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"Being honest, its not your body size that I'd find off putting, but as you are not asking for a profile critique, I'll leave it there. I don't meet gym-type men, but I like men who are confident and sell themselves well. " This I agree with  | |||
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"your beard is awful sorry and try smiling it works wonders "What if he said to you, your smile is awful? You should grow a beard? Each to their own!!! | |||
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"your beard is awful sorry and try smiling it works wonders
What if he said to you, your smile is awful? You should grow a beard?
Each to their own!!! " | |||
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"your beard is awful sorry and try smiling it works wonders
What if he said to you, your smile is awful? You should grow a beard?
Each to their own!!! "meeeeeeow lol | |||
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"As has already been said. There is something and someone for everyone on here. It's just a matter of patience and confidence. Being a single guy you have to sell yourself, but not sound needy or desparate. The forums and chat rooms are a good place to start. Or even some socials or clubs so that you can meet people and hopefully get some verifications. Good luck" I'd agree with clubs as last time I went to chameleons at Newport it was full of big blokes | |||
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"Some great advice there from everyone I have a few extra pounds and it's good to know it's not the end of the world. Good 1 fab!! " Just don't grow a beard. 
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me?" answer's up to you mate, maybe just leave the profile on hidden for a bit and take a break for a few weeks then come back refreshed? I do that sometimes or for a few months if I feel my optimism is futile after a while.. | |||
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"your beard is awful sorry and try smiling it works wonders
What if he said to you, your smile is awful? You should grow a beard?
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meeeeeeow lol "Lol, I just had to. Why cant people just accept others for who they are? Its not as though they're perfect.  | |||
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"your beard is awful sorry and try smiling it works wonders
What if he said to you, your smile is awful? You should grow a beard?
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meeeeeeow lol
Lol, I just had to. Why cant people just accept others for who they are?
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"wait a second, if you're part off a couple mate then what are you worrying about? so what if you can't get a meet off here at least in the end at night you can lie next to the missus?" And do | |||
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" And do "well then cheer up then you bearded fool and look at the bright side it could be a lot worse mate and you could have absolutely nobody to wake up to and also nobody to get off with for years at a time... Imagine how you would be then? | |||
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"your beard is awful sorry and try smiling it works wonders
What if he said to you, your smile is awful? You should grow a beard?
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"If men want women.. they need to tidy themselves up....look in the mirror and think. ...would I fuck myself ??" Of course, - & that obviously works both ways. | |||
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"Geez, -all the picture perfect glamour models on here giving harsh advice, it's laughable!
"He's changed his photo of him with a beard since I put my comment. It looks much nicer in this pic. | |||
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"If men want women.. they need to tidy themselves up....look in the mirror and think. ...would I fuck myself ??" I'd fuck me 
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"If men want women.. they need to tidy themselves up....look in the mirror and think. ...would I fuck myself ??" Every day and every day I say jeez I'd hump me | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me?" I've found if you're polite on the forums and join a lot of threads people will see u and it makes meeting much easier! | |||
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" t's a case of making sure that we portray ourselves positively and focus on our attributes and what makes us stand out in a positive fashion rather than focus on the negatives. "This ^^ I find confidence attractive. There's very few people happy with themselves weight wise in my experience. I like dad bods and bellys are fine. For me it's someone's personality that turns me on. If they are a nice person that makes smile/ laugh that's a huge leap towards me inviting them back to my sex cave. Attraction wise it's mainly in the face for me. Show me as many ripped young guys as you like but if they are not very good at the conversational element it's not gonna happen x | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol" Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well!" I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you "So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are  | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are "No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"That's not shallow at all, it's called preference 
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"Or some would call it a preference.. | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow
That's not shallow at all, it's called preference
"Exactly this. I have many male friends who I think are great, funny, great personalities etc but physically I will never be attracted to them. Many are on here for casual meets so physical attraction is probably more important. | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"But I'm not here to fuck a personality. In my social life I have friends of every shape, size, colour, religion and sexual persuasion. I reserve the right to only have sex with those I find physically attractive when it comes to my casual sex life. If that makes me shallow I own up to it here and now. | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"thats just silly why would i want to have sex with somebody im not attracted to? they could be the nicest person in the world if i dont fancy them its not happening and i dont think it makes me shallow becauae i want to like the look of somebody im sharing my body with | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow
But I'm not here to fuck a personality. In my social life I have friends of every shape, size, colour, religion and sexual persuasion. I reserve the right to only have sex with those I find physically attractive when it comes to my casual sex life. If that makes me shallow I own up to it here and now."Thats not shallow in the slightest we don't go for big guys either. Complete turn off for us. Being shallow would be thinking we were better than someone else because of how we are and that's not us. | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"So you would have sex with someone you don't find physically attractive? | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow
thats just silly
why would i want to have sex with somebody im not attracted to?
they could be the nicest person in the world if i dont fancy them its not happening and i dont think it makes me shallow becauae i want to like the look of somebody im sharing my body with "That's what I mean | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me?" Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude! | |||
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"I have grown the beard because my wife likes them and my 7 month old like pulling on it. Anyway even if my wife who I have been with for 10 years likes its go enough for me " Everyone else can have their opinion but only your wife's opinion matters. And if she likes it others will like it. Let's be honest, your wife fancies you enough to bear you a little one. | |||
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"I have grown the beard because my wife likes them and my 7 month old like pulling on it. Anyway even if my wife who I have been with for 10 years likes its go enough for me Everyone else can have their opinion but only your wife's opinion matters. And if she likes it others will like it. Let's be honest, your wife fancies you enough to bear you a little one. " We have 3 aged 8,5 years and a 7 month | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude! " as usual Scarlet nails it! | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it! "People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference... | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference..."Why though? It seems to be the only acceptable form of discrimination on here .. | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference...
Why though? It seems to be the only acceptable form of discrimination on here .. "It's not acceptable,too many men suck up to women that's all | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference...
Why though? It seems to be the only acceptable form of discrimination on here .. "Perhaps the male op threads receive the honest thoughts cos there's loads of guys and who cares... The female op threads receive the replies that the posters think the ladies want to hear.. | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference...
Why though? It seems to be the only acceptable form of discrimination on here ..
Perhaps the male op threads receive the honest thoughts cos there's loads of guys and who cares...
The female op threads receive the replies that the posters think the ladies want to hear..
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference...
Why though? It seems to be the only acceptable form of discrimination on here ..
It's not acceptable,too many men suck up to women that's all"Exactly. White knight syndrome.. | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"Got an excellent spade bud if you want to dig an even bigger hole for yourself | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me?" There are lots of people who like bigger men. It's not about 'luck' it's about seeking out the people who like you - just like the rest of us have to do. | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"get a grip, looks are not the most important thing to me but I'm certainly not going to shag someome I have no attraction too. | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? There are lots of people who like bigger men. It's not about 'luck' it's about seeking out the people who like you - just like the rest of us have to do." i think that just about sums up the whole subject in one post | |||
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"Some people have found that they want to latch onto one part of a message aimed at the OP, who, by the sounds of it was having a body image crisis, so I decided to post an uplifting message, to help him along on a bad day, still never mind eh "by telling everyone else they where shallow | |||
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" People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference..." I wonder what would happen if a man had said that | |||
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"Some people have found that they want to latch onto one part of a message aimed at the OP, who, by the sounds of it was having a body image crisis, so I decided to post an uplifting message, to help him along on a bad day, still never mind eh by telling everyone else they where shallow"If you can find the one person I singled out and called shallow I will make a very public apology, and a private one to the person involved, I didn't call anyone shallow, I just made a point, my point, about shallow people, I didn't call anyone shallow, I even made it clear that I wasn't referring to one particular sex either, so perhaps I would sugest that you read the posts back, it's important to read things before commenting, like posts and profiles | |||
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"Some people have found that they want to latch onto one part of a message aimed at the OP, who, by the sounds of it was having a body image crisis, so I decided to post an uplifting message, to help him along on a bad day, still never mind eh by telling everyone else they where shallow"but if you look at his original post he didn't actually say that!! Someone got a bee in their bonnet & the sheep latched on; - now where have I seen that before? | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me?" I don't see why it should be different for the men, most of the women are bloody fat, obese even a lot of them. | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference..."I didn't realise the forum rules had changed and we had to ask you to pre-approve all posts. Please accept my humble apologies. | |||
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"I'm not fat but I struggle to meet women on here because I don't like fat women and to be truthful at least 80% of women on here are described as large/ample or similar I've been with big women I the past and it just isn't my taste. I was even blocked for being 'nasty' by a skinny petite woman (just my type) for commenting about how disappointed I was about the size of women in this site. " Exactly,that's what people need to bare in mind when they are showing a preference. It's how you say things,we all have preferences,but if you are being nasty to the opposite of what you like you just come over as being not a very nice person. | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference...
I didn't realise the forum rules had changed and we had to ask you to pre-approve all posts.
Please accept my humble apologies. "Apology accepted... | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference...
I didn't realise the forum rules had changed and we had to ask you to pre-approve all posts.
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? Lots of men find it difficult meeting someone. How do you know those are the reasons they won't meet you? It could be anything. Your beard, your age, where you bought your shoes from, maybe their cat just died. If they aren't interested you just aren't compatible. Interesting how your thread got you a bit of a bashing yet a similar thread from a woman got nothing but oohs and aahs. Chin up dude!
as usual Scarlet nails it!
People should really stop comparing the difference between a man starting a thread and a woman. Yes we know there is a difference...
I didn't realise the forum rules had changed and we had to ask you to pre-approve all posts.
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"I'm not fat but I struggle to meet women on here because I don't like fat women and to be truthful at least 80% of women on here are described as large/ample or similar I've been with big women I the past and it just isn't my taste. I was even blocked for being 'nasty' by a skinny petite woman (just my type) for commenting about how disappointed I was about the size of women in this site. " Sometimes it can be about how you word such statements. Your wording above - that you are 'disappointed' that so many larger (average?) women use the site, it's kind of dehumanising in a way. Certainly I'm very average, and I wouldn't think I was in a small minority here of 20%. Most women I see personally on here are very average in body size (that's why it's called average). Perhaps you are allowing confirmational bias to take over? | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? I don't see why it should be different for the men, most of the women are bloody fat, obese even a lot of them. " But it is different. Just look how many bbw magazines, videos etc are out there. Love honey do plus size lingerie for big women. But theres no bbm porn, theres no plus size underwear for men. Because theres no interest or demand for us. Its nobodys fault its just how it is. | |||
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"If cock is ever in short supply, and women drop their standards. Then and only then will the BBM be born....." Already exists... just like some men prefer big women, some women prefer big men. Or are you suggesting that men don't *really* prefer big women, they just pretend that they do because they can't manage to fuck skinnies? | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? I don't see why it should be different for the men, most of the women are bloody fat, obese even a lot of them. But it is different. Just look how many bbw magazines, videos etc are out there. Love honey do plus size lingerie for big women. But theres no bbm porn, theres no plus size underwear for men. Because theres no interest or demand for us. Its nobodys fault its just how it is." Yes, that porn does exist. There are even sites dedicated to it. And you *can* get sex outfits that are designed for larger men. It's more common in the gay scene, but a while back I went to a private fetish party that was for big men and their admirers at a fetish club. It was a great night and myself and my (skinny male) partner spent lots of the night playing with big men. | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy with grey hair and I do ok. Perhaps you need bigger tits " | |||
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"I really love the bigger man....give me a big man over slim/ average any day!...." Thanks your body is beautiful if only we lived closer and I was single | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? I don't see why it should be different for the men, most of the women are bloody fat, obese even a lot of them. But it is different. Just look how many bbw magazines, videos etc are out there. Love honey do plus size lingerie for big women. But theres no bbm porn, theres no plus size underwear for men. Because theres no interest or demand for us. Its nobodys fault its just how it is. Yes, that porn does exist. There are even sites dedicated to it. And you *can* get sex outfits that are designed for larger men. It's more common in the gay scene, but a while back I went to a private fetish party that was for big men and their admirers at a fetish club. It was a great night and myself and my (skinny male) partner spent lots of the night playing with big men." Id be happy with normal underwear in my size nevermind sex outfits. Everyday of my life I struggle to find clothes to fit. I have trawled the internet looking for underwear that doesnt look like baggy boxers made from tea towels. I have found 1 company that makes straight forward dull and boring briefs in my size (50-52 waist) so if you know of somewhere please do direct me to it. Or maybe by big men you just mean bigger than average but not really big like me | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy with grey hair and I do ok. Perhaps you need bigger tits "ha ha ha | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me? I don't see why it should be different for the men, most of the women are bloody fat, obese even a lot of them. But it is different. Just look how many bbw magazines, videos etc are out there. Love honey do plus size lingerie for big women. But theres no bbm porn, theres no plus size underwear for men. Because theres no interest or demand for us. Its nobodys fault its just how it is. Yes, that porn does exist. There are even sites dedicated to it. And you *can* get sex outfits that are designed for larger men. It's more common in the gay scene, but a while back I went to a private fetish party that was for big men and their admirers at a fetish club. It was a great night and myself and my (skinny male) partner spent lots of the night playing with big men. Id be happy with normal underwear in my size nevermind sex outfits. Everyday of my life I struggle to find clothes to fit. I have trawled the internet looking for underwear that doesnt look like baggy boxers made from tea towels. I have found 1 company that makes straight forward dull and boring briefs in my size (50-52 waist) so if you know of somewhere please do direct me to it. Or maybe by big men you just mean bigger than average but not really big like me "Why don't you contact some of the clothing manufacturers who sell at the gay sex shops? Asking if they make clothes to accomodate 'bears' would be a starting point. With a quick Google search I also found multiple clothes shopss selling tight underwear (jockey style mostly) for men of around 66 inches (including somewhere called bigfishclothing). | |||
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"Most of them are EXTREMELY overpriced. Check them out youll see what I mean. As for the gay sex shop suppliers, I dont actually know any!! "£16 for two pairs at the shop I just mentioned - seems pretty average to me? For the gay shops - try giving Expectations a call. If they didn't have the asnwers, I bet they would be able to put you in touch with someone who could help. | |||
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"I really love the bigger man....give me a big man over slim/ average any day!.... Thanks your body is beautiful if only we lived closer and I was single "Story of my life that is...lol | |||
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"I really love the bigger man....give me a big man over slim/ average any day!.... Thanks your body is beautiful if only we lived closer and I was single
Story of my life that is...lol"Lol I could see my wife lying and playing with you | |||
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"I'm not fat but I struggle to meet women on here because I don't like fat women and to be truthful at least 80% of women on here are described as large/ample or similar I've been with big women I the past and it just isn't my taste. I was even blocked for being 'nasty' by a skinny petite woman (just my type) for commenting about how disappointed I was about the size of women in this site. " I'm not surprised, do you not get that that's slightly offensive terminology? "Disappointed" in the size of women - like those a larger size than what you like are a failure? Think about how you word things. | |||
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"Most of them are EXTREMELY overpriced. Check them out youll see what I mean. As for the gay sex shop suppliers, I dont actually know any!!
£16 for two pairs at the shop I just mentioned - seems pretty average to me?
For the gay shops - try giving Expectations a call. If they didn't have the asnwers, I bet they would be able to put you in touch with someone who could help."Cheers. £16 for two seems as lot as I used to get 5 for £8 in matalan before I got to big for their biggest sizes especially as they are so dull and bland. Ill try expectations thanks. | |||
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"It always surprises me when discussions about weight focus so much on women when, as a proportion of the popularion, a higher percentage of men than women are overweight or obese. I think a lot of bigger guys do have a hard time on here, but the same could be said of really slim men without big muscles. In my view it's all about making the best of yourself. Maybe women have more tools in their arsenal to be able to do this, but well fitting smart clothes, nice underwear, well-kept facial hair if you have it, decent haircut, smelling nice - all these things go a long way to challenging the fat lazy slob stereotypes which some people choose to come out with. And although it's easier said that done, confidence is so key to all of this. Good luck "Female do find it easier I thank. PS your smoking | |||
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"As a fat man, I say don't give up, learn to love what you have, and be fat and fabulous, because the shallow women will never experience what you have to offer, and as the women who aren't shallow and meet you, lay on the bed sweaty, breathless and satisfied, they can think of all the poor shallow women who will never come as hard as they just did, Well that's how I look at it, night not be true but it makes me feel better lol Someone calling women shallow is not a turn on for me,someone's attractiveness comes from within as well! I didn't call ALL women shallow, just the shallow ones, there are shallow men too. Hope that clears that up for you
So let's just clear this up,the women that meet overweight guys are not shallow,but the one's that don't are
No, the PEOPLE who can't see past someone's physical attributes to see the wonderful person that is on the inside, they are shallow, the PEOPLE who go on wether there is a connection, they are the ones that aren't shallow"For some of us this is fantasy, we're not looking for life partners. I'm fat, if someone doesn't want to shag me I don't see it as shallow. Some people need to get over themselves and realise they'll never have universal appeal! | |||
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"It always surprises me when discussions about weight focus so much on women when, as a proportion of the popularion, a higher percentage of men than women are overweight or obese. I think a lot of bigger guys do have a hard time on here, but the same could be said of really slim men without big muscles. In my view it's all about making the best of yourself. Maybe women have more tools in their arsenal to be able to do this, but well fitting smart clothes, nice underwear, well-kept facial hair if you have it, decent haircut, smelling nice - all these things go a long way to challenging the fat lazy slob stereotypes which some people choose to come out with. And although it's easier said that done, confidence is so key to all of this. Good luck "Well said! I'm tall n thin and have confidence issues too. But I play to me y strengths as best I can. And so far, the ones that have looked passed this have reaped the rewards. Personally I'd prefer a naughty mind than a model body. | |||
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"I really love the bigger man....give me a big man over slim/ average any day!.... Thanks your body is beautiful if only we lived closer and I was single
Story of my life that is...lol
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"I really love the bigger man....give me a big man over slim/ average any day!.... Thanks your body is beautiful if only we lived closer and I was single
Story of my life that is...lol
Lol I could see my wife lying and playing with you
Ooooo i bet!"As I watch and to see if I join in | |||
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"Hehe hey good luck mate but you picked on wrong woman there ,hey its all about thoughtful messaging and luck ,the right woman at right time beards for me are so last year but hey you think you look good and you are what counts good luck "Thanks and wife love it.she calls it my pussy tickler | |||
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"Something for everyone on here dude. It's going to take time and effort on your part. Get yourself out there and don't give up. " Can I just say guys you sound like a really nice couple, you always give nice non judgemental advice on here....just wanted to comment Anna xx | |||
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"Something for everyone on here dude. It's going to take time and effort on your part. Get yourself out there and don't give up. Can I just say guys you sound like a really nice couple, you always give nice non judgemental advice on here....just wanted to comment Anna xx "And I've also just noticed this thread is over 3 weeks old so you will probably never read my compliment anyway.... | |||
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"Something for everyone on here dude. It's going to take time and effort on your part. Get yourself out there and don't give up. Can I just say guys you sound like a really nice couple, you always give nice non judgemental advice on here....just wanted to comment Anna xx
And I've also just noticed this thread is over 3 weeks old so you will probably never read my compliment anyway.... "Wanna bet? | |||
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"I'm fat and hairy should I just give up no here as I have no luck finding a meet? The woman on as sexy as they are and no matter they size don't have a problem why do men or is it just me?" Your profile picture and your profile puts me off I'm afraid! Maybe try getting rid of beard and writing a nicer profile! Good luck xx | |||
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"your beard is awful sorry and try smiling it works wonders
What if he said to you, your smile is awful? You should grow a beard?
Each to their own!!!
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Lol, I just had to. Why cant people just accept others for who they are?
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