FabSwingers.com forum: Older women younger man

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So like many males I love spending evenings with older ladies ( no offence intended )

I'm having a little trouble getting women to believe me though!

Would you women think I'm just time wasting or having a laugh if I messaged you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, lots of men your age and younger contact us I think some believe that older women will be grateful, some that they are short of offers elsewhere, some that their partners aren't up to the job and some that they need the stamina a young man offers happily lots just genuinely enjoy the company of older women...and why wouldn't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very much enjoy the company of younger men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well this is reassuring

Thanks guys!! Merry Xmas!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I get messages by all ages too though prefer younger. I think being the eldest girl in my family made me a bit mumsy and I now spend my days surrounded by young adults at uni. A big number of younger guys like my experience and are happy to benefit from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So like many males I love spending evenings with older ladies ( no offence intended )

I'm having a little trouble getting women to believe me though!

Would you women think I'm just time wasting or having a laugh if I messaged you?

As to believing you....it's not that issue for me, by any means...its if they can have intellectual engagement...it's not about age it's about maturity, humour, fun and finesse.....

Approach approach approach......it's just like landing a plane sweet X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So like many males I love spending evenings with older ladies ( no offence intended )

I'm having a little trouble getting women to believe me though!

Would you women think I'm just time wasting or having a laugh if I messaged you?

As to believing you....it's not that issue for me, by any means...its if they can have intellectual engagement...it's not about age it's about maturity, humour, fun and finesse.....

Approach approach approach......it's just like landing a plane sweet X

Screw that I'll be mature when I'm dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes find it hard to get my head around the idea of a hot, fit young guy wanting to spend time with me, especially when women/girls his own age could be more on their wavelength and possibly have bodies in better condition.... But then I think what the hell!!!!

There are ways to figure out if they are genuine or not. I've met some really nice younger guys.... And some really arrogant older ones who should know better!!!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"So like many males I love spending evenings with older ladies ( no offence intended )

I'm having a little trouble getting women to believe me though!

Would you women think I'm just time wasting or having a laugh if I messaged you?

You would be too young for me, but I would not think you were time wasting or having a laugh. You sound like a nice young man and look clean cut, so good luck!

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By *in344Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I love the younger guys who have manners and some respect for us older ladies. I am all for giving the younger guys a chance as long as they are not arrogant with it and give the impression they are doing me a favour.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"I sometimes find it hard to get my head around the idea of a hot, fit young guy wanting to spend time with me, especially when women/girls his own age could be more on their wavelength and possibly have bodies in better condition.... But then I think what the hell!!!!

There are ways to figure out if they are genuine or not. I've met some really nice younger guys.... And some really arrogant older ones who should know better!!! "

Actually I find it hard to talk to people my own age, take work for example I bring up a conversation only lightly philosophical... and I get looked at like I'm from another planet. I value decent conversation, and have the upmost respect for anyone that can hold it well.

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By *in344Woman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I used to swing with my hubby and had a fb who was 19... hubby used to annoy me with his comment "what are you going to talk about - how was his day at school?"

Age is but a number if you can connect mentally as well as physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women are better in everyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older women are better in everyway"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Older women are better in everyway"

Why? And how old, is this a linear thing?

Like a 99 year old is better than a 30 year old who's better than an 18 year old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The milf range 30-50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The milf range 30-50"

So then to you "younger women are better in every way" once a woman hits 51?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then 50-60 can be wild too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find being respectful, holding a good intelligent conversation and avoiding terms like cougar/milfs will help you in the long run when contacting older women.

I also enjoy the company of older women although it is abit hard to find them on this site in my case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love younger guys (18-25) but once they call me a 'milf' I'm outa there.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I think it's only just and fair OP that as I often stray into your field, that you should be allowed access to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find being respectful, holding a good intelligent conversation and avoiding terms like cougar/milfs will help you in the long run when contacting older women.

I also enjoy the company of older women although it is abit hard to find them on this site in my case. "
same here mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the company of an older lady much much more appealing =]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the company of an older lady much much more appealing =]"

Why?

This often seems like the bbw threads people don't tend to have a reason but often see older or bbw women as easy or desperate and seem to think that by saying they love them so much they will be inducted with offers

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Love younger guys (18-25) but once they call me a 'milf' I'm outa there."

Me too..being called a cougar or milf is an instant turnoff

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I must admit i do like younger guys from the age of 30. Im used to going to trance music gigs an dancing around younger guys

it keeps me young lol

so its the norm for me at trance gigs lol . Some of them are sexy lol an i can window shop too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the company of an older lady much much more appealing =]

Why?

The younger lads tell me that the sex is much more fulfilling with the older lady, as apparently we know what we're doing!

Being easy or desperate I haven't heard before...until now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love younger guys (18-25) but once they call me a 'milf' I'm outa there.

Me too..being called a cougar or milf is an instant turnoff

Great profile pic!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"The milf range 30-50"

The OP is 30 so he could be a Dilf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really think 30 as being a much younger guy. Usually 25 and under I'd find as younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm old then

I'm 27 no longer the younger guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the company of an older lady much much more appealing =]

Why?

I would disagree, for me personally I just find that I have a better sexual experience with them nothing desperate about it in fact it is harder to get with a older lady than someone my age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad we are in the same boat!

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Love younger guys (18-25) but once they call me a 'milf' I'm outa there.

Me too..being called a cougar or milf is an instant turnoff

Great profile pic!"

I could say the same!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning guys ????

Forgot to have a look at this all weekend and it seems I've been missing out on the chat

Well, the general response is positive ( and of course what I wanted to hear :D )

Only issues is im yet to meet a fabster who tells the truth about there age in a profile .... I find age ranges mean diddly squat on here haha!!

Hope everyone's having a happy Monday morning though!! Merry Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been with a number of older women. The key is getting their trust and just being grown up yourself. Don't jump in with the whole sex thing. That will come. I had one women when I was 24. She was 36. 3 kids. Use to go round just dinners and everything. At the end of the day it was purely sex. It's great. Dating sites are best for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I'd be wary since you have been on over a year and have no verifications.

I enjoy meeting younger guys as long as it's not all wham, bam...

(As it unfortunately was with a 26 year old I met!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, but I'd be wary since you have been on over a year and have no verifications.

I enjoy meeting younger guys as long as it's not all wham, bam...

(As it unfortunately was with a 26 year old I met!)

I did have but they left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning guys ????

Forgot to have a look at this all weekend and it seems I've been missing out on the chat

Well, the general response is positive ( and of course what I wanted to hear :D )

Only issues is im yet to meet a fabster who tells the truth about there age in a profile .... I find age ranges mean diddly squat on here haha!!

Hope everyone's having a happy Monday morning though!! Merry Xmas

Well my age is correct? There's, er, one.

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