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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right - I'm a liiiitle bit tipsy and veeeery tired - so if I make a bollocks of this just be nice anyway - coz I love the forums and most forumites (yes - even you!!)

What on earth has happened to us all in the last few days? The busyness of Christmas and the huge bills we're facing in January??

The mods have had to chip in on or close so many threads lately that it's just silly!! They have cards to wrap and presents too!

What drew me to the forums in the first place was that we're usually one big, happy, dysfunctional family! Lately we're just dysfunctional!!

It's nearly Christmas! Putting aside the hard work it's supposed to be a time of peace, love, forgiveness and family!

Please, please can I have my nice little bubble back - ie my lovely, mutually supportive forum family - who disagree at times but without trying to offend?

I'm asking very very nicely - but if you carry on being meanie weenies to each other - I'm personally delivering Frosty the psycadelic fucking singing snowman to your house with Duracell batteries and removing the off switch!!

I guarantee that by new year you'll have ground your teeth so much you'll be offering gum jobs! I'm half way there already and we've only had the bastard thing a week!

So - courtesy of Woody in Toy story - play nice!!

Pretty please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always play nice!

Nice post, op.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always play nice!

Nice post, op. "

Thanks lovely - and I know you do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I sit in your bubble for a little break while I figure this place out?

It's mad in here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I sit in your bubble for a little break while I figure this place out?

It's mad in here! "

Course you can lovely! It's all gum drops and lolly pops in my world!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted a similar thing on miss innocents I'm leaving thread. Fed up with all the bitching n bad mouthing. Life's tough enough as it is!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw peach xx I must have missed it all but big hugs anyway. I enjoy the forum banter and made some genuine friends here. Chin up chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I sit in your bubble for a little break while I figure this place out?

It's mad in here!

Course you can lovely! It's all gum drops and lolly pops in my world!! "

Oooh Lolly pops!

am gonna sit here and get sugary then if that's ok?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I posted a similar thing on miss innocents I'm leaving thread. Fed up with all the bitching n bad mouthing. Life's tough enough as it is!!! "

agreed! Like I said though - you said it far too succinctly!! I could have got at least 500 words out of that one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your bloody mad Peachy but love you. I'm always nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted a similar thing on miss innocents I'm leaving thread. Fed up with all the bitching n bad mouthing. Life's tough enough as it is!!!

agreed! Like I said though - you said it far too succinctly!! I could have got at least 500 words out of that one!! "

Oh I could have said a hell of a lot more. Just didn't want to add to the tension building over there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ACE...as he got glow stick for a nose..he'd fit in well in my crazy world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I sit in your bubble for a little break while I figure this place out?

It's mad in here!

Course you can lovely! It's all gum drops and lolly pops in my world!!

Oooh Lolly pops!

am gonna sit here and get sugary then if that's ok? "

Yep - but clean your teeth before bed! I'm not holding your hand if you need a filling - I hate needles!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've just figured out what's wrong. It's sexual frustration!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peace and harmony - peppa pig style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ACE...as he got glow stick for a nose..he'd fit in well in my crazy world"

No he wouldn't! He fits in with no Christmas colour scheme known to man! Wrecked my gold and Amber theme it has!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I sit in your bubble for a little break while I figure this place out?

It's mad in here!

Course you can lovely! It's all gum drops and lolly pops in my world!!

Oooh Lolly pops!

am gonna sit here and get sugary then if that's ok?

Yep - but clean your teeth before bed! I'm not holding your hand if you need a filling - I hate needles!! "

It's ok because I hate dentists. I promise to brush floss and mouthwash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly the nicest and yet the maddest thread I've seen. Just what I needed on a boring night shift lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly the nicest and yet the maddest thread I've seen. Just what I needed on a boring night shift lol."

There are lollys too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Peach, too much stress on here just lately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Possibly the nicest and yet the maddest thread I've seen. Just what I needed on a boring night shift lol."

Good! I've always found sanity is over-rated!! I'm going to bed! Hope you get to go home to your cozy bed soon!

Sweet dreams lovelies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possibly the nicest and yet the maddest thread I've seen. Just what I needed on a boring night shift lol.

Good! I've always found sanity is over-rated!! I'm going to bed! Hope you get to go home to your cozy bed soon!

Sweet dreams lovelies! "

Night night sleep well. I will in about 4 hours lol. And YAY lollies!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

This is why I don't frequent the forums like I used to. Just seems to be so much bitchiness, cliques, huge arguments over peoples bloody body sizes, judgemental and narrow minded folk....the list goes on.

I get people have opinions and preferences, but there really is no need for people to shoot others down.

Peach, you're a lovely lady and didn't deserve what you got the other day on the thread you posted. Keep on posting and enjoying your preferences x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach. You're lovely x chin up

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

This made me giggle. I don't put batteries in singing toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Peach, bless you! There are some nice threads out there. Blame the bitchiness on people stressing out over having a potential dry turkey. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's surprising that this is actually a forum for adults hey? I mean fully grown human beings!

Just let negativity wash over you, ignore it, try and be a nice person yourself and become impervious to any sniding and insults!

It a lesson I learnt some months ago on here and you know what, this site is so much more rewarding if you do that

It's really not worth letting any anonymous cock wombles on an Internet discussion forum get you down!

Keep smiling peeps! Have an awesome day x

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

Many forms of attention some tolerable some not so. Hope all is well with you Pp

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Possibly the nicest and yet the maddest thread I've seen. Just what I needed on a boring night shift lol.

Good! I've always found sanity is over-rated!! I'm going to bed! Hope you get to go home to your cozy bed soon!

Sweet dreams lovelies! "

See you tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is why I don't frequent the forums like I used to. Just seems to be so much bitchiness, cliques, huge arguments over peoples bloody body sizes, judgemental and narrow minded folk....the list goes on.

I get people have opinions and preferences, but there really is no need for people to shoot others down.

Peach, you're a lovely lady and didn't deserve what you got the other day on the thread you posted. Keep on posting and enjoying your preferences x"

Thanks Hun! They got me blubbering which was silly of me really - I'm a soft sod! Luckily I'm naturally happy and slightly barmy - so I'm fine again now!

It's sad you don't use the forums as much now - and I'd hate others to be put off using the forums too - if only those with the thickest skins remain then I have a sneaking suspicion that the 'debate' will get more and more ferocious - which is very sad as the mods will have to work longer shifts and get huuuuuuuge bags under their eyes! (We'll see people walking down the street with eye bags down to their chins and think 'yep - there goes another mod!'

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I think people need to air their opinion. Too many times threads where people can have a real debate about something and people don't take offense because the topic is deliberately controversial are not around any more ... so the bitchiness and cliqueyness has to go somewhere. I am not a newbie on the forums, but I come for some discourse and entertainment and the threads would be dull without some of the debate that exists. So maybe we need a new area for the forums, split the threads into, those wanting debate and those where everyone has to agree. My thoughts are that since the BBC, bi, squirting, married, etc threads which everyone knows are controversial have gone, the debate has to go somewhere. Just now more people are getting attacked, its hitting home. My first post ages ago was on a squirting thread and the number of nasty pms I got was astounding. The bitchiness was always there, the people who live their lives on and through the forums was always there, but the topic of the posts has changed and become much narrower ... very few debates about anything political in the traditional sense of the word now. I am left wondering why ...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I haven't been around for over a week but it's been fun catching up

I am as chilled as ever and wishing all a Merry Christmas, even the blocked and blockers

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I posted a similar thing on miss innocents I'm leaving thread. Fed up with all the bitching n bad mouthing. Life's tough enough as it is!!! "

There are a few people who complain about the bitching and bad mouthing.

They just add to the negativity with their bitching and bad mouthing.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

@ Pepper

I didn't want to quote.... too long.

I agree, there is no longer variety in threads and no longer the calibre of person that enjoys exchange of ideas.

It's what happens when thoughts and opinions are repressed/opressed.

It's the way the world is heading x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted a similar thing on miss innocents I'm leaving thread. Fed up with all the bitching n bad mouthing. Life's tough enough as it is!!!

There are a few people who complain about the bitching and bad mouthing.

They just add to the negativity with their bitching and bad mouthing. "

I wasn't being negative. I was agreeing with Peach. Just saying I too am fed up with the bitching etc.

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