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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago

wherever you are

All the time...then I wake up and eat my cornflakes

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I did that once, felt a bit weird doing it but we ended up Fab friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 5 years on the site that has never happened. I have had the odd comment on the forum. Not surprising because I'm not hot though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to. Never get any response back. I think it's nice to give out compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I've received a few messages like this. Thanks ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it all the time but only get a few from the lady's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done it (rarely, but it does happen). Marc never has.

-Courtney

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yea I've received a few messages like this. Thanks ladies x"

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been known to. Never get any response back. I think it's nice to give out compliments.

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have fabed some for you that I like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe some woman don't message guys because they don't want them thinking they're on the pull? ...I mean, you can send a compliment without the other person thinking you actually want to meet them can't you? ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea I've received a few messages like this. Thanks ladies x

You're welcome

I was wondering if you was in about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never had a single compliment out of the blue from a lady....couple yes, single lady no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been known to. Never get any response back. I think it's nice to give out compliments.

have fabed some for you that I like "

Thanks hun. That's v kind of u. I wasn't looking for fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

more men than women ,,,,,,,,,, im straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yes

I've seen a few great pics and even though I'm not what they are looking for I have sent a message saying nice pics, its nice to give compliments out with no hidden agenda

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

Hi Anna here and yes I have messaged a girl just to say what great pics they have.... never messaged a guy tho !!! Just had a peak at your pics princess and noticed we messaged you over a year ago lol but you didn't reply

Pretty sure was to compliment your lovely pics lol !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no one loves me, everybody hates me, I'm going to eat some worms, thin ones fat ones.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have .

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Yeah I have received messages from women who liked my profile.....usually they live on the moon or further afield though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have yes

I've seen a few great pics and even though I'm not what they are looking for I have sent a message saying nice pics, its nice to give compliments out with no hidden agenda"

that's exactly what I was getting at. ..I'm always sending out compliments with no hidden motives but sometimes it back fires and their reply back is full on wanna shag /meet / marry etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I have received messages from women who liked my profile.....usually they live on the moon or further afield though

Mr twatty your great at ironing on cam naked though .

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

I got one last month. Met her last night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

Pretty sure was to compliment your lovely pics lol !!!

oops consider me totally told off! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on occasion had some lovely messages from ladies saying they like my pics. Always really appreciated

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

"Yeah I have received messages from women who liked my profile.....usually they live on the moon or further afield though

Mr twatty your great at ironing on cam naked though .

I'd never iron naked as might burn my one inch wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message men if I like the look of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I have received messages from women who liked my profile.....usually they live on the moon or further afield though

Mr twatty your great at ironing on cam naked though .

I'd never iron naked as might burn my one inch wonder

Lol its always a problem with the little fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to happen fairly often to me on my single profile. But the profile was somewhat different

Ryan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few nice messages of folk

just hello's and little acknowledgements...

It's kinda nice

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Never had someone pm from the start saying nice pics and thats from 4 sites that ive been on

ive had it said to me during messages that ive started and ive commented on there pics being nice and loverly and theyve replied about my own pics then

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I like telling people if I like their pics. As someone said before it is nice to give compliments. I have a habit of even giving compliments to strangers sometimes which can be a bit awkward but I cant help them from popping out my mouth!

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

Pretty sure was to compliment your lovely pics lol !!!

oops consider me totally told off! !

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Lol !!! I like princesses and butterflies so let's say no more !! Nice to meet you

Anna xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yea I've received a few messages like this. Thanks ladies x

You're welcome

I was wondering if you was in about me

You and another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few really nice compliments or of the blue - thank you guys

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

I would love to message some lovely ladies but a few of them have me outside their age range so can't message them.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

"Lol its always a problem with the little fella

That's why I keep him tucked away

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

Yes just got one 10 minutes ago saying my pics are great.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have. In fact there are a couple of people right now on my hotlist who are on there just because I think their pics are ace and I may message to say so.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

If i see a guys profile that i like be it a status ,forum post , profile tex or he looks sexy will defo wink / mail them

(Her)

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have, often with newbies on the local update to welcome to the site. I get blocked a lot.

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I get a few compliment and random comments to my inbox about the stories I post in the forums - mostly complimentary! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, for the same reason given before, that it is always nice to receive genuine compliments.

Some photos are very stimulating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over time I have reacted to profiles that appealed, even if outwith distance range. I just love good prose. And the authors always write back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If fact I'm going on a wink rampage right now

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I do this!

I think everyone likes a compliment, so why not?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It does happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received such messages once or twice!

I'm humbly grateful

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

All the time

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few...few more be nice

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

No I fabbed a guys pic once he asked if I was up for meeting I said no just liked the pic and was called a time waster and blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with a few more

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I've been known to message guys to say I like their photos xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it many times. Mostly it doesn't go anywhere but that isn't why i do it. I like to think I've made someone smile. Or laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have done so.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I occasionally do message others to let them know of my appreciation that isn't a come on for sex. Some view this as genuine and thank me, often saying how rare it is for them to get unsolicited mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few such messages they're nice.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I've had a few nice messages thank you ladys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dnt hardly recieve messages of woman id have to message them first works like that most of the time..shouldent be tho lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes do it regularly and from one I sent I've now an amazing friendship formed and another I got bloody good sex from .

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

every day of my waking fab life

and then they block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say it's ever happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its happened once or twice .a jolly lovely surprise

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

I have in the past, as I'm outside most peoples age range now I don't even try to now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if. I see great pics then will compliment the lady/man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to be honest i dont look at profiles only tend to look if someones posted in thr forum and im bring nosey x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

Yep.. I've had quite a few over the time I've been on fab..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this quite a lot. Sometimes it goes nowhere beyond that initial exchange, sometimes contact becomes regular, and in a few cases we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this quite a lot. Sometimes it goes nowhere beyond that initial exchange, sometimes contact becomes regular, and in a few cases we meet."

me too...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I send 'good photo' messages and sometimes get one back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get lots of mails saying how great my body looks and that I got a good profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send 'good photo' messages and sometimes get one back

Or 'sexy piglet' messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this quite a lot. Sometimes it goes nowhere beyond that initial exchange, sometimes contact becomes regular, and in a few cases we meet.

me too...

Its lovely when you get to the last bit!

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I havnt received those sorts of messages very often, but always a nice welcome when they do pop up out of the blue, so thankyou ladies

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I do this quite often in fact being the first to initiate contact is my preferred method of getting meets

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

It's happened once, and I'm very glad it did

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I send 'good photo' messages and sometimes get one back

Or 'sexy piglet' messages

Only the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol its always a problem with the little fella

That's why I keep him tucked away

Nothing worse than a shy little fella .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send 'good photo' messages and sometimes get one back

Or 'sexy piglet' messages

Only the one

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Yes I sometimes get a new message from a woman or couple...it is always very special and reassuring that I am at least doing something right.

Made several new friends and a few lovely meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I get lots of mails saying how great my body looks and that I got a good profile

From your mum doesnt count though shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send first messages sometimes - especially if I've been perving the guy's hot pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send first messages sometimes - especially if I've been perving the guy's hot pics

Yes I do this I tell them I have just Perved on them .I think it's polite to do so .

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

I have a couple of times. But can't say wither it went beyond that or not, cos I can't remember.

But it's a nice gesture. I am not the sort to think anything more of it anyhow as I don't do well with subtlety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Females rarely message first is it some unwritten law that men have to make all the effort an women make zero lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

I do. I've sent a few ladies messages complimenting them.on their underwear and kindly enquiring where they purchased them. One lady replied the others ignored the message. I've complimented guys a lot. Most accepted the compliment for what it was but one or two messaged asking for a meet. Hmm not the intention of my message but hey ho shake of my head and let them know it is possible to compliment someone on something particular without actually wholly fancying them.

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Yes we do x

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Yes, I do from time to time. It's very flattering to receive such compliments

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I send compliments on photos or profiles from time to time. Doesn't mean I want to meet up. It's just a nice thing to make someone smile. Most guys seem appreciate And accept that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes - and ended up having some good chats - no intention of meeting up - its nice to just talk sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the occasional message from those who enjoy the joke in my one and only pic, but most are from forum related chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly from men! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this quite a lot. Sometimes it goes nowhere beyond that initial exchange, sometimes contact becomes regular, and in a few cases we meet.

me too...

Its lovely when you get to the last bit!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I often send messages saying what great photos or profile people have.Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe some woman don't message guys because they don't want them thinking they're on the pull? ...I mean, you can send a compliment without the other person thinking you actually want to meet them can't you? ..

I stopped Fabbing guys photos as then saying sorry not for us caused bother. I may like a photo on profiles I'd not want to meet in person or play with x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Ok girls do you ever message a guy or woman just to say great photos or interesting profile ?..I mean, the guys message us all the time don't they.

Guys,do you ever receive a message off us woman first telling you that your profile or photos look hot? ...

Been on here on and off for years and don't think I've ever had one lady message me first but to be fair if most are getting hundreds' of messages a day they don't need to and fair play I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been fortunate enough to get the odd message and I have made some great friends this way. The forums are full of good and very interesting people.

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By *aked_ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

nearby

We've had it from women a couple of times.. It sets the fake profile alarm bells off though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I do! I regularly compliment people on great pictures or profiles - and people are kind enough to compliment mine too! It's lovely!

If I'm fortunate enough to get a pic in hot photos (or new photos) then I'll go through and fab the pics I think are great! I'll especially send a message if it's someone I've never seen on there before - or someone I feel didn't get the number of fabs their beautiful picture warranted!

We all need compliments at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do this quite a lot. Sometimes it goes nowhere beyond that initial exchange, sometimes contact becomes regular, and in a few cases we meet.

me too...

Its lovely when you get to the last bit!

Great pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope never had a single compliment out of the blue from a lady....couple yes, single lady no"

I wouldn't send a compliment about their profile or pics to a couple, to a single guy or woman, yes I have done a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here on and off for years and don't think I've ever had one lady message me first but to be fair if most are getting hundreds' of messages a day they don't need to and fair play I say"

100's for many of us is a slight exaggeration.

However, you have no public pics to compliment and send a message saying so

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I have sent messages complimenting men on their pictures or if their profile is a good read.It doesn't mean that I want to get into their boxers, yes prefer boxers to cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

and its nice when they fab

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