FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As an overview, how do you spot them , I've been quite a bit on here and been put off quite a lot of times.

Is it something wrong with me or some people on here?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You can't spot them. You just need to make sure your selection process is top notch.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Define timewasters.

It means different things to different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not another one. What a waste of time

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!"

Lmao

couldn't have said it better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!"

So True

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not another one. What a waste of time"

Don't read it if you don't like it .

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Define timewasters.

It means different things to different people"

Messaging with you for few days and sometimes weeks ,

Arrange a meet and not turn up

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!

So True

Are you referring to those who invited you to a meet and lured you to a false address....or....

Someone you chatted to who found they didn't really want to take things any further...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it seems to good to be true it normally is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!

So True

Are you referring to those who invited you to a meet and lured you to a false address....or....

Someone you chatted to who found they didn't really want to take things any further..."

It's the ones who arrange a meet and you wait there like a idiot

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!

So True

Are you referring to those who invited you to a meet and lured you to a false address....or....

Someone you chatted to who found they didn't really want to take things any further..."

Me? I'm referring to the only people I class as time wasters: those who arrange to meet then decide not to attend the date for whatever reason they've forgotten to tell me.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

It happens and no idea why

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!

So True

Are you referring to those who invited you to a meet and lured you to a false address....or....

Someone you chatted to who found they didn't really want to take things any further...

Me? I'm referring to the only people I class as time wasters: those who arrange to meet then decide not to attend the date for whatever reason they've forgotten to tell me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not another one. What a waste of time

Don't read it if you don't like it .

Thank you

Maybe they realised they weren't good enough when they saw you in the flesh and walked on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many timewasters its not right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A time waster is lorry driver in a dress who sends you a message saying they are a 25 yr ols nympho who needs a master to own them sends you a cloned pic of a georgous blond but is not a site supporter has no veris gets 25 friends in a day but will not speak on phone simples

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!

So True

Are you referring to those who invited you to a meet and lured you to a false address....or....

Someone you chatted to who found they didn't really want to take things any further...

Me? I'm referring to the only people I class as time wasters: those who arrange to meet then decide not to attend the date for whatever reason they've forgotten to tell me."

Sorry no.

I thought I'd hitched my reply to the OP.

Sounds like it was a bloke pretending all along.

It happens a lot here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A time waster is lorry driver in a dress who sends you a message saying they are a 25 yr ols nympho who needs a master to own them sends you a cloned pic of a georgous blond but is not a site supporter has no veris gets 25 friends in a day but will not speak on phone simples"

Ones I was to meet (or most ) were verified so less possible it could be a truck driver haha

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"As an overview, how do you spot them , I've been quite a bit on here and been put off quite a lot of times.

Is it something wrong with me or some people on here?

Multiple 1 year on fab no meets and other tell tale signs on a few,real pity as the twits who mess you around must have some seriously sad lives.You have to have a Sherlock degree for fab meetings 0_o

The ones who play games have a warped sense of humor, never right in the head....to much hand play!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As an overview, how do you spot them , I've been quite a bit on here and been put off quite a lot of times.

Is it something wrong with me or some people on here?

The ones who play games have a warped sense of humor, never right in the head....to much hand play!"

I quite like how you described it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do think a lot of single guys on here don't do enough due diligence on here to be honest and end up thinking with their little heads rather than their big one's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do think a lot of single guys on here don't do enough due diligence on here to be honest and end up thinking with their little heads rather than their big one's

The thing is iam not one of them guys sending a (fancy a fuck ) message.

I'm being polite to women and always ask whether theye are intrested to exchange a message with myself before I write anything else.

Even when refused I send a polite Thank you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It's the ones who arrange a meet and you wait there like a idiot

I get round this by not waiting. I only leave the house if they have called to say they are on their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!"

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I do think a lot of single guys on here don't do enough due diligence on here to be honest and end up thinking with their little heads rather than their big one's

The thing is iam not one of them guys sending a (fancy a fuck ) message.

I'm being polite to women and always ask whether theye are intrested to exchange a message with myself before I write anything else.

Even when refused I send a polite Thank you

A timewaster is someone you have arranged a meet with, you turn up and they don't - Do you ask for a phone chat first to make sure they are female? Have they been on site for more than a few weeks and have more than one meet verification? Just a few things I would do if I was a single male on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it seems to good to be true it normally is. "

This

Remember this and you won;t go far wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what is the one common denominator that links all the experiences where you feel you've wasted your time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think a lot of single guys on here don't do enough due diligence on here to be honest and end up thinking with their little heads rather than their big one's

And similarly plenty encounter what they decsribe as timewaster because of their own sense of entitlement

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The problem with time wasters is you can't spot them, because they haven't blimmin' turned up!"

Well it's about time you blimmin' invited me then. I'll show you what a timewaster is

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I do think a lot of single guys on here don't do enough due diligence on here to be honest and end up thinking with their little heads rather than their big one's

And similarly plenty encounter what they describe as timewaster because of their own sense of entitlement"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As an overview, how do you spot them , I've been quite a bit on here and been put off quite a lot of times.

Is it something wrong with me or some people on here?

You realy do just have to use your intuition.Even people with verifications have been known to 'timewaste'.Then again,how do you define a timewaster?I was accused of being one myself as at the time my mum was in a hospice.Id told the people concerned I couldn't meet as I didn't want to let anyone down due to circumstances and then the very same individuals called me a timewaster due to fact that I was browsing the site!Nowt so queer as folk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As an overview, how do you spot them , I've been quite a bit on here and been put off quite a lot of times.

Is it something wrong with me or some people on here?

Coming to a answer that you just never know

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you add the words 'No Timewasters' to your profile it creates immunity and they leave you alone.

And give them your premium rate number for calls, so the more time they waste, the more you earn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A timewaster is someone who goes to meet strangers from the internet in the hope of having sex. We are all wasters of our own time and have time to waste otherwise we wouldn't do it. Its just a chance we take, sometimes you win sometimes you lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a timewaster. I invest time messaging, arranging meets, help out with people's house mending stuff, take time off work (for which I'm unpaid), arrange more meets then get told they can't make it an hour before. Then post veris 6 hours later from who they met that very day. Yep. Wasted my fuckin time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who talks to me under false pretenses is wasting my time,whether we arrange to meet or not. I decide who has wasted my time,it's my time not anyone else's on here. People lie to try to wangle a meet; I don't want to waste my time talking to someone who then admits they don't really accommodate or they aren't actually single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't spot all timewasters until they have wasted your time. The wankers,fantasists and pic collectors tend to stand out a mile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a timewaster. I invest time messaging, arranging meets, help out with people's house mending stuff, take time off work (for which I'm unpaid), arrange more meets then get told they can't make it an hour before. Then post veris 6 hours later from who they met that very day. Yep. Wasted my fuckin time!"

You did free work for them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't spot all timewasters until they have wasted your time. The wankers,fantasists and pic collectors tend to stand out a mile."

I just guess that their life is too poor and they pretend who they are and maybe thats the reason but it's also a waste of their time

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

Hi,

Likes

Dislikes

Gen chat (sexual)

Organize meet : when,where,what time.

The biggie...

Phone numbers

Make sure numbers right by text

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Ring

Meet

Sex

Go home

Watch porn

Seems to work a bit but you will still get the odd one and it can be many factors.

I'm not one to judge people's lifestyles or what they do.

Happy doin what you do,people

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