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Do people usually assume that you're younger than you are?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

people think I'm early 20's, all the time. Sometimes it's nice, but other times when people are being patronising and talking down to you like you were someone with less life experience then it's just annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If somebody said I look younger than my age I would assume they were either visually impaired or looking to get laid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped going out for a drink in town because I'm sick of being asked for I.D. R

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

People always think I am about 25. But I think thats more with the way I act, than the way I look.

Added to the fact that I am not married, nor have children, people are usually surprised when I tell them I'm 31, 32 in 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stopped going out for a drink in town because I'm sick of being asked for I.D. R

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You hanging out in SAGA bars again? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most people think im early 30's rather than nearly 43 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I(Him) was told when I was very young that I looked older than I was. when I hit my 20's,30's and early 40's I was always told I looked younger than I was.

Then all of a sudden my face caught up with my passport. I now look my age but I seemed to go from 41 to 48 in about 6 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go shopping at morrisons for alcohol just to get asked for ID for the buzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im truly gutted,, think im the only one who gets told i look older ... think i average out at 26

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm told quite often that I look in my early 30's - I'm 42 in 10 days time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently so.. and I will never complain.. :D

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stopped going out for a drink in town because I'm sick of being asked for I.D. R

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You hanging out in SAGA bars again? lol"

OOOH, you little minx, that cut me to the quick! R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does not help being called a very nice lad in my meet feedback lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does not help being called a very nice lad in my meet feedback lol"

bless! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If somebody said I look younger than my age I would assume they were either visually impaired or looking to get laid!"

totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I have the mental age of a teenager....does that count?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I've been told I have the mental age of a teenager....does that count? "

No.

Depending how old your mental age teenager is, I could be in big trouble when it gets to court.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I have the mental age of a teenager....does that count?

No.

Depending how old your mental age teenager is, I could be in big trouble when it gets to court.

"

She is nineteen with thirty-three years experience.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I've been told I have the mental age of a teenager....does that count?

No.

Depending how old your mental age teenager is, I could be in big trouble when it gets to court.

She is nineteen with thirty-three years experience. "

I've never believed in spontaneous ejaculation.

Until now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I have the mental age of a teenager....does that count?

No.

Depending how old your mental age teenager is, I could be in big trouble when it gets to court.

She is nineteen with thirty-three years experience.

I've never believed in spontaneous ejaculation.

Until now.

"

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I thank you.

*bows*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does not help being called a very nice lad in my meet feedback lol"

no but then you do look young for your age, besides at my age everyone younger than me is beginning to look like a young lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs x is 31 i got id in asda last week o m f g lmao xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I normally tend to ask the cashier if they would like to see my ID just for a joke. Am 39 now and am planning my 40th shag party even tho its not til the end of the year

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

They do always chuckle tho when I ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They do always chuckle tho when I ask "

you ask the cashiers to your 40th shag party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does not help being called a very nice lad in my meet feedback lol"

It can look patronising when older people remark on your youth. But the truth of the matter is that I personally view 30 year olds as very young and still on the brink of a very long life ahead. Not incapable, not lacking sexual prowess, not without business acumen or life experience or maturity, just very young looking still - with that boyish or laddish air about you that only instils feelings of having to protect and nurture, not seduce. Perhaps I have a strong maternal instinct towards the young but thats just my particular makeup and I feel comfortable with the role I have in life at my age.

It may annoy you but we oldies have the advantage of hindsight and can laugh at how they thought they knew it all and had done it all at your age too. Its not until you age and look back that you know when older thoughts and attitudes began to be recognised by others. Its a gradual process and you're still on your way there at 30. Celebrate where you are in life - we spend 2/3 of our lives in middle age and elderlyness and it creeps up faster than you think. That doesn't mean I think ageing is something to fear because remember too - life begins at 40!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots tell me at work i look 25-30 but i am 36

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if I do not show them my hair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 48 and get told that I look younger, not just by guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age can be defined by physical as well as mental attributes.

I may look my age, however, I don't often act my age, and am much younger at heart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish ... The only time anyone thought I was younger was when I went swimming withy daughter.. We were mucking about and the lifeguard thought I was her girlfriend .. Then he put his glasses on and went bright red

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Apparently I don't look my age. I had an easy paper round! Mainly cause I made my brother do it!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

a few years ago,i was watching my son play football.he came over to speak to me,at the end of the game.then went to get changed.when he got into the car,he said,the boys all thought,i was his big brother.

i try not to bring it up to often.

only on days with a y in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people think I'm early 20's, all the time. Sometimes it's nice, but other times when people are being patronising and talking down to you like you were someone with less life experience then it's just annoying. "

Do they Sonny x Awwwwwwwww nebber mind den ..... u cum sit by Gwanny n listen to a growdy up xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"people think I'm early 20's, all the time. Sometimes it's nice, but other times when people are being patronising and talking down to you like you were someone with less life experience then it's just annoying.

Do they Sonny x Awwwwwwwww nebber mind den ..... u cum sit by Gwanny n listen to a growdy up xxx"

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I beg the staff in Morrisions to ask me for proof of age when I buy a bottle of wine, they usually say we don't need to see your pension book sir

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