FabSwingers.com forum: How to tell if your partner is cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know you are on fab tho?

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

But you're here as a single man... am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does she know you are on fab tho?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you're here as a single man... am I missing something? "
yeah that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its called karma give her a ?? from

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No but I'm not looking for meets anymore, not that I got any whilst single on here, never got around to deleting my profile, but thought I'd just ask for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are these markers they make. They have clear ink, unless you write on someone who is cheating, then the ink turns blue.

True story.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you find her profile while you were looking to cheat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she found out you was bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused!

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"

Ask her? If she is new & cheating already maybe you should call it a day...or make a couples profile?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Try speaking with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's a new girlfriend and your gut instinct is that she's cheating I'd just walk away

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Maybe she found out you was bi

Maybe she already knew?? But people can be in relationships too you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband was 100% certain I was cheating on him. I wasn't,he was cheating on me.

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

What have you noticed that's making you suspicious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have had the same wording on your profile for months now, so I hardly think this is a new thing to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe she found out you was bi

Maybe she already knew?? But people can be in relationships too you know. "

Oh can they? Cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you're here as a single man... am I missing something? "

Wow we are missing something..... YOU!

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By *uffin-Man-Man
over a year ago

muffin lane

Yes do the sniff test as if she smells of male spunk it's a dead cert. But then again you are on here and however you look at it you shouldn't be. So good on her for getting in there first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her . Be open honest and calm . It could be that your expecting her to be cheating because of past events. So keep that in mind . Good luck chap .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 14/12/15 21:59:47]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY

This...but the male version

You're welcome in advance.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone that has had an affair:

Going out at odd times

Always on my phone, getting angry when your other half suggest you put it down

Get angry when your other half suggest spending more time

Sexy underwear

Showing lots of cleavage

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

"But you're here as a single man... am I missing something?

Wow we are missing something..... YOU!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"

a tell tale is when you find a stranger leaving the house and she has cum dripping from her mouth.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comedy gold...I can't add to this just want to make sure I can find it later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pot and kettle spring to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talk to her . Be open honest and calm . It could be that your expecting her to be cheating because of past events. So keep that in mind . Good luck chap .

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again

a tell tale is when you find a stranger leaving the house and she has cum dripping from her mouth..... "

Really was that necessary assumptions aside the guy might genuinely be looking for help.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yes do the sniff test as if she smells of male spunk it's a dead cert. But then again you are on here and however you look at it you shouldn't be. So good on her for getting in there first"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I'm not looking for meets anymore, not that I got any whilst single on here, never got around to deleting my profile, but thought I'd just ask for advice"

You are here. Are you taking her for a ride?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the actual fuck ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double standards comes to mind and do t give me any of that bull about I'm not here to meet because if a girl messages you to meet you would be up it like a rat up a drainpipe ???

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

So you think she may be cheating and you're on here...match made in heaven then

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Go down the east end mate. Find a villans pub and ask them what they would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unusual changes in behaviour. Most people are creatures of habit really.

But as someone's already said, if it's a new relationship and you're already feeling this way, is there much point pursuing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you're here as a single man... am I missing something?

Wow we are missing something..... YOU!

Just a shame we are out of your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"

How long have you been seeing her?

Just a few weeks ago you were posting in here about meeting people. And it takes 2 mins to change your profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm, I guess if they had a FUCKING FABSWINGERS ACCOUNT that would be a fairly clear indication that they were cheating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is simple. Just watch her unlock her phone. Memorize her passcode. It's usually 4 numbers. Then when she is in the shower or sleeping. Go look at her phone . All your questions will be answered.

Thank me later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is simple. Just watch her unlock her phone. Memorize her passcode. It's usually 4 numbers. Then when she is in the shower or sleeping. Go look at her phone . All your questions will be answered.

Thank me later

Got to ask... voice of experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"erm, I guess if they had a FUCKING FABSWINGERS ACCOUNT that would be a fairly clear indication that they were cheating..."

This...the words I wanted to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank me later

Got to ask... voice of experience?"

Yes , that's how my ex girlfriend caught me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes do the sniff test as if she smells of male spunk it's a dead cert. But then again you are on here and however you look at it you shouldn't be. So good on her for getting in there first"

My husband used to do the sniff test and was certain I'd had sex when I hadn't. How a paranoid mind works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she's a new girlfriend and your gut instinct is that she's cheating I'd just walk away"

Totally agree with this.. ^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"

What are the signs that make you think she is cheating???

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again

What are the signs that make you think she is cheating??? "

She played 5 aces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, I admit, I'm a cynical twat.

But has this really happened, or you just trying to post something that might get a response or even some sympathy?

Is it possible to go from single and looking, to attached and have a girlfriend, to think she's cheating mode, all while having "an old profile that you haven't had a chance to update"... In just a few weeks?

Maybe that's as fast as you work, but you've not been back to the thread, so you must be really panicked and bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does she know you are on fab tho?"

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"

If she is good at it - you will never know.

It's all about not acting out of the ordinary. Have plausible excuses, play phone, plan well and have contingency plans.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

He's gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again

What are the signs that make you think she is cheating??? "

Signs were coming home and eight extra shoes by the door, four pairs of jeans leading up the stairs nail marks on the walls, loud screams from the bedroom and opening the door to find four men fucking his girlfriend surrounded by 8 empty boxes of condoms!

Apart from that there haven't been any signs!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"He's gone

It's not really surprising though is it?

There doesn't appear to be the ability here just to be a little bit kind to people and offer advice in answer to a question asked. There's a trawl through a profile and a judgement made. I'm not sure why people seem so unable just to answer the question asked without giving an opinion on what they *think* is going on.

It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if his wife found out lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you're here as a single man... am I missing something? "

Pot kettle in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's gone

It's not really surprising though is it?

It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past."

I want to agree with you, I really do. Regardless of my personal feelings about cheating, I went out of my way not to address the OPs seeming hypocrisy. However, as evidenced by my initial comment (my point about the marker was that there is no test that works to determine if people are cheating - we would have to look on an individual basis), how are we supposed to answer his question without "giving and opinion on what we think is happening"? It's just that the OP expects us to speculate about the actions of his unknowing partner instead of him, having only been given one side of the story.

Sometimes I feel like people bring these types of threads on themselves. But that's just my opinion.

-Courtney

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"He's gone

It's not really surprising though is it?

It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past.

Sometimes I feel like people bring these types of threads on themselves. But that's just my opinion.

-Courtney"

I just feel like it's unecessary.

Generally you should follow your gut instinct and if you think something is off, then it's unlikely that you're wrong.

I don't need to think about the circumstances or pick apart what the OP's apparent situation is to give my advice. If there's reason to question your partners behaviour the question it.

I don't really need to add my personal views as to what I *think* is going on... I don't know either of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's gone

It's not really surprising though is it?

It really does make me feel quite sad that this open and liberated community seems to be a thing of the past."

Because some people think they are better than others. They jump on any stuff like this so they can get on their high horse in an attempt to feel better about themselves.

I think the worst people for jumping on others are those with the guiltiest consciences.

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By *ockyjohnMan
over a year ago

North West

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"

If she if full of cum and it's not yours, that's a pretty good sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most who are cheating are on here too so why not look her up . lol We get a real mix on here and You just never know who or what you may find .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride again"
and another one another one bites the dust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey he's in the wrong place if he's worried about someone cheating on someone else hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I've got this horrible gut feeling my new girlfriend is cheating on me. Is there vital signs I should be looking for, really don't won't to be taken for a ride againand another one another one bites the dust

"
I bet still looking .... A lot go and still read the forums here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giggling to myself about people talking about the "sniff test" like it's some sort of verified scientific process that's admissible in court for divorce proceedings. "Well your honour, she failed the 'sniff test' you see and I even had a bloodhound cross-check the results"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP:

You may well find that your sex life with your gf suddenly improves, - or at least that's what my ex told me!

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