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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

A girl I know met a chap on a popular dating ap. They got down to it, he repeatedly praised her and said that she had a pretty pussy. Which wierded her out and sad it was gross to hear

Are women so insecure in themselves and used to negativity that they can't deal with positive compliments?

Saddens me no end. You're ALL beautiful

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Just WTF?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know met a chap on a popular dating ap. They got down to it, he repeatedly praised her and said that she had a pretty pussy. Which wierded her out and sad it was gross to hear

Are women so insecure in themselves and used to negativity that they can't deal with positive compliments?

Saddens me no end. You're ALL beautiful "

in my opinion yes , this is so very very true , alot if not all women out there have and are being put down in some way shape or form about there bodies , and it just aint right ,,,, you are all beautiful in your own individual ways , but hey your all feamle so i love you all dont let the fukers dragg you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know met a chap on a popular dating ap. They got down to it, he repeatedly praised her and said that she had a pretty pussy. Which wierded her out and sad it was gross to hear

Are women so insecure in themselves and used to negativity that they can't deal with positive compliments?

Saddens me no end. You're ALL beautiful

in my opinion yes , this is so very very true , alot if not all women out there have and are being put down in some way shape or form about there bodies , and it just aint right ,,,, you are all beautiful in your own individual ways , but hey your all feamle so i love you all dont let the fukers dragg you down "

female

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Just WTF?!"

To him or her reaction?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

To him!

LOL

What kind of person thinks that's an appropriate comment?!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Was chatting with a guy when I first joined this site (straight) who was complaining that he'd had a phone sex session with a lovely girl but she was asking him to be more dirty...

...so he suggested he'd like to spunk in her mother's face.

Then she hung up and he was mystified.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"To him!

LOL

What kind of person thinks that's an appropriate comment?!"

Really? I think that's a perfectly nice thing to say.

I've told men and women how cute, sexy, tasty, lovely their genitals are. When someone says it to me, nice bit of a confidence boost

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"To him!

LOL

What kind of person thinks that's an appropriate comment?!

Really? I think that's a perfectly nice thing to say.

I've told men and women how cute, sexy, tasty, lovely their genitals are. When someone says it to me, nice bit of a confidence boost"

Ok, you have a *really* pretty pussy

Max Romeo - Play With Your Pussy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_BJayDsz-s

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By *exybum_30Woman
over a year ago

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"Was chatting with a guy when I first joined this site (straight) who was complaining that he'd had a phone sex session with a lovely girl but she was asking him to be more dirty...

...so he suggested he'd like to spunk in her mother's face.

Then she hung up and he was

mystified.

"

Hahahahhahaa

I just spat my tea out reading that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting with a guy when I first joined this site (straight) who was complaining that he'd had a phone sex session with a lovely girl but she was asking him to be more dirty...

...so he suggested he'd like to spunk in her mother's face.

Then she hung up and he was mystified.

"

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"Was chatting with a guy when I first joined this site (straight) who was complaining that he'd had a phone sex session with a lovely girl but she was asking him to be more dirty...

...so he suggested he'd like to spunk in her mother's face.

Then she hung up and he was mystified.

"

Big lols. What a bloody comment that was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know met a chap on a popular dating ap. They got down to it, he repeatedly praised her and said that she had a pretty pussy. Which wierded her out and sad it was gross to hear

Are women so insecure in themselves and used to negativity that they can't deal with positive compliments?

Saddens me no end. You're ALL beautiful "
and me I love to compliment I appreciate loads are tongue in cheek trying to get in the woman's knickers but I still compliment if I feel it x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I guess op you'll know your contact and how typical you think she is - seems an unusual reaction to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting with a guy when I first joined this site (straight) who was complaining that he'd had a phone sex session with a lovely girl but she was asking him to be more dirty...

...so he suggested he'd like to spunk in her mother's face.

Then she hung up and he was mystified.

"

If sets the course for today, it's gonna be a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how its delivered. Its not whats said but hows its said.

For instance someone muttering something to my falula for ten mins....well lets just say might creep me out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much into being worshipped, sessions like that are my ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know met a chap on a popular dating ap. They got down to it, he repeatedly praised her and said that she had a pretty pussy. Which wierded her out and sad it was gross to hear

Are women so insecure in themselves and used to negativity that they can't deal with positive compliments?

Saddens me no end. You're ALL beautiful "

I find people telling me that I'm 'pretty' to be problematic, because I'm someone who actively campaigns against gender stereotypes and norms, and I don't identify as feminine. I quite like being called handsome though.

Having a 'pretty' pussy implies that the person things that some pussies are less desirable though. And that's not really a very nice thing. Maybe she just didn't want to be reminded that some people get told they have ugly labia by horrible people, and that she's lucky enough to not have to deal with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I know met a chap on a popular dating ap. They got down to it, he repeatedly praised her and said that she had a pretty pussy. Which wierded her out and sad it was gross to hear

Are women so insecure in themselves and used to negativity that they can't deal with positive compliments?

Saddens me no end. You're ALL beautiful

I find people telling me that I'm 'pretty' to be problematic, because I'm someone who actively campaigns against gender stereotypes and norms, and I don't identify as feminine. I quite like being called handsome though.

Having a 'pretty' pussy implies that the person things that some pussies are less desirable though. And that's not really a very nice thing. Maybe she just didn't want to be reminded that some people get told they have ugly labia by horrible people, and that she's lucky enough to not have to deal with that."

Is it any different to some guys being told they're handsome? Does that imply some men are less handsome and less desirable? Why should genitalia be any different than anything else - I accept that I'll never win any beauty contests and I know my place in the beauty spectrum so it's unrealistic and unreasonable to expect everything to be equally aesthetically pleasing to everybody as everything else.

Some men (and women) will look better than others. Some cocks and pussies will look better than others. C'est la vie.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Repeatedly praised her"

That I think is the key; most ( not all ) women ( and men) appreciate being complimented; but overdoing it will certainly " wierd most people out, and seem over the top, and definitely insincere .

Plus many women think their vaginas ( cunts, pussies, whatever you like to call them) are unattractive, and will feel uncomfortable having their qualities praised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would get on my nerves if someone went ott with any compliments.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've been fat all my life, compliments are rare, just make me feel awkward and I get embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are women so insecure in themselves and used to negativity that they can't deal with positive compliments?

Saddens me no end. You're ALL beautiful "

Why would it just be females with insecurities or be unable to accept compliments.

And no, not everyone is beautiful. But we work with what we've got.

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

I don't think he spoke into like a magic cave, her reaction was about being praised at all.

She thinks pussys are ugly and hates her body

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By *iSTARess OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think he spoke into like a magic cave, her reaction was about being praised at all.

She thinks pussys are ugly and hates her body "

Hating your body can be really hard.

Telling someone who hates their body to just accept a compliment is like telling someone with depression to just be happy. It's not how brains work when they're a bit broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The human mind is a weird and wonderful place at times. There will be people with body issues and others that will not feel comfortable with receiving compliments.

Like someone else also point out it will be linked to how it has been delivered. You should be able to gauge how someone is taking a compliment by the look their face and the more the grimace the less you should persist.

I once had a lady say I had a lovely organ but when I replied its not used to playing in such a large venue she got the hump

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