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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody else have facial scars? To any woman who happen to read this. Would a scar on the nose put you off a guy?

Be nice to hear back thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have facial scars caused by acne. The thing I learned years ago is not to let it define you. Your confidence is what shines through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one a couple of inches on my forehead, vertical but half an inch is behind the hair line. I wear a heavy fringe so it's never on show, but that's a "fashion" choice as opposed to trying to hide it.

I'd be wary of meeting someone with something like a Chelsea smile, but other scars are okay.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

This would not put me off ... it would all depend on other things ...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A scar wouldn't put me off. I have one on my forehead too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi babe ive got a few overmy face hands n arms even if i hadent this wouldent bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars wouldnt put me off at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No big ones on my face, but some potty major ones over most of my body.

Think my right leg is the only place without any scars lol.

What kind of scar is it? Arch from broken nose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first serious girlfriend had a small scar on her top lip, for some reason it was really sexy

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"I have one a couple of inches on my forehead, vertical but half an inch is behind the hair line. I wear a heavy fringe so it's never on show, but that's a "fashion" choice as opposed to trying to hide it.

I'd be wary of meeting someone with something like a Chelsea smile, but other scars are okay. "

potteeeerr?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fairly common, I don't have any on my face but a fair few from having the offspring

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By *gentNoSpringChickenWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"Anybody else have facial scars? To any woman who happen to read this. Would a scar on the nose put you off a guy?

Be nice to hear back thankyou"

of course not x

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've a wee scar under my nose on the left hand side. A kind memory from an abusive ex.

I've been told noone else really notices it but I am aware of it.

If anybody has an issue with it and it puts them off, then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have one a couple of inches on my forehead, vertical but half an inch is behind the hair line. I wear a heavy fringe so it's never on show, but that's a "fashion" choice as opposed to trying to hide it.

I'd be wary of meeting someone with something like a Chelsea smile, but other scars are okay.

potteeeerr?"

I'm grateful it's a straight line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked someone then it wouldn't put me off.

Scars are a reflection of your life's journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a cyst on my face and that left a small scar, same thing on my pussy, and a black dot left over from another cyst (my diabetes was under poor control for a while).

Scars don't bother me at all. Met a guy on here had one on his face, quite big but not that noticeable really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are interesting and a lot of people have them. I have a small one on my top lip from being bitten by a puppy when I was a child. I have some burn scars on my right hand from the oven and loads of stretch marks on my stomach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one my jaw, caused by a night terror about 7 years ago, I ran down the stairs (taking a stair gate with me) and well I have a nice scar to remind me, scars don't put me off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are who you are .Some are good memories or sad from what's happened .But they wouldn't bother me .I have a scar and nobody has ever noticed it .

I was about 8 and decided to try and jump the gate on a space hopper .Yep I didn't make it safely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot I also have one under my right eyebrow/eye, fell and hit a table during a seizure. Cover that one with make up, although it's just a silvery line now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a scar on the side of my head from a car accident but tbh no one has ever mentioned it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical scars I can deal with, but emotional scars are harder to cover

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have a scar on the side of my head from a car accident but tbh no one has ever mentioned it."

Is that where the pink marks on your head are from?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Physical scars I can deal with, but emotional scars are harder to cover "

They can be worked on though, to a degree at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my long term partners has deep scars on his stomach from an operation. I like kissing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars on my breasts which I'm really self conscious of

One in particular is noticeable in certain outfits. If people mention it is just tell them it's where I was shot because it looks like a bullet hole lol.

Scars even facial ones wouldn't put me off. If you can make me laugh I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou so much for the replies I am a good person so I guess people should accept you for who you are. A scar doesn't define that. Was nice to hear peoples opinions on it thankyou

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Anybody else have facial scars? To any woman who happen to read this. Would a scar on the nose put you off a guy?

Be nice to hear back thankyou"

I don't have any facial scars, but I do have scars on my body, and in my experience no one notices them, or if they do its no big deal.

A fuck buddy of several years noticed one one day and it shocked him...I was shocked that he was shocked! This particular scar i've had since I was 15 months old and we just laughed about the fact he'd never noticed it before.

I've had partners with scars and they're just part of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a scar on the side of my head from a car accident but tbh no one has ever mentioned it.

Is that where the pink marks on your head are from? "

Those were kissing related injuries sustained in the line of duty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get "

Handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get "

It looks fine.

BTW there are treatments to reduce the visibility. I used Mederma on my eye one and it worked. Bio oil is good too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else have facial scars? To any woman who happen to read this. Would a scar on the nose put you off a guy?

Be nice to hear back thankyou"

Wouldn't put me off at all. If I find a guy wholly attractive then a scar wouldn't put me off. I'm not even put off by a lost limb. Long as over all attraction is there then game on.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Don't have a scar, but have a dent in my ribs from car accident, when d*unk driver hit us head on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

It looks fine.

BTW there are treatments to reduce the visibility. I used Mederma on my eye one and it worked. Bio oil is good too. "

Oh and I had a terrible keloid scar on my upper arm. My GP gave me some steroid cream to reduce it which worked well.

If you're not happy with the scar, there's things you can do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

It looks fine.

BTW there are treatments to reduce the visibility. I used Mederma on my eye one and it worked. Bio oil is good too. "

Thankyou for the advice I will have to get some. I've just been using coconut oil on it daily

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

It looks fine.

BTW there are treatments to reduce the visibility. I used Mederma on my eye one and it worked. Bio oil is good too.

Oh and I had a terrible keloid scar on my upper arm. My GP gave me some steroid cream to reduce it which worked well.

If you're not happy with the scar, there's things you can do "

I've just got a referal with the maxifacial clinic so fingers crossed they can help. Really appreciate your advice thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get "

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get "

You look great, hope you feel confident now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have scars on my breasts which I'm really self conscious of

One in particular is noticeable in certain outfits. If people mention it is just tell them it's where I was shot because it looks like a bullet hole lol.

Scars even facial ones wouldn't put me off. If you can make me laugh I'm in."

I have a scar around my nipple from an operation this year. My areola is bigger than the other now too because it stays more relaxed. No one has been put off by either,and I forget it's there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

It looks fine.

BTW there are treatments to reduce the visibility. I used Mederma on my eye one and it worked. Bio oil is good too. "

I had laser treatment on many of shrapnel scars and they're pretty much invisible now. It was expensive but worth every penny.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have a scar on the side of my head from a car accident but tbh no one has ever mentioned it.

Is that where the pink marks on your head are from?

Those were kissing related injuries sustained in the line of duty "

Not above and beyond the line of duty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

It looks fine.

BTW there are treatments to reduce the visibility. I used Mederma on my eye one and it worked. Bio oil is good too.

Oh and I had a terrible keloid scar on my upper arm. My GP gave me some steroid cream to reduce it which worked well.

If you're not happy with the scar, there's things you can do

I've just got a referal with the maxifacial clinic so fingers crossed they can help. Really appreciate your advice thanks"

It is a noticeable scar, but it's definitely not off putting in the slightest. Don't feel like you HAVE to get rid of it, cos you really don't, it's fine

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get "

You're still a good looking boy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A scar can add a bit of character to an otherwise bland appearance. Don't let it bother you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

"

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the impression it is a bigger deal for you than it is for others.

You're a good looking chap. Don't allow it to drag you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over "

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p"

Thanks a lot haha I guess you can turn a negative into a positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get the impression it is a bigger deal for you than it is for others.

You're a good looking chap. Don't allow it to drag you down."

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p

Thanks a lot haha I guess you can turn a negative into a positive "

How recent is it?

Scars tend to become thicker and redder when they're on parts of the body that regularly flex and move so on the nose it should start to flatten and whiten significantly after the first few years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p

Thanks a lot haha I guess you can turn a negative into a positive

How recent is it?

Scars tend to become thicker and redder when they're on parts of the body that regularly flex and move so on the nose it should start to flatten and whiten significantly after the first few years"

Just over a month old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p

Thanks a lot haha I guess you can turn a negative into a positive

How recent is it?

Scars tend to become thicker and redder when they're on parts of the body that regularly flex and move so on the nose it should start to flatten and whiten significantly after the first few years

Just over a month old "

Yeah it should improve well with age.

It's got good blood supply and isn't in a highly mobile area of skin.

Good luck with the clinic

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Scars are such superficial things that it would not bother me at all. I may or may not notice them as I'll be appreciating someone overall. I've tiny scars here and there and most of my family seemed to get them as we actively played outside whilst growing up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p

Thanks a lot haha I guess you can turn a negative into a positive

How recent is it?

Scars tend to become thicker and redder when they're on parts of the body that regularly flex and move so on the nose it should start to flatten and whiten significantly after the first few years

Just over a month old

Yeah it should improve well with age.

It's got good blood supply and isn't in a highly mobile area of skin.

Good luck with the clinic "

Thanks for the reply I hope all goes well. Appreciate the honesty from you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p

Thanks a lot haha I guess you can turn a negative into a positive

How recent is it?

Scars tend to become thicker and redder when they're on parts of the body that regularly flex and move so on the nose it should start to flatten and whiten significantly after the first few years

Just over a month old

Yeah it should improve well with age.

It's got good blood supply and isn't in a highly mobile area of skin.

Good luck with the clinic

Thanks for the reply I hope all goes well. Appreciate the honesty from you all. "

As sarcastic and hostile as this place is, when you come here with a real serious question or need folk are very support and do rally round for one another.

Next time someone organises a forum social get yourself to one they're a right laugh

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Your pics look good to me and wouldn't put me off. Scars are part of who we are and our experiences. Yours is from having a heart. Be proud of that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

Ouch dude. What was it car accident or did someone bottle you?

Bio oil is very good friends have used it the key is to really roughly massage it in pinch and crush the scar you need to break down the fibres.

Hate to say it but where it is that's gonna hurt :p

I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over

Awww that's awesome

The scar and the story behind it will probably be a brilliant icebreaker for you :p

I tell people I got my chest scar from fighting ninjas, except kids to them i say I got it from fighting wolverine :p

Thanks a lot haha I guess you can turn a negative into a positive

How recent is it?

Scars tend to become thicker and redder when they're on parts of the body that regularly flex and move so on the nose it should start to flatten and whiten significantly after the first few years

Just over a month old

Yeah it should improve well with age.

It's got good blood supply and isn't in a highly mobile area of skin.

Good luck with the clinic

Thanks for the reply I hope all goes well. Appreciate the honesty from you all.

As sarcastic and hostile as this place is, when you come here with a real serious question or need folk are very support and do rally round for one another.

Next time someone organises a forum social get yourself to one they're a right laugh"

Thanks I will have to come out my shell more and have a look around

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your pics look good to me and wouldn't put me off. Scars are part of who we are and our experiences. Yours is from having a heart. Be proud of that x"

Thanks beautiful same to you I was brought up to treat everyone and everything the same. I just wanted to help. I would do the same thing again to help. Your right it was an experience and a story to tell x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apologies if I don't reply, battery's died. Goodnight fabbers and thanks again. Some very nice genuine people about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies if I don't reply, battery's died. Goodnight fabbers and thanks again. Some very nice genuine people about "

Sweet dreams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else have facial scars? To any woman who happen to read this. Would a scar on the nose put you off a guy?

Be nice to hear back thankyou"

Yep, never had a problem, hang in there kid

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Dude the scar is part of you you are not part of the scar.some people judge erroneously when seeing one but ordinary decent folk do not,happy fabbing dude.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Scar above my eyebrow. Result of a free samba night in Faliraki when I was 17. It's just part of life, shows I've lived a bit

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Scar above my eyebrow. Result of a free samba night in Faliraki when I was 17. It's just part of life, shows I've lived a bit

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I didn't think I had any but this thread prompted me to think about it and I'm covered in them, some quite large ones. It obviously bothers you OP and it won't be the scar that puts folk off, it will be how self-conscious about it you are.

I doubt very mush that there is not one person on here without some sort of scar.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection "

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have facial scars caused by acne. The thing I learned years ago is not to let it define you. Your confidence is what shines through."

Do you? I'm struggling to recall that.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Had lots of facial scarring due to an accident as a child, but luckily most have faded over the years, only have two major ones now.

For years I disliked looking at people, it was years before I realised that the scars didn't matter, people either liked me, or not, because of who I was, not what I looked like.

Now, I don't notice, and most people don't notice the scars.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?"

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol "

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?"

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol "

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope some little war wounds and facial scars on a guy make them look even more handsome.

I've got a scar on my left eye and my nose is bumpy from it not being set properly after the last time I broke it. Have scars on every finger of my left hand as well, some from fighting, one from the bastard key on a corned beef tin.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p "

Well you do have to remember this was about 20 years ago! I am more mature now lol

If I remember I'll take a pic and send it to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p

Well you do have to remember this was about 20 years ago! I am more mature now lol

If I remember I'll take a pic and send it to you! "

.that still makes you 21! :D

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p

Well you do have to remember this was about 20 years ago! I am more mature now lol

If I remember I'll take a pic and send it to you!

.that still makes you 21! :D"

I bloody wish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p

Well you do have to remember this was about 20 years ago! I am more mature now lol

If I remember I'll take a pic and send it to you!

.that still makes you 21! :D

I bloody wish! "

41 minus 20? :p

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p

Well you do have to remember this was about 20 years ago! I am more mature now lol

If I remember I'll take a pic and send it to you!

.that still makes you 21! :D

I bloody wish!

41 minus 20? :p"

I get the math I just cant convince myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p

Well you do have to remember this was about 20 years ago! I am more mature now lol

If I remember I'll take a pic and send it to you!

.that still makes you 21! :D

I bloody wish!

41 minus 20? :p

I get the math I just cant convince myself lol "

Hahaha

I had to ask a friend today how old I was.... and refuse do belive them when they got it right

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've a huge 'fish bone' one on my left calf after a d*unken night out and falling out with an ex so fell asleep under the living room radiator

Ended up having 22 staples that stretched due to infection

Damn how come you ended up with staples did they have to remove the burnt tissue?

Kinda curious to see it?

yeah this happened in February on my birthday, I then over healed so had many dressings to try and dilute/reduce/dilate/ the over heal and come April even the Docs gave up and suggested to just cut it out.

Then got suspected gangrene so was monitored daily until it was safe to extract the staples....the scar is a good one I will admit the back story makes me sound like an arse lol

Ouch (is there a word that conveys rhe sentiment better?), burns are an absolute bitch as they heal.

Did you keep full mobility or did it affect the movement of your foot?

Full mobility! I think the most embarrassing thing was my dad was taking me shopping the next day, so I casually asked him to take a bandage with him...he took one look and said 'A&E for you....the doctor took one look and said 'good night was it?'

And I was just going to slap a plaster over it if I could have! So No that was a pretty shit birthday lol

Well the mobility is great news and lucky for you your dad has some brains :p

Well you do have to remember this was about 20 years ago! I am more mature now lol

If I remember I'll take a pic and send it to you!

.that still makes you 21! :D

I bloody wish!

41 minus 20? :p

I get the math I just cant convince myself lol

Hahaha

I had to ask a friend today how old I was.... and refuse do believe them when they got it right"

Bugger off! Your just a youngster! I have years loads on you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else have facial scars? To any woman who happen to read this. Would a scar on the nose put you off a guy?

Be nice to hear back thankyou"

An ex partner of mine had a big scar across one cheek and his nose was crooked and had a scar up it. He was absolutely gorgeous though, it kind of added character.

Gutted I missed your face pic now.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have one or two small ones from being beaten up a few years ago, but difficult to say as it's been bearded of sorts for the last couple of years so difficult to tell. My nose on the other hand is a bit crooked and bent. Not quite as bad as Steve Bruces nose but again it's taken a pounding in my youth.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya shouldn't worry about your scar. I've got a fair few scars in various places on my body, including my face. Some very big and some very small. But at the endof the day the scar doesn't define you, if anything it's a little story into ya past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no scars wouldnt put me off

be pretty shallow if it did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a 4 inch scar at the base of my throat, had thyroid cancer in my 20s, I rarely even think about it and no-one ever mentions it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RV_PzPQ4vzw

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get "

I missed it!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One of my exs had a very badly disfigured face, he had had over a 100 stitches in it, they where the old bumpy uneven scars as well not like the clean scars from stitches these days.

They where all on his left side and people where always staying, I just didn't notice them after awhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two visible scars on my neck; they're a talking point. No one has ever said "ew"!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

I missed it! "

I've put it back to public, I'm not going to hide it no more

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

You are an atractive lad. Dont worry, the scar will fade, the cocnut oil will do its job and i shouldnt think you will need any more treatment. As THX said, massage the oil into the scar and this will stop it becoming adhered and keep it mobile so it moves with the rest of your skin. I have scars on my face and body and i love them all. They each show a story and a life lived, as does yours. Wear your scar with pride. It only happened a month ago so your brain has to get used to seeing it every time you look in the mirror, but it will come. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are an atractive lad. Dont worry, the scar will fade, the cocnut oil will do its job and i shouldnt think you will need any more treatment. As THX said, massage the oil into the scar and this will stop it becoming adhered and keep it mobile so it moves with the rest of your skin. I have scars on my face and body and i love them all. They each show a story and a life lived, as does yours. Wear your scar with pride. It only happened a month ago so your brain has to get used to seeing it every time you look in the mirror, but it will come. xxx"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I intruded on a stray jack Russell's space. The weather was really bad and I noticed a dog alone. I was on the bank and spotted it. It seemed friendly at first, was going to take it to a vet. It obviously got scared as i was carrying it, maybe through noise or something.the rest was history (ouch). I then had to jog a couple miles to get a lift to a&e and have a tetnus. Haven't a clue were the dog is now just hope its OK. I'm a dog lover was brought up on them and should know better. My heart took over "

Anyone helping animals is a hero to me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thought I would post a pic. See what reaction I get

I missed it!

I've put it back to public, I'm not going to hide it no more "

Good man

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've got a 4 inch scar at the base of my throat, had thyroid cancer in my 20s, I rarely even think about it and no-one ever mentions it."

My sister in law had this and the scar is hidden in a neck wrinkle.

The fact that they could do that hurt her more than the cancer thing

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have a facial scar too. I've been applying bio oil since it healed and the surgeon made an amazing job. It's barely noticeable now. It makes no odds to me what's on the outside, inside matters more.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Don't worry about it mate - I have a laperotomy scar from my sternum to just above my cock and a colostomy bag - it's never put anyone off (to the point that I don't even think about mentioning it to meets anymore)...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't worry about it mate - I have a laperotomy scar from my sternum to just above my cock and a colostomy bag - it's never put anyone off (to the point that I don't even think about mentioning it to meets anymore)..."

You right mate there's always someone worse off in life. I'm living and breathing thanks

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics


"Scars wouldnt put me off at all x"

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