FabSwingers.com forum: too much

By *ophieslut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Only when I take my clothes off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I probably do, yeah, when I get a bee in my bonnet about something. I think people reveal too much sometimes that could leave them vulnerable to people taking advantage. And sometimes there's just overfamiliarity, like do I really need to know your grandchildrens' best friends' pet's name."

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes I guess I do, but for everything imdo say there is a lot more I don't

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By *ophieslut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Evening you lovely lot. I've not been struck by your posts that I've read that it may be too much.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think I do but I'm amazed at what some people will reveal about themselves. I remember somebody talking about a child and an achievement of theirs and actually stating the local newspaper they were featured in

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By *ophieslut OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's subjective of course.

I mostly think the rants are perhaps saying too much sometimes - but if it helps them, I guess it's right.

It may also sometimes appear that there's a fair bit of superfluous content.

I'd be concerned for anyone who put themselves in a vulnerable situation and maybe admin would remove the post.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people over share any way. I remember chatting to an elderly lady at a bus stop once who happily told me that the doctor "wanted her to have a tube up her bottom"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It's amazing what people give away without knowing it, especially the ones that say they are descreet, and then come out with all sorts

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

In the past, yes. Am becoming a bit more selective (at least I hope I am)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.

If I felt I had anything to hide on here about my life or I had to hide this side of my life in the real world I wouldn't be here...

My name, town and face are all my real details (alot still Don't believe it's my real name)

I absolutely do not hide.

But that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have slipped up and said stuff I shouldn't have. Oh well.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More so in Pm's when I have got to know the other person a little as I don't have anything to hide, Just things what are happing in my life or what I have/haven't done, Nothing to personal like my home address or my surname,

I would have to of met them before giving that information away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's amazing what people give away without knowing it, especially the ones that say they are descreet, and then come out with all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm very close-mouthed on the forums about my personal life. I'm not sure why people post some of the stuff they do.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Forumites come to my house, they've met jay, two have met my mum, I've met the families of one or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"

We reveal everything, it just has a 256 bit encryption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only say want I'm willing to share as I've always been a personal type of person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv probably said things I shouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup.

If I felt I had anything to hide on here about my life or I had to hide this side of my life in the real world I wouldn't be here...

My name, town and face are all my real details (alot still Don't believe it's my real name)

I absolutely do not hide.

But that's me "

Exactly the same for us .

We have had our pics put on porn sites , a bloody pain to get them removed too .

But by and large , this is us , real names etc....

Never said we were discreet did we ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've seen a few people reveal more than they would perhaps, in hindsight, have wished to. Usually they are beyond FORUM INSURANCE by then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified."

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

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I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date

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over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date

That's just beyond pathetic

Some people need to give their heads a shake

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date

That's just beyond pathetic

Some people need to give their heads a shake

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there's certain people that are always saying about the notes they make,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"

Sometimes I do get a little carried away with some responses I give on here but nothing that I really mind sharing I don't think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably. However most of what I say is relatively un noticed.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Probably. However most of what I say is relatively un noticed. "

I'd probably go with this as well

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I do, but I guess it's the anonymity of it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Probably. However most of what I say is relatively un noticed.

I'd probably go with this as well "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date

That's just beyond pathetic

Some people need to give their heads a shake

there's certain people that are always saying about the notes they make,"

Well they clearly have too much time on their hands and I'm glad I have a much more fulfilled life than them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I think people do remember things though, I know lots who say they use private notes for what people say and then bring it up at a later date

That's just beyond pathetic

Some people need to give their heads a shake

there's certain people that are always saying about the notes they make,"

Freaks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've told people stuff in the forum that it doesn't matter if hey know or not. I think.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

In PM though if I am getting to know a potential meet, I am truthful about all aspects.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

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I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In PM though if I am getting to know a potential meet, I am truthful about all aspects....."

I prefer to wait until I meet someone in person until I am completely open about things. No one could look at my pms and find out anything about me that I haven't revealed in the forums already.

Except the rare face pic....

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say."

It's a bit creepy

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Yes and yes. "

pity only the forums

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.

It's a bit creepy

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but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.

People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.

The private notes is just one tool that can be used.

Once it's in type it can't be taken back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.

It's a bit creepy

but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.

People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.

The private notes is just one tool that can be used.

Once it's in type it can't be taken back

Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"In PM though if I am getting to know a potential meet, I am truthful about all aspects.....

I prefer to wait until I meet someone in person until I am completely open about things. No one could look at my pms and find out anything about me that I haven't revealed in the forums already.

Except the rare face pic....

-Courtney"

But to be honest I am pretty boring, so I don't give anything too personal away about myself unless we meet etc.

I only say what (not where) I do for a living, where I come from as I am not from here, and vague area of where I live, there is not much they can do with that info.

But what I do say is all true

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.

It's a bit creepy

but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.

People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.

The private notes is just one tool that can be used.

Once it's in type it can't be taken back

Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really. "
it's not the sly digs id worry about if I was giving to much information away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.

It's a bit creepy

but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.

People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.

The private notes is just one tool that can be used.

Once it's in type it can't be taken back

Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really. "

You guys are going to make me even more paranoid than I already am

Seriously...I thought the NSA was bad

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.

It's a bit creepy

but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.

People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.

The private notes is just one tool that can be used.

Once it's in type it can't be taken back

Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really.

it's not the sly digs id worry about if I was giving to much information away "

True, some people really are cunts like that.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Probably more open on here than any forum or social media thingy. Might be the nature of the site though I've nowt to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"

I don't think I do. I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"
I reveal nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"
I reveal nothing

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"

Although I'm very open and can wear my heart on my sleeve a little too much at times, non of what I say is ever too revealing. Certainly not enough for me to be ID'ed or anything like that. This goes for both my forum posts and PM's.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?

I don't think I do. I don't know."

You don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably give too much intimate information away and stuff about my mental state but I wouldn't say too much personal information, I don't think I do anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

I don't know who they make the notes on but refer to the fact that that they love the tool to keep track of what people say.

It's a bit creepy

but in fairness there are so many ways people can find out things I remember the things people are vocal about as they stick in my mind.

People steal pictures from here, screen shot threads and private conversations, pass things via pm like peoples private details that they have let slip.

The private notes is just one tool that can be used.

Once it's in type it can't be taken back

Yes people love to remember things and use them to make sly digs later on. But I feel a bit sorry for them really.

You guys are going to make me even more paranoid than I already am

Seriously...I thought the NSA was bad

-Courtney"
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My MA always says sshhh

Were talking about you, not to you

Sometimes people do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm a rooster illusion...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've told people stuff in the forum that it doesn't matter if hey know or not. I think....."

You never give you location away though

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Yes, probably!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

possibly but then im just a word name and pic on a screen unless you met me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see a small slice of me on the forums, I'll try not to reveal *too* much and I guess it's subjective if that's too much or too little.

Those I speak to on PM or elsewhere tend to know more about me to various degrees - some far too well by now and others just starting out

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Can you, or do you, reveal too much in the forums?"

It's subjective.

For me I'll reveal general information about myself if it's relevant to the thread ie that I've lost a child in bereavement threads, that my youngest was sectioned on mental health threads etc.

I don't show my face or my real location, others do.

What amazes me are those that reveal their vulnerability. Forever putting themselves down or jumping up for attention, desperately craving validation from strangers. They are preditors dream. They often post threads about being used...no shit!

Others reveal their sexist, racist, homophobic nasty selves...totally unaware of what they type.

Never a dull moment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You've never struck as someone who overshares. If anything you come across as very self-contained and dignified.

I've revealed more than I should about insecurities before. I've read back stuff and thought I sound completely neurotic. Good job people just look at the pretty pictures and don't remember

I cringe when I remember some of my needier posts. I've definitely disclosed too much emotional vulnerability when I haven't been 100%

I do hope Diamondsmiles isn't correct about the note-keeping.

She is! I've seen dozens of comments from people stating they do. Personally I think, get a life you sad fucks, but it's a site tool, so hey ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't reveal much but i really don't believe that anyone would be remotely interested if i did so we're all happy.

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