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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the one thing you look back and think , bugger, missed opertunity ? Mine was a job for Lamborghini

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

None. Nada.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots and lots

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By *lay1098sMan
over a year ago

LEICESTER

omg too many to list,

but hey ho life goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets? I've had a few, but then again .....

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"Regrets? I've had a few, but then again ....."

Too few to mention.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not many regrets but the biggest was not being able to go to university when I had my place

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever


"Regrets? I've had a few, but then again .....

Too few to mention....."
everbody " I did it my waaay"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really regret a lot.

Ummm can't think

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

I wish I had spent more time with my grandfather before he passed away suddenly.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Regrets? I've had a few, but then again .....

Too few to mention..... everbody " I did it my waaay""

In a Johnny Rotten voice obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.

Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning!

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Not finding out about fab earlier in life, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.

Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "

well said

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.

Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "

Ok my regret is being born a year too early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i didn't kidnap Elle Macpherson whilst I had the opportunity!

......I'd have been out by now too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My motto is 'live for today, no regrets'

Sure there must be somethings I regret but I don't dwell on them so I don't remember them, what's the point in thinking 'oh I could have done this'

If I wanted to play that game I could say 'if I had not have gone out with my ex husband when he asked then...' But then I wouldn't have my children.

No I don't look back only forwards

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.

Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "

Pretty much sums up my thoughts too!

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

I agree that you look forward and make the rest of your life better. You learn from your mistakes and make them learning experiences. Live for today as the future is tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rien

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Regrets, they don't work as Mr. Williams once sung.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter."

You didn't, you weren't to know.

My regret is having a relationship with a psychopath. That's my only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Selling my old Alfa GTV 3.2. That car was special and incredibly rare.

Selling my highly modified, 575bhp Sierra Cosworth.

One other that I won't mention in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I let people bully me in the workplace xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Regrets? I've had a few, but then again .....

Too few to mention..... everbody " I did it my waaay"

In a Johnny Rotten voice obviously "

Not Sid Vicious? Controversial...

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys


"That I let people bully me in the workplace xx"
We had that for a year it made us both ill we left our job in the end Paul saw him one night and the guy had to have a couple of weeks off work

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I don't want to think about the things I should have done that's just depressing, I want to think about the things I have done and I'm going to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I let people bully me in the workplace xx We had that for a year it made us both ill we left our job in the end Paul saw him one night and the guy had to have a couple of weeks off work "

It went on for years the stories I could tell. I was once followed off site, locked in a room. That's public sector for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the one thing you look back and think , bugger, missed opertunity ? Mine was a job for Lamborghini "

University - wish I worked harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an awful lot. And it seems like I have a new one every day just now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only two days you can do nothing about

Yesterday and tomorrow.

I do have a few regrets but I don't dwell on them

Are there things i would like to change about myself ?

Yes , but dont we all

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Too many to list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Liking the regrets are what shaped our future idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't believe in regrets. There may be things I could have done better (or avoided altogether), however our whoops moments make us who we are just as much as our yay moments. We just need to learn from them.

Crikey, that was a little too philosophical for this time in the morning! "

Blimey, at this time of the morning I'm struggling to to get my brain to choose shreddies or rice crispies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret not looking after myself better. My health has suffered because of my irratic eating habits as well as me having 2 operations and a 3rd due in the new year.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I'm more of a look forward person but I do wish that I hadn't worked so hard when I was younger so that I could have spent more time with my children as they were growing up. However, I now look forward to seeing my children and grandchildren and have a great time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter."

Don't do that to yourself I'm sure it's not true and he loved you. I don't think he would want you to burden yourself with those kind of feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I let people bully me in the workplace xx We had that for a year it made us both ill we left our job in the end Paul saw him one night and the guy had to have a couple of weeks off work

It went on for years the stories I could tell. I was once followed off site, locked in a room. That's public sector for you "

OMG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't regret anything, but I definitely view the negative experiences as an opportunity to learn something about how not to do things in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could have been nicer to a couple of folk, I could have not become involved in some severely murky Shit in my twenties, I could have gotten a better education or higher paid job...coulda woulda shoulda.

Whatever path we choose, we always ponder the alternatives, it's human nature but when it comes down to it, I don't regret a single decision I made, I'm here and me because of them and that's good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter."

No you didn't , don't think like that, no one was to know. He'll know now , as before , that you love him.

My failings....ouch...around the divorce and failing my kids. Realise now I haven't and didn't, but took it bad for them for a while. Others too, but I'm stronger and happier now after each .

And not meeting Miss Knitter .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I spoke to my Dad on the phone the day he suddenly passed away that evening or even visit him more often. I failed as a daughter.

No you didn't , don't think like that, no one was to know. He'll know now , as before , that you love him.

My failings....ouch...around the divorce and failing my kids. Realise now I haven't and didn't, but took it bad for them for a while. Others too, but I'm stronger and happier now after each .

And not meeting Miss Knitter . "

Charmer

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I try not to have any regrets. I think a person could go a little insane if they have too many regrets. You can't change what went down in the past. Life's just one big learning experience. The key is to not keep making the same mistakes over and over again. Learn from the things you've done in the past, be that good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of every regret, there is usually something positive to be found.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Out of every regret, there is usually something positive to be found."

Very true. Probably took me a while to realise this though.

All there is is NOW. The past and the future don't exist. Don't get too hung up on either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of every regret, there is usually something positive to be found."

Yes - you blocking me

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

See, the funny thing about regret is it's better to regret something you have done, than something you haven't.

Edith Piaf - Non, Je ne regrette rien

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3Kvu6Kgp88

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of every regret, there is usually something positive to be found.

Yes - you blocking me"

The ironic thing is you must have tried to look at my profile to realise I'd blocked you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sold The Beatles Autographs for £60,00p

Now £6000,00 ez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday has gone and tomorrow isn't here yet. All we have is today.

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