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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Have set my new pb !

What's yours?

Ps yes I am that bored

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Pb = personal boundary?

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By *oasted cheese sandwich OP   Man
over a year ago

Nearby


"Pb = personal boundary? "

Personal best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I'm married so it's a lot longer then a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pb = personal boundary? "

I thought it was the chemical symbol for lead? I'm more Au baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have set my new pb !

What's yours?

Ps yes I am that bored "

8 months

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think it's been a month for me

I went over 5 years once so a month is liveable.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Too long

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Right now about a month....longest I've Gone is a year

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Since march...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The over 5 years was when I was in a 22 year long realationship

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

This thread makes me want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've ever gone that long tbh, I am young and I got needs lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

December.

Last year.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"This thread makes me want to "

I'm crying with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the greatest of respect I think you lose the knack if you leave it to long and then end up not caring for it then end up joining a monestary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the greatest of respect I think you lose the knack if you leave it to long and then end up not caring for it then end up joining a monestary "

Can you give me the name of a good one please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2yrs and added on the days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was Saturday! Far too long!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2yrs and added on the days "

Adding

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Can't say I've ever gone that long tbh, I am young and I got needs lol"

Not sure wanking counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months ago, nothing I miss really. I can easily retire from it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say I've ever gone that long tbh, I am young and I got needs lol

Not sure wanking counts "

Nope and that's actually a very nasty habit, I used to do that a lot but save all I got for my meets but that's another story.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sounds like a thread of opportunity here to get everyone matched up and back to saying 'yesterday!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have set my new pb !

What's yours?

Ps yes I am that bored "

Hehe dont be bored... Join the hey fab am bored room. Oh shucks there is not one. They all are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread pretty much sums up what we often say about the forums .

Not the best place to arrange meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year was my longest period without sex and throughout my marriage it was normal for us to go up to 4 months without. It didn't seem such a big deal at the time, but since joining fab and discovering that sex is actually awesome with the right people, I now feel slightly faint and panicky at the thought of more than a 2 week dry spell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 8 months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a lot by time and to be honest after 12 months I stopped counting, but it's not so much sex I missed , more the physical contact a kiss and cuddle more than the actual deed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently six - I think?! I've forgotten how many weeks it's been since my birthday - weeks. But atm it's not a case of being unable to get it, I just don't want it.

Longest time I've gone without since I was 20 was eighteen months.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Longest was 9 months. Thinking back I should've not bothered with the following 8 month relationship either as the sex was absolutely rubbish!!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The longest for me was about 2 years, after my first marriage broke down.

For Cal I suspect an awful lot less

Nita

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Pah! Amateur!!!

*Her*

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"Sounds like a thread of opportunity here to get everyone matched up and back to saying 'yesterday!' "

Not that I want to upset anybody, but it was yesterday for me xx.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Went without for 2 years

Find I can shut it down at will. But once I get it, want it all the time

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went without for 2 years

Find I can shut it down at will. But once I get it, want it all the time"

That's like me ~ I can easily go 2 years but once the floodgate opens....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 1/2 yrs

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Went without for 2 years

Find I can shut it down at will. But once I get it, want it all the time

That's like me ~ I can easily go 2 years but once the floodgate opens.... "

Tell me about it!! All or nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comeback after 4years x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently about 3 weeks ... Longest a year n half

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"With the greatest of respect I think you lose the knack if you leave it to long and then end up not caring for it then end up joining a monestary

Can you give me the name of a good one please"

theres a nunnery at Littlehampton

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Five years.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Can't say I've ever gone that long tbh, I am young and I got needs lol

Not sure wanking counts

Nope and that's actually a very nasty habit, I used to do that a lot but save all I got for my meets but that's another story."

In a jar or something?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't allow myself to go so long without and do find it tough at time, when separated from my normal world. Eg a long stay with others (I've got a week over Christmas coming up).

I get out and about, schedule a club visit etc or an overnight in a hotel and book a meet. Sex is so good for my body and mind.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

24 hours lol xxxx

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Pb = personal boundary? "

Pointless bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been about 2 and a half months, yes a half.. And yes I'm counting! But I've had a 3 year dry spell before now so this is nothing

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Its been over 3 months for me and no I am not happy about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a woman; yesterday

With some men ( don't ask ) not since Saturday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 years after hubby died - now I want it in my life every few days X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made it to 7days without sex....well if you take away the Curvy Lady that took advantage of me on the 4th day !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 3 years of a sixteen year marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in my third month without penetrative sex. To be honest I don't miss what I used to have lmao it wasn't alot!! :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been....a week

Used to be once or twice a year for 10 years though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's been....a week

Used to be once or twice a year for 10 years though "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week and a half ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 months.

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Just passed the 72 hour mark. The evening cannot get here quick enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week today.

Have gone 9 months before

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Pb = personal boundary?

Pointless bullshit "

Ouch

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I'm trying not to think of my longest period 'without', but I'm currently sat at 8 weeks......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time... October

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say I've ever gone that long tbh, I am young and I got needs lol

Not sure wanking counts "

No wanking doesn't count I'm afraid !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just passed the 72 hour mark. The evening cannot get here quick enough."

That's what I like to hear a true Fabber!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 months

Self imposed celibacy ... Now I'm back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"14 months

Self imposed celibacy ... Now I'm back "

Welcome back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always thought as soon as the ring was on the finger then that was it over lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"14 months

Self imposed celibacy ... Now I'm back

Welcome back x"

Ah thanks ...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I went 9 months after me and my ex husband split up. Think that's the longest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took 23 years to lose my virginity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now, are we talking inclusive of the time I was in a relationship, or since we parted ways? Heh. *duck and cover*

Hmm. 3..ish..years?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

This thread makes me want to

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast


"Have set my new pb !

What's yours?

Ps yes I am that bored "

Assuming youre not fibbing,Does that include masterbation?

Your balls will shrink ,shrivel up and your ejaculate will be curdeld and lumpy if so.

Have a few wanks before meeting anyone if you've gone for complete abstinence.. As being presented with a rancid load that's been brewing in you for a month will give most the vomz.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I did nearly four years in my former marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have set my new pb !

What's yours?

Ps yes I am that bored

Assuming youre not fibbing,Does that include masterbation?

Your balls will shrink ,shrivel up and your ejaculate will be curdeld and lumpy if so.

Have a few wanks before meeting anyone if you've gone for complete abstinence.. As being presented with a rancid load that's been brewing in you for a month will give most the vomz.

"

That is seriously funny but oh so true though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time for me was Wednesday, but from 17 the longest I've gone without is 6 weeks after giving birth.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

just over 4 years for me.. but for a climax nearly 22 years when with a partner, everything in moderation.. it gets easier as time goes on.. well for me it does anyway its not the big deal it was as when I was younger, I,m more relaxed now too probably found my comfort zone.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Mine was last Sunday, and that was to long ago

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By *arth SideousMan
over a year ago

hyde

Too long

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Fuck it I am now at over five months! But it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmm 2.5 fabless months now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go for quite a while without sex & not be that bothered. However the longest stint without any form of sexual intimacy was I think approx 3-4 years, I gave up counting & did something about it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

4 days for me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I'm married so it's a lot longer then a month "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I'm married so it's a lot longer then a month "

Went about 6 years without a blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 years!

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

I'm gone for 10 weeks before, no sex or wanking. Went to a gangbang after. Now that was something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more than made up for those'lost years'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

November sometime i think it was been so long ive forgot.. think my virginity is growing back ha

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