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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I am such a bad swinger, I generally like to socialize with people, have a laugh and a few drinks, not really into sex ( unless it's giving oral )

I have met some fabulous people within the last 6 months at my happy place, but just not that much interested in having full sex with anyone

anyone else more into socializing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems im the only one then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems im the only one then.....

"

Well you didn't give it very long did you? 28 minutes? I'm sure not every forumite is logged in 24/7..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I might as well be as I find it difficult to find people in my local area that I would like to have sex with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Well you didn't give it very long did you? 28 minutes? I'm sure not every forumite is logged in 24/7.."

The forum seems quite busy on other threads... plenty of people on here, obviously not the sort that are sociable though

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is what im trying to get at... it's not all about the sex... its about SEXY friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few they don't use forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I am such a bad swinger, I generally like to socialize with people, have a laugh and a few drinks, not really into sex ( unless it's giving oral )

I have met some fabulous people within the last 6 months at my happy place, but just not that much interested in having full sex with anyone

anyone else more into socializing?

"

Partly with you mate, I'm definitely looking for a social first meet, see if we get on and click (maybe, if it all goes well a bit of a kiss and a cuddle too - that would be nice if we like each other) that sort of thing but with, hopefully, the aim to move on to something a little more naughty later ..

I'm not sure that right now I want to dive right into a cold 'meet then within 5 minutes we're having sex' meet straight away - I know loads are and this is the site to meet likeminded individuals, but hopefully there's room for us all!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm a social whore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

SantasBulgingSack.... this is exactly what I mean, I like to make friends first, then if we click enough to make him downstairs tick, a possibility of something else.... but for now im just wanting to make friends and socialize

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for the sex. I'm a social wall flower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for sex. I prefer socials first, but sex is the ultimate objective for me.

There are people I have spoken to on the forums who are exceptions for me, though. I would like to just meet them socially. But that is not really my overall aim on the site as a whole.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As most are looking for sex Courtney, but sometimes just a sexy night out with like minded friends is all im looking for.

Don't want to fuck everything in sight, happy to just go to the club and have a few (too many) drinks.

This may be my problem though, didn't drink as much as I do now 6 months ago, every weekend im on the peroni, a escape from vanilla life maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely socials are best first as I have had a few socials, and they looked like nothing like there pictures on there profile .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like socials but my main aim or priority is sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems im one of a kind then not that bothered about sex, just want to be in the company of sexy friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay... going to bite the bullet here and take an honesty drop..

I like socialising too, I defiantly like to "click" with someone first prior to any shenanigans...

Perfect meet for me.... I cook, we chat, a few bottles, listening to music, explore each others minds a little, then.... well then whatever feels right....

But that's a "date" I hear you cry... erm no... I can't do commitment these days, but I still enjoy good company, so dating websites are out... just enjoying the company of strangers, good food and good wine can be quite simply fantastic. If it ends with a bang.... bonus

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Okay... going to bite the bullet here and take an honesty drop..

I like socialising too, I defiantly like to "click" with someone first prior to any shenanigans...

Perfect meet for me.... I cook, we chat, a few bottles, listening to music, explore each others minds a little, then.... well then whatever feels right....

But that's a "date" I hear you cry... erm no... I can't do commitment these days, but I still enjoy good company, so dating websites are out... just enjoying the company of strangers, good food and good wine can be quite simply fantastic. If it ends with a bang.... bonus "

This is how I like to do things as well (not the cooking though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I am such a bad swinger, I generally like to socialize with people, have a laugh and a few drinks, not really into sex ( unless it's giving oral )

I have met some fabulous people within the last 6 months at my happy place, but just not that much interested in having full sex with anyone

anyone else more into socializing?

"

Do you introduce your swinging friends to work colleagues and vanilla friends?

I just don't cross those lines.

If I want to go out for laughs and a drink. I have more than enough friends and family to do that with , especially if I'm buying

If I'm meeting someone on fab it's for sex. If we become friends it's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Prefer a meal out ... can guarantee its d that way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you introduce your swinging friends to work colleagues and vanilla friends?

I just don't cross those lines.

If I want to go out for laughs and a drink. I have more than enough friends and family to do that with , especially if I'm buying

If I'm meeting someone on fab it's for sex. If we become friends it's a bonus. "

No I don't introduce swinging friends to vanilla.... but I have spoken to a vanilla friend who maybe interested in the swinging club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prefer a meal out ... can guarantee its d that way! "

I am an okay cook, I think.... but I just prefer a more cerebral experience. Done my fair share of "fuck and go" meets and they don't "nourish" me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might as well be as I find it difficult to find people in my local area that I would like to have sex with "

Hey Foxy, looking at your pics ( very nice btw) you need to move to Manchester ..... You wouldn't have a minute to yourself

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I'm here for sex. I prefer socials first, but sex is the ultimate objective for me.

There are people I have spoken to on the forums who are exceptions for me, though. I would like to just meet them socially. But that is not really my overall aim on the site as a whole.

-Courtney"

great

-me

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I am such a bad swinger, I generally like to socialize with people, have a laugh and a few drinks, not really into sex ( unless it's giving oral )

I have met some fabulous people within the last 6 months at my happy place, but just not that much interested in having full sex with anyone

anyone else more into socializing?

"

Nah I am here to make friends and have loads of sex, if I want to be social I can go down the pub and do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the social aspect of fab & meeting new people, it is always the hope that we connect enough to meet & satisfy both our deepest desires, if not it's always a pleasure to chat to like minded people xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I might as well be as I find it difficult to find people in my local area that I would like to have sex with

Hey Foxy, looking at your pics ( very nice btw) you need to move to Manchester ..... You wouldn't have a minute to yourself "

Moving is something I am seriously considering

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