FabSwingers.com forum: Pros and cons of being single at Christmas

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I haven't had to spend money on buying him presents.

But I'm not going to have any to open myself when my sister has a massive bag full

Under my tree is bare.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well I'm in a relationship and won't have anything to open as I've had mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't had to spend money on buying him presents.

But I'm not going to have any to open myself when my sister has a massive bag full

Under my tree is bare....."
can I be bare under your Xmas tree I'll give you one x

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Pros...It's cheaper.

Cons...It's lonely.

In fact that's not just relevant to Christmas, that goes for the rest of the year as well!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

It's not that much cheaper for me as I still buy for him from the kids & I buy for his parents & niece as we're still very close!!

Pros - we don't have to eat turkey!!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

No cons in this house, I adore being alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't had to spend money on buying him presents.

But I'm not going to have any to open myself when my sister has a massive bag full

Under my tree is bare....."

Can't think of a pro... But the loneliness is massive con

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pros...It's cheaper.

Cons...It's lonely.

In fact that's not just relevant to Christmas, that goes for the rest of the year as well!

I don't get lonely, I'm either at work or the gym.

Gym is closed for 3 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cons

Erm I'll get back to you

Pro's

IM SINGLE BABY YEAH!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I love my Christmases on my own.

I am spoilt though so I have loads to open from my mum and then loads from my dad as well

I still do my own special dinner though and spoil myself food and drink wise, so it is all Pro for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*has open violin case on thread floor & begins playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pro is I can do whatever I want on the day but con is that I won't have anyone to snuggle in bed christmas night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sharing the pros as you'll all want to be single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sharing the pros as you'll all want to be single.

Not a chance of that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pro is I can do whatever I want on the day but con is that I won't have anyone to snuggle in bed christmas night...

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when your so full up you can't breathe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not receiving gifts that I don't need or the earache I used to get for being at work then spending to much time at the horse ...

First Christmas on my own but have had so many offers of Christmas at friends that I've said no to them all didn't want to upset anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one? "
hey love your Xmas avatar very sexy

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one? hey love your Xmas avatar very sexy

Thank you xxx Unless you meant Throbb's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one? hey love your Xmas avatar very sexy

Thank you xxx Unless you meant Throbb's?

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hehe no I meant yours juniper berry x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I dont care about being single ive got my 4 year old and xmas is Magical for him he sleeps in with me xmas Eve and id chose that over a fella any day!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I dont care about being single ive got my 4 year old and xmas is Magical for him he sleeps in with me xmas Eve and id chose that over a fella any day!!

I'm not convinced my 9 yr old still believes. He was reluctant to visit Santa yesterday! I'm doing everything I can to keep the magic going though

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I haven't had to spend money on buying him presents.

But I'm not going to have any to open myself when my sister has a massive bag full

Under my tree is bare....."

Well i started buying her presents before she called it off.

So ive had to return her presents as i could not give them away....going to suck being single and alone this christmas...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros = doesn't cost as much.

Cons = waking up alone means it's the same as any other day of the year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont care about being single ive got my 4 year old and xmas is Magical for him he sleeps in with me xmas Eve and id chose that over a fella any day!!

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hehe see this is what Xmas is about x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I dont care about being single ive got my 4 year old and xmas is Magical for him he sleeps in with me xmas Eve and id chose that over a fella any day!!

I'm not convinced my 9 yr old still believes. He was reluctant to visit Santa yesterday! I'm doing everything I can to keep the magic going though "

I was an elf helper in Santa's grotto Friday evening and it really was magical seeing those little ones encounter him close up ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one? "

Feels like someone else is doing it then

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one?

Feels like someone else is doing it then

Exactly!!! Or you could just get someone else to do it for you

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Pros im not spending much money,i can do what i like an choose not to celebrate Christmas,

Cons no guy to cuddle up to at Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one?

Feels like someone else is doing it then

Exactly!!! Or you could just get someone else to do it for you

Is that a offer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feed me, listen to the queen, TOTP's and Eastenders and x mas is all good with me

Kids make the season to be jolly, they get older and rum punch makes the spirits merry again, this time of year

Forgot to write to Santa this year maybe he knows I've been a good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feed me, listen to the queen, TOTP's and Eastenders and x mas is all good with me

Kids make the season to be jolly, they get older and rum punch makes the spirits merry again, this time of year

Forgot to write to Santa this year maybe he knows I've been a good boy

If you're a good boy your in the wrong place my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Pros:- i get to build strength in my wrist

Cons:- after a week or so my wrist hurts

Use the other one?

Feels like someone else is doing it then

Exactly!!! Or you could just get someone else to do it for you

Is that a offer??

Might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feed me, listen to the queen, TOTP's and Eastenders and x mas is all good with me

Kids make the season to be jolly, they get older and rum punch makes the spirits merry again, this time of year

Forgot to write to Santa this year maybe he knows I've been a good boy

If you're a good boy your in the wrong place my friend

I can't remember the year flies by

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't had to spend money on buying him presents.

But I'm not going to have any to open myself when my sister has a massive bag full

Under my tree is bare.....

Well i started buying her presents before she called it off.

So ive had to return her presents as i could not give them away....going to suck being single and alone this christmas..."

Ditto

Only I sent them to him along with the gift he got me while on holiday, ugly cat thing.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

pros: dont have to buy for the ex or the other half or try to find something that wont be bought for her

cons: alone no cuddles or spooning, no present to open, no sex on christmas day

never did get sex on xmas eve was always too busy getting things ready

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Most presents are usually crap and for the 3 days the gym is closed get some new toys for yourself then show us all on fab we would love to see you over Christmas.

Xxxxx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Feed me, listen to the queen, TOTP's and Eastenders and x mas is all good with me

Kids make the season to be jolly, they get older and rum punch makes the spirits merry again, this time of year

Forgot to write to Santa this year maybe he knows I've been a good boy

If you're a good boy your in the wrong place my friend

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Pros - no obligatory visit to the outlaws.

Cons - no snuggles

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

On my own most of Xmas

One present to open as normal from my son got use to it now treat it as normal day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do miss the family get together but that long gone and buried.

Being with someone.. No. Am working first time in years too busy to think of what could be? Ho hum.. Bring on new year.

Lonely.. Been on my own for five years. This year no exception.. Be with work family ho ho ho!

I do not antisipate it changing either.. So me myself and I. Roll on 2016.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having no one to wake up too on Xmas morning. Is the con. The plus is. Erm I am sure there is one

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Myffirst Christmas ill be all alone all my family are away will have my son for dinner then will be me a bottle of gin and to many chocolates. sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pro's- sleep. My ex used to snore like you would Not believe!!

Starfishing in bed if I want!

Control of the remote!

Snuggles with my nearly 3 year old daughter trump man snuggles the majority of the time anyway!

Cons- not staying up to fuck all night!

Just having someone special there, generally x

I seem to have the best of both worlds tbh, somewhere in between single and not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros. Only having to cook a meal for one and can watch what I want on TV

Cons. No one to cuddle me in the morning and kiss me and say. Merry Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No cons in this house, I adore being alone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros - I get to wake up with my three great kids - and watch them open their presents.

My ex watches them too - and his girlfriend - it's called family unity!

I can also invite anyone I want round without consulting anyone - as its my space!

Cons - yeah I wake up alone on Christmas Day - but I'm sure he's out there somewhere - and until I stumble across him I'm more blessed then most!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros. Only having to cook a meal for one and can watch what I want on TV

Cons. No one to cuddle me in the morning and kiss me and say. Merry Christmas. "

If you don't mind driving to Leyland you're welcome to have Sunday dinner with myself and my family and stay over? I'm great at cuddles!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No cons in this house, I adore being alone. "

This covers it for me.

That and I have great friends and family who spoil me. There will be pressies under the tree for kitty too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros. Only having to cook a meal for one and can watch what I want on TV

Cons. No one to cuddle me in the morning and kiss me and say. Merry Christmas.

If you don't mind driving to Leyland you're welcome to have Sunday dinner with myself and my family and stay over? I'm great at cuddles!!

Christmas dinner - not Sunday dinner! X

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Pros. Only having to cook a meal for one and can watch what I want on TV

Cons. No one to cuddle me in the morning and kiss me and say. Merry Christmas.

If you don't mind driving to Leyland you're welcome to have Sunday dinner with myself and my family and stay over? I'm great at cuddles!!

Oh that's adorable!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual Christams eve and Christams day are the only days I don't really mind that I'm single cos I've got my child and it's fun and busy, it's Boxing Day when she goes to her dads for the night then it's New Year's Eve and day when she goes back up ther again. New Year's Eve is a shit time to be single. Remember New Year's Eve 2012 saying right nye 2013 I'll have a boyfriend, then said the same thing about 2014 and 2015, and this New Years I'll be saying 2016 is the year I'll get one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros. Only having to cook a meal for one and can watch what I want on TV

Cons. No one to cuddle me in the morning and kiss me and say. Merry Christmas.

If you don't mind driving to Leyland you're welcome to have Sunday dinner with myself and my family and stay over? I'm great at cuddles!!

Thank you for the wonderful offer

But I've offered my time to the local care home. I'm visiting the old dears that don't have family xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm usually pretty ok with it but I had plans this year and now not a lot x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Pros: peace and quiet! I can watch what I like, eat and drink when I like, do what I like.

Con: Nope, I've got nothing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Cons - no-one to help me muck out!!

Pro - no-one to moan if I go for a ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actual Christams eve and Christams day are the only days I don't really mind that I'm single cos I've got my child and it's fun and busy, it's Boxing Day when she goes to her dads for the night then it's New Year's Eve and day when she goes back up ther again. New Year's Eve is a shit time to be single. Remember New Year's Eve 2012 saying right nye 2013 I'll have a boyfriend, then said the same thing about 2014 and 2015, and this New Years I'll be saying 2016 is the year I'll get one! "

Can I suggest going to a swingers club for NYE Hun? Most clubs have them - and loads of people go alone! The atmosphere is really friendly and inclusive! I'm going to Amours in Manchester - feel free to come along!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

yay, I'll see you there.

Got to agree with Peach - clubs are great for NYE.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yeah my Christmas is always spent with the family, but my New Year's Eve I need a man!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yay, I'll see you there.

Got to agree with Peach - clubs are great for NYE."

Brilliant!! It'll be great to have a pre-swingfields catch-up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pros. Only having to cook a meal for one and can watch what I want on TV

Cons. No one to cuddle me in the morning and kiss me and say. Merry Christmas.

If you don't mind driving to Leyland you're welcome to have Sunday dinner with myself and my family and stay over? I'm great at cuddles!!

Thank you for the wonderful offer

But I've offered my time to the local care home. I'm visiting the old dears that don't have family xxx

Oh what a lovely idea! I'm sure you'll make their Christmas much more enjoyable!

Dare you to tell them about your exploits on fab!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I haven't had to spend money on buying him presents.

But I'm not going to have any to open myself when my sister has a massive bag full

Under my tree is bare....."
. Advantages are that you are in total control and can spend your time as you please . Aa I am out and about a lot during the year and stay in three different locations during the week being alone at Christmas does not bother me .

In any event as Christmas is to celebrate the birth of Christ , presents are irrelevant to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really think that would be a good idea for me? Going to a party with guys that I've never seen before, knowing how I need guys to look a certain way and have certain errrm attributes?

ball would drop, I'd be on my own moaning and reminiscing over the past year thinking well this is just great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christmas and new year are superficial but enjoying oneself celebrating with family and friends is real and worth doing ,I love christmas and new year but not for the commercial side of it but solely for the interaction with people

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Hmm.

Pros-no man to buy for.

No boxing day sport to watch.

Cons-no man to buy for me!

No xmas sex or kisses or cuddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really think that would be a good idea for me? Going to a party with guys that I've never seen before, knowing how I need guys to look a certain way and have certain errrm attributes?

ball would drop, I'd be on my own moaning and reminiscing over the past year thinking well this is just great! "

Yeah I think it would be a great idea Hun - honestly! I don't just go to clubs for sex - I may not even have sex - I go to have a giggle and a boogie - and in this case to look like a complete bloody idiot because it's a themed party and fab queen and my oldest daughter are dressing me up as some guy who's name I keep forgetting from Guns and Roses! It's probably worth coming along for that alone - but who knows - there maybe a few guys who float your boat? If not you can dance like a demon with me!

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