages though?

If you use the 'Reply + quote' button, people know who you are replying to.

Oh! Thanks

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By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Not all ladies are inundated. You will catch the eye of those that are interested."

That's good to know

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Haha that's brilliant. Do you read ALL your messages though?"

Alas most end in the bin but do read them all.

If its clear they've read my profile from the opening message, I take the time to reply.

Generic what's up, how are you, suck my plums ones go ignored

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

"Ladies, help me with this one please.

What's your thoughts?

My thoughts are that on a site that is really for couples (controversial. I know!!)…single ladies should be forced to have to contact single men of their choosing !?!

That way, all the frustration of single men not getting the responses from ladies they want vanishes. Simple. Oh dear…we couldn't have that could we?? Because that really would put women in control

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By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Ladies, help me with this one please.

What's your thoughts?

My thoughts are that on a site that is really for couples (controversial. I know!!)…single ladies should be forced to have to contact single men of their choosing !?!

That way, all the frustration of single men not getting the responses from ladies they want vanishes. Simple. Oh dear…we couldn't have that could we?? Because that really would put women in control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but how can we be if we are number 101 in your inbox?

What's your thoughts?

I get up earlier so I am number 9 in the inbox

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"but how can we be if we are number 101 in your inbox?

What's your thoughts?

I get up earlier so I am number 9 in the inbox

What happens if they are morning deleters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, help me with this one please.

What's your thoughts?

How can you be original if you don't know what the other fellas are sending?

You are better off sending 20 messages of different types to everyone to maximise your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but how can we be if we are number 101 in your inbox?

What's your thoughts?

I get up earlier so I am number 9 in the inbox

What happens if they are morning deleters?"

Damn.... going to have to create an afternoon profile as well now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if you work in binary, number 101 means you're only fifth in the queue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But if you work in binary, number 101 means you're only fifth in the queue.

That's why I message bi women only, better odds in binary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is why I don't really put so much effort in, there are just to many variables what women like or not, let them email first lol.

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By *llyoucanEAT OP Man
over a year ago

London

"but how can we be if we are number 101 in your inbox?

What's your thoughts?

I get up earlier so I am number 9 in the inbox

What happens if they are morning deleters?

Damn.... going to have to create an afternoon profile as well now

Haha hilarious

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Haha that's brilliant. Do you read ALL your messages though?"

Yes we read all ours.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Understandable. But I do send 'interesting' messages. It just seems the ladies are spoilt for choice "

Maybe the recipient thought the messages were boring as a grey cabbage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I never send messages out,

Do what I do and wait for them to find you, 2 meets in 2 years I must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies, help me with this one please.

What's your thoughts?

My thoughts are that on a site that is really for couples (controversial. I know!!)…single ladies should be forced to have to contact single men of their choosing !?!

That way, all the frustration of single men not getting the responses from ladies they want vanishes. Simple. Oh dear…we couldn't have that could we?? Because that really would put women in control

Brilliant idea!!

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