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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you invite someone to play in your home if it was dirty?

Had a few meets over the fast few weeks where the people hadnt even cleaned the house.Dirt and dust all over the place.

Didnt play,didnt stay long..

Horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No- I spend the whole day cleaning....only for it to be upset by animals shedding hair everywhere..... I do try though.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i went to play at someones when i was on fabs before and there was cat poo all over the floor of the bathroom so made me excuses and out the door i went lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh i went to play at someones when i was on fabs before and there was cat poo all over the floor of the bathroom so made me excuses and out the door i went lol "

thats what i did mate.i wouldnt live there let alone play there.i would never let people see my house in tht state.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I would'nt stay and play in a dirty house

I don't expect a show home but a clean home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank goodness for 9 GBP Travelodge rooms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cats only go in their trays...the dogs only go outside.... you may get grumped at, but they won't go anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My cats only go in their trays...the dogs only go outside.... you may get grumped at, but they won't go anywhere else"

theres a difference hun.these houses were DIRTY.lots of people have pets but their houses are still clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cats only go in their trays...the dogs only go outside.... you may get grumped at, but they won't go anywhere else

theres a difference hun.these houses were DIRTY.lots of people have pets but their houses are still clean."

Was just trying to clarify that some of us have animals, yet still clean houses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank goodness for 9 GBP Travelodge rooms! "
..... Oh Erm..... Hmmmm no nm not gonna say what I was going say

* creeps round graveyard *

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob! "

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?"

That would have been my thoughts too!

I don't think you'd want her to take her knickers of and think you were on the loading bay of Grimsby Fish Docks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?

That would have been my thoughts too!

I don't think you'd want her to take her knickers of and think you were on the loading bay of Grimsby Fish Docks! "

lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?"

Don't you do the dipnsnif test?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

eeewwwww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?

That would have been my thoughts too!

I don't think you'd want her to take her knickers of and think you were on the loading bay of Grimsby Fish Docks! "

Fresh fish shouldn't smell.....only those past their sell by date

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By *h38Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?

That would have been my thoughts too!

I don't think you'd want her to take her knickers of and think you were on the loading bay of Grimsby Fish Docks!

Fresh fish shouldn't smell.....only those past their sell by date "

Urgh I think i'm going to vomit! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have a clean home plus when having a meet fresh bedding and make sure the bathroom is extra clean and extra bleach down the loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate it and not stay if dirty ....... as i would make sure my own home was lovely if had people here ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?

That would have been my thoughts too!

I don't think you'd want her to take her knickers of and think you were on the loading bay of Grimsby Fish Docks!

Fresh fish shouldn't smell.....only those past their sell by date

Urgh I think i'm going to vomit! lol

"

That's why I only have fresh fishies in my fridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?

That would have been my thoughts too!

I don't think you'd want her to take her knickers of and think you were on the loading bay of Grimsby Fish Docks!

Fresh fish shouldn't smell.....only those past their sell by date "

I'm sure the loading bays at Grimsby fish docks smell of Chanel No 5!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't live in a pig pen so I certainly wouldn't play in one. 99% of my meets are in my home as I know it's clean.

Good for you you didn't stay: no reason to live like a slob!

i thought if the house is that dirty what on earth is their hygiene like?

That would have been my thoughts too!

I don't think you'd want her to take her knickers of and think you were on the loading bay of Grimsby Fish Docks!

Fresh fish shouldn't smell.....only those past their sell by date

I'm sure the loading bays at Grimsby fish docks smell of Chanel No 5! "

Dunno- have only ever been at the loading docks of Whitby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank the lord for my lovely cleaner that comes and sorts my house out on a friday just in case I get the urge to play lol

Been to some, 1 in particular, where I didn't even drink the cuppa they made me. Not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went back to a guy's house once, lighting was a little dim (like I was on reflection!). Was warming up on the bed when my nose started to sniff, oh blimey those sheets were not clean. Never seen me get dressed so quick in all my life and I fled aaaargh did I give myself a good scrubbing or what. I never accommodate cos of my kids. It is a bit untidy but it is damn clean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My places is always clean and sheets clean as well then me im always clean its just my mind that isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no excuses for dirty scanky homes these days.

Like someone said, if their home is a shithole it makes you wonder what their hygiene standards are like on a personal level.

Bieng untidy is one thing but dirty is another ,i couldnt and wouldnt even entertain the thought of getting jiggy with someone who shows no care in their home and surroundings.

If anyone calls at mine you can guarentee its clean at all times and if ...anyone stays...the bedding is spotless along with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no excuses for dirty scanky homes these days.

Like someone said, if their home is a shithole it makes you wonder what their hygiene standards are like on a personal level.

Bieng untidy is one thing but dirty is another ,i couldnt and wouldnt even entertain the thought of getting jiggy with someone who shows no care in their home and surroundings.

If anyone calls at mine you can guarentee its clean at all times and if ...anyone stays...the bedding is spotless along with myself. "

what about the one on your bum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thers a big difference between dirty and untidy, I would leave a meet if the House was filthy I've done it in the past, nothing worse than a filthy smelly Home, untidy because of Kids etc I can understand but not dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thers a big difference between dirty and untidy, I would leave a meet if the House was filthy I've done it in the past, nothing worse than a filthy smelly Home, untidy because of Kids etc I can understand but not dirty"

Untidy cos of mad dogs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt even considering getting freaky in a dirty house. Some peeps houses can be cluttered and thats ok - but dirty is no excuse for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no excuses for dirty scanky homes these days.

Like someone said, if their home is a shithole it makes you wonder what their hygiene standards are like on a personal level.

Bieng untidy is one thing but dirty is another ,i couldnt and wouldnt even entertain the thought of getting jiggy with someone who shows no care in their home and surroundings.

If anyone calls at mine you can guarentee its clean at all times and if ...anyone stays...the bedding is spotless along with myself.

what about the one on your bum ? "

Oiiii you been sneaking a peek in me window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thers a big difference between dirty and untidy, I would leave a meet if the House was filthy I've done it in the past, nothing worse than a filthy smelly Home, untidy because of Kids etc I can understand but not dirty

Untidy cos of mad dogs? "

Possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no excuses for dirty scanky homes these days.

Like someone said, if their home is a shithole it makes you wonder what their hygiene standards are like on a personal level.

Bieng untidy is one thing but dirty is another ,i couldnt and wouldnt even entertain the thought of getting jiggy with someone who shows no care in their home and surroundings.

If anyone calls at mine you can guarentee its clean at all times and if ...anyone stays...the bedding is spotless along with myself.

what about the one on your bum ?

Oiiii you been sneaking a peek in me window "

I dont mind animals as long as who ever has them keeps them from jumping all over me. nowt worse than bieng all done up and then covered in hairs...

And if i aint side stepping crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thers a big difference between dirty and untidy, I would leave a meet if the House was filthy I've done it in the past, nothing worse than a filthy smelly Home, untidy because of Kids etc I can understand but not dirty

Untidy cos of mad dogs?

Possible "

Their toys are everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh so are mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are the worse for not putting things away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh so are mine "

hehehehehehe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, thank god for hotel meets lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, thank god for hotel meets lol"

Yes i agree, i so miss the hilton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, thank god for hotel meets lol

Yes i agree, i so miss the hilton "

ooo classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh most definately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no excuse for a dirty home, whether your swinging or not. Untidy is far enough I guess, if the house itself is spotless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile does state not pristine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a new meet the house is cleaned from top to bottom, thank goodness its only a shoebox and only takes about an hour to do, fresh bedding, toilet bleached (lots of), everything tided away.

If I have met people before, and they know me, and know that my house is generally clean and tidy im not so anal about it, I will still put on fresh bedding and clean, but I dont worry about the odd book or pair of shoes lying about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No- I spend the whole day cleaning....only for it to be upset by animals shedding hair everywhere..... I do try though......."
Join the club, three goldies tend to leave a lot of hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile does state not pristine "

Now then Wyrdsis , me thinks your worrying to much....

chill and stroke the dog....reckon its soothing

And i said the DOG...not ya pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother was verging on OCD with housework so I was always brought up in a very clean and tidy home. I never left things around because she couldnt cope with it. It had a lot of disadvantages; I never had a party cos she wouldnt let lots of kids into the house, we couldnt use towels, as she wouldnt have the folds messed up, we had to use older towels that were stored out of sight. I have picked up some of her habits ie; I cant have people touching my curtains after Ive opened them in the morning, cant bear to have them disturbed (im even worse with the blinds). But I am nowhere near as bad as my mother. That said, I cant rest until the house is tidy.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I remember when I moved into my flat... anyone could pop in any time they liked. I was proper house proud. Now, not so much. I hate housework. However, I can do a 'mum's coming' clean in about 30 minutes if I really have to but give me some notice, don't just turn up or you take me as you find me.

If I'm expecting guests then my place is clean and tidy but don't be running your finger along the top of pictures etc. and expect it to come back to you dust free!

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

hi did the mums coming round cleaning today, went to the shops. Came back to find coal over the kitchen to the living room. Ian putting some coal on the fire !, Mum walking in.

I felt so angry.

I shout at Ian only for my own mother to have a go at me for shouting at Ian.

ARR

Sue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile does state not pristine

Now then Wyrdsis , me thinks your worrying to much....

chill and stroke the dog....reckon its soothing

And i said the DOG...not ya pussy "

Am chilled now ....ta Peaches xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are very few exceptions for having an unclean house. If your well bodied and physically able then its good exercise and good practice to maintain your living quarters. To invite people round and not at least clean up is not acceptable as I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no thats why i dont invite people here because i cant be arsed to clean up lmao

seriously tho, dirtys one thing untidys another, having 3 kids i have no show home, theres usually shoes on the floor, clothes dumped on the bathroom floor because its to much effort to put them in the wash bin, several cups in the sink because we have to have a clean cup every time we need a drink and are allergic to washing up lol the usual stuff you get with kids i guess, but all of it can be put right quick enough, most people with children will have a 'lived in' home but that dont mean it needs to be dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always go by what my mum use to say when all 4 kids at home house clean enough to be healthy dirty enough to be lived in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One meet springs to mind,she had filthy sheets,full of pet hairs I just had to get out of there,I blamed my pet allergy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive only had one meet so far from of a single woman, and her place was filthy minging,and she was not clean aswell, i did not play, i might be a single guy but im not desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive only had one meet so far from of a single woman, and her place was filthy minging,and she was not clean aswell, i did not play, i might be a single guy but im not desperate"

well just cause your a single man doesnt mean your desperate. A filthy home to me would mean a filthy person to me so I would not want to indulge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive only had one meet so far from of a single woman, and her place was filthy minging,and she was not clean aswell, i did not play, i might be a single guy but im not desperate

well just cause your a single man doesnt mean your desperate. A filthy home to me would mean a filthy person to me so I would not want to indulge."

But a filthy mind is differant

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

The background in some profile pics on here do raise a question mark re the member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off topic but :

We know a couple who meet friends on a regular basis, alternating between houses. Their home is always immaculate but when it's their turn to entertain the lady of the house is up at the crack of dawn with dusters & every type of cleaning product known.

The fella jokes that he's woken with a mop up his a**e.

Along with the big clean, there's a trip to the hairdressers, tanning salon & often a new dress involved.

You always know when they are having a meet, you can see the sunlight reflecting off their windows 5 miles way :0).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The background in some profile pics on here do raise a question mark re the member "

Eurgh I always look at background pics I remember one blokes 'puter room' who's curtains were hanging by about three hooks, damp patched wallpaper peeling off and the posters of naked women tacked to the other walls.... its as if he had never left the room and nobody had entered since he was about 14. I wonder where Mrs Bates oops sorry his mum was to let him leave it in that state?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The background in some profile pics on here do raise a question mark re the member

Eurgh I always look at background pics I remember one blokes 'puter room' who's curtains were hanging by about three hooks, damp patched wallpaper peeling off and the posters of naked women tacked to the other walls.... its as if he had never left the room and nobody had entered since he was about 14. I wonder where Mrs Bates oops sorry his mum was to let him leave it in that state?"

He had locked her in the cellar so he could have his wicked way on Fab. But it does shock me that some people can be so dirty,I guess I have a bit of OCD so I like everything clean and tidy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would have to be a clean house or club for me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is OCD the new Bi-polar? You can be clean/tidy without labelling yourself that surely? Its a really debilitating condition....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say it's OCD cause I get obsessed by it so that's why I labelled myself.

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Nooooo. I HAVE to clean if someones coming over (i'll occasionally do it other times too )

The problem with our house is that it's so big and old, you can clean all weekend and there are still bits that don't look clean

Usually when we have someone over, it looks like a tip after 5 minutes anyway (empty wine bottles, shoes everywhere etc)

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say it's OCD cause I get obsessed by it so that's why I labelled myself. "

Im really sorry to hear that it must be awful for you xxxxxx

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