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"Gifts" for meets

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway

Has anybody else been asked for a "gift" by someone in return for a meet? Just think it's a bit off for that to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I AM the gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no and tbh id tell them to do one if they did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meet with me is a 'gift' in itself

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I got an advent calendar

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I'd like a gift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, £50! Reported them

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"No.

I AM the gift. "

Oh no doubt just found it a bit desperate the other person asking for a gift and actually has a list ie expensive perfumes etc and I do believe cash gifts are also acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. And I've had offers of gifts, which I find a bit sad because I feel like some men have been conditioned that they will only get a meet if they offer to bring something. That isn't what this is all about.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.

I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'd like a gift "

for you I think I might give one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got an advent calendar "

Have you eaten all the chocolate already?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I got an advent calendar

Have you eaten all the chocolate already?"

No I'm opening them day by day.... I'd like to add I didn't ask him to get me an advent calendar in return for a shag

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Never. I've been offered lots of things on here but never have or would accept. I find it embarrassing and slightly desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.

I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade. "

White lightning is very classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.

I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade. "

White lightning is very classy

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway

On the whole I have no major problem meeting someone seeing how things go and if another meet was in the offing perhaps bringing something nice along,but to have a pre-set lift of gifts in order to accept a meet is just wrog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there "

Do you buy ice cream too?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there "

That's fair enough but I do feel the gift I was being asked for is paper and can be used in exchange for other items.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Report the profile.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"No.

I AM the gift.

Oh no doubt just found it a bit desperate the other person asking for a gift and actually has a list ie expensive perfumes etc and I do believe cash gifts are also acceptable"

Can you report the profile please as it isnt allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked for a gift once. Just her tough luck to have been messaging a tight-arse

Needless to say the proposed meet evaporated

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"I'd like a gift

for you I think I might give one "

I was just joking, though on two seperate occasions, I have turned up with a bottle of bubbly

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'd like a gift

for you I think I might give one

I was just joking, though on two seperate occasions, I have turned up with a bottle of bubbly "

Something would be bubbly and something would definitely pop methinks lol

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

There are women out there who make a sort of a living at exchanging gifts for time spent with the giver. Wouldn't do for me but it takes all sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope but I have on occasion brought wine or food, but that's usually with someone I've met before and paying them back for eating half their fridge last time I was there

Do you buy ice cream too? "

I've tried but some how it never survives the journey there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love receiving gifts but i'd never ask and i'd never make it a condition of a meet. A meet is for mutual benefit so acting like you're doing somebody a favour isn't really a great start! However, should a person wish to show their appreciation with a gift then i'll happily accept, just as i'd hope they would if I got them a gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have like chocolate xx I have had meets ask if the should bring anything so I normally tell then dairy milk is good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else been asked for a "gift" by someone in return for a meet? Just think it's a bit off for that to happen."

Yes someone asked me to bring a treat and when I found out what that was I reported and blocked them.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

If we're going to someone's home we bring wine and if they come to us we have wine, the moral of the story is wine lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can barely be bothered to buy gifts for family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance, this is a swinging site not a brothel. We would be happy paying for the obvious half hotel costs ect but gifts err no.

Although we have taken a bottle of wine or two to a meet but it has never been requested.

If you want 'gifts' or cash ect become a professional and do not ply your trade on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I AM the gift. "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone say that I should bring a bottle as he's paying for the room.

I've seen someone ask for bottles of something fizzy to be brought and they don't mean lemonade. "

To be honest if a guy's paying for the room - which would cost a hell of a lot more that a bottle of wine - then I think it's perfectly reasonable to expect the lady to take a bottle of wine!

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"I can barely be bothered to buy gifts for family and friends."

How's that working out on your 2012 butt? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did see a couples profile that insisted that any meet should bring two bottles of Chablis with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a chance, this is a swinging site not a brothel. We would be happy paying for the obvious half hotel costs ect but gifts err no.

Although we have taken a bottle of wine or two to a meet but it has never been requested.

If you want 'gifts' or cash ect become a professional and do not ply your trade on fab!"

taking a bottle (depending on the circumstances) is just common courtesy if there's no expectation. If it's expected then that's a totally different matter!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I offered my last rolo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. And I've had offers of gifts, which I find a bit sad because I feel like some men have been conditioned that they will only get a meet if they offer to bring something. That isn't what this is all about.

-Courtney"

^^this^^ x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I bring the gift of my precious time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bring the gift of my precious time. "

This... but chocolate does help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a chance, this is a swinging site not a brothel. We would be happy paying for the obvious half hotel costs ect but gifts err no.

Although we have taken a bottle of wine or two to a meet but it has never been requested.

If you want 'gifts' or cash ect become a professional and do not ply your trade on fab!

taking a bottle (depending on the circumstances) is just common courtesy if there's no expectation. If it's expected then that's a totally different matter!"

Can you bring a hip flask to Costa...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I AM the gift.

Perfect "

Ooooh errrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our spare time is gift enough ! Rare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive received gifts... But never asked.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've never been asked or asked. I've had someone bring Champagne and someone bring a plant because we'd chatted about gardening

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I've been offered "gifts" - which I assume is them hinting that they would pay me for my time. I wouldn't dream of showing up to someone's house or hotel without a bottle of something nice though- mostly because I want to drink it myself though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave a meet a gift once.

Didn't get a shag though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes a small gift like a box of chocolates, a bottle of wine for instance has no other intent but to show forth a kindness, something to break the ice apon meeting........

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can understand gifts being given during romantic relationships as well as at birthdays etc. But meets - not needed and if someone has a list of 'required' gifts, then they should be avoided.

Also, report any user's behaviour that is inappropriate to admin - they'll review and take action accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recently offered money to accompany a guy to a party in just told him that he was on the wring site and there are professional services for that type of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave a meet a gift once.

Didn't get a shag though.

"
hehe hey I would of shagged you ,so unjust xx

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