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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.

Any help or tips wound be great

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Patience!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience!!!!!!!! "

And haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience!!!!!!!! "

But thats Shag's line

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have patience but its not so great having message after message not replied to.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You could always pop to Grantham for a coffee

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have patience but its not so great having message after message not replied to."

But that's how it works on here form guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience!!!!!!!!

But thats Shag's line "
lol that is right it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.

Any help or tips wound be great "

Look at your profile would be my advice.

Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.

*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Patience!!!!!!!! "

Too soon!

OP...I think you're a hotty. No idea what your approach is like but if you messaged me with something respectful i'd struggle to ignore you!

Also, you need to put a bit of time and effort in on here.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well looks like ill just keep sending messages out and hoping for a reply


"I have patience but its not so great having message after message not replied to.

But that's how it works on here form guys "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I would happily message you - and thank you for your kind words - put the sight says im outside your age range

Ill get some more time put in this week. I guess more presence in the chat and forums right?


"Patience!!!!!!!!

Too soon!

OP...I think you're a hotty. No idea what your approach is like but if you messaged me with something respectful i'd struggle to ignore you!

Also, you need to put a bit of time and effort in on here.

Good luck!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your advice... I would like to write more on there but im not great with words to be honest. But ill take a think and see what I can come up with


"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.

Any help or tips wound be great

Look at your profile would be my advice.

Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.

*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Patience!!!!!!!!

But thats Shag's line "

I couldn't wait because I don't have any....PATIENCE!!!!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You can send me a message and I'll give you feedback if you like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

message sent.


"You can send me a message and I'll give you feedback if you like?"

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Go to a club and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.

Any help or tips wound be great "
hope you wernt around when the slasher was on rampage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not that I know of...


"Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.

Any help or tips wound be great hope you wernt around when the slasher was on rampage "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'll sort you out, OP

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Nice profile you have,cannot see why your efforts are not returned

Good luck anyhoo..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love to.. kind wanna go with someone to show me around would be my first time at such a place


"Go to a club and chat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate to be a single guy on here

I'm far too lazy to put any effort in

OP you look good,you seem reasonably sane,just keep at it with a smile and no expectations,hopefully something good will come out of it for you

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By *irFucksAlotMan
over a year ago

Nearby

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Be honest, respectful and yourself.

Works for me, what you see is what you get, just be nice...

You'd be surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for your advice... I would like to write more on there but im not great with words to be honest. But ill take a think and see what I can come up with

Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.

Any help or tips wound be great

Look at your profile would be my advice.

Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.

*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/"

Just make it so you're easy to message

Put what you're looking for , you say a regular fuck buddy is that regular fuck and go or say stay over the night and sit and watch Netflix/long sessions short sessions, purely indoors or do you fancy going out for a drink etc too?

Any areas of sexually you're looking to explore? Bdsm/ voyerism/cclub scene?

Put a few easy ice breakers that people can comment on too.

Think of it less of an advert more a conversation with someone.

Say you and someone you'd like to meet were at the bar now just met having a pint what things would you generally tell them first so they knew what kind of guy you were.

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By *irFucksAlotMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"Go to a club and chat "

This is what I found worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd hate to be a single guy on here

I'm far too lazy to put any effort in

"
Yes, as woman they get inundated lol.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'll sort you out, OP "

Not without me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

For the record the OP sends very polite and good first messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the record the OP sends very polite and good first messages "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey,

Thank you for your kind words. Ill keep going


"I'd hate to be a single guy on here

I'm far too lazy to put any effort in

OP you look good,you seem reasonably sane,just keep at it with a smile and no expectations,hopefully something good will come out of it for you "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True words


"Be honest, respectful and yourself.

Works for me, what you see is what you get, just be nice...

You'd be surprised!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Might have to hire you as my profile writing


"Thank you for your advice... I would like to write more on there but im not great with words to be honest. But ill take a think and see what I can come up with

Hi people any advice on lining up your first meet. Been messaging many people here for some time and not getting anywhere.

Any help or tips wound be great

Look at your profile would be my advice.

Many people read the profile before they read the message yours is very brief and will usually result in a delete message.

*he asked for advice before I get banned for nit picking again :/

Just make it so you're easy to message

Put what you're looking for , you say a regular fuck buddy is that regular fuck and go or say stay over the night and sit and watch Netflix/long sessions short sessions, purely indoors or do you fancy going out for a drink etc too?

Any areas of sexually you're looking to explore? Bdsm/ voyerism/cclub scene?

Put a few easy ice breakers that people can comment on too.

Think of it less of an advert more a conversation with someone.

Say you and someone you'd like to meet were at the bar now just met having a pint what things would you generally tell them first so they knew what kind of guy you were.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you kindly.


"For the record the OP sends very polite and good first messages "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shame I cant message you though.
"For the record the OP sends very polite and good first messages "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame I cant message you though. For the record the OP sends very polite and good first messages "

Nope you can't, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was just about to write you a lovely message then sadly im out of your age range Have a lovely week any way.


"I'd hate to be a single guy on here

I'm far too lazy to put any effort in

OP you look good,you seem reasonably sane,just keep at it with a smile and no expectations,hopefully something good will come out of it for you "

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Well I would happily message you - and thank you for your kind words - put the sight says im outside your age range

Ill get some more time put in this week. I guess more presence in the chat and forums right?

Patience!!!!!!!!

Too soon!

OP...I think you're a hotty. No idea what your approach is like but if you messaged me with something respectful i'd struggle to ignore you!

Also, you need to put a bit of time and effort in on here.

Good luck!"

Ah but i'm not currently meeting so it would do you no good at this stage!

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