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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was wondering at what stage in your life did you realise your sex drive and sexual boundaries didn't match those around you or "the norm"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/12/15 21:07:38]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always known i have a high sex drive. I just waited till i was 29 to act on it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

About 3 years ago or so.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My sex drive is pretty normal. I think its the way I express it that isn't.

I realised I preferred NSA sex back in college, before I knew there was a word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A short, disappointing relationship around March this year confirmed it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 17. Swinging has been my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always been the same since aged 16 when i lost my virginity...its through the roof

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have no idea what other peoples sex drives are like, I rarely ask people how many times they have had sex this month.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Almost immediately, but then I had a very active imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/12/15 21:07:38]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I got married aged 19

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I was wondering at what stage in your life did you realise your sex drive and sexual boundaries didn't match those around you or "the norm"?

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From the first time i had sex, i list my virginity to a MMF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always known my sex drive is very low, never really tested it out, only very seldom lol, my energy goes to the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering at what stage in your life did you realise your sex drive and sexual boundaries didn't match those around you or "the norm"?

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Actually I would say that the difference is we have learned to have more control over it rather than being more than others.

Instead of blindly going out behind each other's back's shagging anyone.

We have taken control of an aspect of our lives that many don't or can't.

We may not have higher sex drives than anyone else, it's more that we have learned to embrace it and indulge.

Much like any other hobby.

Two people can both have equal passion for football for example. But only one of those may choose to play it in spare time rather than just watch it.

It's the same principle basically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just follow what feels right.. however now I have control of my addiction.. my sex life is better.. Its hard now to let go as much as I am always recovering.. but I always knew.

I love doing it because I want to... rather than needing to. x Dont get me wrong I could happily jump Mr all day every day if life didnt get in the way and still both have time for others.. but the fact is I am not doing it at the expense of real life now x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Another Lickety, but probably not the same meaning.

I'm not sure that my sex drive is different to other people's it's more that I am willing to try things that others might dismiss (and I'm not talking about anything particularly out there).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost immediately, but then I had a very active imagination "

Concur with that. Is it an act or is it an ongoing process? It's ongoing ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

You wouldn't believe me

Around sixteen call it mmmf, ain't looked back since

Well until

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I lost my virginity, I knew from that day I was going to want more, thinking back, if my first time hadn't been the positive experience that it was, I'd probably be very vanilla now but who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure that my sex drive is high particularly, but it's sparked by many varied and wonderful scenarios and I'm a very curious person. so, I think the difference is probably that I lack inhibition rather than have a higher libido, and I've always been like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only since i came on here. Have always had partners with a high sex drive so presumed this was normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for boundaries, i've always been open minded so never really seen anything as abnormal even if i didn't particiate. Even taboo stuff i can understand, i can also understand why it's illegal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/12/15 21:07:38]"

Oh no you put it up and deleted before I could see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its crept up on me but getting noticeably more difficult not to make a wrong comment to non fab friends

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Wasn't aware that they didn't

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Never, I am a pure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband wanted sex more often than me. I wanted things he had no interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not overly sure , I have always had quite a high sexual drive. I am quite a shy person and fab has brought me out of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sex drive is pretty normal. I think its the way I express it that isn't.

I realised I preferred NSA sex back in college, before I knew there was a word for it. "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Almost immediately, but then I had a very active imagination

Concur with that. Is it an act or is it an ongoing process? It's ongoing ??"

Errmmm... Tricky to say on the forums but my first proper sexual experiences with men and women were both very satisfying.

But even before then I was very curious about sex, probably a compulsive masturbator... I would write my own pornography now I think of it.

Now I've done pretty much everything except for the sick little fantasies that are probably best left in the box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another Lickety, but probably not the same meaning.

I'm not sure that my sex drive is different to other people's it's more that I am willing to try things that others might dismiss (and I'm not talking about anything particularly out there).

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This

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