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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just block guys from messaging you and go on the offensive. Have a look to see if you find someone you like and message them.

They will be able to reply if they're interested.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I apologise for my sexton sweet. I've been here a few years now and also just don't understand them. All I can say is we aren't all the same

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By *eddABCMan
over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London


"I apologise for my sexton sweet. I've been here a few years now and also just don't understand them. All I can say is we aren't all the same "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I apologise for my sexton sweet. I've been here a few years now and also just don't understand them. All I can say is we aren't all the same "

You have someone to look after your church?

You have a church!?

Sorry, I couldn't resist

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I apologise for my sexton sweet. I've been here a few years now and also just don't understand them. All I can say is we aren't all the same

You have someone to look after your church?

You have a church!?

Sorry, I couldn't resist "

Didn't even notice that 1. Now I apologise for my stupid phone too

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

What's conversion? Note the irony...

Back onto topic, the quiet ones are the ones you are after they spend more time contemplating life's mysteries than they do talking about contemplating life's mysteries. trick is finding the one which will conversate with no expectations..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I apologise for my sexton sweet. I've been here a few years now and also just don't understand them. All I can say is we aren't all the same

You have someone to look after your church?

You have a church!?

Sorry, I couldn't resist

Didn't even notice that 1. Now I apologise for my stupid phone too "

Sorry, I couldn't resist...

I understand, technology always conspires against me too. They shouldn't have started letting phones make our decisions for us, popping random words in that are nothing like the letters we pressed.

Silly things!

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting...

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

I'm not saying everyone is the same!

I have spoken to some absolutely lovely charming guys. Then you get the sex pests who don't wanna take no for an answer...

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

I know you aren't the same! Just wish there was a nice balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting..."

Use the 'reply and quote' under the message your replying to...I found it makes things easier

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By *eddABCMan
over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London


"I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting..."

It's sad to hear and those type of guys make the rest look bad.

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON


"I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting...

Use the 'reply and quote' under the message your replying to...I found it makes things easier "

I meant to click that one....doh!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

It's good to chat but the single guy mentality that they'll change our minds and get us to meet when we've said no makes us block more and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting...

It's sad to hear and those type of guys make the rest look bad. "

I would have thought that nicer people would stand out more maybe compared to the nastier ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting...

Use the 'reply and quote' under the message your replying to...I found it makes things easier

I meant to click that one....doh!"

It's forgivable at this hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people "

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON


"I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting...

It's sad to hear and those type of guys make the rest look bad.

I would have thought that nicer people would stand out more maybe compared to the nastier ones? "

They do! But for a woman I guess there's 1000s of messages a day trying to pick out the genuine people...

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X "

Surprisingly I get a lot of messages because people are curious, for me that is a conversation starter!

But after about 5 messages of trying to continue conversation people start being tosspots and forget people skills?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X "

Instead of 'is crap'

The phrase 'needs work' would have have made that sound loads friendlier

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Surprisingly I get a lot of messages because people are curious, for me that is a conversation starter!

But after about 5 messages of trying to continue conversation people start being tosspots and forget people skills?! "

There are plenty of men on here with great skills, conversation being one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Instead of 'is crap'

The phrase 'needs work' would have have made that sound loads friendlier "

I didn't mean to come across as being un-friendly as you can clearly tell from the rest of my post. Thank you for the edit. Please feel free to go through my other posts and high light any mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Instead of 'is crap'

The phrase 'needs work' would have have made that sound loads friendlier

I didn't mean to come across as being un-friendly as you can clearly tell from the rest of my post. Thank you for the edit. Please feel free to go through my other posts and high light any mistakes. "

Sorry, I didn't mean to sound like I was being all grrrrrr!

I just saw it and sometimes my brain has no gearbox so I just say stuff

How about a better introduction?

Very pleased to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have two words on your profile and you complain of others not having conversation skills.

Bloody hell I've heard it all now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Surprisingly I get a lot of messages because people are curious, for me that is a conversation starter!

But after about 5 messages of trying to continue conversation people start being tosspots and forget people skills?! "

I think ladies will always have busy inboxes, on here many ladies say that people still keep messaging them when their profile is hidden and there's literally nothing to see or read about them! For some it's a pussy, so it's a goal!

Now this isn't a criticism, just an observation, and those that know me do know I like to talk lots and lots but based on your profile alone I wouldn't contact you first if I just stumbled across it browsing as the poster above is right, there's nothing in it that suggests to me it would worth the effort. There's little effort in how you're dressing your own shop window so why should I invest lots of effort back?

Now I'm sure that's no great loss to you but maybe lots of other guys who you WOULD like and who would put the effort in feel the same?

Possibly the profile itself is attracting the type of men you're talking about!?

Anyway as I say not meant to be critical but just a thought ? Have a great day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some chaps do still have a good grip on the art of conversation.most of the regular men in the forums for example. A happy go lucky chatty lot .

OP just block chaps if you feel that's the way you need to go and you can peruse profiles at your own discretion.

Sadly there are quite a lot who come to the site thinking its a golden ticket to wild sex with no effort needed. My female friends on here get bombarded with messages every day. These are usually the chaos who end up posting the why don't I get threads in here .

People forget that this is a shop window for yourself , your own little advertising campaign.

Good luck on here OP , hope you find what your looking for

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Instead of 'is crap'

The phrase 'needs work' would have have made that sound loads friendlier "

I agree,but to be fair she does have a point.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"It's good to chat but the single guy mentality that they'll change our minds and get us to meet when we've said no makes us block more and more "

Tell me about it - I hate to think how many I've blocked.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"It's good to chat but the single guy mentality that they'll change our minds and get us to meet when we've said no makes us block more and more

Tell me about it - I hate to think how many I've blocked."

And for the record it's not them we remember (that's why we block so we don't have to remember)

Personally I remember the ones who have sent a face pic and we have a chat and possibly a little banter. A laugh is always good

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"It's good to chat but the single guy mentality that they'll change our minds and get us to meet when we've said no makes us block more and more

Tell me about it - I hate to think how many I've blocked.

And for the record it's not them we remember (that's why we block so we don't have to remember)

Personally I remember the ones who have sent a face pic and we have a chat and possibly a little banter. A laugh is always good "

Some you remember for all the right reasons and some you remember for all the wrong reasons xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Surprisingly I get a lot of messages because people are curious, for me that is a conversation starter!

But after about 5 messages of trying to continue conversation people start being tosspots and forget people skills?!

I think ladies will always have busy inboxes, on here many ladies say that people still keep messaging them when their profile is hidden and there's literally nothing to see or read about them! For some it's a pussy, so it's a goal!

Now this isn't a criticism, just an observation, and those that know me do know I like to talk lots and lots but based on your profile alone I wouldn't contact you first if I just stumbled across it browsing as the poster above is right, there's nothing in it that suggests to me it would worth the effort. There's little effort in how you're dressing your own shop window so why should I invest lots of effort back?

Now I'm sure that's no great loss to you but maybe lots of other guys who you WOULD like and who would put the effort in feel the same?

Possibly the profile itself is attracting the type of men you're talking about!?

Anyway as I say not meant to be critical but just a thought ? Have a great day "

Like attracts like.

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Personally I like to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously a 2 worded profile and your moaning about the art of conversation...is it me do I need more green tea ????

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

We are not all like that. Love a good chat. I usually send a general introductory message and hope to continue thereafter. I have sent longer ones to begin with and get deleted or blocked anyway sometimes. Understand you ladies get loads to get through though but please don't tar us with the same brush. There are good and bad men and women on here!

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

This post is getting some irate bitches up on here haha

If I have no pictures, no words on my profile, 5 paragraphs, men are always messaging saying how great i "sound". Therefore no I don't make the effort on there.

More things on the profile means there is less to talk about i personally think

I'm moaning about the people who literally think that this site is a ticket to sex just because I'm sent a dick pic.

What's wrong with just normal conversation which leads into the purpose?

Didn't realise that people can be so judgey. Which I mean with all the niceness I can contain on this sunday

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"This post is getting some irate bitches up on here haha

If I have no pictures, no words on my profile, 5 paragraphs, men are always messaging saying how great i "sound". Therefore no I don't make the effort on there.

More things on the profile means there is less to talk about i personally think

I'm moaning about the people who literally think that this site is a ticket to sex just because I'm sent a dick pic.

What's wrong with just normal conversation which leads into the purpose?

Didn't realise that people can be so judgey. Which I mean with all the niceness I can contain on this sunday"

block them all and do the searching and start the conversation, it will make it easier for you and your life on here less angst

it will require effort though.......

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it, all of the men on here who are going to be contacting you are looking to fuck you! They are not here looking for the lifetime partner LoL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is the less you have on your profile the more you will attract because guys don't know that they aren't what you're looking for so they will chance their arm. Also with no pics there is a small chance that you could be a sex goddess. They just don't know. Again another reason for all and sundry to message you. All I'm saying is there is a lot more you could be doing to help cut down on the crap. You'll never eliminate it unless as others have suggested you block all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people "
hey if you want your ears talked off come here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I apologise for my sexton sweet. I've been here a few years now and also just don't understand them. All I can say is we aren't all the same

You have someone to look after your church?

You have a church!?

Sorry, I couldn't resist

Didn't even notice that 1. Now I apologise for my stupid phone too

Sorry, I couldn't resist...

I understand, technology always conspires against me too. They shouldn't have started letting phones make our decisions for us, popping random words in that are nothing like the letters we pressed.

Silly things!

"

Motherforklifting autocarrot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people "

I find that a person's profile tends to reflect the kind of conversation you will have with them.

Very brief or non existent profiles are very hard to message because you know nothing about them so there's pretty much nothing you can do but send pics and see if they find you attractive

Not like you can discuss common interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Surprisingly I get a lot of messages because people are curious, for me that is a conversation starter!

But after about 5 messages of trying to continue conversation people start being tosspots and forget people skills?! "

The only common factor in all your unsatisfying conversations is you....

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people

Your profile is crap, you say your just browsing, but not what/who your browsing for ? If you make a little more effort with your profile you might get more than one liner messages.

You want guys that contact you to stand out from the crowd to get your interest ?

You need to make your profile interesting by adding a few more words and showing a little personality. Conversation is a two way thing and it"s great when you actually have something to talk about...a little effort can go a long way so give it a try. X

Surprisingly I get a lot of messages because people are curious, for me that is a conversation starter!

But after about 5 messages of trying to continue conversation people start being tosspots and forget people skills?!

The only common factor in all your unsatisfying conversations is you...."

I shall work on this....thanks guys!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I feel like we get some food conversation from our profile ... but to be honest we are not after a meet from messages on here, prefer socials and meeting at clubs. I am conversational generally as a person and enjoy a good debate and some banter, I agree with the previous poster y(must be they first time ever) that if your profile suggest you can converse and gives people something to go on, you will get it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is dying down, especially here in London you hardly get any response even with a good msg, although I can email mostly anyone in wales and further up in England and scotland and I would get reply's lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These days". You're 19, surely this is all you've ever known.

Anyway it's not dying out, you're clearly engaging with the wrong people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post is getting some irate bitches up on here haha

If I have no pictures, no words on my profile, 5 paragraphs, men are always messaging saying how great i "sound". Therefore no I don't make the effort on there.

More things on the profile means there is less to talk about i personally think

I'm moaning about the people who literally think that this site is a ticket to sex just because I'm sent a dick pic.

What's wrong with just normal conversation which leads into the purpose?

Didn't realise that people can be so judgey. Which I mean with all the niceness I can contain on this sunday"

But some people don't want to chat. They want to fuck.

It just means you're not compatible.

Why try and make them be something they're not?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not forgetting the women who think being female is enough.

How the hell do they stand out amongst all the other vag ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind people messaging me but when I tell them I'm not just gonna go crazy and send them nudes and they go on a rant or get offended and stuff it's kinda of putting..."

Please sen me some nudes, but it would probably be better if the have a coat on cos it's a bit chilly outside

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"This post is getting some irate bitches up on here haha

If I have no pictures, no words on my profile, 5 paragraphs, men are always messaging saying how great i "sound". Therefore no I don't make the effort on there.

More things on the profile means there is less to talk about i personally think

I'm moaning about the people who literally think that this site is a ticket to sex just because I'm sent a dick pic.

What's wrong with just normal conversation which leads into the purpose?

Didn't realise that people can be so judgey. Which I mean with all the niceness I can contain on this sunday"

Sorry but I disagree about more things on profile = less to talk about. Surely more of your interests, hobbies or what you enjoy doing in your spare time = more of a conversation starter and more topics to get talking about with people who share the same interests as you. Your profile doesn't really give guys much to go on to get a good conversation going at the moment, maybe that's why you are getting rubbish messages?

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By *ivcaeks OP   Woman
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON


"This post is getting some irate bitches up on here haha

If I have no pictures, no words on my profile, 5 paragraphs, men are always messaging saying how great i "sound". Therefore no I don't make the effort on there.

More things on the profile means there is less to talk about i personally think

I'm moaning about the people who literally think that this site is a ticket to sex just because I'm sent a dick pic.

What's wrong with just normal conversation which leads into the purpose?

Didn't realise that people can be so judgey. Which I mean with all the niceness I can contain on this sunday

Sorry but I disagree about more things on profile = less to talk about. Surely more of your interests, hobbies or what you enjoy doing in your spare time = more of a conversation starter and more topics to get talking about with people who share the same interests as you. Your profile doesn't really give guys much to go on to get a good conversation going at the moment, maybe that's why you are getting rubbish messages? "

I'm definitely gonna try all these tips haha there's only so much I can put due to profession however

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is conversation a dying out thing these days? I'm sure guys literally complain that they have no luck when all they do is send a few snaps and expect you to open your legs. C'mon surely you should realise that you should try and stand out a little? I'm just so fed up of filtering people "

One of the advantages of using the forum is that the guys tend to communicate more often with the typing convo so might be a bit better, all things being equal, than those who just message.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


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there's only so much I can put due to profession however "

maybe the same applies to the guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very few people I meet are on the forums, so both online and in person, there is no shortage of chat, opinion and topics of conversation.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

First of all I think you'd be best going on the offensive OP. Find guys who look interesting to you and message them. Too many women on Fab just sit back, let the messages flood in, then complain that a huge proportion of them are crap. I can't believe more women don't use this approach.

And secondly, if there's no connection between you and a person then that's just the way it is. You can't fake that. If there is something there then the conversation will flow regardless. You're a woman in an ocean of guys. Get messaging I say. There's plenty of decent guys out there.

I've got a handful of wonderful women I chat to regularly. The art of conversation is most definitely not dead. Not everyone on here JUST wants to fuck. Some like a chat too. The problem is most guys on here just want to get into a woman's knickers with as little chat as possible.

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