FabSwingers.com forum: Just how long

By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.

In fact it's over a year.

I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6

A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.

We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse

I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals

Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Sometimes it takes a while

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

only you will know but i suspect you have realised and just want some support..

if your gut instinct is to end the friendship then go with that..

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really think only you can decide whether he is what you're looking for as only you have spoken with him.

Good luck OP.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.

In fact it's over a year.

I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6

A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.

We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse

I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals

Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?"

You've probably answers you're own question.

A year or is along time to fuck someone about

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Sometimes it takes a while

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I agree sometimes it jst takes time

But also u got to go with ur gutt

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

Thanks guys, as suppose I'm just venting my spleen, not that I realise I've wasted so much time on said time waster

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

Think it could be time I started going to clubs again to meet real people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wants to meet they will go the extra mile.

This guy doesn't want to meet you enough or he would have by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone wants to meet they will go the extra mile.

This guy doesn't want to meet you enough or he would have by now.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yup, if they really want to meet, they make it happen. My experience is there's something wrong in those long drawn out discussions and they rarely go well if they eventually do occur....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he ain't worth the fannying around!! Whittle him off yer friends list unless you're happy ping ponging messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know sweet

In my opinion ...

If he was interested you would have met by now

Take care of yourself, be gentle and love and hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's had long enough in my _iew. I've driven the breadth of the country for nothing more than a kiss a cuddle and a chat. Driven three hours to spend the night with someone.

If he wanted you, he'd be there.

Sounds like the right thing to do.

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"Sounds like he ain't worth the fannying around!! Whittle him off yer friends list unless you're happy ping ponging messages"

You're so right, My New Years resolution comes into play already

Only positive influences in my life in 2016

I've whittled away lol

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"You know sweet

In my opinion ...

If he was interested you would have met by now

Take care of yourself, be gentle and love and hugs xx

Thanks Sassy , you're so right, I know when I was filling in the gaps !

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Quite possibly here for the hunt or a cheater. Like others have said, would have met you by now otherwise.

Move on sugar, I'm sure you've a queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is Hardhorn? That's an amazing place name!

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"Where is Hardhorn? That's an amazing place name!"

It's an area of Poulton Le Fylde

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"Quite possibly here for the hunt or a cheater. Like others have said, would have met you by now otherwise.

Move on sugar, I'm sure you've a queue

Hope it's a disorderly one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok - say you stick it out and you actually meet up - think how slow things are going to be if they were genuine reasons - (which by the way you know some werent) - if hes good to chat to just do that- or simply cut all ties block and carry on

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.

In fact it's over a year.

I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6

A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.

We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse

I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals

Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?"

I think you've given him over a year to get his act together.

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"ok - say you stick it out and you actually meet up - think how slow things are going to be if they were genuine reasons - (which by the way you know some werent) - if hes good to chat to just do that- or simply cut all ties block and carry on "

I've done just that tonight, blocked him on here and the mobile.......next! Lol

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

There is no word as urgent as Manama in my vocabulary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live off the m6 and if you were to visit me id be home cooking us a meal so his loss im afraid dinner is on the 25th merry Christmas darling xxx

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"There is no word as urgent as Manama in my vocabulary. "

Manamana. Like The Muppets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done just that tonight, blocked him on here and the mobile.......next! Lol"

you go girl x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The answer is painfully obvious and you know op. Too much giving and nothing in return. Follow another course.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Where is Hardhorn? That's an amazing place name!

It's an area of Poulton Le Fylde"

None the wiser

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You have been here 6 weeks ? have you been off and on here and that may have put him off a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when this happens!!

you just think wow what a waste of time that was and for what? Why don't people be up front if they only wanna chat just say. Iv collected a few pen pals I didn't want this way

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes is the short answer. If you like chatting stay in contact, if you don't, don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

He would have been friend zoned a long time back, and I wouldn't bother making any arrangements to meet.

Yes sometimes life does get in the way, but I still only give people a finite amount of times to mess me about.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Where is Hardhorn? That's an amazing place name!

It's an area of Poulton Le Fylde

None the wiser

Blackpool

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"You have been here 6 weeks ? have you been off and on here and that may have put him off a little.

I don't think that has anything to do with it to be honest ..... Just a player !

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"He would have been friend zoned a long time back, and I wouldn't bother making any arrangements to meet.

Yes sometimes life does get in the way, but I still only give people a finite amount of times to mess me about."

Some people talk the talk, but when it comes to the walk, well .......they stumble !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.

In fact it's over a year.

I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6

A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.

We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse

I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals

Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?"

Our advice would be it's his loss.

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By *lleb OP Woman
over a year ago

Poulton Le Fylde

"I've been chatting to someone on here for some time now until this evening.

In fact it's over a year.

I attempted to go visit him last Christmas, but the traffic was so bad I ended up turning round after 3 hours stuck on the M6

A couple of times he has said he's doing one thing and then been stupid enough to post verifications.

We became friends again a few months ago and has kept saying he is coming here to see me, lead me to beleive he was coming soon, then excuse after excuse

I've decided enough is enough, I don't need pen pals

Have I given him enough time to prove he is the person he wanted me to think he was, or just another time waster who wants someone to talk to when he's bored with the TV?

Our advice would be it's his loss."

Thank you.......onward and upward ...so to speak !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good

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