FabSwingers.com forum: Elaborate deception

By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Does anyone else find that some people go to elaborate lengths to pretend they're up for a meet? Texting until the last minute etc, and then simply failing to materialise? Pretty pathetic way to get a buzz. My only consolation is that my metaphorical balls are much bigger than theirs.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Does anyone else find that some people go to elaborate lengths to pretend they're up for a meet? Texting until the last minute etc, and then simply failing to materialise? Pretty pathetic way to get a buzz. My only consolation is that my metaphorical balls are much bigger than theirs. "

it's just the risk one has to take when dealing with people on here i'm afraid, most are up for meets etc but some are not and like to play games.

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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Just wish I could choose more wisely.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Perhaps a harry potter style sorting hat would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wish I could choose more wisely."
let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

How many emoticons???!!!

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Just wish I could choose more wisely."

put it down as a learning experience then or just bad experience, anyway best off not let stuff like that get you down you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

How many emoticons???!!!"
they brighten up your thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

How many emoticons???!!!they brighten up your thread

He doesn't change

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We could all have meets that don't happen or the wrong person for us to turn up - it's part of casual fun world and because we will likely meet more people than other types who Settle down', we have the risk factor multiplied by the volume of people, meaning it's likely to happen sometime or other.

Work out your part in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

How many emoticons???!!!they brighten up your thread

He doesn't change

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I do I'm wearing a clean shirt and pants xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

How many emoticons???!!!they brighten up your thread

He doesn't change

I do I'm wearing a clean shirt and pants xxx

Oh dear....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how anyone gets anywhere with anyone on theses sites lol. All I get is time wasters and head cases

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe use a different selection process, especially if it keeps happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

How many emoticons???!!!"

Its his new "thing".

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

What an odd thing to say. So people are only on here because they can't interact in the real world?

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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Just wish I could choose more wisely.let's face it you wouldn't be here if you could

How many emoticons???!!!they brighten up your thread

I don't choose wisely. I choose spontaneously. The domestic me seems to have an alter ego who likes occasionally to chase out into the dark and fuck under the stars. Adventure is had often enough to make it worthwhile, but I continue to be bemused by those who put such detail into fantasy and yet never cross the threshold into reality. Where's the kick compared to chemistry and coming like fury with another human being?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of using the internet, it enables people to pretend they are something they are not.

I've been quite lucky and only had one meet not turn up. I don't have any particular process, it's just luck really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i do have some things in place what help me figure out who is likely after something other than sex and meeting, but it is mostly luck that it works i guess.

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