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Do people seriously meet idiots who say 'meet you in half hour for a f**k' ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a newbie granted, but it amazes me I see loads of status's saying 'horny tonight anyone want some fun' and 'meet me at so and so' etc. Surely this does not work. I think it's a terrible thing to do personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

No chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, where are they? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie granted, but it amazes me I see loads of status's saying 'horny tonight anyone want some fun' and 'meet me at so and so' etc. Surely this does not work. I think it's a terrible thing to do personally."

We have done this plenty of times , and loved it .

What's wrong with it ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Wish they would tonight. Horny enough to shag a roomful.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Imagine it depends on who is posting if it is a female there will be plenty of guys prepared to take the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think calling them idiots is necessary.

Everyone is entitled to use the site in the way they want.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap there are a few in my area that regularly post something along the lines of 'will be at asda car park in 25 mins if anyone is interested'

No idea if it works or not, but it is posted very often

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive had blokes text me to say they are at my door

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yeap there are a few in my area that regularly post something along the lines of 'will be at asda car park in 25 mins if anyone is interested'

No idea if it works or not, but it is posted very often "

Sorry, other supermarkets are available of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op... Some fabbers have no respect. Some think us women are on here for a guys fix.

Not my thing.. Nor are players way too many on forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op... Some fabbers have no respect. Some think us women are on here for a guys fix.

Not my thing.. Nor are players way too many on forums. "

What nonsense !

We have seen such statuses , responded , met and had fun .

Does that mean we have no respect ?

Or are we just players , of which you claim there are way too many on the forums ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive had blokes text me to say they are at my door "

Errrrrr. That would freek me right out! (Especially if it was a bloke) lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I spose its both ways (or should that be bi) that some people it works for, and they like it. Fairplay to them. I prefer having a little bit of a chase I spose and I do think it's just manners to speak to people and semi get to know them a little bit. Rather than shooting your load over someone then asking "by the way what's your name"?

Different strokes for different folks

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I don't think calling them idiots is necessary.

Everyone is entitled to use the site in the way they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, many men would say no lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is something for everyone on here

Let people have fun and get on with your own in the way you like it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I spose its both ways (or should that be bi) that some people it works for, and they like it. Fairplay to them. I prefer having a little bit of a chase I spose and I do think it's just manners to speak to people and semi get to know them a little bit. Rather than shooting your load over someone then asking "by the way what's your name"?

Different strokes for different folks "

I don't know the name of 90% of the guys I've shagged. Is that a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people put a status up like that just to see if any of there friends(people they have met before) are interested in meeting, It saves sending a load of messages and potentially upsetting someone if the one they do meet was their 3rd choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive had blokes text me to say they are at my door "

Text them back asking them why they didn't just ring the bell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are they idiots? I often wonder how guys with exclusively cock photos get on but its their profile, they run it how they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I did meet, most of my meets were not planned. An ever changing business diary meant I could not guarantee being somewhere at any given time.

If I posted a 'meet today' for later that day and then felt like a quiet night in after the day turned crap (which they invariably did... then I would appear a timewaster.

So, for me, that type of meet very much worked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK. I'm sorry for calling them idiots. Point taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think its a terrible thing to stick your cock in a poor woman's face every time you message

Let people get on with their business and you get on with yours, its not affecting you my lovely.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me but can't see why its bad. If folk like that good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got my first ever "lets fuck" message late on Friday night, from a stranger.

So proud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got my first ever "lets fuck" message late on Friday night, from a stranger.

So proud. "
lol you do know you are gonna get lots now

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

So many ways of looking at it

maybe it's aimed at the friends list.

It must work for some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has there own way of doing things and none of them are wrong , we will only go to clubs and if a single guy or couple want to play then we may never know their names or sometimes even speak , just get it on

Is there a difference ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got my first ever "lets fuck" message late on Friday night, from a stranger.

So proud. lol you do know you are gonna get lots now "

I thought it was an urban myth.. Lol.

For the record, no I didn't attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got my first ever "lets fuck" message late on Friday night, from a stranger.

So proud. lol you do know you are gonna get lots now

I thought it was an urban myth.. Lol.

For the record, no I didn't attend."
lol I did wonder xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is something for everyone on here

Let people have fun and get on with your own in the way you like it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope not me tho each to there own

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I'm a newbie granted, but it amazes me I see loads of status's saying 'horny tonight anyone want some fun' and 'meet me at so and so' etc. Surely this does not work. I think it's a terrible thing to do personally.

We have done this plenty of times , and loved it .

What's wrong with it ?

"

There is nothing wrong with it. Keep doing what you are doing if you are having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a time as such, just when I've finished my last pint & a quick call is suffice; - one never knows whom one might meet in one's watering hole!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm sure some do.

I get some people who load the pressure on for an instant meet - after I've told them I'm at work etc. Dumb and it deters me.

It amazes me what some think could work. They think I'm as hard up as them?

And there are some who must drive around until they're half a mile or so away from you, then message that they are on the door step so must meet. FO, creepy slime ball.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I see it a lot in local updates. In the past a few times we have had some last minute time so we've popped up a status asking for a couple of guys. A few messages back and forth, face pics swapped and a place and time arranged. It worked out quite well, but not something we've done for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't personally as I prefer to chat first but everyone is entitled to use the site the way they wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only once replied to a 'fancy a fuck now' message, and only because I'd just been let down, I'd spent ages getting ready, and he was hot...got to say it was an awesome spontaneous meet!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think he's on the wrong site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would do nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once on a Saturday night. A couple messaged me asking if I met and within 5 messages I was at theirs and it was a bloody good night tbh no drama just honest to goodness fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did once on a Saturday night. A couple messaged me asking if I met and within 5 messages I was at theirs and it was a bloody good night tbh no drama just honest to goodness fun. "
tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did once on a Saturday night. A couple messaged me asking if I met and within 5 messages I was at theirs and it was a bloody good night tbh no drama just honest to goodness fun. tart "

There was nothing on telly what cam I say

She was hot though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did once on a Saturday night. A couple messaged me asking if I met and within 5 messages I was at theirs and it was a bloody good night tbh no drama just honest to goodness fun. tart

There was nothing on telly what cam I say

She was hot though "
ah well if there was nowt on telly it's,ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah like the OP would turn down a stunner who was local, gagging for it & showing him interest & asking to meet now..Joker!

You stay perched up there on your pedestal mate, one less male to compete with down here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only once replied to a 'fancy a fuck now' message, and only because I'd just been let down, I'd spent ages getting ready, and he was hot...got to say it was an awesome spontaneous meet! "
thought you didn't chat ?

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

If it works good luck to those involved. Maybe might try and be more spontaneous myself

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I'm a newbie granted, but it amazes me I see loads of status's saying 'horny tonight anyone want some fun' and 'meet me at so and so' etc. Surely this does not work. I think it's a terrible thing to do personally."
. Referring to members as idiots is hardly an admirable tract . With last minute meets there will be less chance of a last minute cancellation and it also suits each persons needs . If a profile is well written and informative , it only takes a few minutes to make your decision.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Had guys who we have never seen wanting to come round the house in the middle of the night as if your going to let a stranger in your house at that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple spontaneous meets initiated by the woman. So it works both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had guys who we have never seen wanting to come round the house in the middle of the night as if your going to let a stranger in your house at that time"

I wouldn't let a complete stranger from here into my house at any time.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys


"Had guys who we have never seen wanting to come round the house in the middle of the night as if your going to let a stranger in your house at that time

I wouldn't let a complete stranger from here into my house at any time."
we always meet for a drink and a chat first

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

It's not something I'd consider but I wouldn't denigrate those that do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me, but whatever floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie granted, but it amazes me I see loads of status's saying 'horny tonight anyone want some fun' and 'meet me at so and so' etc. Surely this does not work. I think it's a terrible thing to do personally."

Different people for different strokes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only once replied to a 'fancy a fuck now' message, and only because I'd just been let down, I'd spent ages getting ready, and he was hot...got to say it was an awesome spontaneous meet! thought you didn't chat ? "

You thought wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only once replied to a 'fancy a fuck now' message, and only because I'd just been let down, I'd spent ages getting ready, and he was hot...got to say it was an awesome spontaneous meet! thought you didn't chat ?

You thought wrong..."
nice lips x

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Op... Some fabbers have no respect. Some think us women are on here for a guys fix.

Not my thing.. Nor are players way too many on forums. "

So is it only guys that send these messages? I was under the impression that women are free to do this too - granted its probably mostly men but to state that its only men is, I believe, is incorrect.

If I got this kind of message from a woman and I was free, and I fancied her, yes of course I would! Infact I'd take it as a compliment.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Why on earth is it a terrible thing to do?

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"I don't think calling them idiots is necessary.

Everyone is entitled to use the site in the way they want.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Bury

I've had spur of the moment meets. I've had meets that have come after months of chatting etc.

It's not just about the person, it's also the mood. So anyone free now?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Depends on what I'm doing and how hot they are but usually no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie granted, but it amazes me I see loads of status's saying 'horny tonight anyone want some fun' and 'meet me at so and so' etc. Surely this does not work. I think it's a terrible thing to do personally."

guilty

And made a good friend

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I'm a newbie granted, but it amazes me I see loads of status's saying 'horny tonight anyone want some fun' and 'meet me at so and so' etc. Surely this does not work. I think it's a terrible thing to do personally."

In my case it was an hour, not half an hour....I ended up staying for six hours

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Some people put a status up like that just to see if any of there friends(people they have met before) are interested in meeting, It saves sending a load of messages and potentially upsetting someone if the one they do meet was their 3rd choice"

That's what I thought

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I should add that the couple who contacted me weren't quite as crude as the OP's title-line, but they did want me round straight away,

.....and they weren't idiots.

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