FabSwingers.com forum: Married?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Silly me, somewhere along the line I've been neglecting to ask the single men

if they are in a relationship.

So it had to happen that I ended up having lunch with a married man. It was a lovely lunch and I told him about Fabswingers.

So ladies, there maybe another single, non-single guy coming onto Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the purpose of this post

If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.

He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?

And not all married men pretend to be single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe he already is here. I think everyone know what fab is, its been on tv lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't pretend I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the purpose of this post

If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.

He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?

And not all married men pretend to be single

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't get the purpose of this post

If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.

He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?

And not all married men pretend to be single

He isn't here. If he joins I'd be happy to verify him as real

Where's my tar? Nothing in my post is judgemental, tongue-in-cheek yes.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

well done ...do you want a badge or a medal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well done ...do you want a badge or a medal ?"

Either if it's from tiffany's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the purpose of this post

If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.

He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?

And not all married men pretend to be single

He isn't here. If he joins I'd be happy to verify him as real

Where's my tar? Nothing in my post is judgemental, tongue-in-cheek yes. "
I guess, it is an easy veri lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just what fab needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol"

Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol

Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?

Fake 'couples'?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the purpose of this post

If he's a nice guy then leave it at that.

He may be open about his marital status on his profile, so why queer the pitch and tar all single blokes as married ?

And not all married men pretend to be single

And not all single men pretend to be married....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well done ...do you want a badge or a medal ?

Either if it's from tiffany's

I can't make Tiffany's but I have something else for your Birthday tomorrow ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

How did you originally meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "

If his story is true, his wife is aware. I've advocated that (a) he and his wife sort out where their relationship is going, and (b) he tells any potential date the truth before meeting.

Well done me, if he follows my advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well done ...do you want a badge or a medal ?

Either if it's from tiffany's

I can't make Tiffany's but I have something else for your Birthday tomorrow ...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

So he told you he was single before you met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

If his story is true, his wife is aware. I've advocated that (a) he and his wife sort out where their relationship is going, and (b) he tells any potential date the truth before meeting.

Well done me, if he follows my advice

His wife is aware yet he told you he was single. Sounds totally legit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?"

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol

Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?

Oh my whole profile is a lie, I'm Actualy a single bi female sub my girlfriend and I pop on here looking for single men for a quick fuck and go, and to look at cock pics but being as we're both only 22 and because of our modelling work we have to be Descrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends."

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "

So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?

I wish

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

More competition, that's all i need and more cannon fodder for the prudes

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?

I wish

Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol

Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?

Gutted! Your profile intrigued me.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Well, I know a lot of you wont agree with me, but I don't care if they're married - that's their problem not mine. As long as they're good in bed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I know a lot of you wont agree with me, but I don't care if they're married - that's their problem not mine. As long as they're good in bed xx"

I also think this way, I prefer to be told in advance though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol

Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?

Gutted! Your profile intrigued me.

Funny how I've never had a message off you then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all? "

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More competition, that's all i need and more cannon fodder for the prudes

C..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?

I wish

Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating"

I'm sure whoever is doing the cheating, they don't actually forget they are cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?

I wish

Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating"

Man or woman it makes no odds to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time."

Just sounds like you want to believe his bullshit to ease your conscience. Your lookout love. If it really doesn't concern you that you've given a married person info on a swingers site to carry on the way they are then take a little look at yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Oh my whole profile is a lie, I'm Actualy a single bi female sub my girlfriend and I pop on here looking for single men for a quick fuck and go, and to look at cock pics but being as we're both only 22 and because of our modelling work we have to be Descrete

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello N.V.C

Nice out today wasn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off."

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's the one and only question I ask outright!

People can hide behind a profile but if they lie to me outright then that is a different story!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello N.V.C

Nice out today wasn't it?"

It was lovely Granny. Couldn't have gone out without a jacket though.

How are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong. "

You'd think. But some people honestly don't give a shit

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hello N.V.C

Nice out today wasn't it?

It was lovely Granny. Couldn't have gone out without a jacket though.

How are you?"

I'm well, amused and eating soup ta xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong. "

Who is condoning or gloating?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello N.V.C

Nice out today wasn't it?

It was lovely Granny. Couldn't have gone out without a jacket though.

How are you?

I'm well, amused and eating soup ta xx "

To be well, to be amused and to be fed, are all positives

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Well, I know a lot of you wont agree with me, but I don't care if they're married - that's their problem not mine. As long as they're good in bed xx"

It may become your problem if his wife chooses to make it your problem on your doorstep or your place of work,knock knock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?"

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

So by your definition are all the married women on here slags?

I wish

Lol!! I just hate the way women on here conveniently forget that they too can also be on here cheating"
lol yes, it is ok to be married if you are a woman here. But a big no no if you are a man lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine. "

The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.

I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.

The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.

I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats."

If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You weren't gloating and condoning...

Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.

The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.

I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.

If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning. "

You ARE wrong, like it or lump it. It is YOUR assumption on the limited information I put in the opening post. The OP is actually me calling myself out on the fact that I hadn't ensured the guy was single.

Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.

The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.

I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.

If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.

Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face

Yes - of course I'm wrong, of course the sentiment of every post you've made has changed since its been commented on, and of course I'm far too embarrassed to say it's not gloating or condoning cheating.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You weren't gloating and condoning...

Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end "

Well try doing that yourself you two. And 'shit-eating grin'? It was a bloody emoticon we all use!

All I see from you is some pretty foul language, a lot of very judgemental attitudes and even more argumentative digs. What part of 'They were just having lunch and she found out he was married don't you quite understand?

Did the lady shag his brains out? We don't know and if she did its none of our business.

Was there anything further. We don't know. And again its none of our business.

I always thought we all came into swinging because we are open minded, accepting of other people, their looks, their preferences etc. I see none of that with you two to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You weren't gloating and condoning...

Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end

Well try doing that yourself you two. And 'shit-eating grin'? It was a bloody emoticon we all use!

Did the lady shag his brains out? We don't know and if she did its none of our business.

Was there anything further. We don't know. And again its none of our business.

I always thought we all came into swinging because we are open minded, accepting of other people, their looks, their preferences etc. I see none of that with you two to be honest.

Just cos it's a swinging site doesn't mean everything is acceptable. Normal social standards still apply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You weren't gloating and condoning...

Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end "

You may eat shit when you grin, I wouldn't know, I, however just grin when I banter which could be me in a jokey mood or downright sarcastic. That grin isn't shouting out to the world "hey world, I met a guy for a nice lunch, he told me he is actually married and hasn't dated in 19 years and was dead nervous in meeting me".

That grin wasn't even shouting "hey world, he believes his marriage is over but wifey won't talk, though is okay something may happen".

It didn't shout that but could have done. Neither did it about the untrue statement that cheating is fine.

Stop adding 2+2 and making 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really sure what the purpose of this thread was to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.

The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.

I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.

If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.

Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face

Bless your little cotton socks, all I have done is given more information out on each post

Just simply showing you your assumptions are wrong. Do continue to dig your heels in for I find it highly amusing.

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over a year ago

"You weren't gloating and condoning...

Re-read your opening post and the big shit-eating grin you added at the end

Well try doing that yourself you two. And 'shit-eating grin'? It was a bloody emoticon we all use!

Did the lady shag his brains out? We don't know and if she did its none of our business.

Was there anything further. We don't know. And again its none of our business.

I always thought we all came into swinging because we are open minded, accepting of other people, their looks, their preferences etc. I see none of that with you two to be honest.

I'm sure I indicated nothing happened

. I'll definitely apologise if I didn't

(notice the teeth are not stained brown)

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over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.

The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.

I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.

If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.

Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face

Bless your little cotton socks, all I have done is given more information out on each post

Just simply showing you your assumptions are wrong. Do continue to dig your heels in for I find it highly amusing."

That's patronising from a person who can't post concisely initially. And no assumptions, you posted that you met a man and once found out he was married you encouraged him to join other casual sex sites then bragged about it as if you're proud of yourself. You're entirely supporting his cheating, but I guess you need attention from somewhere

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over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

My conscience is absolutely fine thank you very much. I shoulder zero guilt. A person will attempt to cheat with or without my input. I have advocated honesty for all concerned.

So darling, just jump down from that high horse before a slight breeze knocks you off.

I don't think it's taking a moral high ground to believe condoning cheating and gloating about it is wrong.

Who is condoning or gloating?

You were. Gloating - you saying "well done me", condoning - you saying as long as he tells people it's fine.

The "well done me" was a sarcastic response to a sarcastic retort made by a previous poster. Feel free to back track your gloating accusation.

I advocated him being honest with everyone and sorting out his relationship. Feel free to backtrack your accusation that I condone cheats.

If I were wrong, I wouldn't have chosen to say it. In fact, the whole original post is gloating and condoning.

Stick with your opinion by all means. I fully understand some people cannot backtrack for fear of egg on face

Bless your little cotton socks, all I have done is given more information out on each post

Just simply showing you your assumptions are wrong. Do continue to dig your heels in for I find it highly amusing.

In what universe are there rules on how informative an opening post has to be? Is a book's story fully stated on the first page? No, it unfolds at a pace the AUTHOR chooses, NOT the reader.

You go ahead with that big ol' assumption that I encouraged him to cheat and I'll continue to patronise you!

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over a year ago

" but I guess you need attention from somewhere

(I wonder what will be made of this particular grin... Answers on a postcard

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

I'm a bit lost as to why you're so proud of yourself for this that you felt the need to congratulate yourself publicly in a thread but I'll admit there's lots I don't get on here....

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just cos it's a swinging site doesn't mean everything is acceptable. Normal social standards still apply."

Well not quite true as 'society' is basically monogamous and by definition Swingers aren't. But even so 'normal social standards' surely dictate courtesy and acceptance of others without resorting to abuse. Just because they are different or hold different views?

Sorry when people resort to abuse they have lost the argument. And possibly the plot as well IMHO.

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over a year ago

"I'm a bit lost as to why you're so proud of yourself for this that you felt the need to congratulate yourself publicly in a thread but I'll admit there's lots I don't get on here....

*Her* "

Yawn.

The answer is in the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened in here?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"What happened in here?

I would just back out now if I was you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*pops.in sees the shit storm, backs out slowlllly*

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Gosh. Didn't that go well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway cut to the important stuff ... what did you have to eat ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What happened in here?

A virtual crucifixion of a single woman who found out her meet was not so single. So she advised him to sort out his relationship and tell any potential date the truth. And that he'd be better off on here than Fet, for dating.

But it has been interpreted that I've gone and got my cheerleading outfit on and danced to the tune of "go jerry, go jerry, go fuck and be merry. Go cheater, go cheater, go fuck n cheat on her". Okay the rhyme isn't perfect, but you get my drift

Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened in here?

Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name

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over a year ago

"Anyway cut to the important stuff ... what did you have to eat ?

Game sausage roll and chutney for starters, and crayfish and something fishcake for mains. So much tastier than I imagined it to be

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over a year ago

"Anyway cut to the important stuff ... what did you have to eat ?

Game sausage roll and chutney for starters, and crayfish and something fishcake for mains. So much tastier than I imagined it to be

I had carrot and butterbean soup with tiger bread with two married women

I didn't tell them about Fab though, so you win on food but I get to keep the

this weekend

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over a year ago

"Anyway cut to the important stuff ... what did you have to eat ?

Game sausage roll and chutney for starters, and crayfish and something fishcake for mains. So much tastier than I imagined it to be

I had carrot and butterbean soup with tiger bread with two married women

I didn't tell them about Fab though, so you win on food but I get to keep the

this weekend

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm a single man who pretends to be married lol

Why on earth would anybody want to pretend to be married?

I know some who do to avoid anything developing into something that might resemble a relationship and as an easy "get me out of here" card.

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over a year ago

"What happened in here?

I would just back out now if I was you

Your not though

Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "

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over a year ago

"What happened in here?

Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name

I know a Jerry.

Picturing you cheering him now

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"What happened in here?

I would just back out now if I was you

Your not though

Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay

Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now...

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over a year ago

"What happened in here?

Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name

I know a Jerry.

Picturing you cheering him now

Springer?

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over a year ago

"What happened in here?

I would just back out now if I was you

Your not though

Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay

Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now..."

With a bit of soup to dip it in....

Awww go on

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over a year ago

"What happened in here?

Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name

I know a Jerry.

Picturing you cheering him now

Springer?

Nope, though my old man does breed Springer, and I always wanted to call one Jerry

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"What happened in here?

I would just back out now if I was you

Your not though

Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay

Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now...

With a bit of soup to dip it in....

Awww go on

No I had soup for my tea,my tummy has been a bit poorly today so I kept it light. Why did that man talk of tiger bread I want some

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over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

You just gave a

to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"What happened in here?

I would just back out now if I was you

Your not though

Besides...seems to have found a little civilty in here now, there's talk of food! Think I'll stay

Yeah could just eat some tiger bread now...

With a bit of soup to dip it in....

Awww go on

No I had soup for my tea,my tummy has been a bit poorly today so I kept it light. Why did that man talk of tiger bread I want some

Ask him about crumpet bread and you'll want some of that too.

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over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

You just gave a

to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive.

How do you know shes a lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never want to get involved with a married men , feel sorry for the woman . As I wouldn't like it done to me . To honest. It is good though if the man admits he is cheating behind his wife's back .

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over a year ago

"Silly me, somewhere along the line I've been neglecting to ask the single men

if they are in a relationship.

So it had to happen that I ended up having lunch with a married man. It was a lovely lunch and I told him about Fabswingers.

So ladies, there maybe another single, non-single guy coming onto Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well done ...do you want a badge or a medal ?"

Exactly x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

People happily chat away to married women and men on the forum. I know it's not the same as having sex with them but for the unknowing partner that chatter, friendships and sharing of secrets may be more hurtful, more of a cheating action, than one off sex.

Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.

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over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

You just gave a

to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive.

How do you know shes a lady?

I'll have you know

Just outside the proverbial bedroom

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By *gentNoSpringChickenWoman
over a year ago

leeds

This thread is really offensive! Carrots and butterbeans in a soup! and Game in a sausage roll! come on!

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over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you

You just gave a

to someone using the 'C' word to a lady in a Forum? Impressive.

How do you know shes a lady?

I'll have you know

Just outside the proverbial bedroom

Oh how i hoped youd say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is really offensive! Carrots and butterbeans in a soup! and Game in a sausage roll! come on!"

I would have thought game lived in a pie I agree but the soup....Sounds kinda good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 11/12/15 22:25:14]

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By *gentNoSpringChickenWoman
over a year ago

leeds

420 blackbirds in a sausage roll next! Maybe get buy one get one free at Greggs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People happily chat away to married women and men on the forum. I know it's not the same as having sex with them but for the unknowing partner that chatter, friendships and sharing of secrets may be more hurtful, more of a cheating action, than one off sex.

Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.

Exactly this ^^

Some don't think about this though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"420 blackbirds in a sausage roll next! Maybe get buy one get one free at Greggs!"

Buy 840 for the price of 420

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointless post though, some play with cheats, some don't, some married men have got the green light to play, some don't have the green light to play, the married men who say they're single are liers, some people don't care. all pointless

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over a year ago

"Pointless post though, some play with cheats, some don't, some married men have got the green light to play, some don't have the green light to play, the married men who say they're single are liers, some people don't care. all pointless"

Cheerfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.

If a partner regards chatting on the forums as a form of cheating, they need to get a life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.

If a partner regards chatting on the forums as a form of cheating, they need to get a life."

If I found a partner of mine chatting on the forums of swingers / sex site I would assume he was cheating or the very least thinking about it, how would he have found the site otherwise? The forum is the by product of Fab not the for the majority the main part.

It's hardly Reddit or Mens.health is it now.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

"You met a married bloke and told him about here so he can continue being a cunt. Well done you "

Well said. Just hope his wife's mate on here and they meet at a club or party. Said female friend being single of course. Ooh how good would that be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as most stuff posted on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened in here?

Disclaimer: OP doesn't know anyone with jerry as a name

"
Disclamer: No animals were hurt in the making of this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say I am surprised the Mods haven't had a go at few in here. Since when was it OK in a forum to use the 'C' word against someone? Maybe I just don't 'get' this swinging lark after all. Maybe 8 years isn't long enough. Or may be too long. But in this Thread I have seen some of the very worst in people.

OK disagree personal abuse? Nah not for me thanks ... I am out of this...

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over a year ago

O o O oo

If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.

As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks...I really enjoyed reading all the posts on this thread in my dinner break....I thought Harry Hill was gonna jump out of my phone and shout..FIGHT.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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over a year ago

London

Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

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over a year ago

"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

I do a little happy dance when people get me as I intended

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over a year ago

"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here

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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

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over a year ago

"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.

As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like."

Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!

Ooh

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over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time."

Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused!

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over a year ago

"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.

As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.

Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!

Ooh

I like a nice cunt every so often

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over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused!

Yes,she met him from another site.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused!

Another site

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over a year ago

"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

Folk LOVE any reason to shove their own little set of morals down people's throats though, like carrion birds circling, lookin for any excuse...any opportunity, and bang, there are the morals bregade.

Still, gives us a laugh

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over a year ago

"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.

As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.

Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!

Ooh

Sounds like a flood I'd like to drown in

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over a year ago

"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here "

It was going a bit Jeremy Kyle there for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't pretend I'm not

Married and you still get replies to messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not married, and neither is my wife!

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

most are married you can tell they always keep looking at there watch don,t have there phone and always have a good shower after the fun

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over a year ago

"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.

As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.

Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!

Ooh

ScarletStars!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing most people male or female do is not declare honesty.

Fab is a site where men and women should be honest full stop. Why hide?

Even messages can be false.. Lying sucks.

Happy holiday swinging...

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

"One thing most people male or female do is not declare honesty.

Fab is a site where men and women should be honest full stop. Why hide?

Even messages can be false.. Lying sucks.

Happy holiday swinging...

very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married to you all lol

I guess if profiles declare married most avoid them.. I know I do. Could be a reason not declared.

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over a year ago

"If the post was calling a member a cunt on here then it would come under breaking forum rules.

As the person/ people she was calling cunts wasn't a member than they can call them what they like.

Fling the cunt floodgates open!!!

Ooh

ScarletStars!!!

She started it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here "

And they stay in a twist because my unfolding of the event is refuted. Perhaps I wasn't really there

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over a year ago

"So he told you he was single before you met?

I assumed because he lives at X and visits his children at Y on weekends.

You've assumed a lot it seems. Do you honestly think he's telling the truth at all?

Are you baiting me? I assumed he was single because (a) I request SINGLE men, and (b) no information was given to make me believe otherwise.

It does not concern me that he may be a liar for as soon as he enlightened me to his relationship, I told him nothing will occur between us at this, or any other time.

Did you meet him from another site, as you've said he's not on here but you requested single men? I'm confused!

Am I not allowed to request single guys from elsewhere

. POF is frequently mentioned on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just goes to show how the written word can be (mis)interpreted. I saw the op as tongue in cheek and self mocking.

Others saw it as the op patting herself on the back for encouraging a married man to cheat.

Gee whizz!!!

I read it the same way as you. Some people do get their knickers in a twist over nothing,on here

It was going a bit Jeremy Kyle there for a while. "

Go Jerry, go Jerry".

Deja vu?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married to you all lol

I guess if profiles declare married most avoid them.. I know I do. Could be a reason not declared.

Well I am most certainly single and very expensively so ... But people still ask 'are you married?' so what can you do?

Personally I don't mind if someone is married and on here or not its none of mine but I think people should be honest and say so then others can make an informed decision whether to take things further or not.

By the way thats a fabulous Avatar ...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Pointy fingers have others of your own pointing back at you.

If a partner regards chatting on the forums as a form of cheating, they need to get a life."

What about the PMs that get exchanged once a friendship has been forged on the forum? What about the confessions people make?

It's the other-life-away-from-a-partner thing.

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