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what to do if someone robbed a £20 while on a meet at your house ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The people I meet wouldn't rob £20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your able to prove it and then find them. get it back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't invite them again and put it down to experience x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Name and Shame."
we'll its against the rules.

We have one side of the story

He needs to prove it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Shouting about it in the forums is defo the way to go!!

If you have proof then report them. If not suck it up and meet in a public place rather than inviting a stranger into your home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be more worried they stole my virginity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Name and Shame."

And then the op finds the 20 quid behind the sofa and someone's reputation is ruined.

Beyond reasonable doubt......

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Put it down to experience and put your money in a safe place if there's a next time. If you know who it was and have undeniable proof ask for it back.

Is this a hypothetical question?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!! "

Shocking and sorry to hear that you had such an unpleasant experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't invite them again and put it down to experience x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

Shocking and sorry to hear that you had such an unpleasant experience "

Not nice but shit happens Hun! Had a Gucci watch in the room too so just relieved he/they didn't find that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they could find £20 from me then that would be a miracle!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't leave money around when one of my daughters visit let alone a stranger.

Chalk it up to experience and don't leave valuables around when inviting strangers into your home.

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

he probably thought it was hit tip lol

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"I don't leave money around when one of my daughters visit let alone a stranger.

Chalk it up to experience and don't leave valuables around when inviting strangers into your home. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't leave money lying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!! "

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Don't invite them again and put it down to experience x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

That's terrible! People would go so low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are certainly some scumbags in the world! Its a shame as you need to have mutual trust, but at least this type of thing should be pretty rare.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

you could of contacted the police with his details. And people say hotels are the safest option

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

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What a thoughtless Bastard. Just shows you never know what people are like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn from it and cnsider it as a cheap shag, would cost a lot more than £20 for a high class escort

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

think thriller b-movie payback, taken with a bit of horror thrown in.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

Wow! How mean is that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them the sex was worth paying for but you want your £19.50 change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont leave strangers alone with your shit, then it won't get stolen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people I meet wouldn't rob £20"
This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont leave strangers alone with your shit, then it won't get stolen. "

I never leave money or anything valuable on display, or leave a guy unsupervised in my hotel room - including repeat meets. But also I choose carefully so guys I meet are incredibly unlikely to be the type to swipe anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't invite them again and put it down to experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

What a scumbag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He he he,

We once had a guy leave his Several 1000 pound rolex watch behind. It was very big and shiny.

Needless to say we let him know and he was very very grateful

Will we go to heaven do you think

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

why did you not contact the police?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't order a hooker, then they won't expect payment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do

why did you not contact the police?

"

and say what

i met a guy off the internet who robbed me

name? dont know

address? dont know

phone number? dont know

what could they have done?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do

why did you not contact the police?

and say what

i met a guy off the internet who robbed me

name? dont know

address? dont know

phone number? dont know

what could they have done?"

now you explain it then yes your options were limited..

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do

why did you not contact the police?

and say what

i met a guy off the internet who robbed me

name? dont know

address? dont know

phone number? dont know

what could they have done?"

They would have investigated it by contacting Admin of the site you used to ask for any details they have.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

According to the NRA, if you had a one of those amazing rotary machineguns used by Blaine in Predator, then this wouldn't have happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do

why did you not contact the police?

and say what

i met a guy off the internet who robbed me

name? dont know

address? dont know

phone number? dont know

what could they have done?"

You maybe surprised what they can do if you wanted to report it, i can understand if you didn't want to take it any further as that's your choice, but it could have been a lot worse! if he could go so low I dread to think what else he could have done.

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton

very hard to prove unless you had cameras, but this thread is a warning to all, i had a private house party and someone claimed they had 200 quid nicked, the lady who was hosting the party offered to pay, she gave me a cheque to give him, i had arranged to meet the man concerned sat night in gay village, he didnt turn up, or contact strange didnt turn up, so she ripped the cheque up, best if you meets at home hide all cash and things that can be easily nicked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's sounds like a admission fee lots of private parties I see on here where single guys pay 20-30 every one else pays less tho

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

Police

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

its just money .be more careful next time

rather a petty thief than sadistic psychopath ..u never know who's gonna show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's sounds like a admission fee lots of private parties I see on here where single guys pay 20-30 every one else pays less tho"

Erm, not really theft though is it because they have a choice about whether to pay or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anyone leave unattended valuables, lying around in room with only strangers there.

You would call them stupid, if they did the same thing in a bar or night club.

If your daft enough to trust them, then your rich enough to lose your valuables.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As long as you've had a face pic first then you have some evidence to submit to the police.

I don't take much of any value with me when meeting and you can always use a cheap phone too.

Hide valuables in rooms used for meets and don't leave the meets out of your sight.

Swallow the door key too, so that they can't just walk out.

I like bodyguards too, especially if they join in the fun.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Happened to me!

Was in a hotel in Manchester with a fem friend after Amour - she let two random guys in the room - I went to the loo as I just wasn't interested - ten mins later (after She'D gone to their room with them) I noticed 20 quid was missing from my bedside table! Not impressed but no way I could have proved it!!

ive had it too

i met a guy and we got a hotel, after we had played i went in the shower, while i was in there he went theough my bag and took everything of value and left, didnt even leave me enough money to get home or my phone so i could call somebody to help me, i had to walk home took me nearly 3 hours

there isn't really a great deal you can do "

Wow! How mean is that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kill him! Hunt him down and kill him dead!!

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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago

denton


"That's sounds like a admission fee lots of private parties I see on here where single guys pay 20-30 every one else pays less tho

Erm, not really theft though is it because they have a choice about whether to pay or not."

agree they know before they go what the fee is, trouble is at parties or meets you take people at face value, good idea to take minimum amount or put 20 in shoe or coat lining, when i had a party and the man said he had 200 nicked as he just drew from atm, i ask myself did he need it as it was bring your booze,i couldnt think of anyone there who would nick money

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