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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs "search reasonably well verified people | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
search reasonably well verified people"Apparently I'm a fake because I'm not meeting at the moment. I've been accused several times this week, all by single men who I don't meet anyway. People on this site are weird at times...  | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
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Apparently I'm a fake because I'm not meeting at the moment. I've been accused several times this week, all by single men who I don't meet anyway.
People on this site are weird at times... "why not simply filter men so they can't message you? | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
search reasonably well verified people"This and be more selective maybe? If it's not working how you want it take a break rather than leave? | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
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Apparently I'm a fake because I'm not meeting at the moment. I've been accused several times this week, all by single men who I don't meet anyway.
People on this site are weird at times...
why not simply filter men so they can't message you?"Beacuse, as explained in the first paragraph of my profile, I don't mind chatting to people. I often offer advice on certain subjects (mostly car related) and people have questions that are better answered via pm than cluttering a thread. | |||
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"Its more likely for a single man to pretend to be a single woman or couple than a single woman or couple pretending to be a single man. So I rarely come across fake profiles."  | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
search reasonably well verified people
Apparently I'm a fake because I'm not meeting at the moment. I've been accused several times this week, all by single men who I don't meet anyway.
People on this site are weird at times...
why not simply filter men so they can't message you?
Beacuse, as explained in the first paragraph of my profile, I don't mind chatting to people. I often offer advice on certain subjects (mostly car related) and people have questions that are better answered via pm than cluttering a thread."ah ok fair enough. I didn't read your profile. My bad. | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
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Apparently I'm a fake because I'm not meeting at the moment. I've been accused several times this week, all by single men who I don't meet anyway.
People on this site are weird at times... "Yes they are. | |||
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"We have been on a few site where administration vet every single profile application. I think fab need to look into it" They'd have to charge a hell of a lot more for that to happen. This site is free so will attract some dumbos chancing their arm, but its also lightly modded, and so I suspect admin are happy for us to do the vetting. Report fake profiles as soon as you come across them, and help keep the site good. | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
search reasonably well verified people
Apparently I'm a fake because I'm not meeting at the moment. I've been accused several times this week, all by single men who I don't meet anyway.
People on this site are weird at times...
why not simply filter men so they can't message you?
Beacuse, as explained in the first paragraph of my profile, I don't mind chatting to people. I often offer advice on certain subjects (mostly car related) and people have questions that are better answered via pm than cluttering a thread.
ah ok fair enough.
I didn't read your profile. My bad. "That's generally the problem
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"If we block guys they will just come back on fake female profiles.... Taking a break isn't going to help the fact thatthe site is too eager to get numbers up on their register than try and help genuine swingers. We have been on a few site where administration vet every single profile application. I think fab need to look into it" I dunno OP..if I vetted your profile right now(I looked), I wouldnt be so eager to call you genuine either...sorry if that sounds harsh, but alot might just think the same... | |||
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"There is alot of single mens and a couples profile with fake pics on .It's great pic reverse . "I've seen that bears profile, he's got a huge """". You lucky """""". | |||
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"If we block guys they will just come back on fake female profiles.... Taking a break isn't going to help the fact thatthe site is too eager to get numbers up on their register than try and help genuine swingers. We have been on a few site where administration vet every single profile application. I think fab need to look into it I dunno OP..if I vetted your profile right now(I looked), I wouldnt be so eager to call you genuine either...sorry if that sounds harsh, but alot might just think the same..." I just had a look and I agree with you. 1 very by cam 2 months ago and the meet me for today is looking for a tv/ts for the male half only and on profile says straight. you may be right. | |||
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"Ok so the fact that we are both photo verified and have cammed means we look fake?? We look for quality over quantity I'm sorry we don't have 95335 verifications, but tbh, we don't find everyone attractive. We'd happily pay more money to get rid of the fakes, but I suppose that's just our opinion x" it's not me you are selling your profile too...if meet verified people look at the profile...many would dismiss just as you dismiss possibly newbie fakes.. I have cam veris, meet veris..so I dont think cam verifies are pointless..but I've seen a good few fake verifies in my several years on the site. All in all my maths works for me.. | |||
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"Ok so the fact that we are both photo verified and have cammed means we look fake?? We look for quality over quantity I'm sorry we don't have 95335 verifications, but tbh, we don't find everyone attractive. We'd happily pay more money to get rid of the fakes, but I suppose that's just our opinion x" An attractive couple with only 1 cam veri .... 10 months and not one suitable match ? Not even a social meet ? What do you guys think makes a fake profile ? Getting photo verified and camming really doesn't amount to much . The irony is there for all to see I'm afraid . As for your suggestion that quality over quantity is your thing and you don't find everyone attractive - that suggests your area is full of nothing but unattractive swingers . Hardly endearing ..... | |||
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"The longer I'm on fab the more I go off people .I put all filters on and choose who I talk to . "
I'm lazy. I just meet those who are "met in person" verified - and more than 1 verification. | |||
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"Accounts who joined over a year ago, no verifications not even photo verifed, no pics and says they new to swinging and when you ask for a pic they try getting out of it and asking for more of you. Couples profiles who look real, last verification over a year, and when a meet is arranged all of a sudden female isn't able to make it because she's ill, each time to try and rearrange she has had to go away to see her sick gran. Nothing but excuses why she can't make it x" | |||
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"Wow, no wonder this site's diminishing, ok for the none believers Our Skype is available to you, and all we require is an apology after we've cammed on here after you've seen us both. 1 cam on here in 19 months on verifications, there are over 30 people on our friends list who we have either cammed with or more. We honestly can't believe that you can sit there and call us fake when you've never even spoken to us" What kind of things would make you think that someone is a fake profile? | |||
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"Wow, no wonder this site's diminishing, ok for the none believers Our Skype is available to you, and all we require is an apology after we've cammed on here after you've seen us both. 1 cam on here in 19 months on verifications, there are over 30 people on our friends list who we have either cammed with or more. We honestly can't believe that you can sit there and call us fake when you've never even spoken to us" But you are happy to prove you are real and are both there xxx | |||
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"Is it just us or has there been a sudden influx over the past 2 weeks, all the time and effort put in to messaging people who turn out to be fake is making us want to leave the site, we had more luck in bars and clubs
search reasonably well verified people
Apparently I'm a fake because I'm not meeting at the moment. I've been accused several times this week, all by single men who I don't meet anyway.
People on this site are weird at times... "Weird.. What you expect polite perfect people on the net. People in real world are just the same. | |||
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"I could go on for hours on how to spot a fake profile lol x but I'd be here all day x" every few weeks I'm contacted by a couples.. its all good chat to start...they wish to set days/nites times etc.. they might be verified by 1 at best.. I even give my number over..and I expressly mention I wont meet unless I've spoken to the female half, they agree...but she never ever phones... I hotlist and watch the profiles most of the times..or check my saved messages and see they are unlos... It'd be verrrry rare if I put my weekend on hold or ventured out to meet a couple I wasnt at least 99% sure on.Fuck I've even turned up at a meet(well verified)..expecting the female half to know who I was(based on the 'xxxx's' in messages), to me it waqs clear she had no fucking clue who I was and looked way too uncomfy in progressing from the social. Yup I have high cynicism...but it means I cant complain at getting timewasters/fakes etc, as I play by my own rules most of the time..lose out on a fuck?...so be it... | |||
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"One of the things you can do to help is stop messages from newbies. There are a huge proportion of the fake profiles which don't stick around for even a week." That's very true but I've had better meets with newbies than with some with loads of veris so I let newbies message me. The odd one goes UNLOS but that doesn't bother me | |||
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"One of the things you can do to help is stop messages from newbies. There are a huge proportion of the fake profiles which don't stick around for even a week. That's very true but I've had better meets with newbies than with some with loads of veris so I let newbies message me. The odd one goes UNLOS but that doesn't bother me "I know we're all new once but I don't feel bad about expecting someone to wait a week if they really want to message. I've had great meets with unverified men. They had to wait at least a week though | |||
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"We are always happy to cam to prove we are real. Fake profiles...couples with men using other women's pic, we ask them to go on Skype or kik to verify they are real... We've had every excuse in the book thrown at us, my camera doesn't work, I'm in work, the dog ate my webcam.... It's all just a bit tedious, so come on if you want proof we are real, inbox us and we will send you our Skype " As soon as I get a feeling that something isn't quite right, I stop communicating with them. Trust your gut instinct. | |||
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"I got accused of being a man .pmsl ." I'm often accused of being a man cus i meet bi guys ! It's usually straight guys that say it cus i won't meet them lol | |||
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"I got accused of being a man .pmsl ." Snap. I had that once, too, the bounder!  | |||
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"I got accused of being a man .pmsl . Snap. I had that once, too, the bounder! " | |||
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"I got accused of being a man .pmsl ." I regularly get accused of being a man not through message though, from people in the forum. | |||
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"I got accused of being a man .pmsl ." Well hello there geezer, love your moobs | |||
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"Wow, no wonder this site's diminishing, ok for the none believers Our Skype is available to you, and all we require is an apology after we've cammed on here after you've seen us both. 1 cam on here in 19 months on verifications, there are over 30 people on our friends list who we have either cammed with or more. We honestly can't believe that you can sit there and call us fake when you've never even spoken to us" I don't think people are saying you are fake, they are saying it's veri's like the ones you have are frequently used by fakes as some people will see the male half on cam and verify as a couple without thinking about it, verification by meeting is far more reliable as an indication of genuine swingers. We look for people with verification from actual meets as less chance of fakes and time wasters. | |||
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